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Monday, December 7, 2009

Open Question: I am worried about moving in with my boyfriend and how to I overcome this? and more...

 
 



Open Question: I am worried about moving in with my boyfriend and how to I overcome this? and more...

Open Question: I am worried about moving in with my boyfriend and how to I overcome this?

I have a wonderful boyfriend I love so much. He is the best thing that has happened to me in a long time. But with my history of men I am very worried. I just hope it works out for us. I have been with him for 18 months. He is in the process of selling his house and moving up here 1 1/2 hrs away from he usually lives. He has put an offer in on a house 10 minutes from where I live. The problem is no one has ever done this for me. I have been married twice. My first marriage was dv and my second marriage he was emotionally and financially abusive towards me and my 2 kids. I am very scared. I just want to be happy and get over this anxiety. I don't want to be alone. My boyfriend wants a baby of his own so much and we have undergone ivf and awaiting to see if I am pregnant. So basically this would be my third try and maybe third time lucky. I am still scared and I do look into my past and can see a man who could take care of me and my kids and provide quite well and for any kids we have together. But it still doesn't take away my fears.

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Open Question: crazy abusive ex boyfriend in the picture, i dont know what to do PLEASE HELP ME?

Hi, everyone, ive never dealt with this kind of situatuon before, but i am asking for any answers help of any kind is greatly appreciated. A few days ago i met this amazing girl, but there is a huge problem, she has a crazy,abusive,controlling ex. I talked with this girl for 2 nights and days in a row now, and it was for about 6 hours a day that we talked. She told me that she is single, but she has a ex, that she broke up with becuase he hurt her and it resulted with her going to the hospital. I didnt want to know the whole story. She says she likes me alot, im sweet,nice,protective, and caring and would like me to be her gf according to her. We chatted today and we agreed to say that were seeing each other. She then said see you later and she dissappeared. Later on in the day, i get a email from her ex saying that i cant talk with her anymore, and that he's going to be her fiancee soon if all goes well. The guy put her in the hospital he hurt her so bad, why would she marry him? He said that she is not allowed to talk with random people anymore and i got her talking about what she likes to do which he thinks is crap. Im not going to give up easily though i like her too much and i have friends at that school who im talking with so they will help me. I dont know what to do though please help me!!!!!

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Open Question: Relationship problems; i want marriage and he wants to enjoy himself with the boys!?

I am at a total loss at the moment. I have been annoyed for weeks that my boyfriend hasn't proposed to me yet. We love each loads and have been together for two years but very good friends for around 9. I was hoping for an engagement around Christmas as we have talked about it a lot. Discussed where it would be and who we would invite and even looked at some rings. Planning for a wedding obviously costs lots of money and will involve us saving so I was furious when I found out he had planned to go to Brighton with his friends for a long weekend in March and then on a Stag weekend at the end of March. To top it all off March is his birthday and I was hoping to do something nice for him. I have no problem with him spending time with his friends, I think its healthy but exactly the same friends are going on both trips and I think its selfish. We discussed this last night and he basically told me that he has no plans for us to get marriage or engaged soon as he is not 100% happy in his job. I understand that but I don't know many people that are happy in their jobs. We also discussed the trips in March and he told me that he knows it is bad planning but that they are booked. It's ridiculous as he is likely to spend over £500 on the two trips. Sometimes I just don't know what to do or say. Please help, any advice would be appreciated. I love him to bits but sometimes I feel like I am second best to everything else. Just to add: we bought a house in May of this year and have a young daughter.

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Open Question: Do I have to serve her with eviction notice?

I'm 27yrs old and I have a 9yr old son.My boyfriend and my mother also live with me and my son .My mother is an alcoholic and is constantly causing us problems. I have called the police on her a few times and spent nights in hotel rooms to give her space to get sober but I'm getting tired of it and it's not healthy for my son because she drinks she is angry and causes fights and makes him cry and be scared.She gives me $ 300 out of her $800 monthly SSI disability check but is not on the lease.Do I have to give her a eviction notice or can I just call the cops to have her thrown out?

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