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Open Question: Going from not knowing this girl to being her boyfriend? and more... Open Question: Going from not knowing this girl to being her boyfriend?I just joined a new school in my town in the 11th grade. The problem is, everybody else knows each other and has made friends and I'm sort of the odd man out. However, lately I've made a lot of buddies in my grade, but I can't seem to start flirting with the girls yet. I don't know why. There is this girl (she is in 10th grade) that I have a crush on. She is always with her friends or other guys, flirting with them. The good news is, even though I'm pretty short for my age (around 5'5), people in the past have told me I'm cute and whatever. The main question is, how do I go from not even talking to the girl (we've only awkwardly passed each other in the halls so far), to flirting with her, to getting her attracted to me, to eventually hopefully becoming her boyfriend? Thanks Open Question: So.. I like this boy, right?I really REALLY... like this guy. We've been seeing each other a lot for the past 2 months.. He's so sweet... and makes me really happy every time I talk to him. We get along together so great and he always says he misses me, how I'm beautiful.. etc. He doesn't want me talking to him until I get all my homework finished, he pulls the chair out for me, offers to pay for movie tickets/ dinner. He's just really nice! and I love that about him. He's always asking questions about what I want to be when I grow up, what my goals in life are.. blah blah so he's interested in me. So yes... here's the problem. He had a history with one of my good friends... they never were boyfriend/girlfriend but they did have a 'fling'. The only reason they stopped liking each other anymore was because my friend blew off on him for no apparent reason and called him really mean names and he really did not like that.. so he just stopped seeing her... I really like him.... is it wrong of me to? should i tell my friend? i need help ): I have a feeling he will ask me to be his girlfriend one day if these keeps going.. *i'm a freshman in college. lol Open Question: Come on someone answer need advice?So my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 yrs now and we have had our problems but everything ot all better and i was super happy but now i just Don't get it he is barelycallingg and texting me and he keeps telling me i have to get involved in something because i have so much free time i just feel like he has noTimee for me and when i say that to him he just says i'm just stressed i have allott of school work to detcct. but i am really hurting and i dont know what to say or becauseue i love him he is my best friend and it just sux because feel like he doesnt need me and the only time he has time for me is when there is nothing better to do . I keep asking him if hes mad and if hes ok but he says i do it just to piss him off i just need that reasurance now i feel like crap and i dont know what to do i cry myself to sleep almost every night telling myself maybe ill wake up to a text of voicemail but its really rare now dont answer this and say dump him and stuff like that im really looking for advice hes the a awesome guy and its just been weird lately just someone help im really hurting. Thankyou Open Question: How can I get my shy boyfriend to open up more?My boyfriend is pretty shy and he doesn't seem like himself when it's just me and him. But I really love him, so how can I get him to be himself and not feel so...uncomfortable (for lack of a better word) when its just me and him talking? and just curious, has anyone else ever had this problem or something like it? Open Question: Ladies can you please help me out here..?Okay so i really didn't want to ask this question on YH! but i kinda felt it would be my only source of help. So here's the situation. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, but have been "physically" together for 1 and a half years. Our sex life has been killing me lately. Whenever i want to have sex with him it takes effort for him to want to have sex with me, almost as if i have to beg. Whenever he wants to have sex with me, i want to say NO just so he knows how it feels but in the end obviously i do. Whenever we have sex he tells me to stop because he's about to ejaculate so i stop. Until like 2x's after he actually does and i kinda think it's gross, especially when it gets all over me. The problem is that we literally have sex for like 5-10 mins before he ejaculates so i'm never able to get pleasure but he is. Then whenever we're done he's pretty much spent to the point where he either goes to bed or does his own thing. Am i doing something wrong, i don't understand why our sex life has to be this way. Can any of you help me out, pleaase? :) Open Question: wanting a baby and wanting opinions on my decision?I've actually seen a few posts of these recently but haven't been able to post for a while. I am a single women, 24 years old.Since I was young, I have always been obsessed with babies.I got to practice when my brother knocked his girlfriend up (they were young and irresponsible at the time) because they often took off leaving the baby behind so I took care of her at nights/during the day etc. I was only 18 at the time and my parents had to work the next day. I am experienced and my knowledge about infants/children is vast due to the years of researching and educating myself on everything to do with them.I own my own house (it is paid off) have a good chunk of money in the bank and a very good salary.Financially, I could do it with no problem.Mentally and emotionally, I could do it since I usually preferred to take care of my niece alone (without everyone else stirring things up) when she is with me, she is a angel.when she is with others like her parents, she is a terror (they are STILL having a difficult time being good parents to her so she gets confused) so I pretty much know how to handle kids, and do it alone. The problem is, I have no man! lol and to be honest, I really don't desire to get married.I don't need to be in a relationship to be happy.I don't know if I will ever get married..if I do I do, if I don't that doesn't bother me.I want a child young.I've already traveled and done my thing.I am more introverted than my peers so don't go out clubbing or parties to get smashed because it simply doesn't appeal to me. I want to go to a sperm bank but the issue with my child not having a father bothers me a bit.Sure, my kid could end up fatherless even if I had a boyfriend..he could have ran off or died etc.But purposely bringing a child into the world knowing he/she will more than likely not have a kid...I just don't want my future child thinking I did it to be selfish.I am 100% confident that I can raise a well rounded child that is independent, caring and intelligent regardless.I guess its just a personal issue.I have a iffy relationship with my dad and I am perfectly fine so this reasures me a bit. I guess I just wanted to hear some opinions from kids who grew up with no father figure in their lives. And I also plan to use a donor who is in the identifying release program only (so when my child is 18, he/she can meet the bio dad) Open Question: Is there a way to not offend him but want him to improve?Well my boyfriend has gone down on me a couple of times recently, and although they were my first experiences with that, it wasn't that great. Yes I appreciate that he did that for me and he enjoyed it, but I don't know how to ask him to do something a little different next time. I have no problem talking to him about what does and does not feel good, but I don't know in this situation if I should mention anything about how he could make it better. Would that be offensive guys? He always makes sure I'm satisfied too, so I'm sure he'll be understanding. I'm just not sure how to go about it. I mean I don't have any experience going down on a girl so I can't give him tips. haha. Open Question: What should one of my friends do about this girl that he likes?The problem is that she has a boyfriend. He is friends with her current boyfriend. Both my friend and the girl that he likes have been texting back and fourth for awhile. You can tell when they are flirting. He meet her at church. what should he do about because she has a boyfriend but she likes him but at the same time she doesn't want to make her current boyfriend upset or his family. My friend keeps coming to me for advice about this situation. Every time he comes to me I tell him to let her make the decision. If he lets her make the decision then he will hopefully not ruin the relationship that he has with her current boyfriend. What should I tell him to do? Open Question: I might be in love with this girl- but she is giving mixed signals? Opinions?There's a girl I've been friends with for about a year now but the other night we went a bit further and we made out. I'm always had minor romantic feelings for her but after that night I'm full-blown in love with her. The problem is she has this on-again off-again boyfriend who lives far away in another state. The guy told her that he wants an "open relationship" and is seeing other girls which is why she was okay with kissing me. The problem is after we made out she told me "don't get too attached to me" But some weeks or months ago she said things like "I would be with you if I didnt have a boyfriend" and "you could make me your wife if you really wanted to" but at the same time this girl NEVER calls me (I always call her first) What should I do? Should I still try to pursue her romantically? I feel like I would be a much better boyfriend to her.. Open Question: What was he implying?"Him: hopefully, otherwise dating may be a slight problem XD Me: hah, just find someone a little shy. problem solved. Him: hmm think that might work then lol Me: did you have someone in mind? Him: yeah...but i dont think you want to know lol... Me: i'd like to know, but if you don't feel comfortable telling me that's perfectly understandable (: Him: its not that, i think you know her so it would make stuff akward >.< Me: maybe, idk. Him: lol funny how when i think im obvious im not really Me: i'm just simple. (: Him: perhapes lol, i am as well. i guess im harder to read then i think. sometimes that works to my disadvantage... that and i dont want to be the one to ask a girl out >.< id rather she ask me out...a continuation of the whole coward thing lol Me: i don't think that's cowardly. (: i guess from what little i know about it, a lot of girls think most guys will want to be the, er, dominant one and make the first move.' Him: id rather its more of a joint opperation" He had a crush on my best friend last year, and I think he still might, but I THINK he's been flirting with me lately. It's hard to tell with him. What do you think he meant by that? I don't want to assume this but to me it seems like he's implying that "you might know her" is me. :| One of his ex-friends asked me out Sunday and he (the guy in the above convo) texted me and said that my new boyfriend has "used" girls in the past and I should be careful of him, (actually I've heard a few ridiculous rumors...) but I've talked to one of his old girlfriends and she said that he was nice enough, but they just broke up like a week ago (I didn't even know they were dating) so she thought he should have waited longer to find a new gf. Um naw he's uber-Christian and I'm pretty sure he's abstinent. Open Question: What do i do I'm going insane?So my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 yrs now and we have had our problems but everything ot all better and i was super happy but now i just Don't get it he is barelycallingg and texting me and he keeps telling me i have to get involved in something because i have so much free time i just feel like he has noTimee for me and when i say that to him he just says i'm just stressed i have allott of school work to detcct. but i am really hurting and i dont know what to say or becauseue i love him he is my best friend and it just sux because feel like he doesnt need me and the only time he has time for me is when there is nothing better to do . I keep asking him if hes mad and if hes ok but he says i do it just to piss him off i just need that reasurance now i feel like crap and i dont know what to do i cry myself to sleep almost every night telling myself maybe ill wake up to a text of voicemail but its really rare now dont answer this and say dump him and stuff like that im really looking for advice hes the a awesome guy and its just been weird lately just someone help im really hurting. Thankyou Open Question: how come my itunes won't recognize my ipod touch?i have a 2nd gen. ipod touch and i was able to add music and everything on it fine with my boyfriends computer and i just got a dell laptop with windows vista and now when i plug it in it charges but the itunes does not recognize it to where i could add music. please help. i have tried ro upgrade itunes and everything. nothing seems to have made a dent in my problem. any suggestions? i reset my ipod and rebooted my computer and still itunes does not recognize it??!?!?!?!! what can i do? Open Question: Boy problems please help me?Ok so i met this guy and i have a boyfriend but its a long distance thing i havent seen him in over 3 months and we dont talk much...this boy is my friends ex bf and i went to her house and thts where i met him and he said he liked me and ill liked him too and we hooked up and after i left i felt so guilty and the boy doesnt even like me anymore because hes a player and im prob. not gunna see him for a long long long time but now im really depressed i always think of when we hooked up and it makes me really depressed and i dnt know if i even still like my bf and im young, 13, i know i shuldnt be worrying bout this stuff but im rly depressed now and i just feel alone ever since i hooked up with that boy... btw it wuz the first time ive ever made out wit anyone before Open Question: Should I let my mother into delivery?I'm Aribella:) Im due to have my baby on February 11th. I think his name will be Micah David. Well anyway. My mother threw me out. Last year, after I told her I didn't want to go to her college and be a flower shop owner. haha. We had problems before that. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 years. Really like 4 Years and 9 months. I moved in with him and his mother when mine threw me out. I look at his mother like my own. My mother knows I'm pregnant but has not really done much about it. She calls but wedon'tt talk about the baby or anything. Should I let her be there when I deliver the baby? Kyle thinks I should but she really hasn't been involved until now. also do you like the name we've chosen? More Recent Articles
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