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Monday, December 14, 2009

Open Question: guys please help with this problem? and more...

 
 



Open Question: guys please help with this problem? and more...

Open Question: guys please help with this problem?

My boyfriend sais he loved me we were together for two years and then out of the blue he says he just wants to be friends. A few days prior to that he said he was never going to break up with me and he wanted us to work out. then he breaks up saying that we are too young and he wants to see other people. idk what to do. i just want him back

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Open Question: I am so confused about this love....Triangle?

To cut a very long story short. I have a wonderful boyfriend of 5 years! I love him to bits although i am not sure he is 'the one' but i do care deeply about him and we have lots of fun together etc. But there is also someone else (who also has a girlfriend of one year) Me and him have always just had a weird conncection i honestly don't know how to explain it, we just click and have a great friendship we talk about problems, laugh, just have an understanding. We have kissed on occasion, after a few drinks. I know this sounds awful as i am with some one but it kind of just happened, i would never intentionally hurt anyone and its really upsetting me that i have done this to him and i am confused. Anyway the other night the friend came to visit and stay over (he lives 3 hours away) and met my b/f for the 1st time. We kissed one night after going out, and he said he loves me to bits and he likes me and all this stuff and why else would he drive so far, bear in mind usually he is super closed and not open about emotions which was like whoaa, and i was like ok promise me we will talk tomorrow after we aren't so drunk. But he didnt mention a thing! My boyfriend suspects the spark between us and is convinced he likes me, i am still not even sure the friend likes me or whether its just because he was drunk.. a few people have mentioned oh is there something between you both, i dont know how they got to that conclusion. I just feel so bad on my boyfriend and so confused about this friend i don't know what to do at all. I like them both so much in both very different ways. And have now convinved my boyfriend nothing would ever or has happened between me and the friend! Ah i just don't know So sorry this is so so long

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Open Question: Help with club dress code?

Going out on thursday to clubs I've been to before, but not sure on their dress code. My boyfriend had no problem getting in in jeans and a dress shirt, but will I have problems with jeans? if the rest of me is dressed up? Is there different dress code for male/female?? I just don't want to get up there and get rejected everywhere lol help ! :)

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Open Question: My boyfriend and I need to have more sex!?

The problem is that we don't live together,and we live with parents. Where can we go? Get creative? Where have you done it? Help me out here!

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Open Question: WHY WOULD SOMEONE SAY THAT THEY ARE SORRY THAT I AM GOING TO BE THE MOTHER OF HIS CHILD?

I am having a baby next month. My relationship was good until we found out about the baby and my boyfriends father got sick and his best friend/cousin was sent away. Our conversations start off peaceful then end up hostile. He said 3 times that he is sorry that I am going to be the mother to his child. I asked him last night why he would say such a thing and he had no immediate answer and could not tell me anything specific that i have said or done to hurt him but after a long pause, he beat around the bush and said that he has a problem with some of my ways (asking for help and acting like i know it all and he feels that I am inconsiderate of his time). He hasn't been to a doctors appointment with me and now that my ultra sound visits have passed he wants to be active in coming to the hospital. He has a very aggravated and irritated tone towards me. He snaps most of the time when I ask him a question and he doesn't offer to give me a ride considering the cold weather or how far along I am in the pregnancy. he does make some effort but he gives and takes depending on his mood. he has become even more bitter towards me. He has not been able to contribute much to the rent because work is slow and I have not stressed him about it either because I know that the workforce is slow especially in his line of work. We had a baby shower and my mom funded most of it and his dad couldn't make it. He told me to keep the money we got from the shower and buy things for the baby and his dad gave us money for things as well. But just today he said that I am selfish and that me and my mom have everything under control and when the baby comes, he will do his part. What is going on with him, and why would he say such hurtful things and act like I don't exist now when he used to treat me like a queen.

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Open Question: How is my third chapter in my book?

Yes this has a little pokemon in it but it is about teens in love, fighting and other twists. Please comment and if you think it needs more than just copy the paragragh and add. Thanks. Chapter 3 "Kim wait I just want to talk," Chris said chasing the girls. Misty tripped over the side walk falling to the floor. "Misty!" Kim screamed turning around. Kim helped her sister up, but Chris grabbed her by the back of the head. "Chris stop, leave her alone," Misty calmly said trying to get him to let go over her. "Misty go, GO!" Kim demanded. Misty stood there strong. "Don't make me make you go," Chris said walking up to Misty. Up to her he stood three feet taller. "Know go," He whispered. "I am only two years younger than you I am not afraid," She said getting in his face. Chris smacked her across the face. Misty fell to the floor holding her red, raw cheek. "Chris!" Kim yelled. He grabbed Kim by the wrist and pulled her down the street. "Charmander flame wheel." Misty whispered still on the floor. Charmander burst into flame and nailed him behind. Chris let go of Kim as Misty slowly stood up. He walked up to her and grabbed her by the throat. "Chris, leave my sister alone!" Kim exclaimed running up from behind. She jumped on his back and started hitting the back of his head. He let go of Misty she gasped for air as she hit the floor. People stopped and watched the fight go on. "Daniel, down there," Veronica said pointing at the teens fighting. Lugia landed a block away. "Come on!" She exclaimed grabbing her boyfriend by the hand. "Lugia return," Daniel said returning the seventeen foot pokemon back. A crowd stood around Chris. Chris grabbed Kim by the throat and lifted her off the ground. Veronica pushed her way through the crowd still holding her boyfriends hand. "Croagunk poison jab," She screamed as a white light shown next to Chris. Croagunk's paw turned purple and inserted it in Chris' thy. He let go of Kim she coughed for air. "Kim!" Daniel said running over to his sister. He knelt next to her and put his ear to her chest. She had a soft but soothing heart beat. Misty got up and walked over to Daniel and Kim. "How is she?" Misty asked kneeling next to her brother. "Fine, she is going to be fine," He said smiling. Kim opened her eyes and saw her brother and sister sitting over her. "Come on we need to get out of here," He said helping Kim up. Soon Daniel sent out Lugia and everyone got on and flew back to the cabin. "I am so sorry," Kim cried collapsing in the sofa. "Kim, it wasn't your fault it's ok," Veronica said as Daniel walked in with some tea. Misty and Kim took one and sat down thinking. "Well you guys are ok now. I'm going to go home see you in a week," Veronica said walking out the door. A week went by and Kim, Daniel, and Misty returned to the gym. "Hey we have two messages on the answer machine," Daniel said walking into the kitchen. "Play it," Misty called. "Hey kids, it's mom, anyway your dad and I won't be home for another week but I want you taking care of the gym NO CABIN!" Their mom said. "This is Nurse Joy, Daniel your Nose brace should be ready to take off if it still hurts come see me," She said as Daniel took the brace off. "What are you doing?" Kim asked looking at her brother as he threw out the bandage. "Chill Nurse Joy said I could," He smiled as the door rand. Daniel opened it and found Veronica and Mark standing outside. He hugged his girl and invited them in. "Dude, sorry about your nose," Mark said. "What?" Veronica said looking at her boyfriend. "Never mind that, let's party tonight," Daniel said putting his arm around Veronica. Later that night the five of them went to Club Blue. "Hun, we can't go in here this is the most popular teen club around, you need reservations in advance," Veronica said grabbing her boyfriend's arm. "Watch," He whispered. They walked to the front Daniel, Kim, and Misty got in. "Name?" The man at the front asked stopping Veronica and Mark. "Um, we aren't on the list," Mark said. "We're with them," Veronica said pointing at Daniel, Kim, and Misty. "Yeah like you two would be caught dead with the three coolest teens in town," The man said. "Just so you know you just let my boyfriend in," Veronica said fixing her glasses. "Like Daniel would go out with a nerd, please," He laughed in her face. Veronica started to tear. "Hey don't talk to my friend like that. She is going out with Daniel and I'm going out with Misty," Mark said pulling Veronica back and getting in the bouncers face. "Dude, like Misty would go out with you look at your Muscles, these are real muscles," He said flexing his arm. "Marty, do we have a problem here?" Daniel asked coming back. "These two say they are with you guys. A nerd and a guy who thinks he has muscle. Ha!" He laughed. "Marty, what is your problem making my girlfriend cry," Daniel said grabbing Veronica by the hand and pulling her into him. "Wait you are really h

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Open Question: Taking my boyfriend to a strip club?

I promised to take my boyfriend to a strip club the other day! He is so excited about it and can't wait for us to go. He's so excited that he's been telling his friends that his girlfriend is taking to a strip club!!! My only problem is that i've never seen a woman's body before and well in a strip club there will be naked woman won't there? I feel very nervous about this i've never seen breasts before in my life! What should i do?

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Open Question: Help! Love Triangle! AHHH!!!?

I met this girl about 6 months ago. Since then, we have grown closer and closer. You could say we are best friends but I want to be more. There's only one problem, she's taken. Her boyfriend is nice but he grew up with one dad and three moms. I don't want her to get hurt when this guy brings home another woman. Oh yeah, I forgot to mention that she is in total belief that she's in love with him. Do you know what its like to love someone who can't stop talking about how much in love she is with another guy. It's infuriating. I don't know what to do.

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Open Question: BMXing boyfriend Christmas present?

Okay,me & my boyfriend have been dating a looong time. And because Christmas is coming up,I want to get him something.The problem is,I have noo idea what to buy him. He BMXs[rides bikes] and I don't talk to any of his BMXing friend,so my question is..what should I get him? I was thinking to put him together a lot of things..so any ideas? Please and Thank You. (: PS;Im trying to do all this for like,under $4O.

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Open Question: sex fantasy problem helpppppp ?

Ok i really don't know how to explain this situations it's more like a fantasy that's been taking over my mind lately, i don't know if its normal or not but here it goes. ive been having this huge fantasy of me having sex with a knife, painful sex of the guy just being so aggressive and me having to beg to stop, kind of like getting raped, with a knife against my throat and even been tied up. no matter what this fantasy wont Escape my mind. its just such a turn on and every time i think about it the more agitated i become, i don't know if its normal or not but i don't even now what to do anymore, i mean i don't even have a boyfriend for that matter and i don't want him looking at me like a psychotic freak but i doesn't even matter because my fantasy is to do it with a grown man perhaps one of my teachers, im always so distracted and dreaming about it. i mean is there an explanation to this. i grew up in a stable environment i wasn't abused in any type of way, its just a fantasy i cant over come.. what do i do ?? is it normal ?? how do i stop this ?? pleaseeee im looking for truthful answeress don't give me ignorant comments your going to waste both our time.

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Open Question: To send or not to send?

I am a female, best friend is a guy. He is my best friends boyfriend. We have been friends since teenagers. We are both in our mid 30's now. I am also with someone for 15 years and have 2 kids. I went with my friend out of town for a few hours so he could get a tattoo. My significant other never has a problem with that as he was also invited too but was working on his truck. My friend got his tattoo and we stopped to pick up my car that I left parked and pulled in to see my mother there. She got out of her car and was very mad. Was acting like we were doing something wrong. My guy friend got a little upset with her and just told her to get out of his face. My mother is a very confrontational person. Any way, I told her to get back in her car and we would discuss it when everyone was calmed down. Ever since then, my aunt and uncle haven't spoke to me. They came to the hospital after a recent surgery and only talked to my mom. Never said a word to me. Then I found out that it was because my mom told them a bunch of lies about what happened that night and that I was sneaking around seeing my friend. I was thinking about writing my aunt a letter just to let her know at least know the truth. What would you do?

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Open Question: How can I introduce my boyfriend to my unexcepting mother?

I'm going to try to keep this as simple as possible. My best friend gave my email to a guy about a year ago and we've been talking. I mean we hit it of after our first conversation. He's funny, sensitive, cute, and mature. I seriously think he could be the one (no rude comments please). A few minutes ago he told me that he loves me and I realized how much I actually care about him. He lives in New York which ironically is where me and my mom are going next week and of coarse we've already planned where we are going to meet and I really want to introduce him to my mother since I'm tired of hiding this from her. She's not open to new people. Especially guys around my age which brings us to another problem. I'm almost 14 and he just turned 17. I just want her to get to know him for who he is. In ten years the age will be no big deal so I don't see why people make a fuss over it at this age. Please help me when it comes to getting her to understand. If your a parent how would you react? We've been on video chat so we've seen each other. And I never said that we never met. We did over the summer my mom just didn't meet him

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Open Question: GUY PROBLEMS!!!!! HEEELLLLPPPP!!!!! i know its long buit its kind of interesting lol please help!!!?

okay, im a 16 year old girl who's CRAZY about this guy. last year, we started "talking" and hanging out. well, the year went by and we got a lot closer. we became the ONLY two people each other talked to. we were like best friends that wanted to make out with each other every second of every day. we had chemistry like you would not belive. im more sexually attracted to him than ANY other guy ive ever been with. he's sooo cool to talk to he's exactly on my level. my problem is, i don't really have many close close friends. i have tons of people that i talk to and hang out with at school, but every time i get a "best friend" after a few months or so, they start to get on my nerves so much i just can't stand being around them. so i just have lots of acquanitances. im a perfectionist, so i see flaws in EVERYONE. and when i start to see flaws in my friends, where im around them so much, i have to deal with it every day and it gets to the point where i can't stand being around them anymore. so im the exactt same way with guys, which is why i haven't had a boyfriend in over a year. it's not that i couldn't get one, but im just not interested in any. lol i know. it's something i need to work on. but anyways, i told you that because\e this guy was PERFECT. we were absolutely a perfect match for each other. im not gonna say that we got along along great, becasue we never did. we fought every single time we seen each other. we fought over dumbass things too, like tiny things, but the next second, we would be talking fine like nothing ever happened. but that's one thing i loved about him. we were pretty much like mr. and mrs. smith (the movie) one second we were fighting and screaming and yelling and hitting each other, the next we were jumping on top of each other making out. (not literally). but it was like a love-hate relationship. we were perfect. although we were completely obsessed with each other, we never dated. we went on like this for a whole school year, from october to june, but never dated. he's the kind of guy who could have any girl and he knew it, so he never settled down. i was fine with it, becasue i wasnt looking for anything serious with him. well, the problem is, i was a sophomore, he was senior. so he graduated, i didn't. i figured instead of trying to keep up with him, i knew we would never have time to hang out beasue we would be so busy. so when he called, i ignored his phonecalls. when he left messages i deleted them without listening to them. i kept this up for a couple weeks at least becasue i didnt want to tell him to stop calling me. but one day i finally got the nerve to talk to him so i could tell him to leave me alone. i kind of chickened out though and just told him i had a boyfriend so we hung up and didnt talk the rest of the summer. then at the beginning of this year, we started seeing each other again, but just for a few minutes at games ,and we only talked a couple of times. here we go again. its pretty awkward between us now, so i dont want to just start talkin to him all of sudden, but i really want to see him more and maybe start talking again. the problem is, we never get to see each other. should i talk to him? how should i so it's not awkward? it's killing me when i c him cause i just wanna jump on him and never let go lol. i just want to get things back the way they were but i dont know how. i dont wanna just randomly call him after not talking o him all this time, and he's not a big phone talker anyways. i dont have texting either. ANY TIPS FOR MY SITUATION? PLEASE HELP!!!

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