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Open Question: How do you tell your mom you have a byfriend? and more... Open Question: How do you tell your mom you have a byfriend?Ok, i have this friend. Well, he's more than a friend he's my uh boyfriend if that's the correct term. we have been "going out" for about a month now and i want to tell my mom but, i'm not sure i should. 1.because she tells the whole family everything 2.she thinks i shouldn't have one 3.i don't know how she will take it my mom isn't the easiest person to talk to. i'm thinking it might be easier because he is a year younger than me ,almost. but, another problem is he is a basketball player and she likes one of his teammates better. i don't know what to do or say HELP!!!!! Open Question: is he lying or telling the truth ?i am with my husband since 10 years and married 8 1/2 years we have a son 6 , a daughter 5 , another daugther 2 and a son on the way , he is black and i am german . he is in the army so it happens that we are seperated some times . the been 3 times i know about that he had contact while we where together , ones while we were dating and the other time in 2005 while i was in germany and he was in ft bliss . both times he claimed that therewas no sex involved , he just neded somebody to talk . than the last chick ( she was black , short and fat and worked for the army as a civilian where my husnad worked ) i really have a problem with , this was the one he had contact with in march 2008 while he was in ft bliss and i was in germany . i found out because he left his e-mail open and i saw it . the e-mail said " i really enjoyed our conversation last night about marriage and kids ! i miss you i love you and i can't wait to talk to you again " his story is that she was working with him and one time some people went to lunch together and him and her went , so they start talking . so from that time on they talked at work , than she asked him to go to lunch with her , they went and she paid for lunch . so they kept talking and then they went to lunch again this time he paid . he said that they talked about her boyfriend marriage and kids. than he told her that he would go to watch a fight on the weekend and she asked him if she could come with her boyfriend who was in town that weekend . they talked on the phone every now and than . he claims thay only talked for an month . then he left ft bliss to go to meet us in alabama and then to go to korea for one year . he says that they had no sex or anything .she was 25 and my husband 33 and we had 3 kids by then . but what i have problems with to believe that there was nothing is that he kept telling me lies about her after it came out , wrong names , diffrent stories , lies over lies . after he left ft bliss , he called her on the day me and the kids came back after 2 1/2 month he called her for one our from our house phone , thats how i found out her work number and called her ( about 6 month after they were last in contact ).he said he wanted to tell her not to call no more . when i asked her if they had sex she told me that she was at work and i need to talk to my husband about that . if there was nothing why would she not tell me that they were only friends ? another thing was that he called her again a coujple days later after we had a fight from a pay phone and this is when a day after the e-mail came ( i really enjoyed our conversation last night about marriage and kids ! i miss you i love you and i can't wait to talk to you again " ) i found . a couple month later i also found out that he uses her name as the password for his online buissnes . i think if there was nothing between them why would he use her name as password or why would she send such an e-mail or why would he call her for one our before his wife comes home ? the only thing i got to say that when he picked me up from the airport he dresses up for me , he cooked for me . and he couldn't wait to have sex with me even while i was past out , he came twice in 5 minutes . i don't know what to believe , if they really didn't do anything like my husband told me or if they did and he is lying . i think about it every night , and i cry everyday and since i am pregnant my feelings are even worse . he said he would do i lie dedecter test , but i am scaried what would come out . Open Question: DO I LOVE MY EX BOYFRIEND? HELP!!?about just over a year ago i split up with my ex...we were together 2 1/2 years and i lost my virginity to him. We were always together..now everytime im upset i always talk to him online ( we find it hard to talk in person) and i think he still likes me too...I have a horrid tendancy to want him to be jelouse and once when i thought he was coming to a party i made MORE of an effort than usual...is all this from spite or not...problem is im not pshycially attracted to him..but lately i just want him to cuddle me........what do i dooo lots of love Blueee, thanks in advance people xx Open Question: annoying boy problems help?hypothetically speaking, if there's an annoying boy who really likes you, and your dad likes him as well, what are you gonna do? are you, a. get the help of another boy to pretend to be your boyfriend get that boy to stop liking you b. punch the crap out of him c. pretend to be a lesbian (and get kicked out of the house because of it) d. any other options? Open Question: Does my friend like me? Need Advice.?I'll go into a little bit more detail on where i stand. My friend and i have known each other for five years and were part of many organizations together throughout high school. Im 20 shes is an year older than I am and we go to universities about 100 miles away from each other. We both went through girlfriend/boyfriend breakups at the same time as well. We have the same friends but we began hanging out together alone more last year. She brought up questions about relationships and currents interests and she began to occasionally rests her head against my shoulder. Is she waiting for me to make a move or are we just becoming better friends? i like her but im am a complete novice when it comes to women which is odd. I have confidence, im 6'2'' and have six pack and get plenty of attention at college parties but the confidence just doesnt transition to women. ill admit my first two girlfriends made the move first and my last gf and i got together on more of a mutual thing(i did not make a move again). this fear of rejection has stifled my progress with women so i guess i always like to make sure of things. in addition, im am completely blind to subtle hints so im asking you guys to please help me figure out this problem. thanks Open Question: what kind of pictures can i show to my bestfriend so she can feel better?she's going through a rough time with her boyfriend and he made her cry cuz she saw him hugging his ex. P.S: don't jude on the problem with her relationship....that's why i'm here for her:) lol. Open Question: Should I leave him for hitting me like this?So this is kind of my fault. I told my boyfriend about my fantasy of getting spanked by a guy, and he said he'd be glad to do that for me. Problem is he hit me far harder than I could handle and basically held me down and refused to stop until I had tears in my eyes. I did tell him to quit, but he thought I was playing a game...like the whole being punished and begging for mercy thing. So he continued. He's got a lot of arm strength from lifting weights so I guess it was easy for him to underestimate his own strength? I don't know. In any case, now, my butt is really like sensitive to the touch...it feels like there's internal bruising or something. I know this sounds odd, but it seriously hurts SO bad. When he asked why I was crying, I told him that I was serious when telling him to stop, and he did apologize and said I could kick him in his balls if I wanted. He asked if he could rub my back(b/c he knows it tends to soothe me when I'm crying) or if I just wanted him to get out of my house, and I told him I didn't really care what he did, so he pulled up a chair next to my bed and rubbed my back until I fell asleep. So he is remorseful, but now I'm kinda scared of him. I never knew he was capable of such aggression. Should I continue to date him accepting that it was my fault or leave him? Open Question: should i go home or go out?got invited out by a bunch of new girls tonight. i am excited to get to know them, but the problem is i am really tired i have finals to study for and i'm a bit bummed as i just found out some bad news regarding my mum's health on one hand, i think meeting up with the girls would be uplifting. on the other, i just wanna go home to my boyfriend and cry and relax. what should i do? i don't wanna lose their potential friendship. :( they seem really nice. Open Question: How can I sneak into my boyfriends house?He lives in the street behind mine. His parents are next door at a party and my mum is out of town. He has locks on both sides of his doors (his parents want to be EXTRA safe!). He has a loud dog in his backyard. My only problem is getting into his house and out, not getting out of mine. Please help!! Open Question: Boyfriend issue! I don't understand my boyfriend?I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, but sometimes he gets angry at me when I talked to his guy friends. Well I can't ignore them because they are all my friends even before we start dating. I tried talking to him a couple of times already. And the problem usually lead to jealousy. He told me he doesn't care about what I talked to them, but it's how i talked to them that get him piss off. I didn't understand what he meant by that because I was just being normal... and i am definitely not a flirt. When I asked him to make me understand, he just ignore me and say that I won't understand and i have to fine out for myself in order for me to stop doing it. I'm just so loss at when he said these words, so lately he had been moody and won't talk to me. Open Question: It really hurts. He hit me (with a twist though). Should I break up with him?So this is kind of my fault. I told my boyfriend about my fantasy of getting spanked by a guy, and he said he'd be glad to do that for me. Problem is he hit me far harder than I could handle and basically held me down and refused to stop until I had tears in my eyes. I did tell him to quit, but he thought I was playing a game...like the whole being punished and begging for mercy thing. So he continued. He's got a lot of arm strength from lifting weights so I guess it was easy for him to underestimate his own strength? I don't know. In any case, now, my butt is really like sensitive to the touch...it feels like there's internal bruising or something. I know this sounds odd, but it seriously hurts SO bad. When he asked why I was crying, I told him that I was serious when telling him to stop, and he did apologize and said I could kick him in his balls if I wanted. He asked if he could rub my back(b/c he knows it tends to soothe me when I'm crying) or if I just wanted him to get out of my house, and I told him I didn't really care what he did, so he pulled up a chair next to my bed and rubbed my back until I fell asleep. So he is remorseful, but now I'm kinda scared of him. I never knew he was capable of such aggression. Should I continue to date him accepting that it was my fault or leave him? More Recent Articles
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