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Open Question: GIRLS AND GUYS!!!!!!!! How do I find out if this girl has a boyfriend or not? and more... Open Question: GIRLS AND GUYS!!!!!!!! How do I find out if this girl has a boyfriend or not?I met this girl this year who seems to like me and I just got her number 3 days ago. We have been texting a lot in the last few days and I want to get to know her a lot more until I finally ask her out. The only problem is that her facebook profile says "In a Relationship" but I have never seen her with any particular guy at school and she doesn't seem like she has a Boyfriend. How do I find out if she has a BF or not without blowing it and making it awkward? Open Question: Relationship advice? I know wrong section..?I know this is the wrong section, but it's a little more active over here. My boyfriend has a very bad temper. He doesn't get mad often, but when he does it's over the littlest things and he completely over reacts. I've never seen him like he was tonight. He almost missed his turn while we were driving and it scared me. I got a little upset and kind of threw my purse on the floor, and then he got mad at me for getting upset. He yelled "What the f***?! What's your problem are you a f****** idiot? I'm so sick of you getting mad!" I wasn't even that mad...just scared because he turned so sharply and quickly. And when I'm scared, getting mad is sort of like my "defense" I guess. Anyway... About an hour before that we were laying on the couch and I was laying on him with my head on his chest. Then I adjusted my head and he put his hand on my forehead and pushed my head backwards and said "S*** your chin is digging into my chest". I told him that was no reason to shove my head backwards. These outbursts of his are few and far between, but I'm not sure what to do about them. Thoughts? Also, I think I should mention that 99% of the time he treats me wonderfully. And the other thing is that he is on medication which I think is the reason for his outbursts (when he's not on the medication he is completely fine). Open Question: Why is he acting strange all the sudden?I've been dating my boyfriend for over two years now and he only texts me once a day or calls me once a day now. He says hes busy and hes doing stuff with his family which he is (hes a family guy) but my gut is telling me he is somehow avoiding me. He says i love you when we get off the phone, but im senseing something is wrong. I've tried to talk to him about it but he just says hes busy and he doesnt need to text me once a hour, i dont want a text once a hour, i just dont want to just talk to him once a day. if this helps, we've been having issues with how he cheated last year, but other than that im the one that has no problem, he does. :-( Open Question: A Good Friend is Holding back Physically, what does this mean -long-?I've known this girl for the past two years. But we've never actually started getting close till we start hanging out together about a month ago. So much has happened since then. I've backed her up on programs and projects. She's seen me cry and I've seen her cry in moments of heart ace. We both are completely open with each other sharing more with one another than perhaps any other in a long time. Ok, the problem you ask? I've seen her to be a very physically affectionate person with many others whom she's known for the past 3 years or more (I presume this to be because she's international and not so closed as many of us here in the USA). An there was a small moment about a month ago when she expressed that with me also. During our promoting friendship, she asked me Why am I so nice to her? An I told her because I loved her. Our friendship has continued to grow after this but after I gave her a gift (2 drawings) she happily mentioned, "Wow, this is more than a boyfriend would give". Ofcourse I didn't like that statement and have realized that she doesn't understand and have mentioned that a friendship is a relationship in which holds many similar responsibilities and loyalties as any other relationship would. --Disregarding the sex of course-- Boyfriend- time, trust, honesty, loyalty, sacrifice, affection, love, concern. Friend - time, trust, honestly, loyalty, sacrifice, affection, love, concern. She is only 18. I'm 22. An the last time I sow her she told me that right now I was her closest friend. This surprised me for she even has a friend that she loves like a sisters and is openly affectionate with in public, but is unable to discuss dramatic events with. So its new for her to open up as we have. So now I ask is there a certain reason why shes open to touch others but not me? Is it because she's developed emotions that has her viewing the situation as touching a flower made out of glass? Or is it because for one to get touched, one needs to touch. Meaning that perhaps I need to make the first move and physically, as a friend, wrap my arm around her or hug her. I can't say I ever grew up in a environment where physical contact was permitted. Which is why it's not something I'm familiar with or know how it really works. But I like to touch and be touched, it's not like I want to grow up as a person who has leprosy. --So what would you suggest for me to understand what is happening, from perhaps her point of view or how to continue forward for us to become more physically acceptable twords one another? Thank You "TheAcaciaStrain" An your right, I do realize that there will be much pain. Love always is. Yet I've accepted that and this isn't the first and hopefully not the last. We both know that this friendship could end at anytime. For I am on my senior year in college. ---But I want to love again and I'm willing to continue trying. :) Open Question: Boyfriend has a bad temper..what to do?My boyfriend has a very bad temper. He doesn't get mad often, but when he does it's over the littlest things and he completely over reacts. I've never seen him like he was tonight. He almost missed his turn while we were driving and it scared me. I got a little upset and kind of threw my purse on the floor, and then he got mad at me for getting upset. He yelled "What the f***?! What's your problem are you a f****** idiot? I'm so sick of you getting mad!" I wasn't even that mad...just scared because he turned so sharply and quickly. And when I'm scared, getting mad is sort of like my "defense" I guess. Anyway... About an hour before that we were laying on the couch and I was laying on him with my head on his chest. Then I adjusted my head and he put his hand on my forehead and pushed my head backwards and said "S*** your chin is digging into my chest". I told him that was no reason to shove my head backwards. These outbursts of his are few and far between, but I'm not sure what to do about them. Thoughts? Also, I think I should mention that 99% of the time he treats me wonderfully. And the other thing I forgot to mention is that he is on medication which I think is the reason for his outbursts (when he's not on the medication he is completely fine). Open Question: Not sure how to advise my friends on cheating?I have 2 friends who have called me about similar problems thy are having. Both are 20 and in long relationships of over a year but are finding temptation hard to fight. They have slight crushes on men other than their partners and talk to them behind their boyfriends backs. Both their boyfriends are pretty uptight about this issue and control who they see. I haven't had any relationships as serious as these and so I'm finding it difficult to advise them on what to do. Any advice appreciated... thanks! More Recent Articles
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