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Thursday, December 3, 2009

Open Question: I came back from vacation to a depressed boyfriend. I want to be a suportive girlfriend. How can I help him? and more...

 
 



Open Question: I came back from vacation to a depressed boyfriend. I want to be a suportive girlfriend. How can I help him? and more...

Open Question: I came back from vacation to a depressed boyfriend. I want to be a suportive girlfriend. How can I help him?

He never was depressed before but now he is having money problems and fighting with his family so nothing is going good in his life right now. He doesnt talk to me much anymore and seems to be becoming distant.

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Open Question: Give me advise how can i trust again?

met a guy and we started dating.He was so nice and seemed so decent. He had a house, car(well not the best brand but...). He was paying almost all the time when we were doing shopping. He bought me diamond ring , and heart with key, roses a few times per day. He was treating me as a queen.He asked me to marry but i said its too early.He asked me if we could open bank account together but I refused. slowly i understood that he is in a huge debts and debts management, his house will be repossess and his car doesn't work and he need to pay £500 pounds to someone for the car. Then I realized he is actually in a big trouble and wanted to broke up with him. But somehow with a nice words and beautiful promises he managed to convinced me that he will work hard to repay his debts and he seemd to be very nice as a man.We moved in my house, i helped him to find a work ,bought him a decent clothes, paying for the food.He was only working nonstop.Suddenly he become changing started to insult me, to bully me, called me bi..ch and other nasty words. Every time when i asked him not to do something or to do something he became agressive and abusive. I have told him if he doesnt like to stay with me he knows where is the door and he could leave.The other day while I was at work he put his staff in my car and went to one of my ex collegues(female) and her bf crying and telling them lies that i put the stuff in my car and threw him on the street and he doesnt have where to go.When I back from work he told me that he is moving and untill I am not ready to compromise he wont come back. I told him to go and when he leave never to come back. He left and 2 hours later he started calling me and sending me texts that he is ready to come back.I strongly refused and told him its over. Next day in the morning the boyfriend of my ex collegues called me and asked me if i can go there and we all sit and resolve the problems. I refused and said everythin g is over.Since then that guy is spreading the lie that i kicked him out to all my ex collegues, managers ,ect.I want your honest oppininon how could i trust again?

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Open Question: Can someone tells me how to gain back my trust to people?

I met a guy and we started dating.He was so nice and seemed so decent. He had a house, car(well not the best brand but...). He was paying almost all the time when we were doing shopping. He bought me diamond ring , and heart with key, roses a few times per day. He was treating me as a queen.He asked me to marry but i said its too early.He asked me if we could open bank account together but I refused. slowly i understood that he is in a huge debts and debts management, his house will be repossess and his car doesn't work and he need to pay £500 pounds to someone for the car. Then I realized he is actually in a big trouble and wanted to broke up with him. But somehow with a nice words and beautiful promises he managed to convinced me that he will work hard to repay his debts and he seemd to be very nice as a man.We moved in my house, i helped him to find a work ,bought him a decent clothes, paying for the food.He was only working nonstop.Suddenly he become changing started to insult me, to bully me, called me bi..ch and other nasty words. Every time when i asked him not to do something or to do something he became agressive and abusive. I have told him if he doesnt like to stay with me he knows where is the door and he could leave.The other day while I was at work he put his staff in my car and went to one of my ex collegues(female) and her bf crying and telling them lies that i put the stuff in my car and threw him on the street and he doesnt have where to go.When I back from work he told me that he is moving and untill I am not ready to compromise he wont come back. I told him to go and when he leave never to come back. He left and 2 hours later he started calling me and sending me texts that he is ready to come back.I strongly refused and told him its over. Next day in the morning the boyfriend of my ex collegues called me and asked me if i can go there and we all sit and resolve the problems. I refused and said everythin g is over.Since then that guy is spreading the lie that i kicked him out to all my ex collegues, managers ,ect.I want your honest oppininon how could i trust again?

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Open Question: I know that cats are creatures of habit but how do I get my cat to stop being a 4:30 a.m. alarm?

I have a tabby cat that is very talkative which normally isn't a problem but lately he's been meowing like crazy from 4:30-5:00 in the morning. It wakes me and my boyfriend up and I'm afraid it wakes up my neighbors as well. How can I get him into the habit of not doing that?

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