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Open Question: How do I tell my fiance he can come back to the bed? and more... Open Question: How do I tell my fiance he can come back to the bed?LOL. I know stupid question, but I've never done this before. So, my fiance and I got into this argument and stuff, because I never kiss him that much or hug him (I'm just not an affectionate person), and he said he felt like it was one sided love and he felt bad, and yeah we were arguing a lot, and he pissed me off by talking about my ex boyfriends. I was feeling complete resentment towards him for the next couples days, and I'm still kinda pissed. But I made him sleep on the couch because I just couldn't stand laying in the same bed with him. He can hardly sleep on that thing. At first I was like "yay, more room for me!" but now it's all silent. And whenever I walk into the living room, I just see him sitting on that couch, working on his laptop, I feel guilty now... lol. I always hear him up at night going to the kitchen to get water. Yet even though made him sleep on the couch, he's always still being nice when I come out of the bedroom like always and now I feel guilty and I just wanna put up with him sleeping in the bed with me again. I told my best friend about it and she was like "Well, he felt unwanted, and you kissed your other ex boyfriends a lot!". I never though I'd even run into this problem, because it's so meaningless and ridiculous, but I don't really know how to come up to him and say "Honey, I forgive you! Sleep on the bed again!". Because I'm just not the type of person who does that. Jeez, I just felt like what he said about my ex boyfriends was personal and I was offended. Open Question: Do you think my boyfriend is well a jerk?Yesterday I was helping a friend move. And I didn't tell him where I was.... Which he never tells him where he is or when he's hanging out with girls and all that. But I don't ask. But he say he was going to leave me because I didn't tell him where I was or who I was with -_-. He wasn't texting me back all day and he got mad because i wasn't texting him. What should I do about this guy he should lighten up right? I know this is the wrong section but nobody in dating seems to care about dating problems haha Open Question: Boyfriend & drugs i really need to leave him?Okay my boyfriend is about to be 22. We have had problems in the past with him smoking weed. He told me he stopped about four months ago. Yesterday i found out from his sister that hes been smoking every night and doing cocaine. I broke it off with him but he wants another chance hes been lien about it for this whole time she sent me videos and pictures of him doing it. He lied at first then fnally admitted it i kind of know if i take him back he will do it again but i really do love him. & no he doesnt have an addiction he just does it when hes mad but thats no excuse at all . what should i do?? =[ Open Question: Have you ever felt you were not suppose to be loved?I have read alot of posts on here regarding people who felt undeserving of love and so on. I have felt like that for years, i'm 22 and i finally got my first boyfriend and it feels a bit weird. For years, everyone walked out my life and i don't think i have met anyone that has cried as much tears as me. I think i conditioned myself to think i can't be loved. It's not so much that i have low self esteem because i think i'm very beautiful, i have participated in the Miss new jersey pageant. I'm multi-talented: i can sing, draw, write, dance, etc. i'm very maternal, i don't mean i have kids. I mean i can cook, i clean and i can do it all. I actually think i'm perfect but i just could not find anyone for some reason i don't know. I think i just think that God has made certain people to be without and i might be one of them. And i'm not mad at him for it. That's just how it is. And i wasn't searching and i'm not desparate. I finally got a guy that thinks the world of me and he thinks i'm perfect and he's perfect. he's a model, he's nice. He tells me how beautiful i am everyday. the way he treats me, i'm not use to it and so i feel a bit weird sometimes. He's around me 24/7 and i really like it but i'm scared he's gonna get tired of me. And so i try to keep my space at times just so he learns to miss me and not have me all the time. i always ask him if he isn't tired of me yet and he laughs and kisses me and says no. I feel like my heart wants to spill over, i think i am overjoyed. Sometimes i want to tell him how i feel. For years i prayed and asked god to remember that i need to be loved as everyone else? I always felt he forgot me? And i wasn't mad at him. I just felt he never saw me just as every other guy on earth. Sometimes i try to tell my boyfriend how i think God sent him to me but as soon as i start, i always end up telling him how bad things were before him but i don't want to live in the past. i like to move forward but i can't come to tell him how he has turned it all around. And now i realized that everytime he leaves or i leave that it might be the last time we see. I realized that if i am right about me not deserving of love then something tragic will take my boyfriend from me. And so i find myself begging him to not speed when he's on the road or other little things like that. I fear that i'll wake up and he's not there anymore because that is how life is supposed to be for me. It's not really that i feel undeserving because i am a great person. It's that i feel i am not suppose to have because that was my fate. Sometimes i feel god is going to make an example out of me because i went against his wishes. I think i might have a problem. What do you think? Open Question: what do i do??? my boyfriend and i are going to a party together.....?This is our first official party together as a couple, so were going together. which is just fine! but the problem is much taller than i am, and there will be dancing. being in high school most kids just grind; which, again, is just fine. but we are not even remotely close in height. it going to be very hard to dance with him... do you all see my problem? what can help? Open Question: PLEASe HELP ME..stay with him or leave him?i'm 16 he is 18?i met him online 4 months ago,we started as friends he is from america and i am from another country,then we get closer,i saw him and he saw me,we became boyfriend and girlfriend,and he said he will come to my country and date and see where it will take us,actually he saw me breasts naked,and started to ask me to help him to c** as i am his "woman" now,i helped him but i didn't like it,so we kept going in and out in this relationship,he said he don't want me to show him anything else just to talk to him and make scenarios for him while he is stroking his c***,i am confused he says he loves me and all,and he sent me songs and gave me little bit of love,he was better than my last ex,my problem is he insist that i should help him ,and he feel intimate when we do that,and if i refused he will leave me for sure,and i don't want to help him because it is uncomfortable,so PLEASE HELP ME..what should i do. i helped him before and i enjoyed it but i don't anymore....and he is not demanding it everyday or even often,just now and then. Open Question: Getting aniexty about going to the supermarket with my boyfriend?i know it sounds so stupid, but i suffer with anxiety and i deal with alot of things on my own and go out on my own, coz i know if i feel anxious i can come home and deal with it on my own, my boyfriend always goes on about going here and there and i find it hard with my anxiety and he doesnt ever get it so he doesnt know how i feel. He wants to go supermarket later and coz he plans it and makes abig deal of it, its starts my aniexty up. I get embrassed about it and always think the worst that i could have a panic attack when im out with him or anything i just hate the feelings i get when i feel anxious so i avoid sistutations to avoid feeling like that, as long as i go out and do things by myself and with my family i dont see it being a problem. I dont want to go to the supermarket later now do u think i should just say or go? More Recent Articles
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