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Open Question: Freshman Dance Help.? and more... Open Question: Freshman Dance Help.?Alright here's the problem. A few weeks ago, I asked a sophomore to go with me to our school's freshman dance in March. Now, the only class I have with this girl is gym. And I'm not really good at sports despite the fact I'm 6 feet tall. But the problem I've been having is talking to her. I don't know what to talk about. I would've asked her out on a date or something but she already has a boyfriend. And in gym there's this other sophomore who's always around her. And this sophomore thinks that's he's the coolest kid and that he's amazing at everything. Plus he's not exactly the nicest person. He makes fun of most of the kids in our gym class and just flirts with her most of the time. Gym ends for my class towards the end of January. So any ideas about stuff to talk about would help. And maybe some other ways to actually be with her would be good too. By the way I am a freshman. Open Question: I might kill myself over this... should I and if not what should i do?.. (Part 1 of 3)?READ ALL PARTS!!! I was a loner for 13 years. Never once had anyone ever appealed to me. Then one day after a soccer game in my gym class in 7th grade this girl approached me and said that I played hard out there in a flirt-like way. I was confused I didn't think she knew who she was dealing with because I've been known as a guy with anger problems and a loner. We talked a lot after that and became friends. We'd flirt in the back of the science class because we had already understood the material and we were just having fun. Although it took me 4 months to figure out I liked her, but by then it was too late. She was already dating someone else who I wouldn't know until over a year later that he cut her while they were dating. They dated for a year while I was just messing around cracking jokes having fun and all. We even played poker on the last day of school and I pulled a Royal Flush on her. We laughed said bye and we hoped that we had more classes together the next year. Over the summer something happened to me but I became not the happy go lucky I don't give a shit guy I used to be. I became a demon from hell. Listening to Death Metal was something I started to do a lot. I guess it corrupted me. The next year she didn't hang around me as much anymore. It was as if she was partially avoiding me. I started to feel internal suffering. A suffering so great it brought tears to my eyes for the first time in 8 years. The last time was when I tripped and cracked my head open on a metal scooter. I started to realize something when I ran everything through my head. The pain ceased when the thought of that I was in love with her crossed my mind. But after a while it wasn't enough. I really knew that this was the girl for me. After years of confusion and wonder, this was the one. Later that day I spilled everything to her. What confused the hell out of me was that she said that she has already known. I asked for how long. She said for an entire year. Almost three times a week afterwards I would tell her I love you. I'm not sure but after two months of this is when she started to back off a little. We shared lunch that year and she was always concerned that I no longer ate lunch. She would always blame the fact that she's Italian, but that doesn't seem right to me. What always was paining me was that she basically talked about her ex-boyfriends or her current one. That annoyed me. She knew I loved her but she didn't seem to care. Soon after, I spiraled into a depression that would last about a year. I would ask her every now and then if she loved me. I made it clear that it would be fine if she didn't because I wouldn't kill myself, I'd just back off. I said this because I got the feeling that I may have gotten over-attached to her for not being her bf. She wouldn't tell me. She also does the weirdest shit ever and still watches shows that I have never watched but I knew they were for four year olds. Her favorite TV show is Little Bill, ok. Other than over little things, she's indecisive. Occasionally she will argue with herself over something that the answer is obvious to but she does it anyway. I've wondered if she loves me every single day since I knew that I was in love with her. Soon after a few weeks of the only topic she talked about was her bf and at the same time every now and then when I was noticeably depressed she would "tease" me in a way that messes with me, I went suicidal. She even does that to this day, messes with me that there's still hope for me. I have no idea whether or not she would even date me, although judging by the fact that she has to have a bf every second practically, I think that she would. I'm still unsure. I told her that was unsure of my will to live and she got pissed off as hell. She said, "FUCKING HELL NO YOU DON'T! You're not killing yourself I'm not letting you I'll find you a reason to live." Open Question: There's this girl that I like...?I just started talking to her 2 weeks ago, but she's been there longer. She works at my job and I talk to her when I can. I really like her and I want to ask her out, but the problem is that I don't know if she has a boyfriend or not... How do I know if she has a boyfriend or not without asking her? If i ask her she'll definitely know what's up... and it will be kinda awkward for me and her. But if i must, then I at least need to find the right way to ask. My friends told me to check to see if she uses any social network sites, because they occasionally have info on their relationship status and whatnot. I did that and found it. But no info. She must add me first and she hasn't been on since October 31st of this year. So... I doubt she'll ever log on anytime soon... Damn... I sound like such a stalker. lol. Anywho... any pointers or tips? Some helpful information or tips that might help me ask her out as well? 10 points to the best answer, of course. Thanks in advance. Open Question: MY EX IS BACK BUT I HAVE BOYFRIEND NOW???few weeks ago my friend asked me out & told me that he likes me & stuff...& i said yes since his such a good person...at least not like any other boy i meet in my life!!!! but the problem is my ex is back..who still hav feelings for me & part of me does 2 but i'm with someone else now who am i going to do now..help plz!!! Open Question: keyboard shortcuts screwing up?While playing World of Warcraft, my boyfriend has recently started to encounter problems with his keyboard. It starts out when all of a sudden, he hits the 'e' key, and a My Computer panel pops up. He can correct the problem by hitting one of the Windows keys, but then it locks out his 'c' 'h' 'v' and 't' keys. He switched out his keyboard, but it is obviously a computer problem because it is doing it with the replacement keyboard. Restarting the computer sometimes fixes the problem, but then sometimes it happens all over again. And its random. He never knows when it will start or what he might be doing to trigger it. Is there a fix for this? Open Question: my then girlfriend moved in with me this year. we mutually broke up, and get along fine. we are seniors?away at college. i live in a house with roommates, she moved in to save us both money. her problem is that she doesn't know how to be happy without a boyfriend. she dated someone for 6 years. in between their breaks, she would date other guys until they got back together. he broke up with her (for good, he moved 10 hours away for a job) last winter and she started dating another guy a few weeks later, and then i came into the picture about half a year ago. we broke up on good terms about a month ago and now she is dating another guy. when i say dating, i mean going out 4,5,6 times a week, sleeping over his place any time she's not working her night shift. basically, she is depressed when she doesn't have a man there for her. when i mention this to her, and suggest she should not date anyone for a while, she says "he makes me happy, you want me to give up my happiness?". i take that as she is dependent on him (whichever him that may be) to be happy. she doesn't have many friends. she's a sociable girl, she is just use to befriending her boyfriends friends and not having to go out and make her own. once they break up, she looses them, which compounds her unhappiness. she "solves" her depression by finding another guy to date. how can i get through to her about this? I've tried to talked to her about this many times but she is always attracted to the quick, easy solution of finding another boyfriend. her father past away 5 years ago, if i were a psychiatrist, i think the obvious thing is to say is that she is replacing that father figure with boyfriends. Open Question: Long Distant Relationship... I met my boyfriend on a online dating service about 4months ago. He lives 1300?miles away from me. I went out to visit him for the first time and feel deeply in love with him. My only problem I guess I have is the distance. He said he is going to come visit me in Feb.And eventually one of us will have to make the 1st step to move but I want it NOW! I cant wait that long. Its to good to be tru I have been looking for some1 like him my entire life and refuse to lose him. But then I fite with him because I dont trust him. I feel like I am in this big mess what shouId I do... I want him in my life but he is not making any changes to be with me rite now.. He has a few things to work on he said financially. and says it will all fall in place. Open Question: what are the true natures of being "feminine" and "masculine"? Does anyone know anymore?Im very perplexed about it. My boyfriend says Im manly because im pushy or whatever. Im not pushy i just make sure there is NO MISUNDERSTANDING about what im trying to say. As our relationship progresses he always is saying i wont let him take the lead. Ok so im inexperienced. Im 22 hes my first everything. Hes 29 and im sure he has had way more gfs than he has told me about. I do know in a relationship...if you want to lead...you do things that make you a leader...not just that you have "clout" or whatever. I make more money than him. We both are in school. He a full time dual degree student. Hes graduating next semester with a CS and Graphic Design. Yay Anywho, I understand he cant contribute as much as do but i know he can contribute more, and is choosing not to and want him to contribute more because i know he can. Instead of just saying, "you have a job and make more so it shouldn't be a problem for you to buy stuff for us and for me." to me, that's backwards. I feel like as a leader, your gonna be internally motivated to do for those your leading regardless of your situation. You will do everything with in your power to do what you can. Am i wrong about that? If so how the hell does it work? He says im too manly im not feminine enough. I say as a man, your motivation is the provide protect and care for, with ALL OF YOUR ABILITY even if your abilities or resources are limited. If you aren't, that detracts from your masculinity to me, and that says to me, your aren't that willing to play your role, because it inconvenient for you. If you play your role and can play mine. Or am i wrong about that too? Shαnnδn I agree with the take care of yourself thing but no...im not into girls. More Recent Articles |
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