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Open Question: help, really good girl, with a really bad boy... how do i help him out? and more... Open Question: help, really good girl, with a really bad boy... how do i help him out?I have a problem, I am a high school student, with really great grades, interested in becoming a doctor, and I am not one to get into trouble. BUT, my boyfriend on the other hand has been getting into trouble lately. He is an average student, good family, but has anger problems. Today he got into trouble with a teacher, because he physically harmed him. That is NOT like him, and the stress he is adding to my life in unbelievable. What can I do to steer him away from this bad path he is going down? Open Question: boyfriend problems. dont know what 2 do.?i get upset alot because my boyfriend never lets me look at his phone. he will tickle me and hit me (playfully) so i cant look at his texts or pictures. and ocasionally when i do get his phone away from him when hes not looking he has texts either from girls who like him or used to like him. texts from irls sayin "i like you." or once from his ex was "who was ur best girlfriend?" and he said me then she asked who was ur hottest gf? and hes like uhmmmm.... ashley (my name) i guess. then last time we were hanging out i said i hate it when he doesnt let me look at his phone because i feel like hes hiding something from me so he let me look at it and he pictures saved on there of his ex, the same one that asked him those questions, and was also the longest relationship he ever had which is intimidating to me and she had sent them that day. i know because it had the date on the bottom. but anyways i i just deleted them and hes like oh she just sent those to show me what pictures she was gunna send to this guy that liked her. and i just tried to forget about it and pretended i just didnt care. well 2day he was at my house and i noticed he didnt have his phone and i just asked him oh wheres ur phone? and he said he left it in the car and i belived him. then when he was getting ready to leave he put on his jacket and the phone fell out then i remembered i saw him texting when he first walked in. and i take the phone and he grabs it from me and shoves it in his pocket real quick and tired to give me a kiss goodbye. and i pushed him away and asked why he lied to my face like that asn said he didnt have it when he did and he just got all mad and stormed out of the house. later i was talking to hm about it and he said he was sorry and he"honestly had no idea why he hid it from me." then later he said he hid didnt want me 2 look at his texts because he got in a fight with his mom over text and he didnt want anyone to know about it? Open Question: Can I decrease my sex drive?My boyfriend isn't the biggest sex fanatic. He enjoys it as much as any other man, he just doesn't have the sex drive I do. Some may say a nympho shouldn't be with a man like him but love is love so I'm looking to change myself. Its becoming a problem in our relationship and everyone knows. I feel inadequate. Any ideas? Open Question: My boyfriend is addicted to weed, what should I do?I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He wasn't always addicted to weed. He didn't even smoke when I met him, but he started and just kept smoking. Now it's to the point that he's in a pissed off mood unless he has it. People say weed isn't addicting, but he's psychologically addicted to it. He uses it as an outlet to be calm. It's like he can't be a nice person with out it anymore. I bought him a video game for his birthday on the 6th and he took it back and bought a $20 bag of weed with it yesterday. He's already out now. And he made me pay for the gas to get to the store so he didn't have to spend any of his $20. I knew he was taking his game back, but I just thought he didn't like it and was getting another. Wrong. He spends $35-$50 out of his paycheck each week on weed and during the week, when he's out, bums money off my dad and then owes him how ever much he borrows. So that's really $55-$70 on weed a week.. And he usually only makes $!50 paychecks. (He works for my dad making $9 an hour but they are plumbers and do heating and air conditioning, so work varies.) Is there a way to fix this or should I just end it? We have a 4 month old son together and he said he would quit and he slowed down a lot when I was pregnant, but now seems like it's worse then ever. He doesn't smoke around our baby and he rarely helps me out, anyways. I'm sick of him spending all his money on it, his attitudes towards me when he's not high and him running out 3-4 times a week to get it using my car. Is there maybe something that can give him the same affect? I think he might be bi-polar and I think he needs medication, but is using weed to solve the problem. Open Question: What's wrong with me? Am I depressed.. please help :(?I've been thinking a lot lately.. perhaps it's all in my head, but I think I really don't feel well mentally. This all sounds so angst and so melodramatic, so I apologize for that. If stuff like this bugs you, then I understand. It kinda bugs me too. So yeah, sorry for being such an emo.. I end up bursting into tears almost every day about something stupid. I'm always alone in my house because my dad is always with his girlfriend and no one around my area really wants to bother with me. I try my best to be cheerful and optimistic, and I try so hard to be pleasant company to other people. I want to make friends, I want to get out there! But they all make fun of me; No matter where I go, no matter what I do, they all make fun of me. They all think I'm weird and freaky. They say it straight to my face. I can't stand it.. I haven't seen my mum in ages, and she was never that proud of me as a daughter. She wanted a girly daughter, but instead she got me. I'm not really into girly things. She still says she loves me, but she goes insane a lot of the time. She has a drinking problem and tends to get abusive to me and my dad and causes a huge scene. Sometimes she calls the police, telling lies about how my dad's a pedo and abuses me. So, I decided to stop having contact with her, and I tried to get on with my life. But.. I want a motherly figure in my life. I just don't know what to do. If I was to contact her again.. would all the bad things happen again? Over the phone she said she was okay now.. but I'm still not sure. For a period of my life, I refused to go to school. I hated the place. I hated how they forced me to go against my will, even though they knew I was so miserable there. Because of this, I was soon diagnosed with serious anxiety issues and was put into a kind of teenage asylum for the time being. While I was in there, I felt like they didn't actually care about my wellbeing. All the time, they'll just tell me "You're in here so we can get you back into school." and "You HAVE to go to school, it's the law." They never ever said they wanted to help me and my anxiety problems. They just made me feel like they only wanted me in school. It didn't matter if I was depressed and angry. Just as long as I was in school, obeying the law. Every guy I've ever liked has never had feelings for me back. I always end up with them turning out to be an idiot or an asshole. It's a constant chain of heartbreaks and I'm so sick of it. I really want a boyfriend.. I try my hardest to get out there but no one lets me into their group. There's probably something wrong with me or something. I feel like I'm repulsive, hideous, annoying and a burden on everyone. I don't cut myself. I try hard to NOT go down that route. But I do have suicidal thoughts that sneak up on me. Lately, they've been sneaking up on me a lot now. I keep saying to myself "If I end up living alone, I'm killing myself. I can't take it. I really don't want to be alone.." It's true, I don't want to be alone. I just can't stand that thought any longer. I'm lonely as it is. Everyone I've ever cared about has turned their back on me, apart from my dad. He's the only thing I stay alive for these days. I don't want to upset my dad, or make him upset or anything.. he just doesn't deserve it. That being said, he has a new girlfriend now. He leaves me alone for weekends now, so he can go and see her and her kids. I'm always alone in this house now, and I can't stand it.. I'm now back in school, and I tend to burst into tears all the time. People at school tell me I'm attention seeking, but I really hate attention seeking. I just cry, and I can't help it. I really can't, I'm telling the truth. People are always all "You just need someone to push you on." or "Pull yourself together you can't cry at everything you stupid girl." They're probably right, I do need a push forward. But everytime someone talks to me in that tone I just feel more and more helpless. I wish I was never born.. it's so horrible of me to be depressed like this. I have it so good compared to many people. Many people don't have a home, or money, or food or anything like that. I'm so lucky to be living in an MEDC.. but I still feel so sad. I'm so ungrateful.. I wish I could swap my life with one of those poor starving people in africa. They'll probably do better things with my life then what I do.. I've tried talking about this to my dad and a few teachers at school. They all think I'm fine, and it's all hormonal. But.. I don't know.. I'm still a bit convinced something's not quite right. I mean, if I was to fail school I would honestly not give two shits. I have no hope for going far in the world. I feel unintelligent, unattractive and such a waste of space. Perhaps I am just attention seeking.. I mean, I think about suicide, but I'm too much of a wuss to do something like that. I just don't want to ruin my dads life by doing such a selfish act.. Okay, I'll shut Open Question: Can you give me the title to this book?I remember reading this book a long time ago. I'm not sure if the story took place in England or not. It's kind of like the books by Louise Rennison the young adult British writter. The story was about a girl and her family. The girl was 15 or 16. She had a sister that got pregnant by her boyfriend. Her mom thought that she was too young to be grandma so she ran away to... i forgot. Anyway, she met a younger guy and stuff and she was dating him. The dad was taking it kind of hard. The girl was alo going through some problems because her boyfriend wanted to have sex with her but she didn't know if she should. The sister told her yes that she was of age. They were going to do it in the house when her sister walks in saying that her water broke. That's all I remember. Please help! Open Question: i dont get it ex problems?my ex will text me sometimes and tell me she misses me. the other day she texted me and was like hey how are you and i was like good and then she was like we never talk im like yeah i know but what i dont get is why is she caring? she has a boyfriend and whenever we talk like text sometimes she usually flirts and i really dont flirt back because i really dont want to start falling for her again....and to get hurt. Open Question: boyfriend problems what to do?my boyfriend is a thug gangsta watever yu wanna call him. hes in the bloods and is in nd out of lock up. he has been out of lock up since august. Neways we live in 2 different states im in ma nd he is in jersey. we have been togtherr for over a year nd i love him very much. Problem is the reason i fell in love with him is also the reason im having trouble fighting my feelings to break up with him. What do i do?? i dont wanna break up with him bc i luv him very much but he doesnt exactly make it easy to stay with him. HELP PLEZ! Open Question: What will Children and Youth do?Last Sunday, 11/28/09, my Dad picked me up and we got into a huge fight. Long story short, he hit me and my head bounced off of the car window. Then we got into the house and he cornered me into my room and choked me up against the wall. He then went after me in the living room, and my Aunt & Uncle (whom are my legal guardians since my Dad just got out of the halfway house in April) had to get him away from me. We then agreed that I'd leave. I left Wednesday, 12/2/09 and am currently staying with an ex-boyfriends older brother. It's a home. There's food, water, etc. I shower daily and am still going to school. I'm 16 years old - 17 in June, currently unemployed yet I have interviews this week, and I've been sent money to help out. Mark (my ex boyfriend's older brother) let me stay here as long as I clean the house, do the laundry (which I offered to do), etc. We then agreed that I'd get a job and help out with rent. The environment is extremely controlled, and I feel safe. He's 25, so I'm sure society sees it as a problem, but it's whatever. I talked to the police yesterday. They told me they can't do anything because technically I'm not a runaway since I've attended school regularly. They said they can't make me go home, etc. Today I had a "meeting" with my Aunt, Assistant Principal and Guidance Counselor. We couldn't come to an agreement of me going home because of the fact I was emotionally abused (they'd tell me I won't graduate highschool, I'm a bum, I ruin the family, etc.) and my Dad ACTUALLY put his hands on me for the first time in my life. So, needless to say, they let me go back to class. I then returned to my Guidance Counselor and she called Children & Youth. She reported the abuse my Dad caused, and explained to them my living situation. They said they'd come see me within 24 hours. They didn't show up at the house. I willingly gave them the address and the name of the person I'm with because we have nothing to hide. He's just an extremely good person trying to help me out. So, I take it... if where I'm staying imposed a major threat, they would have come to the house by now? My MAIN question is if Children & Youth show up at school tomorrow, can they just take me from there and put me in placement or a group home? Or do you think I have a fair shot at them actually allowing me to stay where I am? I can't return home because I'm afraid of my Dad and I don't deserve the things that have been said to me in that house. It's just too much. I've been honest with everything and I understand people's concern for I'm 16 and living with a 25 year old, but if I've been going to school every day, my grades are amazing, and I'm clean & healthy, do you think they'd give a fair chance at seeing this is a GREAT opportunity for me? My main concern is they're going to rip me right out of school and place me somewhere. Open Question: I am a conserned brother/guardian! HELLPPP!?well lets start of by telling you that i have a big problem. I have a 16 year old little sister. I am her guardian right now and she has a boyfriend i don't like at at. She is now pregnant and I am so furious! Specially since her boyfriend is 19! 3 years apart. Is there anything i can do to take action? or is the age difference not to big to do anything about it? Open Question: HELP!!! what am i supposed to do.. abortion is not an option..?my boyfriend and i have been together for a year. everything was great for about 10 months. but now my feelings have completely changed. we started off as great friends and we made the mistake of becoming lovers. hes really in love with me but i dont feel the same. im not IN love. and i think ive been lying to myself and him for a long time. the problem is that i just found out that im pregnant with his baby and i dont know what to do. do i break up with him now when i need him most or do i wait until after i have the baby.? Open Question: I'm in a tough situation, what should I do?I have been going out with my boyfriend for over two and a half years. I love him, but we have been fighting a lottttt lately. We were fighting a bunch this weekend and I started talking to one of my sort of friends that I kind of have liked off and on. I get really excited when I'm talking to him and he makes me smile. He tells me sweet things, and I know that he likes me. But, he also has a girlfriend. They have also been having problems. My boyfriend has changed a little recently and has started being nicer. I don't know what to do. Do I just like this other guy because it is something new? Or do I really like him? Do I get excited to talk to him because the flame in my other relationship has "burned out"? What should I do? And if I choose my boyfriend how do I kindly tell the other guy that we can't keep talking like that anymore? Have any of you been in this situation? What were the results? Okay I'm talking about two different guys. my boyfriend and one of my guy friends the guy friend has the girlfriend and is the one that makes me excited when i talk to him and is sweet Open Question: I think i'm readyyyyyyyyyyyyyy... 10 points best answerrrr?!?Ok this is the second time i asked this but my last one got *ucked up. So, This is gonna sound really silly.. But, Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little more then a year.. And I think I'm ready to have sex with him. I know he is. But the only problem is that I'm only 14. I'm in high school though and most of the people at my school have lost their virginity. You got to loose it sometime eh?? : ) But anywayss.. It would be special because we would loose our virginity to each other. My question iss.. What was the age you first had sex and what do you think you do in my situationn? 10 Points For Best Answer.. Any other advice and I'll love you forever ( : More Recent Articles |
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