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Open Question: His secret came out...now I don't know how to trust him.? and more... Open Question: His secret came out...now I don't know how to trust him.?my guy told me that nearly a month ago, he gave a lot of money to a "homeless woman" and her kid and never told me because he he knew it would upset me. Now I'm even MORE upset because he hid it from me. My heart hurts and I don't want to ever let him in again - and I don't even consider him my boyfriend because in a relationship, you are supposed to tell the person what is going on. This wasn't a small thing, which he thinks it is. I am furious and can't ever trust that he is telling me everything. Besides breaking up with him, I am vowing to keep things from him from now on, because I was always upfront with him and what ELSE will he not tell me in the future. He hides things that will possibly "upset" me, so now I am closing myself to him, but it still hurts that the person I thought was my partner, betrayed me... And it's nice of him to help someone, but it was another woman - a STRANGER - when him and I were having very bad problems and not seeing each other. Open Question: Which sentences are correct?1) (a) The problem with the four songs were that they were too much alike to be played one right after the other. (b) The problem with the four songs was that they were too much alike to be played one right after the other. 2) (a) Every one of my boyfriends has been athletic. (b) Every one of my boyfriends have been athletic. 3) (a) After each and every set-up comes the punch line. (b) After each and every set-up come the punch line. 4) (a) My cat, along with a good many other cats in the neighborhood, hunts birds. (b) My cat, along with a good many other cats in the neighborhood, hunt birds. Open Question: Christmas gifts for him...?So, my boyfriend has had shoulder problems since he was in high school. Everynow and then he asks me to massage them for him, which I am happy to do, but I am very sure he would enjoy it more if it was a professional massage. So I was thinking of getting him an hour long deep tissue massage. Also, he works in banking, so he has to wear a tie to work everyday, which i think is so SEXY. He has a million ties, but I was thinking of buying him one. We have the same taste, so I thought it would be cute if he wore something that I picked out, something that came from me. Is that too cheesy?? Open Question: why cant he choose with who?Me and my ex boyfriend broke up months ago. and a week after we broke up he was dating another girl way younger. see the thing is we have been on and off for about 7 years. even after we broke up he took this girl he barely met and went to cancun. for months he has been telling me he doesnt want to loose me yet he has not left this girl and still sees her ever ever so often ( not as much as before) but the thing is i tell him to leave her and he says as soon as our problems are worked out! I know what to do but the thing is that i always think of the what if's....what if there is a possibility he will change...what if things dont change. i try and think of the good and bad but cant seem to move with my decision. Can someone please help me. sometimes being brutelly honest helps. Open Question: I am so freaking jelous that it is driving me nuts!?me and my boyfriend have been together a little over a year and i know that he is the one. he is the one i lost my virginity too and got pregnant and had a misscariage with. i know that we are always going to be together. we already are talking about marriage and moving in together when we go to college and he already knows when he is proposing and everything. i know he will never cheat on me but I always feel so insecure he is a senior in high school now and i'm graduated so i'm constantly worring about what goes on at school. i mean he is a great guy and everyone is friends with him and i just feel so obsessed like i try not to be but he is the best thing that has ever happened to me and i never want to loose him. i get jelous all the time and constanly worry about what he is doing if he dosen't text me back. and its driving me crazy i always get so upset. i feel like my world revolves around him and i'm constantly worring about him and loosing him and i just dont know what to do. We never fight or anything or had any problems with unloyalty so i dont know why i worry so much! Open Question: Ex boyfriend problem?me and my ex boyfriend broke up at the beginning of october. 2weeks after we broke up we started talking to each other (as friends) but on halloween we kissed each other and ever since then we have been flirting and the the other day we made out on da bus but we are still broken up even though his friends always say "wheres your girl at" or "wheres your man at" im just so confused right now cuz idk if we r getting back 2gether or r we just gonna keep doing this kissing stuff. Open Question: Little niggly things i find annoying about my boyfriend?I'll just give a few examples on top of my head: when i'm upset and on the phone with him he'd say something like "do you want me to come over? i want to beside right now.. bla bla bla" but it's late and night and i very doubt he'd do that, so why say it, it just annoys me when he says nice things things but don't mean it. i don't like it when he gets drunk with his friends around me, because of one past experience. so when he was talking about planning a piss up with his friend i wasn't remotedly interested and he reckons i don't want him to go so he was like " i won't go if you don't want me to.." well i don't mind him going (actually i don't know), i just don't want to be hearing things about him getting drunk, so if he's not like that when he's around me i don't really mind...but i was annoyed that he wasn't going "because i didn't want him to"...but then i think i'd be annoyed if he DID go...which is totally unfair on him cos either way i'm annoyed so he can't get the right side of me. He's spending over £20 on his sister for christmas... i don't know what he got me yet but on my birthday like a few weeks ago he gave me a photoframe with a photo of me and him and he wrote a poem beside it... it was a really sweet present and i loved it loads...but somehow i got jealous that he hardly spent as much on my present.. i mean, am i not as important... more importantly...why am i annoyed and "jealous" over his sister??!! i'm just wondering if anyone has ever felt like this. i don't know whether i'm annoyed with him or myself anymore. is it my problem? what shall i do?! Open Question: What should I do about this douche bag of a guy?* = Name changed. Okay, so this douche bag named *Marshall broke up with my best friend *Kylie. (She really is my best friend, NOT me.) He broke up with her because she became friends with her ex-boyfriend. A few days later Marshall and Kylie got back together, but Kylie broke up with him today because he was being a jerk and he broke her heart. So now Marshall is calling Kylie a hoe and saying she gave guys bl0w jobs, when she never did. Kylie told the vice principal, the guidance consular and the social worker at our school. She can't tell her parents because they don't allow them to date. PROBLEM IS: Marshall said that he is going to ask ME out. I of course am going to say no but I want to crush him for hurting my best friend like this. How should I say no in the most painful way? I know it sounds mean. I can't hurt him physically either :)! - OCD. Open Question: Friend/boyfriend problem?Well I'm 14yr old girl and my friend is a 16 yr old guy. we have a thing for each other and we both know it, we're both thinking about dating and I think it will eventually happen....but my mother and father has a problem with him.... he really is a good kid, I'm not one of those naive teenagers who always wants to be right..but I do know he's changed a lot in the past year.. my mother told things about him to my dad before I was even friends with him because she works with his grandmother and hears stories about him and his problems. he has AD-HD and takes medication for it now but before, he used to get in a lottt of fights when he was 15 and at one point got into drinking, which he doesnt do anymore.. but because of the fights he got kicked out of school (until next year) and I feel so bad for him because people deffinetly judge him on his past, anyways... so my mom told my father all of this before me and him ever even knew each other but my father knows who his is and what he did. my dad knows we r friends now but he said "I've heard things from his grandmother and I know he's a problem child" but my mom and dad dooo both know that being kicked out of school straightened him up and the meds are helping him, and he's better off now.. a cool calm collected character lol he's getting better and better but my parents tend to judge people of their past (and always have, not just people I am involved with) and I can see why at times, im their daughter, that makes perfect sense to me.. but what should I do? and if we dooo end up dating, what should I say to my parents? he really is a good kid, and they know he has changed, but once they have an oppinon of someone, they tend to stick to it.. help please?? Open Question: I'm 19 and i'm stressed the eff out about my boyfriend.?Okay so we have been together for 4 years, love each other completely and all that jazz.However ,we both know he has an addiction to chicks.He likes the game of getting them to like him by minor flirty things and he told me that he hates himself and thinks hes an as$hole because he loves me more than anything and he would die if he couldn't be with me.But he says that in his mind he would like to have me and 1 or 2 more girls to be in sort of a relationship with but sort of have me as his main girl cause he said that the other girls would be for like more of a friend and flirty sexual relations with but the real love and what not could only be with me.I told him that's fine if he wants that and there's nothing wrong with that but I don't want that for me and my life period.I said I'm not going to try and change you or anything about your life but it will become a problem if he trys to change mine.Then we kinda talked some more and he came to the conclusion that he thinks it just might be something he made up in his mind and its not really significant at all. 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