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Thursday, December 17, 2009

Open Question: How could I get him to be my boyfriend? BOYS ANSWER PLEASE(:? and more...

 
 



Open Question: How could I get him to be my boyfriend? BOYS ANSWER PLEASE(:? and more...

Open Question: How could I get him to be my boyfriend? BOYS ANSWER PLEASE(:?

So i've liked this kid for about 2 1/2 years now. he goes to my school. he is the only boy i love, or could imagine myself dating. and i want to date him really bad. problem i dont ever talk to him, but he texted me before like one time. so we have eachothers phone numbers. and he knows i like him. its embarassing to even talk to him. cause then he'll know im trying to flirt and he'll think im dumb, so i dont know what to do, but i love him a ton. and he just broke up with his jerk of a girlfriend and i know he wants another girlfriend so what should i do. well what kinds of things should i say to him? just give me some ideas APPROPRIATE ONES to get him to like me back. or whatever. i just need to know what to say to him, guys what would you want me to say to you if this situation was happening ? just gimme ideas of what to do.

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Open Question: How to get my bf to let me hang out with my best friend which is a guy?

I been with my boyfriend for years now and basically I lose touch with all my friends and none of them want to hang out anymore or anything and i can't blame them. Ive been trying to get some back but it's not going to well, but there's this guy i have been best friends with since i was little and we went out only for 2 weeks though years ago and hes the only one that will Talk to me. Since my friends are his friends to i thought if i can hang out with him with my old friends there than they will eventually talk to me, and hes my friend and was kind enough to not hold anything against me. But my problem is my bf doesn't trust him near me he wont even let me meet him at the mall with other people there. I don't want to hurt my bf but I need some friends in my life i realize that now and this guy that used to be my best friend is the only way I can get everyone else to talk to me again. I can't go another night alone while my bf goes out with his friends. All I do is sit at home and watch tv series online, I turned into a real loser lol. But how can i get my bf to loosen up about it I know it's a lot to ask from him but I think he should trust me enough that if my guy friend did hit on me that i would do the right thing slap him and lay down the law. I have never ever cheated on him and never will i am so against cheating. I really need a way for him to just let me go hang with him and other people so I can just get some friends back, I miss everyone. Me and my bf are basically married I mean we live together and everything for over 2 years this is really putting stress on me because i need a social life and to get out of the house. What can I do any suggestions? or have you been in this situation? he never wanted to hang out with them because he didnt like him. I don't consider him an ex bf i mean whats 2 weeks of going out? nothing. Also I think now he might hang out with my friend there but im scared he will want to beat him up so i don't know what to do? my boyfriend is my best friend but this guy i knew for years before i met my bf but my bf will ALWAYS come FIRST.

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Open Question: Not flat battery... whats wrong!?!?!?

Ok so about one month ago stupid me left my lights on in my car overnight. My boyfriends dad jumpstarted my car and then I was on my way. Now have had no problems since then. However yesterday while cleaning the inside of my car, note ignition was on as I was listening to music, my car wouldnt start afterwards! It would try to wind over like rum rum rum and then just tick constantly. I had a mechanic from work have a look this morning after having the battery on charge all night. The battery was working at 495 cranking amps, 100%. He said there is nothing wrong the alernator either. There is no corrosion on the battery and the car is only 2 years old. Mechanic said it could simply be the fuel quality. I have now fueled it up with premium and added the injector cleaner as he instructed. Does this sound right or does anyone have any input???? Please help! Starter motor fine.. Mechanic has checked that also. It starts right now. Like can walk out and start it first time, no problems. I think it may be only because it was on charge all night. Hi Steven. Thats what I thought as well. COuld this be possible. I mean it was only stationary for 20 minutes?

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Open Question: What can i do here? I need my bf to let me hang out with my guy best friend...?

I been with my boyfriend for years now and basically I lose touch with all my friends and none of them want to hang out anymore or anything and i can't blame them. Ive been trying to get some back but it's not going to well, but there's this guy i have been best friends with since i was little and we went out only for 2 weeks though years ago and hes the only one that will Talk to me. Since my friends are his friends to i thought if i can hang out with him with my old friends there than they will eventually talk to me, and hes my friend and was kind enough to not hold anything against me. But my problem is my bf doesn't trust him near me he wont even let me meet him at the mall with other people there. I don't want to hurt my bf but I need some friends in my life i realize that now and this guy that used to be my best friend is the only way I can get everyone else to talk to me again. I can't go another night alone while my bf goes out with his friends. All I do is sit at home and watch tv series online, I turned into a real loser lol. But how can i get my bf to loosen up about it I know it's a lot to ask from him but I think he should trust me enough that if my guy friend did hit on me that i would do the right thing slap him and lay down the law. I have never ever cheated on him and never will i am so against cheating. I really need a way for him to just let me go hang with him and other people so I can just get some friends back, I miss everyone. What can I do any suggestions? or have you been in this situation?

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Open Question: The Boyfriend Or The New Guy?

i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now! And i love him, im just not sure im "in love" with him no more! im with him on weekends. I used to miss him so much on week days. but now i rarely miss him. and when i do see him sometimes i just wish i would have stayed home! he dosent pay me any attention no more and would rather play video games with his friends and go fishing instead of spending the weekends with me. He can be a complete butthole to me at times, though he can be such a sweetheart.But he never wants to go anywhere with me anymore like hes ashamed of me or something! We have broken up before and i just felt lost without him. And my bestfriend is related to him, im scared if i break it off she will never speak to me again, and i'll never get to see her son again, and that little baby means the world to me The new guy, is absolutely great! he listens to me and has a ton of patience, he treats me good. and is such a sweetheart! he makes me feel so great! When im with him it seems like nothing else matters but us. the chemistry is unbelievably strong. I just cant stop thinking about him. We have tons of stuff in common. the only problem is, he is not able to have kidds. which is a big issue to me! Help? please, i dont know what to do! can i really throw away a 2 year relationship for a new guy? what if i realize i love my boyfriend and cant live without him?

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Open Question: My boyfriend lasts 30 seconds in bed... like *literally*?

When my boyfriend and I have sex, which is every day, he can go at it for about 10-12 seconds then has to take a break. He'll do this 2-3 times then has to finish no matter how hard he tries not to. The whole thing lasts only about 50 or 60 seconds. Honestly, I don't really mind too much, it's sort of flattering in a way and also because I have a little problem, too- I won't "take over" during sex and be the active one... he's always the one doing the work (for 45 seconds!), because 1. I don't feel comfortable riding him or anything like that, and it feels better for me to just lay down and enjoy him making love to me. I don't think he minds, though because he knows I love having sex a lot and I like just being submissive. But, back to the main problem, I know he minds how long he lasts... I think hes sort of embarrassed about it and says sorry about it all the time. What do I do? It's not important to me if he lasts longer, but I just don't know how to handle all of this. but then HE doesn't enjoy it as much... he says the sex is intense and he really loves it

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Open Question: Do we HAVE to kiss? I don't get it...?

My boyfriend (22) and I (20) have been dating for 6 months and are *very* happy together, very much in love, and have even talked about possibly marrying in a few years. We are very affectionate with each other- hugging, kisses on the lips, cuddling, saying how much we love each other, etc. We even make love almost every day- true I'm not comfortable with "taking over" or being "the active one" during sex but I definitely participate and he knows I love it. And besides he lasts literally 20 seconds so he knows he has no right to really complain about MY performance. But, all in all, even with the sex, we are both really happy and I don't think we mind our little problems regarding that. But, the main thing is, we haven't french kissed. Mainly because, to me, it is way more intimate than sex and I'm just too uncomfortable/nervous to do it, but also because I just think it's sort of gross. I've kissed several guys many times in the past, but I haven't been in love like I am now and this nervous to do it. And, nowadays, when I think about it I just think it's gross. He doesn't mind, and we're still happy together. Is this wrong? Do we have to french kiss and make out like normal couples to grow closer? Especially if I don't want to to it, and he doesn't mind? We do a ton of other romantic, very affectionate sexy things, but still I'm concerned this is a problem. Every relationship has its quirks and problems, right?

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Open Question: i DON'T WANT TO LOOSE MY BOYFRIEND OVER THIS =.{?

I love my boyfriend very much. We've been together for 1yr 5mon. It's always been crazy for us because my parents HATED him. They have over come the hate and except him. So we didn't have any problems we ignore anyone trying to mess us up. But today he told me something that hurt. Don't get me wrong I'm not over reacting we are not a perfect couple so we do fight. But today we fought in front of his friends. He told me to stay after school(I have to every Tuesday,Wednesday, and Thursday.) I didn't want to(girl monthly problem) So he's like go to Upward Bound you have a future(not in a good way more like a bitchy leave way) And I'm the type of female that doesn't take shit from anyone so I was like shit sorry *I* have a future! He got very mad and said then why are you with me then? And his female friend was like because she loves you stop fighting you two. And i was like true I'm sorry you do have a future Imma help you. And he got madder and said na fuck it just leave! So I was waiting for my friend and we walked the same way he did I took the same way he did later and tried talking to him But he told him to leave him the fuck alone I have no idea what i should do. I want to call him but I know he won't answer me. I think I really hurt him. How should I make it up to him? Am I over reacting to this? Should I let him cool down? I NEED HELP I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND DON'T WANT TO LOOSE HIM=.{

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Open Question: MY BOYFRIEND WANTS HIS EX GIRLFRIEND & I TO HANGOUT WiTH HIM?

My boyfriend & I have been going out for about 5 mo. & we really just love eachother.His ex girlfriend & him have known eachother since highschool & went out for 5 years.She always calls,texts, & I.Ms him,she sends him half naked pics & always asks him to hangout & watch a movie but he always denies her offers.He still has some of her clothes she left behind & when he finds them lying around hes like that was my ex's,she leaves her sh** everywhere,she needs to come pick it up etc. He also has pictures of them together on his walls & I asked him to take them down,he took them down with no problem but made a comment saying "its sad,just cause the memories".They constantly argued & he says he was sick of it & doesnt love her,he loves me & wants to be with me.HOWEVER,he always brings up the topic about his ex girlfriend & I to hangout with him somewhere & do something together.He says 'it will be fun,I think you guys will get along great'. I dont like the idea at all but why does he want to do this? Does he want to hang back out with his ex but bring me along so its "legit"?? Should I be concerned??

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Open Question: How do I tell my boyfriend about the smell???????? Help PLZ!!! **Mature Answers Only Please**?

Okay, im 20 years old, and I have no problem performing oral for my boyfriend. The only thing is, is that he likes his balls to be licked lol. And i dont really like to do it, because of the way they smell down there. They smell sweaty, musty and gross. But how can i tell him without like hurting his feelings, or makin him mad at me????? Be nice please!!

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Open Question: My boyfriend broke up with me through a text..confused on what to do?!?

Okay well my boyfriend broke up with me a couple of weeks ago through a text message. He was just a good guy friend before we started going out.. The thing is, is that we were barely 'going out'. It lasted only a couple of weeks and we hadn't even kissed yet. The reason was that we didn't do 'boyfriend, girlfriend stuff and we'd be better as friends'. It kind of hurt because even though that's true, he didn't give the relationship a chance and he did it through a text. the only problem is that he doesn't really talk to me anymore.. I still want to be friends with him but I don't know if I should talk to him about it or not.?

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Open Question: Im stuck about what to do about my friend and her boyfriend, please help! x?

Me and my friend have been friends since year 6, i am now in year 10. She is with this boy and they are totally in love ( well i think so ) and whenever i go to see her at lunch, in the middle of a convosation she walks off to see her boyfriend. When we all go out together we hardly talk because all she is doing in snogging him in a corner or lying on top of each other in public, it can be quite awquard with both of them around. Recently i found out that they have had sex, but she didnt tell me, i had to find out myself. She never tells me anything anymore and whenever they all go out she doesnt invite me out either. Another girl has started to really annoy me because whenever i try to talk to my friend she walks infront of me. I also have a problem with her boyfriend, a while ago me and him had a thing while they were going out, we didnt kiss or anything but we really liked eachother, this made it difficult when they were together. I dont know what to do about all of this, i feel as if im losing my best friend :(

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