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Friday, December 4, 2009

Open Question: I am in love with my best friend... what to do? and more...

 
 



Open Question: I am in love with my best friend... what to do? and more...

Open Question: I am in love with my best friend... what to do?

But… she has a boyfriend. However, he lives far away from her (but so do I). There is always some tension because of him; he is always suspicious of me. I promised her that I would never try to make them break up, even though I hate him. All I can do is wait… I really do feel like she is the only one for me. I think it is real; I don't love her only for looks or sexually. In fact, we met online, and I was attracted to her before I even saw a picture. And she is abstinent, so it's not hormone-fueled lust. I like her for personality and… I've just never met anyone else who really cared about me. I'm really antisocial and I rarely get along with anyone, but somehow it is just perfect with her. Yet, I don't even know if she would ever love me… she has a boyfriend, so I never had any chance to find out. Sometimes it feels like she would never consider me because I am too young… she is 23 and I am 18. How can I tell if she would ever really like me? She says she loves me… but it would seem that she only means that in terms of friendship, cause we are best friends. How do I know what she really thinks? I am also planning to go to college in her area so that we could meet in real life after only being able to talk on the phone and online for such a long time. I live in San Diego and she is in Miami. My parents think I am ruining my life since UCSD and Berkeley are much better schools and Miami U and FIU, in addition to having to pay out of state fees. I really don't know what to do… What if she never likes me? It is it the right choice to go to Miami? I want to finally meet her, yet my family tells me I shouldn't… What do I do?! Thanks to anyone who responds (:

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Open Question: College student seeking beach house help...?

I am a college student in Arizona and over spring break I would like to rent a beach house in San Diego for a few days with 7 of my friends. However... none of us are 21. Does any one have any experience or recommendations about this? I have found some great deals, but I need a place that allows 18 and over rather than 21 and over.

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