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Open Question: Girls, help me understand women.? and more... Open Question: Girls, help me understand women.?Why are you females so complicated? I used to work for my dad, during this time he hired this really cute girl to work behind the bar (he owns a pub). We got on really well, I used to make her laugh a lot and she started making some very tempting suggestions so I began to think it was going somewhere, then, just before I stopped working for my dad she got herself a boyfriend, this threw me off the idea of us two completely, I left the job and forgot all about her. Now at this point I should probably admit that I am really bad at taking a friendship to the next level. I've got no problem getting the attention, I just tend to shy away when it gets more serious. Also, I think I'm going through some kind of social anxiety at the moment so it's difficult enough for me to get close to someone. Then a couple weeks ago I went to the pub for my dads bday and she was there. I found out she wasn't with her boyfriend anymore and we started talking again and all the feelings started coming back. So I decided I was going to make my move, when I went to find her I found out she'd left. Went back to the pub this weekend and there was barely any interest from her what-so-ever, a bit of mild flirting and thats as far as it went, once again she left without saying anything. Now, being a bloke, I am completely at a loss on what to do now. Do I just give up or is this all part of the chase? Is she interested and is she worth it? Normally I wouldn't let a problem like this bug me but this is different for some reason. Sorry for the essay, tried to make it as small as possible. Hope you can help. Open Question: Relationship issue(Its a lot so if you have time and real and good advise please read)?Me and this girl were dating off and on since 2008 January. She's older than me by 6 years (shes 29 and I'm 23) and has been through some bad things in her life relationship wise. This was the first woman I've fallen in love with my whole life I found that I loved being around her, I love everything about her even the bad things I thought I'd never tolerate in a woman. I think that shes afraid of love but, I'm wildly in love with her. Just her voice makes my heart pound, when I stare into her eyes it seems like I'm stareing into something so beautiful I have to look away or I might faint fall. I'll do anything to see her with a smile on her face. Well, the reason we broke up a few times was because I just never thought that she took me seriously. She has a problem with showing affection. At this time she semed to compare me to her old boyfriends who had done her wrong in the past and that bothered me a lot. At the same time she would do so manythings for me that no other woman ever did. She was nice and caring and thoughtful. She was a proven great mother to her son. Just all around what I looked for in a woman. It hurt me bad when the first time I told her I loved her she didn't even say anything back. So, I refrained from telling her this again for a long time. Well, that was the first time we broke up shorly after that (we split for a few months) because I felt like I was wasting my time. I had sex with a few different women thinking that this was going to help me get over her It didn't work at all. THis made me want her more because none of these women compared to her in the slightest. She started to see another man that didn't work out at all for her but she didnt have sex with him. I felt gulty so I never brought this to her attention. So I could stop feeling the way I felt, I went and got her back. Without her in my life I was just really unhappy. I felt like I found the one I wanted and needed in my life and she was gone. It felt like my soul burned for this woman. When I had goten her back, we decided to just be friends for a while and keep seeing each other. I thought this was okay because at that time I jsut wanted to be around her again. Well the just be friends thing didn't last because we started catching feeling for each other all over again. Well to make a long story short we stopped talking again for some more months because of a really bad arguement we had. She said soe things that hurt me really bad and so I did the same. This time I tried to cut her off completely, I erased her number, her myspace, her facebook, I got rid of her pics on my phone I tried everything to not think about her. this went on for some more months. I tried to see another woman again but this just made me wish I had her. I found out I didnt care about the sex It was her personality her smile, just to hold her thats what I wanted. Well, I found myself doing things I had never done in my life. I was looking up her pics online just to see her face again. I called her number but she wouldn't pick up. (She only did twice out of 4 months.) Trying everything to get back in contact with her I finally did. I found out a few months ago she started seeing another man again but this time she had sex with him. She asked me if I had been with anyone and I lied and said no. I don't know why I lied . Maybe because I didn't want her to hurt like I was when she told me she was with someone else. Well he dogged her out and used her. Since we began talking again with no sex involved, we've gotten closer than ever before. Talking about things we've never spoke about good or bad. Now I've found myself back where I started. I'm deeply in love with her again. But I'm afraid to tell her how I feel I don't wanna mess up what we have right now. I want to be a part of her future and I want her to be a part of mine. I dont want to see her hurt ever again. I know in my heart I want her to me my wife one day and mother to my child. What should I do?! Open Question: My boyfriend doesn't want to celebrate Christmas with me?I have a little problem with my boyfriend, because he finds a hundred excuses not to celebrate Christmas with me. We couldn't do it in his house, because of his wife, but he could come to my place if he only wanted. He and his wife have an open relationship and she has a boyfriend too, with whom she had Thanksgiving dinner. Lately she's been seeing another woman as well, so she will be busy on Christmas, apart from Dec. 26th, which she and my boyfriend will spend together and I have to tolerate that they sleep together. But I want him before that, but something seems to be wrong. I found a catalogue with men in underwear in his drawer (usually my bedtime literature) and he doesn't seem interested anymore in either me or his wife. Shall I suggest a combined dinner with the two of us, his wife, her girl- and boyfriend and my husband to relax the situation? Open Question: Should I break up with my boyfriend?My boyfriend gets angry at me very often and he is getting mad at me for a things that shouldn't be considered as a problem. He gets angry at me when he is stressed too. It happens like every two weeks and our fights are really big. He always says that it's my fault but later when it gets better he tells me that he is sorry and that it's all because of nerves he has because of work and so on. I always try to help him and give him good advices but he doesn't care. I started to skip school every time we have a fight because I just can't think clearly and I am thinking about what did I do wrong. Today is a first year anniversary as we are together and I didn't thought that we will be fighting that day. He can be dear to me but I really hate these fights and since september they happen every 2 weeks. He is a very nervous person but why do I have to pay the price for his stress. I want to know what you would do girls. Would you keep up with it and wait what happens after sometime or would you break up with a guy like this really soon? He lives in a different town and he drives to me every 3 or 2 weeks. We don't have fights when we meet only when we write to each other on internet. What would you do in my situation. Yes I'm in high school now, last year. I'm 19 now. Well he is not that kind of guy who would cheat I'm sure about that because I know him pretty well. It is just that that he is very nervous and every little thing may stress him. When he is too nervous he just gets mad at everyone and it results in fights. Open Question: sexual problems with boyfriend?aww why do i feel like throwing up every time my boyfriend and i do something sexual? I start feeling really sick and disgusted and want to be furthest away from him possible! is this normal? Afterwards i dont want to see him for days! We've being dating for 8months and i have known him for 5yrs. Someone help please, i almost feel like telling him it isnt working between us.. Could it be a fear of falling in love or intimacy on my part? Im not really that sure, or it may be fear of letting go.. Umm yeh i have had past emotional abuse and not the best childhood growing up but no physical or sexual abuse from a boyfriend. I thought i felt ready in the moment, although afterwards was wen the disgusted and regretful feelings started. I did feel pressured by him to do other sexual favours and he was complaining that it had been 3months into it and i hadnt yet done anything. Maybe i should see if i can connect differently with someone else, take a break with him and see how it goes. Open Question: Should I let my best friend move in with me and my boyfriend?She has no where to go and is being asked to leave the apartment she is in. She's having money problems and I thought maybe she could liv here until she can get back on her feet. Do you think it would be a stupid move? 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