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Friday, December 18, 2009

Open Question: How can I reassure this amazing girl? and more...

 
 



Open Question: How can I reassure this amazing girl? and more...

Open Question: How can I reassure this amazing girl?

This girl Ive met is so beautiful to me, inside and out.. and well she cant get this girl named Emily from my life outta her head.. she asked me about the girl, was persistent, and I told her. emily and I arent together, emily has another boyfriend, emily and I have kissed before and used to talk and had feelings for eachother. but I like this new girl. we'll call her "greece beauty" because shes 100 percent greece. greece beauty says she's happy about it one day, than sad the next, that she cant get it outta her head.. and she thinks maybe Emily and I are meant 2 be.. problem is I want to be with greece beauty..I think greece beauty may be insecure because she's been hurt in the past.. Any advice would help, thank you.

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Open Question: Giving up Parental Rights?

My boyfriend has a child with a previous girlfriend that he never sees for quite a few different reasons. His ex got married about six months ago and her new husband has added his son to his insurance and even asked to adopt him. BUT she wont let my boyfriend terminate his parental rights in favor of her new husband because she wants to continue to collect child support. My boyfriend doesn't have a problem paying it but she constantly tells us lies about medical bills that he owes her that never took place or that insuance paid. We've told her to send the bills to the state for verification but she continues to harrass us. We've asked her several times if she would let him give up his rights and she says no. Any ideas?

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Open Question: Oil light is on, oil was just changed...what's wrong?

I have an 05 Jetta and have had nothing but problems with this car since I bought it 4 years ago. Every problem seems to be electrical, but every time I take it to the dealership to be fixed something else goes wrong a few months later. I wish I could trade this car in, but it's not an option unfortunately. So, the oil light is coming on all the time, or it doesn't come on at all. Or it comes on, turns off, turns back on, turns off....etc. I can't afford to take it to the dealership, and I've called a few mechanics and they tell me it's going to be $95 just for them to look at it and diagnose the problem, that doesn't include work or parts which I'm sure they'd charge an arm and leg for....I am so broke I can't afford to pay out all of this money...my registration is about to expire so not only do I have to throw $200 at that but I also have to pay $30 for the emmssions test. Not to mention I'm being laid off on the 31st of this month with no job prospects in sight. *sigh* Can someone tell me if this is something I can get fixed on my own by going to an auto parts store or something? I can try and get my boyfriend to fix it if I just know what it needs??? Anyone? The oil was just changed about 2 weeks ago...and yes, I've checked it to make sure it's not low in case there was a leak. It's full of oil.

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Open Question: How do i get rid of an annoying ex?

My ex boyfriend is actually starting to annoy me now. The more i avoid him, or ignore him, the more determined he is to speak to me. He's very manipulative as well, he knows how to pull the sad boy eyes, and give the hurt tone. The bottom line is when i used to date my ex he'd treat me like crap. He would do things like trick me with warm conversation and empathy into believing he had real feelings for me. Once he got sex no matter what he was like an ice cube. He was too ashamed to introduce me to his family, and in the whole year on and off i was seeing him, he took me out twice and never offered me food in his home at all. Everytime i break up with him first it was the begging. Then the more i realised how much of a jerk he was, the longer i'd cut him out. Last time i cut him out for months, i was ridiculously happy pretending like he didn't exist. He lives opposite me, so if i saw him on the street i wouldn't even say hi, i'd just cross the road. Last week he cornered me in front of my house and started giving me this sob story about how he thought we had a great time he didn't know why i stopped taking his calls. I remember that the time he was talking about, he was a total arse wipe. Called one of his friends to get weed of him when i wanted us to share a private time, wouldn't drop me off home and shortened our time together. When i used to try and make conversation with him he'd turn up the volume of his music, or tell me that he wasn't an intelligent person. Everytime he tries to worm his way back into my life, he pretends to be genuinely interested in how i'm doing what i've been up to? It's all such crap. He's the nicest person on the phone, real friendly and charismatic, but also extremely good at playing the hurt party. How do i cut him out for good. I'm never really happy with him, the only problem is i'm such a sucker for a sob story...he's always got one. How do i cut out the idea of a relationship with him, and get him to accept a distant friendship? I think he'd make a jokes friend but is a crap boyfriend? Any tips?

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Open Question: help please, my lifes better but i still have soo many worries?

my lifes grat now, me & my mam are sorted and everything & now im seeing a counceller. But the thing is, i know my mam has to have a life & cant be alone all her life, but i just dont want a new dad. And people say arww but you have to think of your mam but what abaout me? I mean her new "boyfriend", that shes tryed telling me isnt, is nice & everything. But i dont want him to move in with us, or for us to have to move in with him, Or for me to moove school.. My auntie has told me any time i want i can come down & see her, but i live in newcastle & hr in folkstone, my mam doesnt drive, so how am i supoosed to get their? Because im only 14. Another thing is, were sturrglling with money, and people say yer we all are because of the credit crunch, but no seriously, my mam cant even afford to send us to school, me & my brither have to walk for 45 minutes in the freezing cold just so we can get to school. beacuse we have no dad now, obviously weve lost hs money, whch is about £1000 a week! and thats alot, and im only a teenager, and im woorrying about money, it makes me think, well i cant have kids or nothing because if im still at home, were not guna beable to ook after it. And not IM NOT PREGNANT OR WANTING A BABY, atm but i do in the future & the things is, my brother doesnt apresiate anything at all. my mams strugglng this christmas you can tell.. like when she has her friends around and there talking about christmas & then you hear my mam saying well ive had to take out about 100 loans this christmas. MY MAM HAS HAD TO SELL MY HOUSE & RENT SOMEWERE ELSE. for the money because she couldnt afford it if anything went wrong. but when i say my lifes great i mean im getting on with my mam and stuuf, but all this is still bothering me inside. And another thing is, i get bullyed at school and i think should i tell a teacher but it just makes things worse, no one can tell me it doesnt because it DOES. so i have the problem of school on my hands, which makes me not want to go. So the other day, my mam gets a letter through the door & go's becky its about you. And i was like i havent done anything though? and she went no its about you attendance there thinking about tking me to court. So now tahts bothering me, so im having to go to school jst so my mam dnt get put in prison. please, do you have any advise? :] xx

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Open Question: Typical average boy problem -.-?

I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend have just broken up. We were quite serious and I miss him. Do I go back to him or do I live my life because I am young and you're only young once ?

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Open Question: I need some advive on what to do?

About ten months ago I started working with this women and we connected immediately,she has a boyfriend but she was always letting me know her relationship issues and we started to share our common bond and as time progressed we kept getting closer. Than the sexual innuendos started she would come in to work and make suggestive comments and so would I and a lot of tension started to build, she would do provocative things like drop her blouse or lift her dress and show me her treats and when I would make a move she would just let me know she could not yet because of her boyfriend. So this went on for a few months and I totally respected her wishes always stopping and never forcing myself on her and was never inappropriate in any way. Well five months into this it happened we went to my house she jumped in my pool had a few drinks next thing you know the magic happens, and it has happened a few more times since same story always by her terms when she wanted too and I always respected that. I have showered her with love and kindness since I have know her,she has even told me I am too good to her and she doesnt deserve it. The problem is it is always her way never mine and if I even want sex even though I do what she wants when she wants I never get what I want. Should I keep her or let her go and yes I totally love her with a passion ?

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Open Question: Men, how would you react to your girlfriend telling you she might have a tumor under her brain?

It's a bit complicated, but here goes. My boyfriend is an alcoholic, he has struggled with sobriety for a good part of his adult life. I don't need anyone to make judgements about him for that, so please don't. He's been sober for over a year, and has been having a lot of trouble with his health. The doctors say they are unsure about what way his health will go. We have been together for almost four years now, and though I have become frustrated with him sometimes, I have always gave him support and helped him. This is where the trouble starts. I went to the doctors, due to some of my own health issues. In the end basically I was told there is a possibility that I could have a tumor beneath my brain, and could need brain surgery, maybe even radiation. I'm now waiting to hear the results of my tests. My boyfriend didn't really ask me about the appointment, not until half an hour later after talking about some game thing and how his health was that day. I told him, and he launched into a spew about how it's all nonsense, that I convinced my mother I was sick, that she overreacted (my mom is why i went to get checked out), that my real problem is the fact that I've been unemployed for a while and if I was back in work I wouldn't be thinking about things like this. It didn't seem like he was saying it out of fear, either. To me, he doesn't seem too upset over it all. Is wanting him to say "everything will be okay" too much to ask for? Is he just scared and doesn't want to show it? Guys, how would you react if you were in this situation? Roxanne - I'm fully aware that "maybe" is not "definitely". I'm also fully aware that I could be perfectly fine. I did let him know that it could be nothing at all and that testing was being done. Nothing was sprung on him either, he was aware that this was not just a normal doctors visist. So I think, perhaps, you should not assume things.

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Open Question: WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU MISS A PILL AND CAN'T REMEMBER WHEN YOU MISSED IT?

I have been on Yasmin for about 3 years ago. I take it religiously and not once in 3 years have I missed a pill. My boyfriend and I are in our late 20s and don't use any other method of birth control (aka he doesnt pull out) and we've never had a problem. Today I was supposed to start the first day of the inactive pills. Last night I take what I thought would be my last active pill, and noticed I still had an extra one. I completely freaked out, because I guess I missed a pill (has never happened!!) or I accidently started this pack early without noticing. In any case, I took the active one last night, and an active one this morning, and will start my inactive pills tonight like I usually do. Was this the right thing? Can I still get pregnant if I MAY have forgotten one pill this month. I really do not remember a single day this month where I could have possibly forgotten to take a pill. Help!

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