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Thursday, December 17, 2009

Open Question: How can I deal with being unattractive? and more...

 
 



Open Question: How can I deal with being unattractive? and more...

Open Question: How can I deal with being unattractive?

For a long time, my skin has made me very sad... I have such severe acne scars that my skin resembles hamburger meat. My reflection in the mirror makes me cringe. I would give anything to have soft, smooth skin. If there were a procedure to cure my face, I would do it, even if there were a fifty percent chance I would not survive. I would never kill myself but I would do anything to get rid of this problem. lately I´ve just been very blue... I would like to have a boyfriend but I think my chances are slim. There are so many girls out there who look perfect... how could I ever compete with them? Even if I found someone, I would feel extremely insecure that some other girl would come along, steal him, and I´d be abandoned and lonely all over again. People tell me that looks don´t count and that there are people out there who will judge you for your inner beauty, but why would ANY man pick an unattractive girl when there are millions of perfect-looking girls out there?

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Open Question: Tell me what you think of this poem.?

I gave this poem to my boyfriend but I want to know what you guys think of it. I Am I am happy to be with you. I wonder if we'll last forever. I hear your voice when your not around. I see the happiness in your blue eyes. I want the world to know. I am happy to be with you. I pretend you're listening to me now. I feel like there's nobody but me and you. I touch my heart to yours. I worry that you'll break my heart. I cry when I miss you to much. I am happy to be with you. I understand when you have your problems. I say I love you with all my heart. I dream of a future life with me and you. I try not to worry to much. I hope we last forever. I am happy to be with you. By:Jessica Y. Please don't steal this.

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Open Question: relationship problem, what should i do?

well basically, me and my boyfriend were together for 7 months. we broke up but i realized it wasn't what i wanted at all so i went and saw him a couple of days later to tell him i wanted him back :) he said that he wanted us to get back, but to take it slow, but we were still broken up. i got in about a boy at clubland and adam (who was my boyfriend lol) said we would never get back together :( but i've been seeing him a lot recently, and whenever i do, we act like we did when we were together basically so obviously he still has feelings for me. but one day when he came to mine we had sex and he told me it didn't mean anything, so i felt used, as you would :( i'm seeing him on christmas eve and was wondering, what should i do if nothing happens? cos if nothing is going to happen i want to try and get over him :( thanks x

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Open Question: **GuY pRoBlEmS pLeAsE hElP**?

things havent been going good with my bf (as of today my ex) his grades werent very good and he couldnt focus at all. things were rough for us. its the longest story ever but ill get to the point. he said he wanted to take a break over christmas break, so he could get his head straight. i cant stop crying; my last serious boyfriend broke up with me and i was a WRECK for weeks. btw, im 15. and please dont say it wasnt true love, we really cared about each other as people and still do. it wasnt "fake" so to speak.

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Open Question: i heard something about one of my best friends (or so i thought) and my boyfriend?

Me and him have been together for over 4 years now and I've known my friend for almost 8 years and i heard something that might have happened between them yesterday. i got a call from a friend and she said that she seen them "messing around" when they went to go pick up my daughter i wanted to stay at friends house that we were all at so i stayed. she wanted to go get something from the store before they came back and he went to his sisters to get our daughter. my friend who told me about what might be going on was with them. i asked her and she said she was even texting Liz asking her why she would do something like that and i guess at first she was denying it but then ended up putting she feels like a horrible person. that does sound like her and i have no idea how to bring it up with him. I've just been avoiding him and only talking to him when i need to and that's about our daughter. we live together. I so want to just leave because this has happened before with two other girls. one he came out and told me and the other i found out from people at school. i love my daughter very much and i do not want to be with her father i want her with me. i only don't know how to leave him and not have any problems. i don't have anywhere to go and i'm not finished with school yet. i am so lost. i just need someones insights please no rude comments from stupid people i just need to know what women would do who have been in this kind of situation or what they would do in this kind of situation. i just heard too that a couple friends of ours broke up cause she messed around with my BF....i have no idea if it's true or not but i plan to find out....please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Open Question: Acne scars are making my life a living hell!! I am desperate for help, what can I do?

I´m at the point where I just can´t bear it any longer. I would never commit suicide, but right now I am so upset that I just wish I were dead. My life is ruined by my looks! I have had acne since I was 10, and I am 30 now and my face is severely scarred. You look at my face and all you see are ugly pits. It looks like chewed up hamburger meat, not just a flaw or two. My face is horribly disfigured. I just got back some photos of myself and I was so upset I cried when I saw them. My mom says that it´s the light, but there are three other girls in the photo and they all look PERFECT. Other girls have cute moles or cute freckles, but out of the three billion men on earth, I am sure that NOT ONE wants to marry a girl with a face full of acne scars? I look like someone cut me with a knife. Blame the poor film quality all day, but that doesn´t explain why the other girls in the photo looked perfect. This has always upset me, but it´s gotten to the point where I´m sad all the time. I shudder every time I look in the mirror. I am so lonely and would like to have a boyfriend, but realistically I know that no one would ever want me. When the the other 99 percent of the population has perfect skin, why would a guy want to be with a girl with an ugly, disfigured face? I went to the dermatologist, but the stupid bitch was NO help... she just said coldly that nothing could be done. This is a very vulnerable situation because it´s breaking my heart... I´ll never know what it´s like to have a man love and cherish me and I´ll never get to be a beautiful bride on my wedding day. No one in the world is ever going to want me because of my ugly, pitty face. I am so upset that I want to die. I would gladly trade this for a life threatening illness as long as it didn´t affect my appearance. I´m not going to kill myself but I have no appetite, can´t eat or sleep and I´m just so sad that I´m scared I´ll die of a broken heart. Please someone, tell me a way I can be pretty. Just like a normal girl. I was completely sane, but this problem is making me crazy. I need a solution about how to get rid of these ugly scars, now, my sanity depends on it. I´ll just die of a broken heart, literally. I want to have soft, smooth skin, just like other girls. Thanks if you can help me.

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Open Question: Family problems... need some QUICK advice!!!?

So last night i was woken up by my mom and sister asking me if i had took my sisters boyfriends box full of valuables; jewlry and such... ALSO searching my room. They asked me, because for the past 2 days me and my mom have been taking turns baby sitting my sisters son. On one of my days my friend was over but never really alone long enough to go searching threw the house and find this box and get it out of sight before i came back. & I didnt touch it, and my mom swears she didnt ether. The thing is , she has a past for these kind of things.. and my sister knows it, well everyone does! & does my friend.. Last week i barrowed my sisters curling iron (with out asking) and didnt get a chance to return it because she was already home by then and i didnt want her knowing i had a key to her appartment.. [ we live right next door to eachother , same apartment building] Than she went threw my room and found it. i told her i honnestly had no intention of stealing it. I was going to give it back. So im sure thats why they really think i had something to do with the missing box of his stuff. I dont know what to do... seems like no ones on my side, but i dont blame them, it looks pretty bad on my part.I need some advice on what to do with this situation. I told my friend to come over today that we need to have a talk, but if this was my mom and shes just putting the blame on us this is really ganna mess up our friendship . Can someone help me out how i would go about handling this??? I just wish they could believe me on this one thing...

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