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Open Question: How do you know when really need to get out of the relationship with a man if he mentally abusing you? and more... Open Question: How do you know when really need to get out of the relationship with a man if he mentally abusing you?Ok well here are the basics of what is going wrong with the relationship. I am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 22 I have been on and off with my boyfriend for almost three years. I don't know where my heads at anymore I'm so confused because I know better than this, I know it isn't right the way he belittles me sometimes but for some reason I just can't leave him. Im so comfortable with his family, and close to his mom. I sleep over his house about 4-5 nights out the week, and I admit we do see each other more than we should. We have a 8 month old pitbull we got together I think this is another reason why its hard to leave because I love that dog so much that's my baby and i know if I leave him he wont let me take the dog or see her, and I cant take him to court for custody over the dog because Im trying to pay for school and my car right now so i don't have the money. When we first started going out he was the sweetest guy to me but I had just broken up with my x I had been with for a little over a year and we were still taking and it caused some problems because you know how people talk and try to get into other peoples business when they don't even know and say your cheating. But that was a mistake I made and I regret it because back then still had some feelings for my x and I think I went into another relationship to fast, but that was when 16 I was a kid. He had also went on my myspace account I had back when I was younger and seen I was talking to other guys but I have never done it again and he knows that. and he has done the same thing to me but denies it and manipulates me into thinking I'm wrong and it's all my fault and that he cant trust me. Well we moved on from there and don't have any problems like that anymore. I believe its because I stopped talking to everyone. The only people I'm still in contact with is him, my 2 good girl friends, and my family. Plus im at his house everyday so it's kinda hard to accuse someone of cheating when you know where there at 24/7. Along with this the relationship has gotten even worse. He tries to fight with me everyday about stuff i never heard anyone get mad about. He screamed at me yesterday because my Aunt called me and wanted to by me some clothes for christmas he called me a spoiled white girl(I'm half mexican), a dumb ass bitch that he doesn't even know why I came over then later on he just comes and sits by me feeling on trying to have sex when he just told me all those things he never even said sorry. thats just an example he also screamed at me on my birthday called me names and tried to kick me out the house. He has belittled me in front of the boy that I had met him through several times even acted like he was going to hit me. He has punched me in the side of the face in front of his mom cause I sent 5 text messsages on his phone which I would of gave him 5 dollars for. He has put his hand around my throat leaving scratches. The physical incidents have only happened a few times but a man should never put his hands on a woman unless there coming at you(which I never have) especially when it's your girlfriend and you supposedly care about them. He used to tell me he loves me but he has told that he never loved me and that when he has said I love you it really means I hate you, but then says it to me out of no where to me when he gets in that lovey dovey mood once in a blue moon. so I have no idea how he feels about me. I never ask him for anything except for rides to work which is only 10 minutes away from the house, but he charges me 20 dollars a week to give me a ride. I do the dishes sometimes, have cleaned the entire house,scrub down the bathroom, do the laundry, clean his room and I don't even live there. but then he wants to tell me that I don't ever do anything. He doesn't understand that I don't have to do any of that stuff I do it because that's common courtesy, I was raised that way, and I try to help out his mom some because she does stuff for me she doesn't have to and they sure never help out. He never apologizes to me I think he only has about 5 times. For 3 weeks he was acting nice and we didn't fight at all i thought everything was starting to get better and then snap he just goes back to acting crazy picking fights with me and only me. He doesn't act this way towards anyone else except me. I don't understand because I treat him so good and try to do as much as I can for him. I am just doormat and I don't think it would phase him at all if I really left for good. I just want him to feel like he makes me do. If he just cared for once. I already know the answer is to leave but it is hard to leave someone you really care about. How do I try and talk to him? and if that fails what's the best way for me to go? Open Question: Friends trying to hook me up with a guy when I don't want a boyfriend?They keep pushing me about this guy. He's a friend of both my best friend's boyfriends. I know who he is, but have never actually talked to him. My friend sort of planned all this so now he keeps texting me. It's weird though, because I'm not excited about it. Probably because I haven't seen him in person. Saw a pic and didn't think he was attractive. But, anyways, I always get like this with guys. I push them away. I've never had a boyfriend. I'm like this with everyone though, even my friends. I don't like to hang out often and just ignore them. I just don't feel right about this guy, even though he seems like a nice guy. what is my problem? I can't tell my friends, because they probably think something's wrong with me and will flip out. Open Question: What does it seem like he's doing?Okay, I have an on and off boyfriend who is currently off. However, (I work with him) we've been getting close once again, and he's been acting how he normaly does when he wants to get back together. ie: touching me in not inappoririate areas, but like my waist, he gets close to be, and is very flirty. He suggested we watch my favorite movie together (which he hates) but says he wants to watch it because its with me. Anyway, we havent watched that yet, but on friday we went to a small party, and we were very close, we were holding hands and he was cuddling and things with me. We ended up kissing, then at the end of the night we made out for a while. All that is great, but the only problem, he hasnt called or text me since. I ssaw him at work Sunday and he was his normal self, even kissed like my forehead, but he won't talk to me anywhere else. Why is he doing that. I honestly don't think it was just a hook up because all the previous signs, and because our past relationship, with us being so on and off. Open Question: Is this normal? Or am I pregnant?I've been on Yaz for about a year and a half now... in october i skipped my period, as in i started the next pack w/o taking the inactive pills. I had done this before without any problems. About week 3 of the second pack I had some spotting -- very very very little though. My period came as normal, however it was a lot lighter than normal. It lasted 4 days when usually it is 5-6. I regularly have sex with my boyfriend, havn't missed a pill, etc. Am I pregnant (even though I've had no symptoms,... NO headaches, back pain, sore breast, nausea, etc)? or is my body finally getting regulated to have lighter periods on the pill!? More Recent Articles
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