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Open Question: have i got some sort of depression? and more... Open Question: have i got some sort of depression?please don't think i am weird but i think i might have depression although i appear normal i think i have depression of some sort. when the door knocks i wont answer it ever and when the phone rings i never answer it. i hate leaving the house the only time i leave the house is to go to work or if im going out with my boyfriend in the car. i walk to work rather than get on a bus and i keep my head down all the way and i prefer it to be raining, so i can cover up with my umbrella. i dont have a problem with my apperance so i dont know why i behave this way. when its my day off from work i wont leave the house i just stay indoors. please help whats wrong with me and why? Open Question: My husband molested my 14 year old daughter ?About 3 weeks ago, my husband (her stepdad) came to me and told me my 14 year old daughter had some pot she had gotten from a friend. He had known for several days, she had told him about it and made him promise not to tell me about it.. The next day we spoke for about 6 hours and after her opening up to me about a lot of her teenage problems i finally said to her "No matter what I will always love her and nothing could ever change that" and "if she was afraid to tell me something because of how i would think of her, that it was not possible for me to ever love her any less nor look at her any different. She could trust me." She then started to tell me about an incident that had happened last May. She said we were at the next door neighbors that night having a bbq and i had not been feeling well and went home next door and went to bed. She said that her and my husband (her stepfather) stayed for a little while and all the adults were drinking. When they came home they were having a really heart felt talk and she was sharing with him some of her boyfriend problems. She had asked him to tickle her back til she fell asleep. (My daughter has always been one who asks for this when she doesn't feel well from me, her grandmother, father, stepfather, close family members, etc. ) She said he was in her room tickling her back and after a while he then started to move his hands to the front of her shirt. He had brushed across both of her breasts and she said she was so stunned she didn't know what to do. She told me he was telling her he had fantasized about her before and asked her to kiss him. She said please don't do this you're supposed to be like a father figure to me. He then pulled away and said i know i am your stepdad but i'm also a man. She says she cannot remember much more specific details except that she kept pretending to be tired so he would leave,… he wasn't leaving and she wasn't sure what to do. (Although with me asleep in the next room) -she was afraid to do anything she felt in shock. She kept asking him to leave as he just sat on her floor. She then told me he offered to leave and go get her some coffee energy drinks for the next day if she would do something for him. She asked "what". He said "pull down your pants". She wanted him to leave so badly that she quickly grabbed her pajama bottoms and flashed her underwear. He was then standing beside her bed. and said "NO, you can do better than that" she said she finally pulled down her pants and her underwear to her mid thigh and the whole time kept her eyes closed and after about 15 seconds he said "Very Nice" and left the room. She told me nothing had ever happened before or after that night. After she told me all this, I immediately took her to my sisters before he got home from work. When he got home, I asked him about the situation and he denied it. I asked him to take a polygraph test and he agreed. I had promised my daughter i would get him out of the house and she would not have to see him again. I wasn't sure if she was telling the truth or reacting to the fact that he had betrayed her trust by telling me about the marijuana. We immediately made arrangements for him to go stay with some friends and he went that night. He has been there ever since. Just last week we got the money together to pay for the polygraph test and went to have him take it. I told the examiner the things my daughter had told me and the examiner made sure to ask the vital questions. My husband FAILED the polygraph test on every single question pertaining to him sexually touching her, making advances or looking at her. He broke down in tears and confessed to everything. I got his side of the story for about 2 hours. And to my surprise he let me record him, and his version is actually more graphic and abusive than her version. I immediately made counseling appointments and took my daughter to the physician to see if she needed anti depressants. I also felt like I was going to have a nervous breakdown, and needed to see my doctor as well. I had just confirmed my WORST nightmare. I was 15 feet a way when this happened. And for 6 months my daughter had been living with it and hadn't told anyone but one friend of hers. As for the present moment my husband is continuing to stay with friends and i have told him if he comes near my child i will call the police. My question is this: I have not called the police because i love this man very much. but i love my daughter more. I don't know if i'm in shock or grieving or what, but it's all i can think about. What do i do now? I am so confused and torn. Am I making the right choice? I am afraid that if i go to law enforcement it will only make this harder to move on with our lives ? Any help please? Open Question: What to put in my boyfriends xmas stocking?Hiya I am just wondering what can i put in my boyfriends xmas stocking? We have been together for 2 and a half years now and I really want to do a stocking for him. But I have never done a stocking for anyone before. Im 21 and he is 25. I have already got him 2 cd's, a dvd and aftershave. I really want some cute ideas. Budget aint really a problem. Have spend about £300 on his main gifts. hoping you can help... x x More Recent Articles
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