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Open Question: girls please help? i like this girl a lot? and more... Open Question: girls please help? i like this girl a lot?am a guy in 10th grade and i like a girl who is in 10th grade but we go to different high-school. i haven't seen her since 8th grade and i really miss seeing her, i had her in 3 of my classes in middle school and she brightened my day everyday when i saw her walk in there but not anymore. am always thinking about her and wondering what she is doing. my problem in middle school was that i was really shy and i never talked to her, we weren't even friends and i acted differently when she was around, and i think that she suspected that i liked her, that's a thought that's in my head but i don't think she knew. the other problem was she was popular but really nice and smart, which made it hard for me to talk to her. my voice always cracked up when she talk to me. like once she asked me for a pencil, i was excited that she talked to me but i was really nervous and i thought why she asked me if she could have asked her friend or someone else. she also had a boyfriend but they broke up. so what should i do now? you might think am crazy but she is the girl i want to be with forever. i wish i could see her and tell her that i liked her. Open Question: A few questions about this girl who left me confused.?It all started in 7th grade. This girl was in my Science Research class and I barely knew her. Back then, I was just a kid, and I really didn't have interest in girls. I became friends with this girl and after a few weeks, a lot of people thought I was dating her. I always denied it, and it left me wondering, "Am I dating this girl?" The thought of it disgusted me, lol. Everyday, people will come up to me and tell me that this girl likes me, and I didn't believe them. Sooner or later, this girl started going out with a major jerk. This dude made her cry every single day, and she would always come to me. After she cried, he would break up with her and get back with her again the very next day. This went on for about half a year, more than 2-3 times a week. I got sick of it so I stopped talking to her for a while. I met some new girls who were a grade older than me, and this is where I started getting interest in girls. I liked one of the new girls I met, and we always IM'ed each other 24/7, talking about how we loved each other. The problem is that this girl spoiled me. Her personality really messed me up, and talking to her for so long turned me into a jerk. During Spring in the same year, two guys moved into the school. Ends up I was their first friend after we met in Lunch, and they were jerks too. They became friends with the new girl I met and now we were like a clique. Sadly, I started to drift away from this new girl, and I started liking the old girl now, however, she was still dating that jerk who was making her cry. My love for her was unbearable, but my friends didn't like her. They made fun of her, and made her cry multiple times in school. When I tried to calm her down, she got pissed off at me, and now my love hated me. The year ended soon and I was depressed the whole summer. Now it's 8th grade, and I'm off to a fresh start...seriously. Over the summer, I grew my hair and got new clothes. Yes, I had a complete change of style, and personality. I was depressed 24/7, I stopped talking to all my friends, and I honestly, started hurting myself multiple ways. My love for her hadn't faded at all, and no matter how many times I tried to talk to her, she avoided me. I spent the entire year getting made fun of for my style, and it left me an outcast. The year ended and I cut my hair, and went to a new skater style. I go back to school and now I'm in 9th grade. SCORE! This girl was in my lunch period and she talked to me, a lot. We were great friends, and I was in the middle of building a relation with her, until...she apparently met the love of her life. She dated him for a long time now, and now there are a lot of things that left me confused. On Halloween, I hung out with her, and I obviously knew she liked me from the way she was touching me. She let me give her Piggy-Back rides, she hugged me, and I even went to her house where we watched movies. Her best friend was with her and while we were at her house, she said I looked like I was dating her. This girl's reply was, "You never know." That startled me. I knew she had a boyfriend, but why was she acting this way? In school, she held my hand at lunch, and we always texted each other outside of school. One day, just out of no where, she stopped answering my texts, and she suddenly backed off a little. I was guessing her boyfriend read her text messages and told her to back off. Now we never act the same way we acted before. I was talking to her best friend one day, and I confessed my love. Her best friend trusted me with her life, and I trusted her as well. I told her I loved this girl and she wasn't surprised. Then, disaster struck. This girl read her best friend's text messages and found out I like her, and honestly, I feel as if it damaged my relationship with her even more. Then one day, I met another girl at the mall, and I liked her. We dated for about two weeks, but I broke up with her. She hated me. I couldn't see her as often because Track season had started. Looking at my dominating love, I was left unaffected. Now I'm single, and I still like this girl who's still dating the love of her life. She came to school one day, knowing that I liked her, and started showing off her Hickies in front of me. I knew she was trying to make me jealous, but could it possible be cause she liked me? I had no idea, but her relationship with the love of her life got stronger and stronger everyday. Now she cares about him 24/7 and doesn't even text me anymore. The only time I can talk to her is at Lunch, and we never act or talk the same way we had in the beginning of 9th grade. She's more distant now. 1) Do you think her relationship will last? 2) How should I act around this girl? 3) Should I move on or try to win her? Open Question: Two questions about a girl?It all started in 7th grade. This girl was in my Science Research class and I barely knew her. Back then, I was just a kid, and I really didn't have interest in girls. I became friends with this girl and after a few weeks, a lot of people thought I was dating her. I always denied it, and it left me wondering, "Am I dating this girl?" The thought of it disgusted me, lol. Everyday, people will come up to me and tell me that this girl likes me, and I didn't believe them. Sooner or later, this girl started going out with a major jerk. This dude made her cry every single day, and she would always come to me. After she cried, he would break up with her and get back with her again the very next day. This went on for about half a year, more than 2-3 times a week. I got sick of it so I stopped talking to her for a while. I met some new girls who were a grade older than me, and this is where I started getting interest in girls. I liked one of the new girls I met, and we always IM'ed each other 24/7, talking about how we loved each other. The problem is that this girl spoiled me. Her personality really messed me up, and talking to her for so long turned me into a jerk. During Spring in the same year, two guys moved into the school. Ends up I was their first friend after we met in Lunch, and they were jerks too. They became friends with the new girl I met and now we were like a clique. Sadly, I started to drift away from this new girl, and I started liking the old girl now, however, she was still dating that jerk who was making her cry. My love for her was unbearable, but my friends didn't like her. They made fun of her, and made her cry multiple times in school. When I tried to calm her down, she got pissed off at me, and now my love hated me. The year ended soon and I was depressed the whole summer. Now it's 8th grade, and I'm off to a fresh start...seriously. Over the summer, I grew my hair and got new clothes. Yes, I had a complete change of style, and personality. I was depressed 24/7, I stopped talking to all my friends, and I honestly, started hurting myself multiple ways. My love for her hadn't faded at all, and no matter how many times I tried to talk to her, she avoided me. I spent the entire year getting made fun of for my style, and it left me an outcast. The year ended and I cut my hair, and went to a new skater style. I go back to school and now I'm in 9th grade. SCORE! This girl was in my lunch period and she talked to me, a lot. We were great friends, and I was in the middle of building a relation with her, until...she apparently met the love of her life. She dated him for a long time now, and now there are a lot of things that left me confused. On Halloween, I hung out with her, and I obviously knew she liked me from the way she was touching me. She let me give her Piggy-Back rides, she hugged me, and I even went to her house where we watched movies. Her best friend was with her and while we were at her house, she said I looked like I was dating her. This girl's reply was, "You never know." That startled me. I knew she had a boyfriend, but why was she acting this way? In school, she held my hand at lunch, and we always texted each other outside of school. One day, just out of no where, she stopped answering my texts, and she suddenly backed off a little. I was guessing her boyfriend read her text messages and told her to back off. Now we never act the same way we acted before. I was talking to her best friend one day, and I confessed my love. Her best friend trusted me with her life, and I trusted her as well. I told her I loved this girl and she wasn't surprised. Then, disaster struck. This girl read her best friend's text messages and found out I like her, and honestly, I feel as if it damaged my relationship with her even more. Then one day, I met another girl at the mall, and I liked her. We dated for about two weeks, but I broke up with her. She hated me. I couldn't see her as often because Track season had started. Looking at my dominating love, I was left unaffected. Now I'm single, and I still like this girl who's still dating the love of her life. She came to school one day, knowing that I liked her, and started showing off her Hickies in front of me. I knew she was trying to make me jealous, but could it possible be cause she liked me? I had no idea, but her relationship with the love of her life got stronger and stronger everyday. Now she cares about him 24/7 and doesn't even text me anymore. The only time I can talk to her is at Lunch, and we never act or talk the same way we had in the beginning of 9th grade. She's more distant now. 1) Do you think her relationship will last? 2) How should I act around this girl? 3) Should I move on or try to win her? Open Question: Will I be single forever?Will I be single forever? I'm 21, I've never had a girlfriend. I've never even been kissed by a girl. Even the girls that hang with me and my best friends don't like me or really talk to me. I might be close to getting a friend that's a girl, but I might have already screwed that on up too. I don't know, right now it just seems like I never get married, or at this rate even have real friends that are girls... I've been praying for a girlfriend for over 6 years. There are no singles group at my church. All the girls there are either too old for, too young for me, have a boyfriend, or just don't like me. I love God, and I'm trying to become a stronger Christian all the time. I'm waiting until after I'm married for sex. I don't drink I don't smoke I don't do drugs I'm a virgin I'm waiting till I'm married for sex.(This include oral and anal) I'm a computer geek I'm planning on becoming a video game programmer.(I'm actually pretty sure that's what God wants me to do too.) I do sometimes look at porn, though for the most part it's fixed. But I could still use some prayer for to get this fixed. Since I don't want it in my life anymore. I do have basic hygine. I brush my teeth I shower I use deorderent I don't smell badly. I'm about 5-8" or 5-9" feet tall. I have dirty blond hair. I have no disfiguring scars or anything like that. Personalty: I'm nice. loyal respect(I actually look at a girl's face when I'm talking to a girl, and not her breasts) sincere I listen to what girls have to say, and actually care what they are feeling and saying. trusting honest smart I'm shy I have low self confidence I can be selfish I tend to slur my speech. I talk too speech. I have a hard time explaining things. I have perverted mind, and like perverted jokes, though I don't act on the pervertedness. I like touching when it comes to girls(Nothing sexual till married) Just stuff like hugs. I have OCD(Mostly fixed, yay God) GAD(Mostly fixed, yay Jesus) ADD(Not bad enough to cause any real problems) Social Anxiety and a touch of depression(Fixed) Open Question: Christmas gift for my boyfriend?Hey there!:] so my boyfriend is 14, he likes baseball. a lot. haha. uhm. see here my problem is i have no idea what to get him for christmas. ive already bought him some m&m's with his favorite baseball team [the sf giants] logo on them. what else should i get him? please pleas help me!!!! Open Question: jealousy problem with girls?my previous girlfriend hung out with her ex a few times and i got extremely jealous that they were still friends. i know thats ok with being friends and stuff but i just couldnt help it. i was jealous. She had just said it was cute that i was jealous and still hung out with him. idk if it was to make me more jealous or what but i DID get jealous. i broke up with her a while ago. But im still sort of bothered about jealousy. am i just the jealous type or was it her being good at making people jealous. do girls think its cute when they boyfriends get jealous cause i do a lot and i dont like it very much.. help, thanks. Open Question: my pregnancy problem solved..?i remember a while ago asking about what was the best thing to do. i am 16 and pregnant. and i came to a solution. i told my mom my boyfriend knows and i decided not to abort. and im happy i am now 16yrs old and 6 weeks pregnant. Open Question: Help with my christmas gift for my boyfriend?For christmas, I want to get him a stone heart (around 3 inches or so) and engrave it with meaningful words. The problem is, I don't know where to find a stone heart. And since I want to get it engraved, where do I go to do that? Please help. Open Question: What should i do about this girl i like that doesn't want to talk to me anymore?During this past summer i stumbled across an old friend on myspace, her name is Jessica, so i decided to add her as a friend and sent her a message asking if she remembered me because we used to be good friends back in third grade. I met her for the first time in kindergarten and when i saw her i just lost my mind and fell in love with this girl. she was the reason i used to try in school because i would she would get impressed and like me back. i became her friend in first grade because we had the same class and the teacher had made a seating chart according to last name which, unbelievably, sat me next to her because our last names both start with R. second grade went well, just spent more time being friends. But in third grade i decided id make a move so one day when i was over at a friends house, only because Jessica live across the street and she would come out to play, while we were playing hide-and-go-seek i attempted to give her a kiss, you know how kids try to kiss, but she slapped me and ran away :'( . After third grade she moved to a different school and i was devastated by that because i was hoping to hang out with her some more. So now, 8 years later, i still have a thing for her and really want to hang with her because i just know that if i get some time with her like old times things will be different this time, but i messed up bad recently. The problem is that after i asked her if she remembered me, it took a little time, she finally remembers and we start reminiscing about the past and stupid things we used to do and i even told her about the time i tried to kiss her and even she said she slapped me and ran away. so i ask her for her number because i finally got text messaging, after 5 years of having my crap phone, and began text messaging her at times in the day and even talked with her on the phone a few times. Then, one day she calls me and asks me where i live because she happened to be in the general area where i lived and she thought about me and wanted to visit. so after several minutes of back and forth "where are you??" she arrived in my neighborhood and gave her a tour. i made my first mistake here because i was so nervous i actually forgot to show her where i lived which is 1 reason why she stopped by. everything was fine after i still talked to her frequently up until the day that an annual festival at my local church arrived. so i asked her if she was going and she replied yes. so i thought this is my chance to maybe get her a little interested and maybe hang out again sometime, BUT i made what i think is my biggest mistake the day of the festival. that day i walked nervously to the festival, because its just around the corner, and expected to see her, which i did, but she was with her friends and BOYFRIEND (which i forgot to mention, she had been with him for some time now) and seeing her with him and her friends scared me so when she said "HEY!!", because she saw me walking by, even though i saw her first, all i did was keep my pace said hi and walked along. after i text messaged her why i didn't go up to her to talk and hang out and she said it was alright so i asked her if she wanted to hang out some other time in a different setting, she said, and i quote, "i don't want to hang out with someone who doesn't even want to talk to me". and ever since she hardly ever replies to my text messages and never answers if i call. this is the girl of my dreams and i royally screwed myself. I've been thinking that maybe i should go over to her house and talk to her in person and just try even if she tells me she doesn't want to be my friend anymore. its killing me and i can hardly focus on other things. i was really convinced i had a chance because for a girl with a boyfriend she was awfully affectionate. i just want to to know what i should do. Open Question: I don't understand it =\..Advice please?=\?Okay....in the middle of last month (November) I asked on here about one of my best guy friends. This is my 2nd time today posting this because no one seems to want to give me advice=\. A quick recap: I'm 17 and a Senior in high school. He's 18 and a Freshman in college. We have known each other for about 2 years and get along really great. We talk pretty much about anything and everything. And I like him a lot. A lot a lot. He's everything that a girl would want and I can truly see myself being with him for years. We have so much in common and both are on our way to being successful. Most importantly, he likes me for who am I, loves every flaw that I don't like about myself and doesn't mind having a friendship/relationship with him being white and me being mixed with Native American and African American. But there is one problem: One night I was talking to him and I gave him a compliment. He said Thank you, but quickly added something negative about himself. He does this not a lot but pretty often.In my eyes, he basically put himself down and he's scared to love me. I got kind of upset because it seems like he pushed me away =\. The most recent time this happened which was in October I questioned him about it and made his arguments run in circles. It's like he saids something negative about himself, but doesn't know why he saids it? He's also a hard person to read. I posted this question before asking what is wrong with him and why he does it. One person responded that I need to stop making it about me. Honestly, I'm not making it about me. I'm not that type of person. I was also told that it was insecurity and/or low self-esteem, but I only got 2 answers. It's just that it has been driving me crazy. I want to tell him I like him as in being boyfriend and girlfriend but I need more opinions. Why do you think he keeps doing this? Is he afraid of something? If it is low self-esteem is there any way that I can help him bring it up? Some additional info: He's really protective over me. Even when he's busy, he makes sure that I'm okay even if we talk for about 5 minutes...and he tell me he loves me everyday, but I don't know how to take it because that phrase is used loosely. I know he's single because he tells me basically everything. Last time he was dating, the girl he was interested in just want a relationship just to mess around. He's in college in MA..I'm all the way in PA. I talk to him alot, now he's in college, over AIM. And I'm planning on telling him that I like him next time I talk to him this week, and hope for the best. =\ Sorry for the length =\ Open Question: I want to bring boyfriend to Christmas, but stubborn family disapproves... How to work out a solution?I'm a 28-year old female who met a 26-year old male at work. We've known each other for over a year, but started dating a little over a month ago. At this point we are in an exclusive relationship and are rather serious. His schedule won't allow him to go home to his family for Christmas, because they are in another state and he has to work on Christmas night. Thinking that's no way to spend Christmas (alone), I told him I'd ask if my family minded him coming over, as we usually just hang out, have dinner on Christmas Eve and do breakfast on Christmas morning. He said he would love that. Well, I called the family and explained the situation of him being alone, etc. and they shot me down saying they'd rather not have any guests that aren't family (our festivities typically and will only include myself, my mother, two aunts and an uncle). Maybe I'm a little laid back, or am more in the spirit of sharing, but I have a real issue with that answer. I guess I thought they'd appreciate that he wanted to meet my family, and wouldn't have a problem sharing a nice Christmas experience with someone I obviously care about, when they couldn't be with their family. My question is, am I being completely irrational in assuming that this isn't a big deal? Should I push the situation and see if I can change their minds? Any other advice? More Recent Articles
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