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Open Question: How can I get help for behavior like this? and more... Open Question: How can I get help for behavior like this?I'm a very private person. I very rarely talk about myself and NEVER talk about my family or my past, unless a specific question is brought up concerning it and even then I only give as much information as is needed. It's not that I have anything to hide, I just don't like knowing that people know a lot about me. I have to spend at least 2 or 3 hours a day alone in my room with my door shut all by myself with the blinds closed or I seriously freak out. If the door isn't shut or the blinds are open I can't concentrate. If I have to be around people all day, whether they're friends, family, whatever, I start out perfectly fine and normal and talkative but without at least 2 or 3 hours to myself, I start getting very paranoid and sort of... I'm not sure how to describe it. I'll get very cranky also. However, as long as I have 2 or 3 hours a day to myself (no less whatsoever) I'm perfectly fine. I'm popular, always have been, love going out and hanging out with friends, have a great boyfriend, but I just NEED my 2 to 3 hours. Also I have major issues with personal space and keeping things how I want them. I never let people in my bedroom, even as a kid/teen I never let my friends in my room because I didn't want them touching stuff. When people come into my room without my permission I get irrationally pissy and will cuss them out because people coming into my room just makes me paranoid. I'm also a stickler about having everything where I put it. There's no pattern or organization, it's just that I put it there and if someone messes with it it just distracts me and throws my room off balance and I have to put it back exactly where it was in order to feel okay again. I'm in college and live in an apartment (so I can have my privacy) and my mom came to visit and started cleaning up my bedroom without me knowing and I totally freaked. I literally unfolded all the clothes she folded and threw them back in the floor exactly where they were, took the empty bottles out of the trash can and put them back in the exact place they were, laid papers down in the floor trying to remember exactly where they were. Another time my boyfriend came over and went in my room (I usually don't let him in) and he picked up a bottle that was lying down on my desk and put it upright and as soon as he did I demanded he put it back down because that was how I had it and got pissed and made him turn it so the label faced my door because that was how it was. I know how crazy it sounds, but I've always been this way, it's just that now that I'm in college and I have a serious boyfriend, it's presenting problems. I've talked to my bf about it and apologized in advance if I ever freak out on him and he's understanding but I still hate it. He wants us to live together next year and I'd love to but I seriously just couldn't with the way I am. What exactly is wrong with me and how can I go about changing? It's like I have OCD but like the opposite of it... Open Question: Sex is too painful, what can I do?I am too "small" for my boyfriend's penis..... what can I do to help?? We are in a long distance relationship so we don't sleep together often.. is this a problem? Open Question: Sustaining an erection?my boyfriend recently confided in me that he has trouble sustaining an erection when he is with a girl but not when he masturbates by himself. It has apparently been an issue for some time now. I originally thought that maybe it was a stress issue but now I'm getting a little concerned that it could be a psychological problem. I found out not too long ago that the mother of someone he dated at some point raped him so I'm concerned it may have caused a psychological issue. I'm trying to be supportive of the issue and my boyfriend has asked me to help him with this but I don't know how. I would really appreciate some feedback. thank you Open Question: Best friend ISSUE, Please help me, I need advice ! Best answer 10 points !?My two current bestfriends Amy and Lisa use to be really good friends a long time ago back in high school. Now they both don't get along with each other and I'm always put in the middle between them and I hate it. So the problem that I'm having is for new years, I'm stuck between the two and have no idea what to do. My one best friend Lisa goes out of state for college so I never get to see her. For new years she told me she might be going up to new york with one her friends and she wasn't sure if he was coming home or not, she never asked me do anything with her for new years so I made plans with my other bestfriend amy who lives here. Me and my bestfriend amy planed to hang out with a group of friends for new years but we had no idea what we were going to do just yet, so really didn't talk about new years plans that much, just that we knew we were going to hang out. As time went on I was on the phone with Lisa, I was telling her for new years that I wanted to go out to a club and whoever wanted to go was welcome to come with me because me and my boyfriend of 3 years decided this new years we would so something with our friends since we both spent it together the last 2. So my friend Lisa said, if you can promise that your boyfriend wont come out new years and we have a girls night out with no drama then I'll stay here. I told her well so far my bf said he wasn't coming and doing his own thing with his friends so I guess so far so good. She said okay. Now just yesterday I told my other bestfriend Amy that I decided we should go to the club, I told her that Lisa said she would go too and if she would have a problem with that, Amy and Lisa hate he each other but Amy was willing to put all drama aside for new years and start fresh with Lisa so we could all go out and have fun. So I said great, I'm so happy you would do that. So I texted Lisa and told her " Do you care If Amy and a few of other friends come out with us to the club for new years", she said "Haha I can't believe you would ask me that, I don't like amy and I'm not being around her for new years so you decide how you want to handle that", I was shocked. So I called her, and we talked on the phone for over 3 hours and she said, "You always spend every holiday with Amy and I never really get to see and for once I would like to spend a Holiday with you", but yet I spent new years with her last year, st patricks day 4th of July and thanksgiving with her this year, and she said "I'm sorry I don't like the bitch and Im not being civil with her", with on the other hand amy is willing to let all the drama go and start fresh but lisa won't do it. Now Im torn between because I already made plans with amy and the rest of my friends for new years before her because she told me she might be going to nyc and she never asked me what I was doing in the first place. If I go out with just her for new years Id be breaking plans with all my other friends and they will be so upset with me. I feel this is so stupid that she just can't get along with amy for night just so we all could have fun when amy was willing to move on and start fresh her ! Now I'm stuck because no matter who I choose to hang out with for new years one of my bestfriends is going to be pissed off and upset with me. I'm scarred if I choose to hang out with amy cause I made plans her in the first place that lisa will just never talk to me again. I have no idea what to do in this situation. Please help me and give all the advice you can I REALLY NEED IT ! Open Question: Which Story Should I Write?Okay. For the first time in a long time, I'm stuck. I can't decide which of three stories to write. The first story is called Hallow's Eve. It's about this teenage girl called Eve Hallows, who has been cursed since she was eight years old. Whenever she touches someone's bare skin, she sees all their darkest deeds and desires. Then the next night, she dreams of their death. And if she ever touches them again- they die for real. But the problem arrives when lonely, isolated Eve meets Angel, the mysterious foster boy from across the street. Soon, Eve and Angel are drawn to each other- and it's more than just friendship. Eve can't help herself. She touches Angel, and sees him drown. Eve has no choice but to tell her boyfriend about her curse. There must be some way to cure it, and they're determined to find out. But the dreams refuse to go away, and every day the compulsion to touch Angel grows stronger... The second book is called A Fractured Fairytale. It's about a girl called Rebecca 'Becca' Alle, who is absolutely obsessed with fairy tales. One day, she takes Toto, her dog, out for a walk, and he falls down a rabbit hole. While trying to coax him out, an extraordinary thing happens: Becca herself falls into the hole. When she wakes up, Becca spends days wandering the large warren before encountering a large white rabbit who walks and talks like a human. Rabbit tells Becca she has fallen into the land of fairy tales. But there's a problem: everything here has gone wrong. Each fairy tale has ended in disaster, most gruesomely. And Rabbit has brought Becca here to fix things up. Until everything is well again, there's no getting home. She doesn't have a choice. But perhaps Becca is not who she thinks she is, and here, nothing is quite is it seems... The third story doesn't have a title yet. It's about a half-vampire, half-human girl called Briar. She is a vampire princess held prisoner and prevented from living a normal life by her cruel father. But she's learned to accept this life. That's all going to change, however, with the arrival of Hunter and Ava, the creeptacular hybrid twins working to bring about the end of the world, and the rise of a new era of blood and violence. A plan Briar's father is firmly behind, and he will gladly destroy his daughter if she opposes him. There seems to be no hope left, until Raven. Raven, the mysterious boy who hides in the shadows, and acts like a human but if decidely... not. Raven and Briar are the only hope left for the world. But they never counted on the one thing that could get in the way. Love. I'm going to write all of these stories one day. I just need to know which one to write first. Open Question: Could I use an ethernet adapter to hook up my new computer to the internet?My family has one computer in the family room. That is one floor above my room. And my boyfriend just gave me his computer and I have it all hooked up but I have one problem. I need internet! I have comcast cable internet and I was thinking if I hooked up an ethernet cable to my computer downstairs, and to an ethernet adapter in the computer upstairs (dont worry I have a cord long enough) would that connect me to the internet? I want to know before I go out and buy an adapter An ethernet adapter is something you simply plug into a usb port and can plug in an ethernet cord to the adapter. I don't know anything about connecting computers. So I just figured if I had my ethernet cord connected to my little cable/internet box, that I could connect to the internet that way. More Recent Articles |
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