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Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Open Question: How do I quit smoking weed? and more...

 
 



Open Question: How do I quit smoking weed? and more...

Open Question: How do I quit smoking weed?

So this is going to be the start of day 3 of me not smoking. It is hard! I really did not have a problem the first day however yesterday (day 2) I felt really irritated. I was put to the test when a girl shot me down when I asked her out, then after she kept talking about her boyfriend (i didnt know she had a bf). Kinda a bitch mood by her part, like I know I get it. Yet it still kinda stung. In addition to that I had a lot of other issues going through my head. Day 2 was really hard and I feel day 3 would be harder. I been smoking every day for 3 years. I started cause I had issues, i even tried to kill my self before I started. I quit because I forgot how it feels to not use weed.I wonder if it would clear my mind up a bit? Make me a bit more productive? Make me archive more goals? Listen to more music? etc...those are the things I use to do before I smoked. When I had a problem I would smoke and every thing would seem perfect. Now its horrible I feel like crying. I have not cried in almost 4 years. I kinda have an anger problem so not smoking gives me tick, if you know what I mean. I feel like fighting all the time. I wait till some one tells me the wrong thing so I can get in their face. Is it the weed talking? I do not know maybe. I kinda think so. so how do I quit? I know i am going to have this withdraw symptoms. I do not even know if its the symtoms or just me. about how long it takes till weed is complety out of you and the crave goes away? What are some good steps I can take when I do have cravings?

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Open Question: how do you change a boyfriend ..?

ok now me and my bf have like 4 years together and in the beginning it was good but now its like im not important i mean we have always had our problems but now its worse then ever we had took a break about 3 weeks ago we had alittle fight i mean we always do it but now when we started talking i realized he was talking to 3 other women i spoke to 2 of them and they assured me they didnt have sex with him and they just started talking but he still treats me like shyt what should i do to change every thing im desparate i really love him and i want to make this work i want a future with him please help me its so hard for me i know hes not bad and i know deep deep inside he loves me but thats not enough his love does not matter right now his actions is what matter if we continue this relationship hes has to change alot

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Open Question: seems like she likes me but why isnt she touchy feely with me?

-tells me that I should know that she adores me and loves spending time with me -emails me all day daily -she knows I like her - tells me her boyfriend is jealous of me and only ever speaks bad about him around me - tells me the more time she spends with me the more she wants to move on to the next step in her life (leave her boyfriend) - tells me she is only happy when she is having fun with me and that its the only time when she forgets her problems -tells me she loves spending time with me - wants to move in with me -i have another wealthy lesbian friend overseas and has offered her to come with me to meet her and try the whole (3 girls together) she told me it's a definite she has decided to come and try -says she wants kids and asked if I would ever have kids in my life just after we were talking about being with 2 girls -tells me she even enjoyed regular grocery shopping with me and needs me to hold her hand - tells her ex about all the fun things we have been doing to rub it in -she talks about me heaps to her other friends and they all want to meet me and they invite me everywhere but they have never met me

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Open Question: I need help with this situation?

I have been dating my boyfriend for a few years and our relationship has been pretty good, other than for the occasional arguments which every couple has. We both treat each other well and we get along great as well. However, I am noticing that something is really bothering me. I have never talked to anyone about this before, so I would like to get some thoughts on here from people who don't know me, so that the opinions I get are not biased. I am in my early twenties and have noticed that for some strange reason, almost all of the girls that I know are either getting engaged or married. Some have finished school and others are still in school. These girls are also NOT pregnant because if they were, they would have had their children by now or it would have been obvious that they are pregnant. I don't know if I can actually call how I feel jealousy, but I am just curious where the future of my boyfriend and I will take us. He has NEVER given me a ring ever, and although I am the least materialistic girl out there, I do feel slightly weird after having other girls show off the rings their boyfriends bought them for their 1 year anniversary whereas a few years have passed in our relationship, and my boyfriend freaks out at the thought of giving a girl a ring. (He said so himself before that giving a girl a ring means you HAVE to marry her). Through conversation, I have found out that his parents are extremely against weddings and all those traditions that exist. They believe that getting married and having a big wedding is a huge waste of money and time. I would want to have a nice wedding someday because I would really regret if I got married in city-hall or something and did not have my special day. I was wondering if anyone could give me some thoughts on this. Could my boyfriend think he is not ready yet, could he be completely uninterested in marriage or could he just think I am not the one? He has actually said to me before and that I am the one for him, and he tells me he loves me everyday. We both spend a lot of time together and help each out a lot. So what could be the problem? Sorry for this being so long, and thank you for reading this.

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Open Question: Impounded for speeding by law, or per the officer?

My boyfriend was going 75mph in a 65mph zone. He was pulled over and subsequently arrested because the officer "didn't like his tone". My boyfriend was being snippy with the officer, but was following his instructions. My boyfriend had to spend the night in jail, had his car impounded for 10 days, and has to pay a paltry sum for a speeding ticket...only $150. So if he was really a problem, why give him such a low fine? It just doesn't add up. Plus I've never heard of a car being impounded because of a speed infraction as low as my boyfriend's. Is impounding a car normal in Washington state over a speeding infraction, or was the officer just trying to make his point in the most asinine way possible? The only good thing about my boyfriend spending the night in jail, is he got his own cell. A CELL OF HIS VERY OWN! I know he's not giving me all the details. He's not the type to drink and drive, so that's out. He was stressed out and sleep deprived. I think it made him less than rational.

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Open Question: She gets jealous when I talk to other girls but she has a boyfriend.?

Okay, my friend who I kinda have a crush on I notice seems to get kinda jealous if she see's me texting other women. She will even go through my phone when I'm not looking and leave little messages on my wall paper like "hi jojo <3". The problem is she has a boyfriend who she has been with for 11 months now, before I met her. Yet when she see's me talking to other girls or if other girls flirt with me, she seems to get jealous. How come she doesn't want me to have a girlfriend or get close to another girl when she has a boyfriend?

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