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Monday, December 14, 2009

Open Question: How do I make my 2 1/2 year relationship with my boyfriend more fun? and more...

 
 



Open Question: How do I make my 2 1/2 year relationship with my boyfriend more fun? and more...

Open Question: How do I make my 2 1/2 year relationship with my boyfriend more fun?

We've been dating for a little over 2 1/2 years and lately, I feel like he's just a good friend that happens to know a lot about my life, that I happen to say "I love you" to, and that I have sex with. I know that there's no way of completely having all of that original 'spark' of a new relationship back, but I need something. Any suggestions/ideas? And I'm not looking for answers like "Go on a picnic!" By the way, I am 19 years old and he will be 21 in April. So you can see my frustration with the fact that I feel like I'm having the same problem that 30-year-olds have.

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Open Question: Can i end the relationship?

My boyfriend has kid with another lady,he told me that when our relationship was two months old,But he assures me that he loves me very much and i know he really loves me according to how he dreams of his future we being together. But the problem is when i scroll his phone to the dialed numbers and if it happens that i sees baby mamas numbers i feel hurt-ed.there is a time i planned to leave him,he cried you know what he said ?he said even if i leave him he can't be with that lady because they were not lovers it just happened accidentally due to the body chemistry.imagine that lady has two kids each with different fathers and the last one she is two years old my boyfriend say's she is for he's.our relationship is nine months.When i talked with the baby mama about me ending the relationship she said the better because that guy to her he is not Straight forward.And that will also happen to me. what can i do and i Truly love this guy?

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Open Question: What do I do if my boyfriend won't show me his cellphone without deleting things first?

I was sitting next to my boyfriend of two weeks as he was texting someone and I curiously peeked over and he shut his phone immediately. So I asked if I could see it and he refused. I even offered him my phone in exchange. Then he said to give him 15 seconds with his phone, so I wouldn't let him open it. It turned into a physical playful fight. After 30 minutes I stopped and realized that if he's fighting this hard over something as simple as a cell phone, he must be really hiding something. So I told him to leave, and he did without any complaints. Was I wrong to make him leave? I know a cellphone is a personal thing, but I have a real problem with secrets. I have none (literally NONE) and I feel like he has a million. I'm not typically so nosy, but his reaction really worries me.

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Open Question: I need help really bad?

I my name is lil dee i live with my mom and she had a baby not to long ago but i take care of her. The problem is my mom works but not her boyfriend does not all he does is smoke weed all day when he should be taking care of the child he made with my mother. And he has hit my mom even tried to kill her once but she says that he is changed i don't wanna live here but im still under 18 what should i do? O yea im 15 and work he has not had a job in 8 months...

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Open Question: What are drastic measure that you would take?

I'm 21 years old. I moved from my homestate to a state that I love very much. I went to college for a year here and fell in love with it, and my boyfriend... Anyway, I have been here 3 months and absolutely cannot find work. I have never had such a small amount of money to my name. I suffer from anxiety which has caused me to be afraid of retail jobs and I much prefer working with horses and dogs, or any animal really. I really have no idea what to do. As some of you are thinking, "just suck it up and do what you have to do to survive" I have tried. If you suffer from anxiety then you know what I mean. The retail places aren't even hiring right now. I am living alone, renting out a basement apartment, and have phone and insurance bills. I'm very nervous because I've never had money problems since I've always had a steady income and I never spend money on anything I do not need. So my question really is what would you do if you were in my situation? No I would not sell drugs or my body, so don't worry about that :] Also, I had no idea where to put this question, so my apologies if I chose the wrong category :]

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Open Question: Have you ever loved someone so much it made you cry?

I'm not talking about break-ups or problems with someone you love, but just loving them so much you cry. Right now I sat and thought about my boyfriend and I feel as if I'm so happy it made me cry! I've never felt this before.

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Open Question: need advise.asap! help?

long story short. theres this guy i met at work. we've known eachother for about two years now. the whole time we worked together we'd be flirting. we'd text outside of work, but not hang out. i had a boyfriend the whole time we worked at the same place. i transfered stores and he got fired, haha, but a few weeks ago he admited to having a "crush" on me at a point when we worked together and didn't say anything because he knew i had enough boy problems already and didnt want to cause more. i told him i was attracted to him, blah blah blah. we were supposed to hang out this week but we didn't. he texted me that night saying he's sorry he didn't come visit (we live in towns about 30 min away) becasue he "didn't want to make a mistake". we talk on the phone for hourssss, and he says it sucks that he feels like i'm his best friend. we got eachother christmas presents. i told him to let me know when we should exchange them and he kinda kept it short and to the point...i'm so confused?? what does all this mean??

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Open Question: Am I addicted to sex?

My boyfriend and I are both 18, we've been together for 3 years, and just started having sex within the last 6 months. Recently he's said that we have sex more than he'd like. We have sex maybe twice a week. So I'm wondering if he's being weird and chaste or whatever, or do I have a problem of some sort with sex? Is twice a week over-doing it?

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Open Question: How do i let my boyfriend know that I don't like the idea of marriage but like the idea of marrying him?

I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 yrs and we love each other a lot, and recently he was talking to me about how a lot of the people we know are getting married... a few even having children already Every time he talks about it I start talking about how I think getting married can cause so many problems and so on... I see him get a upset but he tries to hide it I do feel that way about marriage (my parents fight every day and I think it would be better for both of them to just get a divorce)... but I don't feel that way towards us and I don't know how to tell him that without even hinting that I want to marry him... or that I see a future with him (I don't know if there is but I know we could last a lot longer than 2.5 yrs)... I'm just being careful... I don't want to scare him away... So how can I let him know?

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