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Open Question: Having Boyfriend Problems...? and more... Open Question: Having Boyfriend Problems...?My boyfriend has a lot of friends that are girls and he talks to the girl down the road and she flirts with him. I'm so in love with him he was my first true love and i don't know what to do. sometimes he doesn't talk to me day on end. He tells me that he loves me but i don't know if its true or not. I want to believe him I really do. I'm 15 going on 16 and so is he..I just don't know what to do anymore he says that he wants to be with me forever. oh, what do I do. Open Question: my boyfriend wont ever understand my problems because he never has any and cant relate?in a senior in high school. my life really sucks most of the time and recently iv been having more problems making me depressed i think., hate my family, only child, no money, hate school, and my best friend moved away a few months ago. problem is my boyfriend has the perfect life and admits himself he never has any stress or problems. Im upset often recently and in turn dont wanna b around him bcuz it reminds me how his life is so perfect and mine is so crap. i dont want to talk to him cuz he WILL NOT get my problems but my constant bad mood is pushing us apart. what should i do? i want to be happy and happy with my boyfriend. i know he prob doesnt want a depressed boring girlfriend.who wud. so i dont wanna tell him my probs. please please help. Open Question: Im so depressed what should i do?Im 17 years of age, I have been feeling down for a while now, stressed also. I am always tired, i feel sick in the mornings and everytime i eat or drink. This is because of many reasons such as: Money problems- I cannot find a job! Relationship stress with boyfriends mother (dont ask), she threatens me a lot and i often feel sick and start shaking when she rings me I am also behind on coursework I dont know how to feel good anymore, maybe its winter blues but i just aint feeling myself :( x (Sorry i didn't know what category to put this under) Open Question: Help With Boyfriend Problems?I have a boyfriend an today i caught him flirting with a girl. I dnt kno what to do i really like him but he cheated on me. do you consider it cheating. What should i do please help. Open Question: What Do I Get His Mum?right, i've been going out for my boyfriend for about a month and a half, and he recently told me his mum is getting me a christmas present... only problem is what the hell do i get her? any ideas thanks(: Open Question: Boyfriend problems...?My boyfriend doesn't have any close friends. He is extremely rude to people and embarrasses me often. I've told him of his behavior and he is actively trying to change it. He is generally a good guy. Just a 'trust fund' kid who lacks social skills. He was also my first boyfriend. He kicked me out of bed Wed morning because I fucked up. What I did is forgivable but I don't think he will forgive me. I am not even sure if the relationship is salvageable due to his past relationships. I've decided to give him space. I genuinely want to be a friend to him. He has so little and is terrible at maintaining friendships once someone has wronged him. Should I even bother? I still have love for him and care for his well-being. I doubt we will ever be together again but I want to keep in touch with him. When would be a good time to call? Open Question: My girlfriend cheated on me?My girlfriend and I been dating since May 21st,2009, last day of school in College. I've known my girlfriend since February 2nd, 2009.The first time I saw her I knew that someday she would become my girlfriend and she did.When I met her I used to make her laugh and we became good friends and we took it from there. I showed her what type of person I am by being the best boyfriend that I can be in every way. She even mentioned that I was the most romantic person she ever met that her passed boyfriends didn't treat her right. She even said that had feelings for me when she first met me so we were like love at first sight which is very rare.We both feel like we've known each other before we even met weird huh but it's true.When I used to go to her house, I used to help her do the chores like cleaning the floor,dishes,cooking,laundry,folding the clothes etc. Not just only that but I was always there for her when she was down,you name it? She was deeply in love with me because of the good traits that I have in my characteristics because I was raised to become a descent person, I always have and I will always will be.She always tell me that how come I showed up late in her life and that she has been waiting for me because I am that person that she wants to marry in her life. But the problem is that my parents don't like her because she had many boyfriends before but in my opinion I guess it wasn't the right guy for her? So I argued with my parents and protected my girlfriend cuz they don't understand how much I love her. I wanted to marry her but my parents stopped us by getting set up(long story). Anyways, my girlfriend decided to join the U.S. Army for 3 years so she left back in July 21st, 2009 for the boot camp training in Missouri for 2 months. From there she called me and wrote me letters how hard it was but she made it with her courage and bravery. On thanksgiving day I had this dream that my girlfriend was cheating on me with some guys and when I asked her she admitted she cheated on me with 3 guys who knows it could be more. But anyways she said she kissed them and got fingered by them I was so devasted. I also asked if she had sex with them and she said no. I told her that if you do it one more time it's over and she explained to me that she did it cuz she was doing a "friends with benefits" with the guys. I was like wtf? And she said that she was imagining about me while doing it but she doesn't have feelings for those guys. But I don't know what to believe.I went to church a lot of times and ask god what I should do? I thought about Jesus Christ when he was crucified on the cross for our sins cuz he loves us all. So I thought about it and giving my girlfriend a 2nd chance she was crying that she really loves me and all that there's too many crazy things going on in the army even her roomates were doing it with the guys.It's kind of foolish of me for letting her do "the benefits thing" but if that's what makes her happy then I should let her because I love her so much.I hope she's not doing it with them (sex) or it's really over.I can't believe my girlfriend is a naughty girl yeah it turns me on alot we used to do it all the time but in a romanic was like sex on the beach oh yeah.Right now my girlfriend is happy but felt bad what she did cuz she broke my trust and my heart. I also gave my virginity to this girl by the way I'm 30 and she's 19 she'll be 20 in few weeks. I was 29 when I met her. If she comes back for the xmas vacation I'll have a long talk with her and let her pick what she wants, me or them?I also believe she's not completely honest with me who knows if she had sex with those stupid army guys, I don't want an std, I mean I'm clean like a brand new car you know? But I really love my girlfriend because of what we went through and I made a promise to love her no matter what but it hurts like hell.I told her that she cheated on me and she won't admit it she always say that it was just a "friends with benefits" nothing serious as she mention. She said that I was the serious one in her life that she will marry me someday when she is settled down. So guys and girls what would you do if you were in my position? Be open and tell me what you think? Open Question: Boyfriends, kids and divorce. Help?I'm 19 dating an 33yr. Who are you to judge because you don't know us. We are the perfect match. I'm so happy around him. The only problem is that hes married. I mean they are separated and everything but oh yea... they have 3 kids including a 2 month old baby. I just feel as if things aren't over with him and his wife. He says they are and has even been talking marriage to me and everything but there are little things that just really mess with my head and i DO NOT want to break up with him.. we have over 6 months together and i REALLY REALLY love this man. Like one time I found her bra under the bed and he claims he has NO idea how it got under there, that she was still nursing the baby and he didn't know. In his dresser drawer its STUFFED FULL of baby stuff even though he never keeps te baby... then tells me she don't stay there. I also find little notes saying things like "for your sake I hope you don't knock her up, goodbye" and she called me his dirty lil wh0re and I don't expect her to like me but gah.. i'm just 19. Is this normal in this type of situation? That's all I ned to know. I've never dated a guy like this... with kids and a wife that is... but he swears he's almost done in the divorce and i'm the ONLY woman he loves and I believe he loves me but I do question if i'm the only one. Please don't just tell me to leave him and stuff... bc i'm not. I would just like to know if, despite all the things I find, things between tem are just kid releated. Is this how things are normally? Even close? If not how should they be? Please help me savbe this very loving relationship. I honestly think hes the man i'm meant to be with for the rest of my life. Open Question: im a complete mess and dont know how to change to make it better. massive argument with partner. help!!?im 29 and live with my bf. i grew up in an abusive home with a controlling and very dominant father, he used to hit my mum. i then got married to another dominant man but left 2 years ago. i now live with my boyfriend of 2 years. as a person i seem to follow behaviour patterns within relationships, includes being jealous, feeling insecure and not liking myself as a person. once in a relationship i find ways to ruin it. subconciuosly i am pushing and pushing for trouble to arise. and i seem to make men aggressive too. i know i do. last night i told my bf that i had previously tried to have kids with my ex husband but never did. he then flipped out and said i had lied about wanting children and that i am a lier. he said many things to me last night that ripped me apart, he told me i have to look at myself and change. find out who i am. (he has an addiction problem!) i try so hard to be good to him and thought i was doing ok. i finally thought i had begun to find happiness. he has a daughter and i admit i have been jealous of him having a child with another woman and not me. i allowed my jealous side to surface and take over me. including being fixated on having a child. my boyfriend says, its like i have lights on but noone is at home! he says i dont tell him anything and that i shut off!! i am devastated and keep crying all day. i feel like its all my fault and that my silly ways have ruined my life yet again. i have never loved a man as much as my boyfriend, for all my faults- he has lots too!! i feel heart broken by his comments. he also grabbed my arm and i feel that i made this happen by constant stupid ways and by saying i had always wanted kids. i shouldnt have said that. how do i stop following patterns and change so i can be happy with my bf. how do i do this? Open Question: Why can't I stop thinking about him?I'm with someone and have been for over six months, I can see absolutely nothing wrong with our relationship and we hardly ever argue or have problems. But I still have frequent dreams about a guy I've wanted for three years. Even getting with him a while ago (when I was single) didn't stop the feeling and I can't figure out why I'm so interested in him, since most people think he's horrible. I see the same flaws they do, but for some reason I forgive him for them. All I want is to forget about him and be happy with my loving and devoted boyfriend, and I have no idea how to do that. I've tried ignoring the other guy, not speaking to him, but nothing stops the subconscious ideas, which manifest themselves in my dreams at least twice a week if not more, and I'm running out of ideas. Open Question: i dont know what to do. help?Okay, so lately i've been thinking im having a little bit of trust issues. To sum things up a notch, My boyfriend hasnt given me reason at all to NOT trust him. but the fact that he might just move in with a chick (Friend of his) for collage after he graduates highscool sorta makes me feel a little uncomfortable considering that he liked her for like 2 years. I think im being stupid and maybe even a little unreasonable, and i've been thinking about it alot, which has caused my mood to be a little down, when im usualy an up-beat kind of chick. i wouldnt want to speak to him about this because im kind of worried about how he'd react, or what that'd do to thier friendship. Everytime im with him these thoughts seem to leave, and i feel confident in that this little distance wont hurt us at all. But then when im appart from him; these thoughts start flowing in. But then i think to myself "Whats meant to be for you; no one can take it away" And i conclude "What happens; happens." But i'm wondering if its this'll all blow over or will just keep nagging at me until i bust. i know he'd hate it if he realized that i do have a little bit of a problem with his moving into Her place. But really. <_> can you blame me? i cant. but maybe thats just a bias justification for my own thoughts. lol as you can see i could use some advice. i'd appreciate it if i reseived some (: More Recent Articles
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