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Open Question: hopeless romantic! help? and more... Open Question: hopeless romantic! help?Theres a boy (obviously) that i really want to ask out. My friend is taking her boyfriend to the movies and asked me if i wanted to go with ____. There is only one problem. i dont know how to ask him! Im afraid he'll turn me down. I've never asked anyone out before so im really nervous. I guess you could say that ___ and I are friends but we only talk occasionally. How can i ask him out without looking like a complete retard? Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....?I have been dating my current boyfriend for 6 months now. At the beginning of the relationship we had a long conversation on jealousy, and he expressed to me that he's never felt that emotion towards any of his previous girlfriends because he feels that it leads to irrational behaviour and can consequently harm the relationship. I completely agreed with him on that part but he continued to say that he wouldn't even care if his exes slept with other people as long as it made them happy. When he first told me this I thought that it must have just been a way of protecting himself from his previously slutty girlfriends and unhealthy relationships by convincing himself "he didn't care". I thought that as time went by and our realtionship grew stronger, that he might feel differently towards me and maybe show some emotion when it came to feelings of jelousy. But he's repeatedly expressed to me that he doesn't care if i were to see other guys or even if I were to have sexual relations with them because love has nothing to do with lust. I told him that his way of thinking concerend me because I'd certainly have a problem if he were to cheat on me and he assured me that he only wants my happiness and that he'd never do anything to hurt me. I just don't know what to think...I don't find it normal for a person not to care at all about their partner's relations with the opposite sex. I'm not saying for him to be a jealous nutjob but I just feel like his not caring about this kind of stuff is another way of saying that what's between us is not serious. I see it as human nature to be just a bit jealous because of the natural fear of losing someone you really care about...I don't know, is it just me?? What do you think? Open Question: I really need some help from anyone out there =/?Okay my boyfriends b-day is the 29th of dec, its really close to christmas, my one problem is, i don't know if i should get him 2 separate gifts. one for christmas one for his birthday or just one =/ The other problem is we have been dating for a long time. But I really have NO clue what to get him =/ I want it to be something he remembers, I don't want it to be corny, I want it to be something cool like a friend would get him, but shows that i love him too. He likes music, he plays saxaphone and guitar. He also likes hunting and that sort of thing. Any help =/ Open Question: 18, big busted, and sore?I am 18, almost 19, and have been experiencing some breast pain. It didn't bother me at first, but they keep getting more sensitive. I am about 5"3, weigh around 145, and have a cup size of 36DD. I am on Mirena(got it put in a month or two ago). I was wondering if it could be because of growing, being too big, or maybe a side effect of the BC. They seem to be more sore when I do not have a bra on or when I or my boyfriend touch them. I haven't been to the doctor yet for this problem, but I wanted to get a few more opinions on what it could be. I have also been getting a lot of headaches and stomach aches along with this. I have taken a few pregnancy tests(First Response) and have gotten negative tests both times. Does anyone have any suggestions? Open Question: What to do when boyfriend has very large penis?Ok so I have had a few previous partners before my current boyfriend. We just began having sex for the first time a few of days ago and it has been quite uncomfortable. He is wide (which is part of the problem), but then he is also quite long. It is painful when he goes too far and finding a rhythm is difficult. My past partners have been more average and there were never any difficulties with them. We tried using lubricant but that didn't really help a whole lot and I don't think he knows what to do about the pain either. If you could hold the sarcastic responses, that would be very much appreciated. I know I'm not the only one in the world with this problem so some genuine advice would be nice. Thank you! Open Question: Have a boyfriend but like another guy. Help!?I've been with my boyfriend for 11 months. He is a great guy, but sometimes I feel like we aren't intellectual equals. Lately I have been talking a lot with this guy in one of my study groups. He is very interesting and intelligent. We have great conversations. I really am starting to like him, and I think he feels the same way (he knows that I have a boyfriend though). I even miss him when we aren't together! I feel so guilty for feeling this way, but I do. There are some problems in my relationship. I feel like I have way more power than my boyfriend in this relationship and I'm tired of it. I always am the one who decides what to do on our dates. I'm tired of him acting so "girly". I'm tired of him always whining about petty things. I'm tired of having to correct his grammar and correct him on common facts (like how Asia is a continent and not a country). Part of me wants to break up with him. However, part of me thinks that I should just settle and be happy because I found a guy that is reliable, honest, and good hearted. Maybe it is just a case of the grass being greener on the other side... What do you think? Open Question: I don't know what to do anymore?I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year and eleven months now, and around our one year and six months we had a HUGE problem. He got into drugs and changed and left me and hooked up with a girl but then he came back within two weeks and told me he's stopping the drugs for me cause he knew he did wrong. At first I forgave him and I was happy he was changing for me and showing love more, I love him so much, but for some reason I find ways to argue with him about anything that I dislike, like I want him to stop smoking cigarettes but he won't so I argue. Things like that. And I don't know why but before all that happened I was head over heels for him, and now I'm just whatever, like I have no feelings about anything anymore, and I want him so bad, when I get around him though I'm just not as happy as I used to be. I'm starting to trust him again slowly, but I just don't know what to do, I love him so much. I've cried so much today because I've realized I'm not being the same anymore, and I want it that way again. Please help me understand what to do? Open Question: My boyfriend and other girls.....?So my boyfriend of a month,is always hanging out with other girls. All of his friends at his school are girls. I dont know why. Maybe we just doesnt get along with guys.But he always hangs out with them alone,and they always end up hitting on him or telling him they like him. I've put up with it eversince we started dating. Even when one of his "girl friends" kissed him. We've talked about this and how it upsets me. He said he would stop. Actually just last night we talked about it. But today he texted me saying "Babe i need to tell you something" i said okay, he then says "I keep forgetting to tell you,but she just reminded me to tell you...one of my friends wants to make her ex jealous so we are pretending to date. We dont really do anything at all. We just hang out really...If one of the guys friends comes by we will hold hands or hug. But no kissing or anything is that ok?" Then of course i didnt text him back because i was upset so he texts me again saying "babe are you mad? i told her the boundaries and she respects them. And she always feels bad cuz of you.....But i told her you'd be okay....was i wrong" And usually he is a very caring guy,really sensitive and loving,but other girls are always a problem....I dont know what to do anymore i really care about this guy and part of me doesnt want to break up with him but this is becoming to much....Please help me out.): Open Question: what is wrong with my boss fritz and why cant he see what i see?i work with this girl she is a total bitch she does the bare miminal at work is rude to the cutomers steals sits up front on the counter and makes out with her boyfriend and wants me to work for her all the time if i dont she gets mad and post stuff on myspace mean about me name calls and then when i want her to work for me its always no. ive went to the boss twice and somehow i end up the bad person. am i wrong for expecting a professional work place some and some respect and help its a small town no transfer offered no jobs out there and i am a single mother of two kids i need my job. why does he let her get away with it and is there something i can do before i get fed up and run off at the mouth and get fired. she steals also but theres no way to prove it ive seen it with my own eyes the ill pay for this pizza next time you work what kind of work place aloows the employers friends to take home food and pop to pay for later? i know if i would tell him id end up looking bad and he probally wouldnt believe me anyways. what is his problem and is there anything i can do to end up on top instead of fired. why does he allow it anyhow its very unprofessional and i know hes has had at least 8 complaints that i know of about her because they tell me about it later and say they wont order when shes cooking. she is running the place into the ground and hes too dumb or something to see it. its a small town pizza place in antwerp ohio there are no other jobs right now and im already fed up and dont know what else to do. Open Question: Can a man be aroused but still not get an erection?My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while and I told him no sex so we just fool around an feel each other and he gets hard for a minute but goes right back down but what I can tell from his expressions and sounds, he sounds like he Is having sex, so he must be feeling really good. So how can he be so horny but not be hard. He's only 21, could he have erection problems or maybe because it was the first time we actually started feeling on each other and kissing and he felt nervous Open Question: Should i be worried im pregnant??Ok so i asked this question about a month ago, and i have a few other questions, here is my old question i just copied and pasted. Hi. So I have a little problem. I am currently in a long distance relationship. I am on birth control pills and I just started a new pack. Im kinda messy so I had the empty pack on my nightstand. I got my period on the last day of the placebos which was last sunday on nov 1 which was the day i started the new pack. it ended on the following thursday nov, 5 so i went to visit my boyfriend on saturday. stupid me, i picked up the wrong pack... >.< and i didnt realize til it was too late. we had sex that night and when i went to take my pill i realized i picked up the empty pack! yes i know, stupid me. so i had to skip the pill that night. and we did it multiple times so would that make a difference? i came home sunday night and took the pill for that night and skippd the saturday one. is there a possibility of me getting pregnant during that time? i hope this made sense...and i dont think this is relative but just in case there are doctors reading this, i caught a cold on monday. and im still gettiing over it, any suggestions on getting rid of a cough? thanks so much for reading and for your advice. Ok! so now i have a problem.....i am still on birth control pills and i was supposed to get my period saturday because that was the last day of the placebos and i always get it on that day. i didnt stress so i waited til sunday...then monday comes and im still waiting... and now its tuesday! i dont think what i have is my period. i always have a heavy period the first day but today i started to have spotting. i wore a pad because i thought i was getting my period but when i went to change it there is a very light spot of blood. sort of like it would be the last day of my period i am very lightly spotting. so i don't know if that means something??? i'm due for my yearly pap on dec 18 so i dont want to go to the doctor right now but i just need someones opinion. i dont have any other symptoms but i still worry....do you think i should be worried??? Open Question: i have a huge problem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?my sisters ex-boyfriend is in love with me and im not exaggerating... he told me today he loved me... i dont like him... he is a friend and nothing more but he wont leave me alone.... hes turning into a mini stalker and hes obsessed too.... :( what do i do??? Open Question: I think I have depression... what should I say to my parents?There are two things that gave me the idea that I might have depression. One thing is that I read a book about a person close to my age having depression (although his was definitely severe... we only shared a few of the same feelings... enough to make me think I have it). The other thing is that my boyfriend has depression. I haven't asked him about it because I don't want to pry. We have our own little "talk if you need to, but I won't pry" policy, so we talk more about what he's going through than how everything began. A lot of times, if I tell him about how I'm feeling, he says "I feel the same way" because both of us have had problems with people we considered to be our best friends (as in, the best friend ditched us without giving a legitimate reason). Anyway, I'm always tired, even if I get a full night's sleep. Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night or have problems falling asleep. I have a headache 6 out of 7 days (which could easily be something else). I have lost weight (I am not sure how much I've lost now, but between the last two doctor's appointments I've had, I lost 7 pounds, and I should be gaining weight...) A lot of times I come home and I don't want to do anything. Yesterday I just sat on the couch and watched TV from 5 until I went to bed. I am 17 and I'm an only child, so I feel like if I'm not as happy as my parents think I am, I'll be letting them down. Plus, I am not even comfortable with talking to them about my feelings. I am comfortable with telling my boyfriend everything but my suspicions. I know he'll be supportive, but I'm not even sure if this is depression. His mom (who happens to be one of my teachers) actually did ask him a while back if I was depressed, but he never really asked me if I was, he just told me what she said. Anyway, I'm not sure what I should do about this. Any legitimate advice is appreciated. Thanks in advance. Open Question: A quick delima that i have... moving in with my boyfriend(that will not be to long to pay attention to!)?so basically me and my boyfriend are dating, pretty serious, etc... well its time for me to move out of my parents house. what i want to do is split the cost of an apartment with 4 people. my bestfriend and her boyfriend and me and my boyfriend one problem. he tell me that he has this aprentice job working, and since he has no job and needs to get one im not gonna stand in his way, i support that completely. but the plan was he would move in with everyone, but if he does this job, it lasts for a year, and he wants me to move to his town with him... this worries me for 3 reasons. 1) if i go there, i lose my job, and if his job doesn't pay, ill be stuck there. cause there will be no way to go anywhere. 2) he wanted to move to oregon, and i told him no, but i know if i give into this, he will try to make me go anywhere cause i wont have a choice. 3) my friend tells me those jobs are for working there, so he would be wasting his time to apretice and move. dont get the wrong idea about him hes a nice careing sweet guy, just a bit lazy... i told him i may move... but im not sure. what should i do? 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