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Open Question: How to tell a guy that u want to keep a baby he doesn't want? and more... Open Question: How to tell a guy that u want to keep a baby he doesn't want?I just found out that I am having a baby with my ex boyfriend who I am still friends with. I want to keep my baby but he wants me to get rid of it. I'm not sure if keeping it will make problems between me and him. Not to sure what to do Open Question: I had sex with a guy on a first date...?We had an immediate physical attraction and though, I tried...I couldn't tell him no. I started seeing this guy in July and its now December. This relationship has been on and off and recently we are having an on moment. Over the few months I have gotten to know him and I am really starting to develop feelings for this guy. I don't know if they are true feelings because I never took the time to really get to know HIM without the sex. So how do I know??? I am kinda jaded tho because he has admitted to me that he has never been in a relationship. I think sometimes he doesn't know how to be a boyfriend. I think I scare him, he tells me he really likes me, thinks im beautiful and fun to be around. Problem is when he spends time with me we just have crazy sex for the majority of the time. I have broken ties with him several times to let him know that I don't want to have a booty call boy, I want and deserve more than that from him. He tells me that he isn't looking for a piece of ass(...not sure if I believe him) I guess I don't know! Is he worth investing more of my time?? He makes me laugh and we really like being around each other...I guess I am waiting for him to tell me all those wonderful things every girl likes to hear and he hasn't yet. Plus he has set the sex bar so high...I am not sure I will ever find it this good again. I need some advice! let it rip! Open Question: How to prevent this situation from getting messy?I got divorced at the beginning of the year. I've been with my new girlfriend (Chelsea) for about three months and our relationship is going wonderful. There are no problems, my kids love her and they also get along with her kids. My ex-wife (Emma) has been with someone else for about six months, so we're both content. Recently I dropped my kids off at Emma's after their weekend visit with me and she mentioned that she feels like Chelsea "hates" her. This puzzled me because the two rarely see each other face-to-face! Chelsea has dropped my kids off there for me a few times and according to Emma she doesn't say much, leaves as quick as she can, and only gives one word answers. I don't think that necessarily means Chelsea dislikes or hates her, and I tried explaining that to Emma but she's not convinced and seems offended. Why does she care so much about it anyways? They don't have to see each other all the time so she shouldn't care what Chelsea thinks (should she?) is that something that's important or relevant? I'm honestly not sure. The other day I mentioned what Emma told me to Chelsea and she basically just rolled her eyes and told me that she has no problem with Emma. And I believe her when she says this! I mean it's clear that she has no interest in having a conversation, but it doesn't mean that she hates or doesn't like Emma. Even if he DID dislike her, she would have good reason to considering everything she knows about my past marriage. To make all this worse, Chels and I ran into Emma and her boyfriend in public, and she gave Chels the dirty look from hell, and now there's tension. What can I do to prevent disaster? How can I fix this while the tension is still minimal? What would you do in this situation? Open Question: I have had a drinking problem since I was about 17.. I am now almost 24 and have to drink or take xanax ...?I have to drink or take xanax every couple days or I start having very bad withdrawl symptoms. I overused my xanax very badly, and cut my wrist because of depression..I was in a detox center for two weeks, and had very bad withdrawl symptoms such as muscle spasms, twitching, panic attacks, sucidal thoughts, etc..I have gotta back out and got back on alcohol and xanax.If I do not have something every day or every other day, I am very very irritable and NOT FUN TO BE AROUND.I want to stop so badly because all I want in my life is a family and a good normal life, and i know i will never get that being messed up all the time. my grandmother and mother passed away, and my long term boyfriend broke up with me. I have coping issues and do not cope with change well. Everyone has told me to just stay strong and I try everyday but its just not enough..Please give me any advice on what to do, how long I will withdrawl from these if I completly stop, and how in the world to I stay off of it..I try sooo hard..I honestly do..Its tearing me apart..thank you for your feedback..please do not tell me to toughen up tho.:) Open Question: My boyfriend has problems with his mom, please help! I'm desparate :'(?My boyfriends mom is terrible to him. She never tells him she loves him, his mom&dad have told him they don't care for him, they don't ever appreciate him or give him support in anything he does. His mom told him the family would be better off without him & they don't need him around. Hes had several attemps of sucide before he met me. But hes been better since our relationship. We're both16. Now I feel terrible because I wish I can tell him more things to help him, he says I do more then help, but still I feel terrible because I've never had to go through that & my parents are very loving parents & they love my boyfriend. I just don't know what else to tell my boyfriend or what advise to give him??? I also want to bring him closer to god, but I don't know how to tell him with being to christiany haha. So please please help me! Thank you so much! Okay first of all, what the hells your problem beauty whatever?? How am I filling up his head with nonsence when I can barely say anything to help him on this?? You don't even know me or re half of this! I just want to be there for him when all he has to lean on is me. & WhyTF do you think why I'm asking this question on here is because I DONT know! Jeez! So called christian?! Who do you think you are? Ugh, people like you I pray for. Open Question: me and my boyfriend having problems with my bestfriend?my boyfriend and i met about 4weeks ago i had my best friend with me.. after we had hooked up about a couple weeks later he asked me if i wanted to see a good friend so i said yeah so he called my friends number and said kelsey went into the store real fast i wanted to call you and ask youi if you wanted to hangout with me cuz she wants me too take her home cuz she dont feel good and she said oh yeah just tell her your going to the pool hall with your friends and just cum pick me up and we will go hang out now ive well i havent comfronted her about this at all she dont even know i know.. my boyfriend dont want me to say anything to her but when she comes around me i just want to brawl and i cant..but here's the catch befor he stopped callin her phone for me he wanted to expose her and see if she would let him have sex wit her he said he wasnt going to he said ill just take pictures and show you so u know but i kept telling him no no no but my friend is known to lie ALOT and get her way out of it so how do i yell at her with out causing a fight that he would here about Open Question: Ive got a love problem... What have i done wrong?? Should i just give up?In September this girl who is my friend tell me that she likes me and then i got used to liking her and then we started loving each other (well i did). But then out of nowhere she goes back with her ex who she has been on and off again all year... and I'm just hurt as.... She says she still wants to be friends and i go all right cause i still cared for her and i guess i still loved her even if she went with him... Anyways.. middle of November her boyfriend breaks up with her cause he doesn't love her anymore and she talks to me as we had become great friends and tells me all about it... and I'm there to comfort her...and well once she gets over it after a few days she is telling me that she loves me again and well we were going really well till the next day when guess what she does?? Goes off with the boyfriend!! again!! and now I'm hurt even more but i still love her cause she cares about me as a friend... so my question is... Have i done anything wrong?? Should i give up on her?? What should i do now?? Open Question: how to tell a girl that likes me that I don't like her?I really need help , I've got a big problem that I can't solve by myself. So a few weeks ago my best friend got dumped by her boyfriend. Seeing as we are best friends I felt bad for her and tried to comfort her then when I got home I went on facebook and told her ex boyfriend that he was a jerk and he agreed with me. So a week after this girl that I am friends with admits that she really likes me, I took some time to think about it and wile I was on facebook I looked back to the conversation with my best friends ex to see that the girl that said she likes me had said some extremely rude things about my best friend. I do not like her at all. How can I tell her I don't like her without totally breaking her heart? Open Question: Cheap date ideas for teens?So my boyfriend and I are both 14 and we are looking for some cheap date ideas... Here is the problem, neither of us can drive, he has a broken arm, and there are NO good movies out! Any suggestions for things we can do? Open Question: I slept with my ex and now there's drama. What should I do?My ex best friend and I have recently parted on good terms. I met her in one my classes. I knew she was my ex boyfriend's ex girlfriend and I befriended her. She was really cool and we got to know each other and clicked. So anyway as time progress she was still in contact and on friendly terms with my ex though they weren't together. I kept my distance. I didn't have any feelings with him or have anything against him but him and I had ended on bad terms. So he was friendly to me when he was around and I was likewise. So eventually she started having some problems with the fact that him and I reconciled our differences and hit if off. It was nothing like that but we did text each other from time to time and I eventually considered him a friend. So eventually we stop being friends. But two days before her and I called our friendship off, him and I slept together. It wasn't planned and I didn't realize there was an physical attraction there. I felt bad, because I knew she still cared about him, I wanted to tell her but I didn't think it would do any good for her to know because she already had issues from the past about this. Well recently I've been getting back to my spiritual roots and want to wipe the slate clean and forgive people and have people forgive me and try to move on with my life in a positive direction and am considering telling her woman to woman but I'm still not sure that's a good idea. what do you guys think? Open Question: is he telling the truth?So over break me and my ex boyfriend of 3 years hooked up twice. Recently he has been dating this other girl who has a huge problem with me because she feels threatened. So he cheated on her with me and we had a long talk about everything. Basically he was saying how he really doesnt think he loves her and how the relationship is kind of a trap. He says he misses me and still loves me. We broke up 7 months ago and havent really spoken at all until now. I dont know what to believe. He told me to give him a few days to figure eveything out and then he would call me. Now im just anticipating it and dont know what to do and if he will really break up with her and want to try to be with me again. i need so advice Open Question: Joe, Sally and I. Help?Well, I've known this guy for about five years. We'll call him Joe. I can't really say we've been friends for five years, but we've gone to the same church since I was like 10 (I'm 15). I've just started to like him these past few months. He's almost three years older than me, and he is the greatest guy. The problem is, he likes this other girl. Let's call her Sally. I know her and she's not good for him. She has "experience," and he's waiting until marriage (which is one of the things I love about him). She likes him too. But she has a boyfriend, which is the only thing stopping her from being with him. It's a really complicated situation but "Joe" and "Sally" went to homecoming together before she had a boyfriend. Joe and Sally kissed at homecoming. Then after the dance, her ex and her got back together. Then Joe found out and got really depressed. She doesn't want to leave her boyfriend because apparently she loves him... right. She's a cool girl, but he shouldn't be with someone like that, I don't think. Anyways, what should I do? He really likes her. How do I make him see that I'm better than her? Lol. Has anyone else been in this situation? "Joe" and "Sally" are about four years apart by the way. Open Question: How can i overcome the guilt and aixiety about my past?I am overwhelmed with ainxiety and guilt over something very trivial. I am constantly in need of worrying about something. Right now I am having ainxiety about a lie I told my boyfriend of two years. I told him I made out with someone once, when it was actually 3 times, on diffeent occasions, 4 years ago. Im scared somehow this lie is going to come out, because the person i made out with is in our city and we sometimes see him at the gym. Ive been having nightmares about it and everytime my boyfriend talks about our future, I cant enjoy the thought because I keep thinking, I cant be with him unless we MOVE to a different city because im afraid that somehow the lie will be exposed. Every other miniscule lie I have told him has been confessed by myself, so as you can imagine the trust is low. I lie because he has a huge temper, and I feel scared and out of controll when he ges mad. He recently in the past 3 months has become much calmer and happier due to my positive influence and my family, yet I still fear telling the truth because it would bring up so many negative emotions and distrust. How would he really find out? Someone tell him, "Hey I think ur girlfriend made out with so and so 4 years ago" I know its irrational, and the lie is so small, so why is it posessing my mind and making me go almost crazy? the thoughts are incessant, I know this is attributed to my aixiety problem and also his anger, but how can I overcome this? i didnt cheat, this was before i met him! More Recent Articles |
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