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Open Question: HELP ME!!!! ((boyfriend problem)) HELP!!!!!? and more... Open Question: HELP ME!!!! ((boyfriend problem)) HELP!!!!!?ok look .. i have a bf(we'll call him justin) .... justin is out of town for 6 months or more for his studies .... we do text eachother and talk over the phone cuz its not possible for us to meet bcuz of the distances .... i love him a lot and he loves me a lot too but hes kinda boring ... he VERY SLOW and doesnt know what to do and where to take me ....... i like his company but hes pretty boring and its not like i never gave him time .... we have been dating for like 9 months ... we went to the movies a couple a times but he was just holding my hand and when i told him that i would like to drink something he got "2" cups (1 for him and 1 for me) .... he didnt even try to make any "moves" during the whole movie ..... this has happend for like every movie we went to watch .... and he aint a good kisser ..... vry badkisser ..... he aint really good looking too ..... i do like him but hes just sooooo ... sooooo .... i dunno ..... i tried talking t him about hm being pretty slow at moves but he just giggled a bit and asked do you wanna break up then(i didnt understnd if he was still joking) .... he REALLLLy loves me and i too but sometmes its just so boring sittin or bein with him waiting for him to make a move ........ i cant break up .... so please no answers on breaking up with him ..... plz help me Open Question: Should I tell my current partner about all the problems I had in a previous marriage?I've been divorced for over 10 years now and have been in a relationship now for over 4 years with my boyfriend. We have a very good relationship, but at times it seems as if he's curious about what lead to my divorce over 10 years ago. I don't believe the problems in my previous relationship should have any impact on the one I have now. Of course I've shared with him some of the problems we've had that ultimately lead to the break up. Both my ex and me have moved on in our lives so is it really necessary to bring up the past? Open Question: for guys to answer in particular...best guy friend problems? but girls are fine too :]?so im starting to really like my best guy friend and i really care about him. he also seems to kinda like me cus he always acts kinda boyfriend-y towards me. everyone that sees us together always thinks that we are about to become a couple and im always getting comments about how its so cute that he cares so much for me. i can see how people would think he likes me and by the way he acts towards me, i really feel like it too. but at the same time, he told me who he likes. so its reallyyy confusing and kinda depressing cus i dont know whats going on :[ help me! also, at times, it seems as though he knows i like him because hes asks kinda weird questions which would make me spit it out if i did like him. and he doesnt just care for me like regular..its like almost insane caring....gahhhh. so confusing :[ Open Question: My husbands family/brother?to make a long story short...my husbands father died when he was 16. My husband has 2 younger brothers. when my husbands father died (suicide..so they say, and some suspect my husbands mother killed him) his mother up and moved to florida without bringing my husband with her, so she left him behind. Originally he was homeless at 16 for 3 months until family members got wind and took him in. Years later (now) my husbands mother and brothers still live in florida. My husband joined the military shortly after high school and ever since he joined 5 years ago he had wanted to help his brothers "make it." He has always felt guilt about not being there for them not only physically but emotionally as well since the 3 moved to florida (even though it is not my husbands fault) His middle brother has been in and out of jail for long periods of time almost immediatly when he moved to florida and his whole teenage years were basically lived out serving time for things from drug posession to assualt to theft. When my husband finally thought he was in the position to take care and guide his youngest brother, (steve) he was already 17 years old. I never liked the idea of having him live with us but none the less I felt as though I had to do it for my husband. Steve lived with us for a total of a year. Initially when he came to live with us it was almost as if it was perfect timing because just 2 weeks after he got to our place, his mother ended up homeless. She broke up with her boyfriend and he left her with nothing. She is one of those women (married 3 times, numerous live ins, and the men always take precedence even over her children). My husband and I made it very clear to steve that if he was to live with us there are a set of rules he needs to abide by, and goals he needs to reach. This is something he has never had to deal with. The main rules were he find a job, he gets enrolled and completes his GED, he keeps a job, he let us know what hes doing at all times he is out and he pay 150 in rent which includes food and everything else. He got his GED which was GREAT. He did not KEEP the job he had. Apparently his manager was always on him and one day when she repremanded him for chewing gum, he just walked out and quit. He promised us he would get another job, but for 4 months he did nto get anything. He thought it was ok not to work bc he was getting Social security from his fathers death. The military moved us to kentucky and we were lucky enough to still live in a prosperous area where he would be able to get a job. When we got to kentucky the very next day we were there he got up and went searching for jobs. He apparently did this for about 2 weeks and then he decided he wanted to try getting into the military. We started bringing him to all of his appointments with his recruiter and he was way excited to be making this step. He took the ASVAB and failed it. He took it again and failed it. I got on the phone with my mom who works side by side with a General and when my mom talked to the general about steves situation the General was going to get steve into the military. There was no doubt about it..... Before I go on....a few events that when on while steve was living with us. 1. Steve is very quiet and has almost no communication skills. So living with him was almost like living with a wall. 2. His problem solving skills are also seriously lacking. Because he does not talk, he does not socialize and he does not know how to work out problems. 3. I on more than one occasion found a liqour bottle in his closet. 4. One night when my husband was away training, steve and I were whatching american idol and from the corner of my eye I saw him masturbating. YES that is correct, I saw him MASTERBATING. I was so shocked and scared, I went to my bedroom and locked the door and did not come out until I got on the phone with my husband. 5. The very next night I was watching american idol again and AGAIN, I saw him masterbating under a blanket he had over him. I was so so furious I yelled at him and told him if he thinks I am blind and stupid he should go in the other room and do that. Then I asked him if he had a problem down there. No answer back. 6. when we moved to KY and he was "out job searching" I came across piles of applications not filled out. 7. He stayed in his room so often and slept until 2 or 3 on most days despite me telling him to get his butt up. 8. I had to get something out of the closet in his room one day and found out that he never even came out of his room to pee because he was peeing in coke bottles and leaving them in my closet!!! Obviously I told him that was completely unacceptable. But regardless of that, I found this happening AGAIN. The bathroom was literally next to his room, why couldnt he get up to pee?! 9. That xmas, bc he had never had a nice xmas I took out a loan to give him a nice xmas when we were struggling to keep our heads above other bills...I did not want him to is there anything you think i could have doen to help him more or differently?? Also what is your opinion on his behavio while living with us and other wise Open Question: Guy problem!!Please help!!?Why is it that guys are jerks.I am told that im pretty and hot!I have been called everything!And i am so nice and smart!I always get played and screwed over!I dont get it?.Am doing wrong?...i dont trust guys but i really want a boyfriend Open Question: Is it me being paranoid, or is my boyfriend thinking of breaking up? +10 best answer, please help!?I feel so stupid for asking this, but It's been on my mind so much lately! He has told me that he was always too shy to break up with his previous girlfriend last year, and didn't want to be "mean". Whenever spend time with each other now, he seems to hold me much more than usual, but seems to kiss me much less. Like the other day, he kept breaking the kiss just to tell me pointless stuff.. Which he's never done before. Also, we were talking about him doing something and he said "Well I wait til you're gone, so it's not like i spend less time with you or anything, I don't see what the problem as", as if I can't live without him... I'm not even the sort of person to be clingy! Plus, I never even said anything along the lines of I don't want him leaving! And when I complimented him, by saying "to me, you'll always look good" all he had to say was "I know, and thankyou", when usually he'd have been happy by it... We've been going out for three + months now, so I'm not sure if he feels more comfortable in the relationship, or I'm just being VERY paranoid. So what are the signs that a shy guy wants to break up? Oh, and he isn't exactly complimenting me as much as he used to? Open Question: Are these drumsticks legit?http://store.drumbum.com/skuSTK-71.html My boyfriend is reallllyyyy into drumming and I want to get him these drumsticks for christmas. My only problem is that I don't know a whole lot about drumming/drum sticks so I'm not sure if these would be good for him. If there are any drummers out there who could check out these sticks and let me know if they're good quality or not? Thank you!! =D Open Question: Is it a date or not?So, I have this friend that i talk from the summer. We hung out probably twice or somethin together, but she had a boyfriend at that time. now, im pretty sure she doesnt. and she asked me why we didnt hang out thanksgiving break?....so one day, i asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime with me, go somewhere?...and she said sure. my problem is I dont know if she thinks if its a date or not?...what do you guys think? did it sound like i was asking her out? Open Question: Do you think she likes me?Ok, I'm usually a pretty confident person or at least around my friends. But when I'm around this girl, I just want to be with her, make her laugh, make her smile. And I just am not confident when it comes to her. I think it might have something to do with the age difference. I'm a freshmen and she is a junior so it is a little intimidating but I think I've gotten over that whole part. I have one class with her and I also have lunch with her although I don't sit with her or even close. Any way, she waves and smiles at me alot and we've begun to hug. I also talk to her alot (like an hour a day). And then when I walk up to her after lunch today, I can't help but notice that her friend is keep on looking at me. This might just be alot of coincidenses and she just likes me as a friend but I don't want that to be it... The big problem is that she either just broke up with her boyfriend or she is still with him... Idk but I heard that they broke up and when she walks with him in the halls she still waves and smiles at me. Please help, I know this sounds wierd but even though I don't know her that well, I love her personality and her. She is beautiful and I think she is just a little out of my league, I mean I've been told that I'm handsome, cute, and hot before by girls but Idk. I'm not a jerk or anything, I care about her. So Idk if that matters, I just need help with her. Should I make a move or wait and what should I do? Thank you so much... Open Question: Should I or I shouldnt?So heres my problem. I am temporarily not living with my fiance because we are trying to get on our feet and get our own place to live. He got laid off a few months ago so that kinda slowed us down and left us with the only option at the time to move in with his mother. The whole time I lived there was a nightmare for me. She complained about everything that my fiance(her son) did and she also said some disturbing things to me. For instance, she would call us lazy because we didn't wash the dirty dishes that she and her daughter(my fiances little sister) created. She said that my fiance(her son) was trifling because he didn't put his shower towels where she wanted them when he was done showering in the bathroom. She always looking for my fiance to play easter bunny, santa clause, birthday boy with his little sister (and every other time they need money for something) which is really frustrating because we are trying to get a place of our own and save for a decent wedding.And whats crazy is that his little sister has a mother and a father who both get some sort of income. More than what my fiance is getting I know for sure.Lucky we don't have any kids yet. And while I was living there she she has mentioned this to me on three different occasions:"I don't now what y'all are going to do, but at the 1st of the month y'all are gonna have to leave. I want my place to myself." And the only reason she wanted the place to herself is because she wanted her boyfriend to come back and live with her. And she was the one who insisted that we come live with her to help her out with the bills. Now that she was getting back with her boyfriend she wanted us out. Well now Im back in Nevada living with my sisters because she couldn't wait till January for us to leave. Well now the table has turned. The guy she thought was going to move in with her is no longer in a relationship with her. So now that she sees me and my fiance getting an apartment she wants to get a two bedroom so she can stay with us. But she didn't want us there in her apartment in the first place. So Im asking, should I just suck it up and say ok or should I just go with how I really feel and say no way? I mean she also has bad habits that Im not too comfortable with. She smokes cigarettes and weed and drinks on a daily basis, she likes to open every window up in the house so everybody outside can see whats going on inside(and she close to being fully blind!) She has a loud voice which is annoying to me and I don't like the people that she hangs around because their all weird and have the same habits as her. Im suppose to be going to school online and I don't want this to be my environment for school. So should I or I shouldn't? Please give some advice if you can. Thank you for listening. Open Question: I'm so sick of feeling this way...? (long, but need good answers)?I feel like there is no turning point for me. Ever road just leads in the same direction, or I'm just walking in circles. I don't know how to stop loving my ex boyfriend. The relationship was dysfunctional at it's best. I hold onto every special little moment and dwell on it like our relationship was somehow 'perfect' when I know it wasn't. I've tried and failed on many occasions to let him go. But I always seem to go running back. I can go weeks without missing him after we break up. But then one day, I'll just long for him all over again and I'll pick up the phone and then I'm back to where I started. I've been seeking counselling ever since I have been legitmate about letting him go, but they don't take the pain away. I've tried drinking it away, but that only created more problems. I've have alot of friends who are in dysfunctional relationships, so they wouldn't know the meaning of letting go and my other friends have never been there.. I've tried dating other people, but then I always compare them to my ex boyfriend and I have major trust issues as well and I can never let someone else in, without accusing them of something, or not believing they won't hurt me. I feel like I'm stuck feeling like this for the rest of my life. I hate the days that I miss him. I honestly feel like trying to stay away from him, it's like trying to be sober from a drug. It's honestly that difficult for me. I can't picture my life.. without him and I want to so bad. And I know time heals all wounds, but what happens if they don't heal quick enough? Because it always seems like, it's not fast enough for me to walk away for good. Open Question: what should I do in this situation with boys?Im 17 I lost my virginity when i was 14 to a 18 year old .. I think that i was searching for someone to like me.. growing up i wasn't good looking.. soo i guess i was looking for acceptance... now that im 17 im HOT like i really look good and alot of boys wanna get at me but not alot of guys are willing to respect me the way i want to be respected. The ones that do respect me i talk to but i feel that as our friendship goes further down the line they want more like today this guy i was with has been my friend for 5 years and i kissed him for awhile last sunday and then today we were in his car and we started making out and he started touching me all over me ... at first i was liking it but then I thought to myself that i shouldnt be doing this with him...he's 4 years older than me.. but that wasnt the problem... i kinda still feel like a little girl and i dont know what to do about that when this dude was kissing me i felt kinda scared like something in my body was like i shouldn't let him get another kiss ... i really dnt know what im feeling....... also when i was 14 when i lost my virginity I kinda didnt want to and i kept telling the boy i didnt want to do it anymore and that it hurt but he kept at it ... i guess that im kinda still scared that .that happened but i have had 2 other sex partners my ex-boyfriend who I wasnt scared to do anything wit and My track trainer (lol) which i only had sex wit once and i felt really bad after... also another thing you should know is that .. i go to church and i know better.. and i shouldnt be doing the things that im doing but it gets hard sometimes... and i dont have that much self control. ( I know i was all over the place in this detail part but my brain is all over the place and im trying to give u as much info as possible) AND IM NOT AFRAID OF SEX EITHER !!!! Open Question: Need a little girl help...?Ok, I'm usually a pretty confident person or at least around my friends. But when I'm around this girl, I just want to be with her, make her laugh, make her smile. And I just am not confident when it comes to her. I think it might have something to do with the age difference. I'm a freshmen and she is a junior so it is a little intimidating but I think I've gotten over that whole part. I have one class with her and I also have lunch with her although I don't sit with her or even close. Any way, she waves and smiles at me alot and we've begun to hug. I also talk to her alot (like an hour a day). And then when I walk up to her after lunch today, I can't help but notice that her friend is keep on looking at me. This might just be alot of coincidenses and she just likes me as a friend but I don't want that to be it... The big problem is that she either just broke up with her boyfriend or she is still with him... Idk but I heard that they broke up and when she walks with him in the halls she still waves and smiles at me. Please help, I know this sounds wierd but even though I don't know her that well, I love her personality and her. She is beautiful and I think she is just a little out of my league, I mean I've been told that I'm handsome, cute, and hot before by girls but Idk. I'm not a jerk or anything, I care about her. So Idk if that matters, I just need help with her. Should I make a move or wait and what should I do? Thank you so much... Open Question: How can I get pregnant while on the depo shot?Me and my boyfriend of 1 year and 3 months want to have a baby but the only problem is I'm on the depo shot my dad is forcing me to be on the shot which I believe he has no right to.. I've tried skipping my appointments but they always find out and rescedule really soon.. Is there anything I can do to make the depo less effective? Or not even work.. Any kinds of medicines or anything I can physically do? Please help me!! More Recent Articles |
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