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Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Open Question: Girl Problems 10 Points!!!? and more...

 
 



Open Question: Girl Problems 10 Points!!!? and more...

Open Question: Girl Problems 10 Points!!!?

Ok so theres this girl in my class (high school) that I like but for some reason I just cant talk to her the right way. I can talk to others girls just fine but not her. I act like a jerk when i talk to her because I can't think of anything to say usually. We're friends, she asked for my number, she always wears my jacket but now she has a boyfriend. I think she might have been interested but I messed it up. Any tips or advice guys or is it too late?

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Open Question: How do I get her back??? Or do I?

Ok my story goes like this my ex girlfriend now I am completely in love with is 14 years old and I am 16 years old. We were working on our problems for weeks when she just decided to give up on me I guess and Told me she didn't love me anymore, 2 of her friends at least don't like me one of them completely hates me, Her parents don't like us dating because of her age and She has a new boyfriend what should I do, Should I keep trying to get with her Or should I just give up? If you think I should keep trying to get with her explain to me

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Open Question: I am the New Girlfriend and my boyfriends baby mama is hella tight with his mom is that ok?

I am the new girlfriend and i am upset because these two women are still real cool. His mom treats me like shit and She treats his baby mama like a daughter. Its been over 4 years that me and my boyfriend have been together and they don't give a flying f**** about my man at all. They try to keep the kids away from him on the weekends and they talk so much crap about us. Me and my man has never been so happy. Why is she still hanging on to his mom? To me its a problem and for him as well. What do you think?

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Open Question: Please help me I really need some advice!?

I just broke up with my boyfriend last night and I'm taking it really really hard. Brief history: it was love at first sight.. we moved in after dating for just a few months.. he came to my country and met my entire family and told my grandparents we would be together forever. No guy has ever met my entire family back home. He recently bought a house and i felt like all of our dreams were coming true. Now the bad stuff: we started having problems when we first moved in and i always felt like it was because of his mother. I really thought that when we moved out of her basement things would be different. There have been some occasions where he did really screwed up things. Once he made me drive to my moms house drunk because we were in a fight about something so stupid. He put my life in danger and was never able to admit it. Another time i lied to him about something stupid because i didn't want him to get upset and he spit in my face!! At the beginning I always used to leave and stay at my moms when we fought and he used top always tell me that i was running away and making it worse and begged me not to leave many times. He got me pregnant and i had an abortion which i still regret to this day and which he al;ways brings up. This has put our relationship on the rocks even more. Most recently he has been the one asking me to leave every time we get into a stupid little fight and i have been so hurt by it. This weekend we got into an argument because i felt he was being rude (we had people over and he was making jokes at my expense) and he thought i was being too sensitive. I called him annoying and he was so quick to ask me to leave again. I gave him an ultimatum and told him I'm tired of turing my life upside down every time we fight by packing unpacking, packing again and all this back and forth. It's exhausting and i always want to come back or not leave at all. I went to work and when I came back it seemed like he had thought about it and changed his mind but then he overheard me talking to my best friend on the phone about him, got mad and said maybe it is for the best if i really do go, so out of anger i told him its over. I felt really bad that he heard me but i wasn't calling him name or anything he's just a really private person and hates having other people know our business. I just feel like if he can argue with me in front of his mom and tell her everything I'm allowed to talk to my best friend about him! That night he was talking in his sleep and tried to cuddle with me. I heard him dreaming and telling me not to leave. I felt so bad because i didnt mean to say it was over but i was so hurt that he asked me to leave that i moved away from him in bed and was very cold. The next day he went to work and i packed my things and left. We talked after but he was so angry about everything and would not accept my apology about saying its over. I have been trying to call him and text but he is being so cold. He told me again last night that we are done just like i said and he really seems to mean it. I cant express how much i love this guy. we have been thru so much together and he is my whole life. I am so hurt and confused and i keep blaming myself for all of this. I feel like i never should have had an abortion but i was so scared that i would end up a single mom and im still in school. I feel like if i wasnt so sensitive all the time we wouldnt fight but in the same time i feel like he is way ruder now than before and maybe i cant take a joke anymore because i don't feel loved. I have been praying and am going to church for some counceling today. My best friend told me she is really concerned because she has never seen me like this before and I'm taking it really really hard. I am concerened for my emotional well being right now too. I feel like a zombie, I cant function properly and I'm scared. I feel like I cant go on without him. I think some time apart will be good for us but i didn't want it to end. I thought he was so in love with me and i want him back i want him to want to work on this and i cant help but feel hopeless. I don't know what to do. He's a gemini and i know he doesn't like to be chased but i don't know how to rectify this or how to pick myself up from this downward spiral. Please help!

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Open Question: Who should i choose to live with mom or dad?

my dad has current custody of me. my mom and him share joint custody. my dad gets disability. and i get a check also. well the problem is i never see any of the money that he receives to take care of me. the only think he pays for is my cell phone. but my mother is the one that makes sure i'm taken care of if that means flying all the way from texas to take care of me when i'm sick, her giving me money for the things i need. i admitt it my step dad and mother are very well off. but i dont see how they should be taking care of everything i need. i love both my mom and dad. but i'm wondering if my dad is just using me to get my money so he can spend it on whatever he wants or pay for his bills. help me? what should i do? the only real reason i havent went to live with my mom is because shes really big into her religion (jehovah witness) and i really dont want to be a part of it. and shes really strict about alot of things. im not a wild child. i just like to be able to go out with friends and my boyfriend. how do i pick? or how do i ask my dad about where my money is going?

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Open Question: Don't know what to do, advice please?!?

OK, so I kinda like two girls, just want people's opinion on which I should try and take things further with, and explain your answers please. The first girl doesn't live that close to me, but I drive so that's not really an issue, it's only 20 mins in the car. We really get on and make each other laugh loads. I met her through mutual friends, and think we would be really good together. But I don't really see her that often. The second girl I'm on a course with, and we see each other almost every day. I find her more physically attractive than girl one and also feel I have a better emotional connection with her. Only problem is, she has a boyfriend. He's away working right now but when he get's back she's planning on dumping him coz he treats her pretty bad. Just wondering your opinion on what I should do, go for girl one, or wait for girl two (give her time after breaking up with her bf obviously)?. Don't forget to give reasons please :)

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Open Question: problems with landlords?

landlords are sooooooooo cheap these days. they can;t even buy us a new stove. this is very old. there is several problems with it. the timer does not work, the self cleaning part does not work, and 2 of the burners doesn't work. we been telling them we need a new stove and they give us a hard time. they do have lots of money u know. I can't wait to move out of this place. this basement apt has little windows . the livingroom window does not open at all. i have to open the door to get air in here. the fire alarm works but its a piece of sh.. . we do not have a fire extingeshire in here.we have not humudfire when it gets hot in the summertime. its too small for the 3 of us. I have a 18 yr old and a boyfriend to as well. its too boring down here to as well. this landlord gets into ur business too much to as well.

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Open Question: Irregular period...pregnant?

I am currently on both birth control, and INH antibiotic. My doctor told me that INH would not effect my birth control pills....some websites say that it will, some say that it will not. This is my 5th month on INH and I have not had any problems, until now. My boyfriend and I use a condom about 50% of the time. We've been together for a long time, but are not ready for a baby...I know, "then use condoms all the time"...which is what my plan is for the future, so please don't lecture me. My period began like normal, bright red, pretty light...but it never progressed. Normally by the 2nd day it's a normal flow. I'm on day 3 now, and it is still very light...and almost like a bright red mucousy texture. Because this is not my normal period, I took a HPT...which was faint, but negative. Should I get a test from my doctor? Or is my period just having an off month? I've heard of women being pregnant and having a light period, but I'm not sure if that is my case or not.

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