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Open Question: How do I get on the track of self improvement as far as my relationships are concerned? and more... Open Question: How do I get on the track of self improvement as far as my relationships are concerned?I have had about five boyfriends over the past five years. May not seem like much but keep in mind two of those were two weeks long. I don't know what my deal is, well that's a lie mabey I do. You see my dad cheated on my mom. He was a strong Christian man (or so I thought) but my first year of middle school he moved in with a woman he claimed to love (my parents were married at the time) and middle school was a really hard time for me, not only was I practically failing all of my classes -due to lack of motivation- but my whole family was changing.. anyways it was that summer that I had my first relationship. I was very young, yes I know. But at the time I didn't feel I was to young. He was (and is) very cute. He is in my youth group, and I liked him A LOT but when it came time for me to kiss him I was hesitant. I was silly and young I didn't feel ready (which I don't blame myself for) but he is two years older than me (so he was in his second year of high school at the time) and I think he realized I was to young. So as soon as we got home from out youth function (two weeks later) he broke up with me. And even though I didn't have much of a right to be, I was devastated. My next relationship was a rebound sadly. He is an amazing guy, but at the time I really just wanted to get over my last boyfriend. We are great friends now (he also is in my youth group) But agian when I felt it was time to kiss. I broke it off. huh... So then came my freshman year and I went out with a guy at my school. Well my school was small and therefore we had limited physical contact. We never hung out after school. So again that was not much of a relationship. And we never kissed, because of course I broke up with him. It was a year and a half later (still with virgin lips, haha) in my tenth grade summer that I went out with another guy (also in my youth group- who happened to be very good friends with my second boyfriend) he was awesome. Still is. But I wasn't feeling the "magic" and to be honest hadn't felt that spark sense my first boyfriend. After a few weeks it was over, again without a kiss. So now we come to the summer of my junior year... I had just gotten home after living with my dad and said girlfriend. I lived with them for six months before I finally cracked. (the reason I lived with them was because I was wanting to transfer to a christian school and there was none where I lived with my mom.) I don't regret living with them. It was hard, but taught me a lot and made me the person I am today. Anywhoo... My youth group went to a church function and I started to really talk to a guy I had always dismissed as a "buddy" he was easy to talk to and very funny. I started to develop feelings for him and told his friend (who was my second boyfriend. But like I said at that point we were very good friends and still are) I asked him not to say anything to the guy I liked. But like the butt he is (haha) he told him. Well (his name was Mike) and he was very shocked, he for some reason or another didnt think he had a chance with me. We went out for six months. He was my first (and only) kiss. One time we were texting and he messaged me something that I thought meant he was going to break up with me. It was a misunderstanding... but I literally had the biggest panic attack of my life. That was how much I liked him. I think at times I was dangerously close to loving him at times. But he had a scare where he almost ended up moving. He had gone on a trip with his family to the town they wanted to move to, and we had very little contact in the time he was away (two weeks)... Well I think we had been dating for about four months at that point. It was then our relationship started to slip. When he came back he was sort of distant. Well the month after that we had a big youth function we always go to every year. It lasts two weeks. But right before we left, I freaked out and broke up with him. He had been acting so strange and had said somethings that really bothered me. While we were there (at the youth function) I had such a hard time. I was going through some more family drama and I missed him so much. I told him so and we ended up getting back together. Well about a month after that we were talking on the phone. Like we did almost every night. He told me some really cruel things about the time we had broken up. I was really hurt, but I pushed aside our problems for the moment and tried to focus on how our relationship had been. Our relationship was still very strained... And after our six month relationship we broke up. To what I would like to call a mutual break up. It was over the phone (lame I know) and after wards he was really nice. He told me not to be a stranger and that I should call and text him often. I was hopeful that we could be good friends. Well the first time I saw him, lets just say he was less than friendly. He ignored me most of the time and made fun of me the rest of the time. It didnt put our relationship on Open Question: How do I get my boyfriend to see it from my POV?My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half And for that entire year he has had problems with two of my best guy friends They run in different crowds, and don't particularly like each other, but my guys friends are at least civil to my boyfriend when I'm around. My boyfriend hates that I hang around them. He thinks that they are a bad influence, but they have been my friends forever. My two best guy friends are kinda druggies, but they are fun to hang around, and it's not like they ever push me to do it with them. My boyfriend is an athlete. He drinks, but he doesn't do drugs, and he only pays attention to my guy friends' reputation, not what they are really like. Jayde W I wouldn't look to them as a role model But, I'm not influenced by friends and my boyfriend knows that Open Question: Should I stay or should I go? kinda long.?I have been staying with my sister and her 7 year old son for about 8 months now. I decided to stay at her house for the summer because her boyfriend had left them and they were lonely and had little money. I also wanted a change from where I was living at the time. Before I moved, I had a good relationship with both my sister and my nephew ( her son ). Over the 8 months our bonds grew stronger we grew closer. I helped her try and get over her boyfriend and deal with her issues and I spent alot of time with my nephew trying to be as good a role model as I could. About 3 weeks ago my sisters boyfriend came back and the first day he was here, she slept with him. I asked her about it and she said she just had needs she couldn't help. This has happened before in their relationship on multiple occasions. I have told her before he will keep doing this and you will just get hurt again but something in her brain I guess she still "loves" him or she is just to lonely. The only reason I care is because of the little boy. I know he is very confused about his dad being away alot and it is effecting him and the dad doesn't care or is just to stupid to realize what he is doing. Anyways, a couple days after the incident I told her I was moving out. There are many reasons why that have to do with her and also because her boyfriend is moving back in, and I can't stand it when he is there. I told her I would stay until Christmas because she has a job at night and I watch him so she can have money for the holidays. I'd have no problem with leaving but when I told my nephew I was leaving he said he knew but then about 10 seconds later he started to tear up and he cried in my arms. He has been holding in alot of emotions and feelings about everything and it makes me really sad and I feel for him. I told him that I loved him and that I wasn't leaving because of him, which I think he has alot of issues about because of his own father. He was okay the rest of the night and we played games and watched t.v. and had dinner. I am pretty sure I can't stay but I feel like I am leaving him behind by moving out. I will still be there for him if he wants to talk and im sure we will spend time together on some week ends and holidays etc. What do you think, should I stay for him or go for myself? Open Question: I'm dying to tell her but it's not the right time.?I really really really want to tell my crush, that I have had for years, how I feel about her. One problem is she has a boyfriend (he is in college, we're sophomores in high school) and they have had a long relationship that seems to be going well. Another problem is there isn't a single girl out in the world right now who will date me. And a lot of people have said I'm one of the most interesting human beings they have every met. But when ever I ask or plan on asking a girl, I find out that there's another guy. What to do I really like her, I've given a couple hints that I like her and a lot of people know that I like her. Should I just tell her? And any other suggestions? PS: She is way out of my league. Open Question: My girlfriend thinks im cheating on her and im really not?okay well every past boyfriend my girlfriend has had has cheated on her, so she has major insecurity problems and is hard to get trust from. technically we have been going out for two years but made it offical two months ago. everything has been great, not one fight or anything. its awesome. but just recently some guy that neither of us know came up to her and told her that i slept with a bunch of my ex girlfriends over the weekend. first of all ive never had sex in my life and i will not ever cheat on my girlfriend. i told her this and she said okay but i know for a fact she doesnt believe me because it is still bugging her today. its really scary because i dont want her to think im a bad person and dump me, she means a lot to me, i will not ever hurt her. i dont know what to do cause ive already told her i wont but she finds it hard to believe because thats what every other guy said. what do i do.? please Open Question: how do i write a performance appraisal?1. You are a supervisor in a company that requires performance appraisals on each employee every six months. Your path today is to write appraisals for these three employees. Susan has worked for you for two years. Shes always done a good job but in the last six months she seems to have come into her own. Four months ago, she came up with an idea for a new product line that has really taken off. Your file on Susan includes a press release detailing the success of the new products line and a memo from your supervisor commenting on Susan's performance. You want to give her the highest possible rating. Christine has now been with the company just one year. Her performance has been uneven from the star. In her last appraisal, the first one since she joined the company, you focuses primarily on trying to motivate her to do better. She is undoubtedly capable of doing her job; in fact, she has periods of exceptional creativity! But you have a record of 9 times when she missed important deadlines. She is frequently absent without calling in and shes almost always late. In her last appraisal you mentioned three specifc things she needs to improve; she hasnt done any of them. In fact, shes been worse. You know that Christine has a new boyfriend and you suspect that could be part of the problem. She frequently looks hungover when she comes in. Though you would like to see Christine work to her potential, you think that her current behavior can lead to her dismissal. You want to show her that you think its still possible to improve, but serious measures are called for. To protect the company, you decided that you must give her an unsatisfactory review. Jennifer is your administrative assistant and shes been with you for 7 years. Shes frequentyl received the highest appraisals of anyone working for you. Shes innovative, mtoivated, well organized and extremely knoweledgable about the company. She begun working for the comopany as a postal operator and has worked her way up.For the last three months, shes been involved in painful divorce proceedings, however, her work has been undeniably affected by it. Most incident you recorded on her are small thing-- reports misplaced, paperwork late, not falling through on routine arrangement for meetings-- but her performance affected the entire company. You really hate to do this, but you just cant give her the usual glowing appraisal. You have to find a way to help her improve. You cannot imagine what you will do without her. Based on the descriptions above, outline the strategy you will follow to write each of the three performan appraisals. You do not have to go into a lot of detail. Your goals should be to show how the goals of writing proposals can be applied to three very different situations. Your focuse should be on the resoans you would make the choices you describe. Open Question: i need help with a personal problem haha?okay well im on my period and i hate it b.c i cannot wear tampons. so i wear ultra thin pads. well anyhoo. my boyfriend and i go to the same highschool and well he likes to come up behind me and grab my butt we always do that and today he felt my pad and looked kinda freaked. so idk what to do now. haha. honestly i know most of the answers are going to be "he wont mind" or "if he loves you he wont care." but what im asking is, is there anything i can do to make it less noticeable that im wearing a pad when he grabs my butt or what should i do.?? More Recent Articles
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