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Open Question: Fear of Marriage, help please? Anything will help!? and more... Open Question: Fear of Marriage, help please? Anything will help!?I have this amazing boyfriend, he's everything I could ever want. He's kind, he cares about me, he's a dork, a musician, he's LDS (Mormon) too (actually his whole family is, I'm a convert to the church), he is tall and a perfect gentleman, he is nerdy(but not overly nerdy), and I just can't even finish describing how amazing I think he is. There's only one problem, all my LDS friends keep saying we should get married. I am not comfortable with the very idea of marriage, I mean, I believe in chastity until marriage and all that stuff, but I've already decided I'm not getting married. I grew up in a very split up, hostile family. I can't handle the idea of possibly having a family of my own like that. I wouldn't worry about this at all, but he even hinted something about getting married. We were even having a conversation and he said if we get married. I love him, I love him more than anything in the world and would love to spend my whole life and the rest of eternity with him, but I'm scared of marriage. Can anyone help me get over this fear of marriage? Any advice? Please? Open Question: My boyfriend was physically abusive towards me. Need some advice.?Things have always been complicated, but I'll TRY to make the long story short. Please excuse me if it's not. I met my current boyfriend while I was with someone else. My current boyfriend and I had known each other from high school and we unexpected met again in college. I was going out with my ex at the time, but I was having feelings for my current boyfriend. Let's just say I did many things I'm not proud of. I'm sure you guys can guess what happened. I bounced around a lot between them unfortunately because of my indecisiveness. After 6 months of this I finally decided to leave my ex and I got with my current boyfriend. He didn't think I made bad choices due to confusing circumstances, he just thought I was a bad person. Unfortunately, my current boyfriend decided I wasn't trustworthy anymore, and started interrogating me, controlling me, and harassing me about every minute of my life. I couldn't even see my mom or my friends by myself. Well he was doing this for several months and I got tired of it. As a result, my inherent anger problems unleashed and I started to become really unpleasant. I even started to hit him because I was so frustrated and angry. I know I made a lot of mistakes in the past, but I really wanted to make it up to him to prove that I was trustworthy, so I put up with his controlling and harassing behavior. Anyways, back to my abusiveness. I would hit him when I got angry, and at first he just took it, but later he started restraining me and being a little rough. This should have been a sign that I just need to get out right because its bad for both of us? Well I'm dumb and I don't know what is good for me. The other night, I wanted to leave him because I was angry. He didn't want me to leave his room so he threw me down on the bed. I reacted out of fear and self defense. As a result, he hit me and was physically abusive in other ways. And well the problem is I'm still with him. He really was a wonderful, kind, and moral guy, but our situation has brought out the worst in him. What should I do? Would it be worth while to stick it out until he trusts me again? I've been faithful to him ever since I made the decision to be with him, but he just doesn't trust me. Sorry this wasn't short at all. Open Question: Why can't I get a Orgasm?My boyfriend and I have sex pretty often and its been a year since I have had a orgasm. He gets off every time and I make sure he enjoys it. I still do the whole moaning and dirty talk but its not real. Sex just doesnt feel good for me...I have tried talking to him about 4 play but he likes to get straight to the point...although he expects 4play from me, but wont give it back. I just dont know why he has such a problem going down?!! We have been together for 3 years, and I am the first girl he had ever done this to. The first time was not too good but I told him what I liked and the second time was better..he has only done this a total of 3 times. I just dont know what it is? I am a good looking young girl. I get compliments all the time and I am very clean. I am always trying to get the flames going...I try dressing up in sexy costumes, candles, oils...the whole shabang....what the heck is the problem????? Just a bit more....I am on top every single time...he may be on top for 3 min...than its back to me!!! I just dont get it, he is still sexy to me and i am attracted to him...I think his selfishness has really made me not as sexually attracted though...thank you everyone for the answers, although sadly I have tried to talk to him about this over and over...I am starting to think...........He just sucks lol...Love him though, gosh...what to do! More Recent Articles
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