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Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Open Question: How do you make a guy leave his girlfriend? and more...

 
 



Open Question: How do you make a guy leave his girlfriend? and more...

Open Question: How do you make a guy leave his girlfriend?

If you know he cares for you, but he doesn't know who he wants, what do you do? I've known him longer than his girlfriend has, and we met when I had a boyfriend. Then he eventually got a girlfriend, and I broke up with my boyfriend. Do you see the problem? He once asked me what he should do and I couldn't answer. It's been months since we told each other how we felt. Have I waited too long? Oh, and I'm not looking for some "hook-up". I don't want anyone to cheat here, I'm just being selfish, really. But I never am, and I would want my boyfriend to be honest with me if he cared for someone else. It just isn't fair. I sound like a little kid, but it really is how I feel. Would it be wrong to tell the girlfriend?

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Open Question: ok i got a question...............................?

all my frens are moving on, they have boyfriends, and there is like 2 yrs left for our education to get over and then they will all get married. The question is that I am still single, and havent made a bf yet. Will that be a problem? Will i be left all alone ? when they get married will i be left all by myself? but....what about my looks? dont u think i will be old and ugly? right now i am beautiful i can get guys........but later i might be old...............

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Open Question: What does this mean when he acts in such a manner?

I have been in a relationship for some years now, but there seems to be a continous problem with one thing. The thing is that if I go to attend a conference, meeting, orientation, or go out with some people in the community to have a good time i.e picnic, my boyfriend will never ask me if I enjoyed my day or if I had a good time out. The first thing he will ask is what was the gender ratio at the conference, or who did you play cards with - old people or were they youngsters.. I always wonder why he can't ever ask me why I just had a good time and always rather ask me the gender ratio at the events, or age ratio.. I have asked him why such small details matter so much to him and his reply is he just loves me so much and gets a little jealous so he needs to know everything. He tells me I should be open to him about everything, like everything such as tell him the age group at the party or gender ratio. To me such small things don't matter.. I just wish you could ask me if i had a good time out instead of being so bitter.. I wouldn't mind answering his questions if he asked me how my day went and if I had a good time first. What does this mean. I think its Bull!@#$ when he tells me oh its just that I love you so much. I don't know, I wouuld like to get some advice and opinions on this! Thank you.

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Open Question: Marriage? My parents are against it right now?

Here's the deal, I'm 18 (will be 19 in May) and my boyfriend is 20 (will be 21 in June). We have been dating for a little over 2 1/2 years now and we love each other very much. He's my best friend. A little before our 2nd year, he asked my parents if he could marry me. They said I should wait until college is over, which is another 2-3 years. I do want to marry him now, but I will wait. the problem I have is that they won't let us live together unless we're married. I live about 3 hours away from my parents, for college, and my boyfriend is planning on moving here in June-July. If I'm not allowed to live with him because I'm not married, how am I suppose to live with him when I graduate? I won't be married when I graduate, so where will I live? I plan on moving to Texas. Is my boyfriend suppose to move there in a different apartment? My parents got married 2 days after my Mom turned 18. She already had me, and my dad was in the air force. My mom was working in a beauty salon. But they won't let us marry each other? Or even let us live together? What difference is it from them? they lived together before they got married. I just don't understand it, if someone could tell me what their side is, that would be great. Thank you. Well, I already pay for things myself, my parents don't help me. I want to sit down and have a talk with them, but they're very firm on the moving-in part. I know, and I'm being honest, that when he moves up here, I'll practically be living there anyway, I don't see the problem with it. Hanging out with someone and living with them is completely different, and I think one must live with another before getting married to see how things work out. we've taken a trip before, we took a weekend trip to California, a few weeks before he asked my parents to marry me (we went for our 2 year). For 1) You don't have to be rude. For 2) Just because we're adults doesn't mean I don't respect my parents decision. Obviously I want to live with him and I am an adult and can do what I want, but that does not mean I'm going to disregard what they say. They're my parents for gosh sakes. Obviously you don't love yours enough to realize that what they want/say for/to you is important. I can get pregnant without being married..just saying. I said I understand their point on marriage, it's the living together part. Apparently my religious grandpa will have a big problem with it, when he doesn't know about my life.

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Open Question: I am engaged to the father of my child, but I might be in love with someone else as well, what do I do?

I have been with my fiance for the last 3 in a half years. He is the father of my child and I truly love him. The problem is that I think I might love someone else. He was my boyfriend of 4 years before my fiance. We have recently been chatting again and just stopped. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about him no matter whats going on. I will always have that love for him because he was kind of my first love. I just can't seem to get him out of my mind, and that would just kill my fiance as because they used to be friends before they knew me and then something happened and now they hate eachother. Not because of me but because of other circumstances. I just don't know what to do. Can anybody give me suggestions??

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