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Open Question: gay relationship help please! boyfriend has constant need to know i love him.? and more... Open Question: gay relationship help please! boyfriend has constant need to know i love him.?I'm am the older one in this relationship, i am a 16 year old male. and my boyfriend is a 14 year old male. I will 17 this January. My boyfriend will be 15 this March. We have been dating for 3 months. We we're not friends at first ether, we just sorta hooked up after my friend told me he liked me, plus i was willing to try this out. After the first 1 month, everything was fine, we got to know each other, and our love grew. Then the first problem came, he claimed i said i love you a lot more then i say today, and that's probably true, but after 3 months, you just get this feeling even if you say it once a week they know. not him, he needs to understand that i love him all the time, like having me be there everywhere, i have to hang out with him all the time, its like he gave up his life to spend it all with me, and just because i have a hobby of making a video for you-tube every second week, that I'm helping organize a play in my school, i suddenly have no time for him, he feels like we aren't in a relationship? we broke up about 4 times for this reason in the last month, we got back together because we can forgive and forget, but, i feel like I'm the only one forgetting at least, because he continues to claim i don't love him, that it doesn't seem like i (anything to do with him) (love, spend time, ext) I try to fix this, but i have a bad temper, and he knows this, plus when I'm being serious, he asks me whats wrong, and I'm a serious person, I'm not smiling 100% of the time I'm with anyone in the world. I know he's my boyfriend, but still, we try to fix this over and over, but it never seems to last. I'm not sure what to do, we do talk about this issue a lot, but it always counts as an argument. When ever we get close to breaking up again, he suddenly changes, and cries, claiming he never wants to lose me. But i know we might have to change a little in order to love each other, but then again, he also has to change, I'm not going to prepare to spend every second of the day telling him i love you, while he gets what he wants without changing one little bit. Open Question: She has a Ex-Boyfriend She cant Forget?Okay, i met this girl not expecting much but we started to hit it off nice. We had good talks and slept together. At times we even have days we chilled the night. but the problem is she been with her boyfriend for 3 years. and they gotten back together couple times even though they broke up. I had the same thing but moved on faster. I have other girls on the side line and was wondering what i should do because i actually feel for this one the most. i can tell she is not over her ex. i dont want to be a rebound or just another person tat she can use to keep her mind off. what should i do? Open Question: Does my boyfriend have a problem with me being partly black?My family just found out that we have an African-American ancestor from awhile ago which makes me partly black, and I thought that was pretty cool so I told my boyfriend and he was like really surprised, and he was like "are you serious?" in this really shocked voice, and I was kind of hurt by that. I've never see him be racist or anything, but do you think he thinks differently of me now? Maybe I'm imagining things but he seems kinda different now. =( Open Question: How can I get a LIFE ?I've always had social problems and I think it may be because of my disability. Sometimes I feel so depressed because I see people going out with their friends & boyfriends . i'm 16 & I've never really had a best friend OR a boyfriend. Everyone says to join a club , but pretty much 99.9% of the time, people bring their friends with them because they don't want to be that awkward loner! My sister makes it look so easy and my parents are constantly on my back about going out! How can I feel better about this pathetic life I'm living? I'm letting my childhood slip away by staying in every weekend. I really need a friend in my life. Open Question: What does my ex mean?ok.. so my ex boyfriend wrote this.. I guess he is good at rhyming. I am just trying to figure out what he means by it. What are the first 14 lines about? Can you try to read into it... LOL He named it, "the wrong bottle of pills" thanks two hundred bucks for two hundred ***** c'mon stupid question me my authority oh stupid. i'm slowed down by technology that stupid won't leave me be i will just pay it off and see it off to never be needed to be dealt with any more to hell with it i'm tired of trying sometimes. everyone gets this way. maybe. maybe i'm weak and i need to shut up. well i shut up for some time, but those problems arise and i want to move away. but where is nowhere? nowhere. and i know i can't leave, maybe never leave. and am i trapped in a prison of reality? is this life great? and am i here for a reason? will i grow old? will i live until i die? when will i die? i am afraid, i think, sometimes, but other times i'm not and i'm almost ready to go, but i think my instinct kicks in and i continue runnin'. and i'm not running away, but running to stay, and i stay longer. i don't want to be alone any longer. and i know i'm not. it's all that pot and that lsd. that coke and speed and thorazine, those xanex pills ecstasy killed brain cells and i'm never going to be like i was before this madness. and maybe i'm returning. zapata returns! well, i was burned and i'm different. so i think i'm going to drink my tequila. it cost me like 40 dollars. but it was the wrong bottle. Open Question: What do you think of a 17 year old dating a 27 year old?I met a 27 yo guy last weekend at a party and I just got this weird feeling as though I was instantly attracted to him. We hit it off. He was so much fun to be around. He was a bit flirty but he wasn't touchy feely which is good. We were alone outside and we were talking and we ended up kissing. I felt fireworks. I said to him that if i'm just a bit of fun, then I would put things to an end there and then. He said that he is attracted to me and he said that he wasn't planning on hooking up with any girls that night. He also said he's only ever had 2 one night stands ever. Also, I was sitting on him and we were cuddling because it was freezing that night. He had his hands up my top at the back but even though he had a chance to touch my butt or boobs, he didn't. So that must go to show that he respects me yeah? He has a job, a car, his own place. So I think that's good that he can take care of himself. The age difference does bother me a bit but it doesn't turn me off of the idea of dating him. I would only date him if I felt as though the feelings for each other were serious, strong and if I could see a future with him. If it's just a crush or lust, i'm not going there. The thing that scares me is that i'm so young, I don't have the life experience that he has. I really want to travel but I think he wants to do that too because we were talking about places we'd like to visit. I don't fall for guys easily. I've only had one serious boyfriend and he broke my heart after 13 months. He was one year older and he wasn't mature when it came to sorting out problems with the relationship and other things. I am so sick of the immaturity of the guys aged 17 to 25. Open Question: I feel like shit and everything is going wrong.?So everything is going wrong and i have no idea what to do. Me and my boyfriend broke up, my phone got disconnected and i have no money to pay it, im not getting hiring ANYWHERE, christmas is coming soon and i have no money, im doing shit in school, just EVERYTHING is wrong. Atleast with my phone i could text people and it made my day better but now its disconnected and i really doo feel like i have nothing. Me and my bf broke up and i made him my everything so now its hard to find things to do because i use to alllways be with him. annnnnd ive been applying everywhere now for months for a job and noooone is calling me. my phone getting disconnecred is also going to make this a problem because what if a job calls me and im not at home to answer my home phone. I justt have noo idea what to doo =( im sooo lost, i cant take this anymore. Open Question: am i overreacting and being overly judgmental?my mom was widowed 2 yrs ago. she has 3 children (including myself), ages 14,17, and 20 (me). she has recently started seeing a new man, and i am concerned about this for several reasons. my mother is 50 and the man is 35...which is not the problem. the problem is the following: the man is unemployed and is not even trying to find a job, the man is completely broke and can't even afford to take my mother out to eat or a movie, the man has been living at home with his mother and has been for years and shows no intention of moving out. also, my mom i suppose could be considered a "wealthy" widow...and it is always possible that this guy is some creep after her money...i don't know anything like that for sure though when my mom asks me what i think about their relationship, i cannot help but express my concern and tell her she should try to find a more mature and accomplished boyfriend. she tells me i should just be happy for her and that she likes the guy. am i wrong to be upset about this relationship? is it wrong for me to not encourage her to continue seeing this man? any advice? Open Question: I NEED MAJOR HELP pleaseeee!!?I am 18 and i cant stand living at home with 2 grandparents that dont work but there income goes straight to bills NOTHING to me. My disabled dad and his check that goes to nothing but bills and 16 dollars in food stamps. I cannot get a job because i have foot problems and problems dealing with people. I dont think i can get a place to live because i cannot aford it and my boyfriend cant get a job either...help? Open Question: Why can't I find a quality Girlfriend? Why am I single?I'll keeep this brief. 1. Im 24 Male 5'6 white 2. I get told all the time I am hot and sexy blah blah blah. Usually by unattractive women. Heres a link to my pic: myspace.com/abercrombieboi22 3. I have a good unique personality, funny in my unique way but shy till i get to know/comfortable around people. 4. I own the house I live in, I live by my self and I keep it clean. I am self employed and make decent money for my age. 5. I dont go up to every girl i meet and flirt or come on crazy.. I am open and receptive and willing to be a frind. NOR am I not a crazed boyfriend controling freak, high-strung, desparate, and all the other stories girls tell about their boyfriends ect. HERES WHERE THE PROBLEM COMES IN 6. The only women or girls that want me are divorced and/or have kids, or not attractive, on social security, are nobody's ect. (add: I am not shallow, I have dated those people...more than not) 5. The women I run across that would seem to be: Level headed, down-to-earth and someone generaly of "quality" ((Like me)) are either, taken or party animals. QUESTION: Im not looking for Ms. Perfect, just a normal human being thats looking for the same. Why is it so hard for me to find what im looking for? PS I dont use the Myspace (with playboy theme) as a tool for meeting people. I dont hookup with people from the internet. More Recent Articles |
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