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Open Question: how do i tell my boyfriend im bi? and more... Open Question: how do i tell my boyfriend im bi?well i love my boyfriend and i like this girl... but i don't wanna tell him im bi like randomly.... ive heard him say he thinks girl on girl action is hot so im Pretty sure he wont have a problem with me being bi i just want to know how i can tell him. Open Question: having a boyfriend who isn't as good-looking ...?I sometimes have a problem with the fact that a potential bf may not be very good-looking and I feel like I could do better. I always feel like a dick though. Does anyone sometimes feel like that? What do you do? Open Question: What should I do about my long distance boyfriend who wants me to send sexy pictures?My boyfriend and I met in April 2009 when I visited Haiti. We are both 24 (adults). He is absolutely gorgeous and is amazing with my family. He's a good decent guy and I can see us having a future together. The problem is we haven't seen each other since April except for some pictures here or there and of course webcam chats. I'm worried about how he'll feel about me if he sees these "pictures" that he really wants.What should I do? What if my body disappoints him? Is there a way to take pictures without looking ....big? Open Question: Giving away a pet rabbit? Advice?My friends picked up a rabbit from the side of the road in early July, she was VERY skinny and was basically on death's door. A beautiful white rabbit with a brown tipped nose and ears She was soo skinny she could barely walk, and it was kind of 'meant to be' because the night before.. my last male guinea pig had died (after I had him for 5+ years) So we took her in and nursed her back to health because we had an empty cage Now she's VERY active and vibrant, a very fat little girl. She's so sweet and such a loving bunny.. Problem is, I just can't deal with it anymore. She constantly scratches the bottom of her cage wanting out. She'll do this all night long and I have lots of toys she can chew on but she's just not satisfied. Im having to clean her cage every other day because she just stinks so bad after a short while. I can't really let her out all the time because I have 2 cats and the rabbit has actually attacked one of my cats before.. so its kinda dangerous to have her running around for a long period of time. We live in a 1 bedroom duplex (with our landlord ajacent to us) So having loud noises at night - all night long - is most likely a bad thing Im writing all of this because I feel HORRIBLE. I really do not want her anymore and I feel terrible because I want to give her away to someone. I don't want her to become Christmas dinner, and I don't want her to live her life outside in a cage neglected, either. Ive never in my LIFE gotten rid of an animal (unless it died of natural causes) I am the type of person who makes a commitment to an animal when I take it in. I am committed to taking care of it until it dies a natural death or of old age So Im at a crossroads right now, my boyfriend knows this guy at work who wants to use her as a 'breeder' rabbit.. Im just so scared if I give her away, someone will kill her or won't take care of her.. IDK why Im so torn about this, like I said, Ive never EVER given away an animal before Anyone have any advice? Stories of their own? I know its such a petty subject and most people wouldnt have a problem with it.. but yeah.. I feel bad Open Question: Boyfriend troubles! My boyfriend worried about us becoming friends again?I started to go out with a boy in the same college as me. I really like him and we been dating for 6 weeks now. Lately though there been some little problems... I start from the beginning...I broke up with my long distance relationship as basically I just couldn't take it. Then after that I went out with my boyfriend in the college. Before we used to be very close friends. It was amazing the first few weeks, we would cuddle, kiss etc and try and spend much time together while in college. I would come in college to see him and do work even if I didn't have to come in and tried my best not to be too clingy and told him if I ever was to tell me. Finally this week it all changed...when he would normally seem glad to see me and we would cuddle he would either start a play argument or move away playfully etc. At first I thought it was a joke and I went along with it, but after a while I started to get tired so today I didn't play along with this 'game' and tried to have a normal talk with him and give a hug but the same thing happened. So I asked him what was the matter as he been acting differently. He told me he was worried that as we was spending so much time together that we would go back to being friends rather than a couple. Also he wanted me to spend time to myself. I understand that he wanted some space etc but what upsetted me is he didn't tell me for a week and been acting so strange. I would be so worried I done something to upset him. Now I'm also worried of other things... like if he kept this a secret, what else is he hiding and is it even bigger? Would me spending time with him, push us apart? I been so confused as everything was going great till this week and today. What should I do? Thank you P.S sorry if anything isn't clear, it a very long story. O yea we don't see each other much after college due to we live quite far away so only time we see each other is in college or Saturday in town. Open Question: Boyfriend's temper and what to do about it?My boyfriend has a very bad temper. He doesn't get mad often, but when he does it's over the littlest things and he completely over reacts. I've never seen him like he was last night. He almost missed his turn while we were driving and it scared me. I got a little upset and kind of threw my purse on the floor, and then he got mad at me for getting upset. He yelled "What the f***?! What's your problem are you a f****** idiot? I'm so sick of you getting mad!" I wasn't even that mad...just scared because he turned so sharply and quickly. And when I'm scared, getting mad is sort of like my "defense" I guess. Anyway... About an hour before that we were laying on the couch and I was laying on him with my head on his chest. Then I adjusted my head and he put his hand on my forehead and pushed my head backwards and said "S*** your chin is digging into my chest". I told him that was no reason to shove my head backwards. At least 99% of the time he treats me wonderfully. Another thing, is that he seems to get mad over strange things. His expensive stereo breaking didn't make him angry at all. Neither did the time when I accidently dented his car door. Not one ounce of anger from him in those situations, which were situations I personally would've gotten angry in. But every once in awhile little things cause his outbursts. He is also on medication which I think is the reason for his outbursts (when he's not on the medication he is completely fine). These outbursts are few and far between. Any thoughts on what I should do about this? Thanks so much. Thoughts please? Thank you. Open Question: 16 and never had a bf?Im 16 years old 17 in June, Ive never had a boyfriend kissed or dated yet You might think its young but aaaah :( I've always wondered if im ever going to get one. Im 5''10 and tall And i think that boys are intimidated by my height, I'm quite shy at first and find it difficult to talk to cute boys because I always think that they look down on me. Im not desperate for a boyfriend but I've always felt left out and pressured. I'm confident and I smile alot, & if someone talks to me Ill talk back and be nice, But boys seem to not be attracted to me, why is this? :( I know that if i go out and socialise and meet new people then ill become more confident and comfortable, I want to wait for the right one, I've never been interested in Fling relationships, I've always wanted someone to love me for who I am on the inside & out. But I can't find no one. I get so upset when my friends talk about boys & their boyfriends :( I get compliments that I'm pretty but i don't care about those compliments. my personality isnt bad and i have a good sense of humor. Help me please and thankyou :) i've posted it on yahoo answers, because i don't know who to talk to about it and I kinda feel ashamed of talking about this problem with anyone else who i know in real life. Open Question: please help, boyfriend-me-sister problem. im begging you.?im in a really sticky situation with my boyfriend and my sister. this is going to be quite long so sorry,but im really hurting and need advice. ill start from the beginning so you know the basics. what happened is that me and my sister, lets call her A, both went to a caravan site and met a boy called lets say, X. we all got along just fine, i really liked him but kept quiet, im not the type to boast about that sort of thing. anyway, it all went well. then when we got back from the caravan, X would ring both me and A almost every day and we'd have three way conversations on the phone, me and my sister on seperate house phones of course. anyway we went to the caravan site again, as did X. this time, after a few drinks, X kissed A, quite a few times after a few drinks. I was so devestated,but i obviously didnt say anything. anyway, i thought this was extremley wrong, my sister was 13 and he was 17. i was 15 at the time. anyway, he carried on ringing us and nothing more happened. until, of course, he found out my sister was lying about her age. she'd told him she was 15, and when he found out she was 13 he was really angry. anyway, that was that - he said to her 'A,just so you know. me and you are never gonna happen'. and that was the end of that. anyway, my sister carried on liking him, as did i in secret. then me and X began talking more and more, we'd text each other more and he'd call me beautiful. then it was his birthday, 18th - he invited both me and my sister. after this, me and him started talking alot more. we'd text each other more often, and he began saying 'love X xxxxxxx' at the end of texts, even though i knew it was from him if you get me. he'd call me beautiful and i felt that there was something there, anyway. THEN i found out he called my sister beautiful, and he'd call her 'baby' as well, like he did for me. i cried alot tbh, i thought he was playing us both. he'd say to her on msn, bye! ring me for a nice cosy chat any time:) and then loads of kisses, and that was to my SISTER! then for my sisters birthday, he sent her a card in the post containing £5. for my birthday a few weeks later, me and him went to the cinema and he bought me chocolates and a bracelet. he invited me to his house the week before the cinema, just me and him. watching films all day, and he was sat holding my hand ect. before this visit in the previous week, he'd said to me he loves me, i said it back. he said 'i really like you,so if you want to go further then its up to you'. if agreed, and he said good,we'll see how it goes for a few weeks. i was buzzing,obviously. anyway, after that he invited me over to his again, this time he spent no time sitting next to me and putting his arm around me, and we watched the films like that. it was a very cuddly day, and he kissd me a few times this time to. the other night he said to me on msn that he thinks me and him should start a more serious relationship, because 'i make him happy, im always smiling' ect. then he written what more could a guy want?' i was over the moon, obviously. cos i truly believe i love him. but then, tonight he rang the house phone and my sister picked up. he talked to her for a bit and then asked for me to come on the phone,so i did. it was like the three way conversations we used to have all over again, only this time i felt left out. they were laughing and joking away, and i was sat listening,really hurt. i dont understand. i understand that thats how it used to be,but i just feel its wrong. a 14 year old talking to a 18 year old like that on the phone an hour, who's boyfriend is he meant to be again? im really hurt, i know my sister still likes him in that way, and im afraid that he might go to her rather than me. after all, he chose her before me before didnt he? im so hurt. whats he after? WHO'S he after? he says he loves me,yet he talked to my sister on the phone more than me tonight. im afraid of losing him,and annoyed that my sister can't back of when she knows me and him are more than friends. what can i do? what should i do? should i be worried? i feel like im in a relationship with him and my sister. shes always going to be there isnt she? its just with whats happened, i dont feel comfortable like that. Open Question: please read this!! i dont kno if u call it cheating?You dont go sticking your tongue down someone elses throat when you already have a girlfriend do you? Two months ago i noticed my boyfriend commented on this girls picture on fb calling her his beautiful girl. He told me they just mess around. He swore they were just friends and she was in one of his college class. He would go to college at 3 and finish at 430. He used to text me when he left but he stopped all that and he wouldnt bother texting me or meeting up with me until around 6. I dont know where he goes inbetween these times because he isnt at home. He told me he was at football training and all these lies. I told him what i thought and he was all like "so what if i am meeting her after college? who cares? its not asif im having sex with her". wtf he mean who cares? Since then all we did was argue and he finished with me and told me i should forget that he ever existed. I tried for weeks to get him back. He told me a week later i should be grateful that he ended it because would i of rathered him be with me and lied about liking me. What pisses me off the most is that he kept asking me back out every week saying he made a mistake. But days later he would end it again and i kept saying yes to him because i wanted him back so much. I still do. After ending it again he said its the end for us. He means it this time he will never get back with me and he told me he hates me. He said we should stop speaking because its pointless. He deleted me off fb and blocked me. I tried so hard to leave him alone and i went 2days without talking to him but i hadto text him saying what i thought of him. He ignored my texts.. When he told me that we should stop speaking, which was 3weeks ago. He asked me back out 2days before that and told me that he will never end it again, this girl from his college found out we are back together and he ended it with me through the phone, he denied asking me back out to her saying he never did i just miss understood the question when i never. This girl sent me mail on fb saying she is sorry but she never new about me. She swore they were just friends but she said i shouldnt go back to him because he was kissing her and stuff after college. So he was with her. She was like "forget him and move on, you will get over him and you will find a better guy in the future" WTF?! Who the **** gives her the right to tell me all this when she hasnt the slightest clue what im going through. :'( just because she wants him.. I was so determined to never bother him again and i went 3 weeks without talking. 3nights ago i asked my friend to send him mail on fb asking him to add me back. He did and he sent me an email saying "happy now? dont talk to me iv only added you to stop you moaning". I emailed him last night and asked him does he like anyone or is he with anyone now and he said you dont need to know. I just want to send him an email telling him how i feel but he doesnt even read them, he says its not his problem. He doesnt care. He doesnt care if we speak again. I am moving soon, not because of him we were moving anyway and he knew this but lastnight i told him what date i am moving, next month, and he wrote on fb "yess i love this life now". I think because im moving away from him or because hes happy cos hes met a new girl. I will be about 3hrs away from him:( he has been saying on fb she is amazing, i think she is wow and stuff. Upsets me so much. I want to try and be friends but inside i am so hurt its like something is eating me away. He only comes on fb in the morning before going to college and he doesnt come on til the next morning. He doesnt text me anymore. So i never speak to him. ugh he is happy without me and has moved on and i wish i could do the same but i cant. its not getting easier because iv been like this for 2months and still feel like crying all the time. when i stay away from him he doesnt come running after me, he leaves me alone because he doesnt wana talk to me so that means never talking again and i cant lose him! :( what would u do? he is prob with her right now -_- More Recent Articles
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