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Open Question: He loves me more than I love him? and more... Open Question: He loves me more than I love him?My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, but lately I have been questioning things. We both have agreed that he loves me more than I love him. I think the problem comes from our history. I am more financially and emotionally independent. I feel like every other night, he tells me about some problem he has and sometimes I feel like I am talking to a 7 year old. He blames EVERYTHING on everybody else and never takes responsibility for negative situations. I give him advice about how maybe he should put himself in other people's shoes or accept the fact that life isn't fair. It is like these are new concepts to him, but atleast he agrees with me and realizes that he isn't handling situations in the correct way. I feel like his mentor or life tutor.. but I don't get the same from him. I have more life experiences, advice, and wisdom to share. On the other hand, he practically worships me and I do no wrong in his eyes. I feel like I love him because he loves me so much that he would do anything for me. This isn't healthy, I know. However, I am, for the most part, happy. I tried to think about my life without him and I got really sad. Should we break up? Open Question: How do you deal with a crazy stalker without telling your girlfriend?oldy its for fiance's ex gfs (kay) boyfriend(stevie)... hes askin me advice on how to get rid of a crazy stalker (jackie).... and when i say crazy i mean certified psychotic crazy. he met her at a party when him and his gf (my fiance's ex) were having problems and now they have everything worked out. But his gf doesnt know about jackie (the crazyy girl) and now this crazy girl wont stop callin and trying to get with stevie and i don know what to tell him when stevie met her she was like if you ever have problems with your woman then let me know and ill kill her. he's afraid to tell jackie that him and his gf are back together in fear that jackie will try to harm kay. i dont know what to tell the poor guy. Open Question: I Cried after sex? Really? Why?I am 22. I have had 12 partners over the past 6+ years. I am currently dating this guy (not my boyfriend just yet) but we like each other a lot. Before having sex with him (mister 12), I haven't had sex for 8 months (from mister 11 a guy I was dating not bf), and 5 months before mister 11 was mister 10 (my ex bf of 3 years) I honestly am not sure why I cried with mister 12! Was it because he was too large, because he is not my boyfriend yet, or is it because I upset over the "number" getting higher? Did I feel an emotional bond? Or was my mind telling me I was somehow 'cheating' on my ex of 3 years? Maybe its the thought that I was doing so well holding on to my grip till i met this guy I adore. Ugh, It could be all of the above too... I hate being a woman sometimes, but I know men go through emotional problems too (just not like us I guess) This is a ridiculous question, But I really would like the answer if any one knows what I am feeling/talking about. Thanks much everyone! Open Question: Can someone who is so called married to some I know stop my boyfriend from moving to Canada from Japan? Help!?Ok, I asked my friend to co-sign my phone and I was applying and she said yes when she could of said no instead it but due to trouble times, I did not have the money to pay it and now it is cut off and her and her mother are under the same bill. Her mother is harassing me on facebook and now tagged and getting her so called husband who say that because I have not been paying the bill, it stops him from joining here here in Canada and is threatening to stop my boyfriend from moving to Canada from Japan and to take me to court. Well.. The bill is under his wife's daughter's name and I have returned the phone and now she and her husband is harassing me. I have blocked and reported them both but I do not think that will stop them. Can he really stop my boyfriend from joining me here in Canada and take me to court just for a $1500 cell phone bill? Do I have to get a restraining order for the family and him? Can he really do this? She has mental problems and need medical help as well as a shrink but she will not admit that she needs help. Her daughter has not been harassing me and as not been contacting me. I am fed up and do not know what to do and I do not know if he can stop my boyfriend from coming to Canada and taking me to court. I have told her that I will pay the bill but do not know when as money is very tight as I am not making much money right now and can only afford rent, food and my new cell phone and that is it. I spoke with her a week ago in person and thought we had worked it out. She contacted my boyfriend saying that I refused to get together with her to work it out when she never asked me to meet up with her to work it out and we did meet up at my job and I sat with her for an hour explaining my situation but she is harassing me, calling me a lier, Using my religion and threatening me and now her husband is too! I am no longer friends with these people and want to be left alone. Your thoughts, advice and opinions are welcome ans I love to hear from you all! He lives in another country and not Canada. His wife lives in Canada. I was told with that little money, they would just lose in court as I make only $8 an hour. I owe no car and very little stuff that is not worth a lot at all. His wife told me if my boyfriend or I owe money, that could stop him from being able to move to Canada as he would be just as responsable as I am but I do not think that is true. My boyfriends is waiting for the papers to his visa to finsih prossesing. We do not know how long that will take. Her Husband is from africa or another countrys where black people live. He wants to move to Canada to be with her and says the money I owe that is not in my name is stopping him from moving to Canada. Open Question: How to fix a friendship?I know there are lots of posts out there like this, but I'm kind of hoping that I can get some feedback on my own case. Hopefully this will help. Sorry this might be a little long. So...a little back story. I am a Junior in high school, a guy, and a mostly-in-the-closet gay. Although mostly everyone has at least some suspicion I am gay and jokes about it (not in the nicest way, which is also partly why I don't come out. Also the fact that I am a triplet, and my brother and sister and I don't get along really AT ALL is a part as well. But seeing as I'm in theatre, music, singing, and dance...yea, sighs are everywhere lol. Then, last summer I wound up (it's an odd story, which doesn't really matter) with a boyfriend, who lasted about three and a half months. My boyfriend was from work, so I was able to keep my relationship secret from my friends and family. Going on, there is a friend of mine, who we used to be very close friends. I think I held him in my mind as my best friend, and he thought of me as just a very good friend. But back during about the middle of sophomore year, we just started to not get along. We've tried talking about it some this year, and neither of us really knew what it was. We thought it might've been something about making fun of each other, but we weren't sure. Anyways, we kind of started to drift apart. After being mad at each other and hardly even talking for about half a year, we tried making up. Or, at least in my opinion, I tried making up. I was the one to always initiate everything, ask him to talk, text him, go to his house to pick him up (and talk in my car, in private), etc. He never really seemed to care all that much, although he said he did. And that really bothered me. He ignored me in school, and when he did talk to me it was normally to make fun of me. So that sort of started a cycle of me trying to fix our friendship, then having a sort of strained friendship for like 1-3 weeks, then ending in me getting pissed at him again. It just felt like he didn't really care about me at all and that he was superior to me or something. So I went all out, and wrote him a note telling him what I felt about the way he was treating me. And at the end of it I told him I was gay. I had wanted to tell him for a long time (it might've even been part of the reason why I got mad at him during sophomore year: I wanted to tell him, and then he would make some comment that angered me. Rinse and repeat). So then about a week later I picked him up so we could talk. He basically tried to defend all of the things he was doing by saying I was just overreacting. It may sound like overreacting in here, but trust me, from the things he was saying/doing, it wasn't. And then we got to the gay part. I told him I had a boyfriend then too. He SAID he's ok with it and that he had his suspicions already just like everyone else. But then he said he didn't want to ever have a sleepover again because it would be bad for his "social image". And then he said he didn't want me to bring it up again, at all. Which bothered me, because part of the reason I told his was because I wanted HIM to be the one person I could really trust and talk to about anything. So again I was hurt. Basically this goes on and on, with me continuing to get hurt by him again and again in lots of different ways (including that he has grown to be great friends with my brother and sister). Trust me, I could go on for pages, but I'm sure you don't want to read it. And honestly, I don't think I've done anything to really hurt him. But just this last time I wanted to talk to him, he told me he's done trying to fix things, and that he basically doesn't want to be friends anymore. The problem is, I still want to be friends MORE THAN ANYTHING. I know we probably won't be great friends, but I'll take whatever I can get that's positive at this point. Not to mention he comes over to my house (my house is sort of the hang-out place for my group of friends) all the time. And every time he does now I can't stand it, because I feel he is choosing to not be my friend. I don't even know really what my question is. Anyone know of anyway I can try and fix our friendship? Or have anything to say? He won't even talk to me anymore now... More Recent Articles
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