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Open Question: He "lured" me in and dropped me? and more... Open Question: He "lured" me in and dropped me?It began when I met him. Every time I was on facebook he would start talking to me. We would talk about normal things, and then the conversation would always go deeper. He would always be such a sweetheart and compliment me. He would tell me about his girl problems and his insecurities, and I would give him advice and tell him that everything was gonna be alright and If I could do anything for him. He would always tell me that he really trusted me. We started talking more and more, through text, after I got his phone number. He told me what he looked for in a girl he said "smart, honest, and caring" and then that beauty was after that. I told him what I looked for in a guy and I said "Loving, trustworthy, sweet, caring, and smart" Then I asked him why we had never spoken in person and he said it was his fault he didn't say things when he passed by me. Because we did meet through facebook, until I finally realized he went to my school. I said it wasn't his fault, that it was just me being a moron. And he asked me if I was nervous around him, I said I was "alot :)" and he told me not to be nervous around him. Then he said "I'm not asking you out, but if I did, what would you say?" And I said "I would say yessss :)" And today at school his group was going "EHEMM... and my yelling my name out" and he was there with his back turned to me, turning all red. I thought it couldn't be more obvious that he liked me, he was soooo nervous too. At the most unexpected moment, we locked eyes and he had the most adorable smile on his face I smiled back, and I felt a connection.... Then we txted from 3 o'clock to like 11pm. I thought he was really into me, and he said "Okay i'll tell you who I like if you tell me who you like." And I said "Well, isn't it obvious?" And he said "Well, actually it is. And sorry to get your hopes down, but I don't like you." And he told me who he liked, and why he liked her. And told me that I was jealous of her. This blonde chick with "beautiful blue eyes" who was "athletic" "hot" and "ect." as he said. Comparing me to her and saying that I was jealous of all her features. I've talked to her, and she's a total snob of a girl who passes right by my face almost as if I weren't there. Story of my life. I feel like crap. And vulnerable. I feel like I was epically dumped, but we never even went out in the first place. Why would he "lure" me in and then drop me? I thought I was the one. I thought I was "smart, honest, and caring." But i'm not. That girl has everything I have to live without. For once, I felt like being me was just enough. But I guess it's not. I felt sooo happy, even my parents noticed that I was being too bubbly and nice. How could he not see that I had been there standing right in front of him? Not only standing, even doing a dance. How could he pass right by me and be so determined to get a girl that doesn't even love him, when there was already one who was in love with him right here? I liked him because I felt like I could trust him with anything, he was there for me. I felt like I wanted to share something more with him than a friendship. Because he was kind, caring, and lovable. And I couldn't take my eyes off of him for some reason. He was the best thing that had happened to me in a long time. I chose to be his friend, but I couldn't help falling in love with him. We had so many things in common too. What we want to study, the kind of music we listen to, what we look for in each other. But no. There comes a point when you've failed so many times that you just assume something must be wrong with you. That's how I feel. Blehhh. I stopped flirting with every guy, just for him. Out of every guy at my school, he was the only one who stood out to me. I could point him out in less than three seconds. The only one I cared about, really. I feel like I'm missing something. It was my fault, something I didn't do or say. There's something wrong with me. How could he do this to meeee? I honestly feel like shit. I spent so much time thinking about him. And the funny part is, all that time I thought he felt the same way. I've never had a boyfriend before either. Can anybody pleaseee give me some advice? I really need it. Thanks :) Open Question: My friends boyfriend hit her, but she says its ok because he was angry, help?My friends boyfriend hit her, but she says its ok because he was angry, help? My friend has had a lot of problems in her life, drugs, abused, tumor, deaths that she blames on herself and a whole lot more, she tell me she has a black eye i asked her what happen and she said it was her boyfriend i told her get get away from him but she says its ok because he as angry, and its only a black eye. How do i convince her its not ok? ok she has just told me hes put a knife to her throat,,, and she go to counciling and shes on antidepressants oh and i keep telling her to leave him, she also said what am i going to do about it.. grrr help meee More Recent Articles
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