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Open Question: Does this mean I am in love? Boys? and more... Open Question: Does this mean I am in love? Boys?Its my ex boyfriend & I KNOW already that I sound like every other damn person on this thing. Read this story though please & tell me what youu think. I know its hella long but whatever. It's really embarrassing because I'm usually not like this about boys. I dated him for a while last year & the whole time, I planned on cheating on him to be honest. I know i'm crazy but its because I just wanted to keep him around still & be single like my girlfriends too. i don't get why. I promise i'm not evil, I just have a lame lame commitment problem. I wanted him to commit but at the same time go out & be single. I think more like boys then girls in a way. I didn't do it to be mean, its just really hard for me. He always told me he loved me so much all the time & all these things and I never said it back once because i didn't think i did. Then he started giving up on everything and thats when i told him I loved him without thinking & i don't know why i said it because i didn't mean it. Then out of nowhere HE broke up with me before our junior year started & its the first & only time a boy has ever broken up with me but it killed me. I felt so alone without him. He's the only boy i said i love you to. & i was DEVESTATED. I don't know if I really love him or not. I still i think about him, he's totally hot & has an attractive personality, & we have the same group of friends so we always talk still. After we broke up he had sex with a friend of mine. Of course I got rid of her & her reputation was ruined. I was mean to him for a while but I also understand him for it. He totally treats her like a **** & ruined her rep. & they don't talk at all. But he's never been like that to me. He's disrespectful to all of his ex's except for me, & he's so sweet still and has never been mean. We get along way well still but there's a weird feeling like something's missing when we're just talking at a party or something. When he starts to talk to me all the time, I feel like I don't really love him. But whenever I don't see him for a while i miss him & its SO crazy. Am i in love? Whats your opinion pleassssse i'm dying to know. Open Question: Will my muslim boyfriend of 4 years go along with getting an arranged marriage?his parents are from Pakistan he is born here. We have been together 4 years! we met when we were young he was 16 i was 17. We both still live at home. Not just this year but before often the subject came up about marriage and is there a future he said he wants to marry me and I know he loves me but obviously there is the huge problem of RELIGION. His parents dont know me of course mine know as he was allowed to come into the house when we first started out. Then I guess my parents thought our relationship will die out. It only grew stronger. It kills me that I cannot go to his house like a normal relationship like how my friends go round to their boyfriends house. He can only come to my house when my parents are at work and at night sneeking in. My family are on to me a lot that I have to break up with him there is no future and im wasting my time. They also say they will disown me if I take this further. I am in love with my boyfriend though I cant help it I feel he is the one for me. When we are together its just amazing. Now, he has said his mother told him oh your father got married at 20/21. He told her no hes not getting married now. Sometimes he tells me he will have to go along with the arranged marriage and then marry me aswell. I am 100% sure I wont be anyones mistress!!! Then he says he will marry me and I have to convert etc. But then this is when I lose my parents. Also would his parents be okay with me converting just for the sake of marrying their son? What can I do here? I know the obvious answer leave him that I cannot do. We have tried this, talked about it and broken up a few times before neither of us go through with it. Why did god put us together only to break us apart after? I know I want to be with him. I want him to tell his parents or am I being to hasty? He is 20 I am 21 is this too early to tell his parents??? Do you think he will go along with his parents wishes and leave me? Is there anything anyway I can stop this...make him see I want to marry him help x Open Question: How do I get my girlfriend back after she breaks up with me for not being happy?She told me that she's not happy with her life. (Having problems with family that most don't have to deal with.) & She does not need a boyfriend right now. The reason she says she doesn't need a boyfriend is that she has too much stuff happening in her life, and she doesn't feel that she should answer to a boyfriend. Which means, she wants to live life not tied down, and with friends. But I know from past experiences, that I can make her happier than everyone in the world combined. & I really want to show that to her now. I can't take this though, I see her a day before our 10 month anniversary. Everything seems perfect. The next day, on our 10 month, she goes to a concert with friends and doesn't get back until 3AM. So I'm tired went to bed, and said goodnight. The next morning. She said we need to talk about us. She tells me all these things mentioned above, and... I'm devastated. So someone please help. & Don't be a jerk. I know most people are just going to say. "Move on." but after all the things my ex & I have gone through, there's no moving on. Not soon anyway. Open Question: Girls am I in love? Or not?Its my ex boyfriend & I KNOW already that I sound like every other damn person on this thing. Read this story though please & tell me what youu think. I know its hella long but whatever. It's really embarrassing because I'm usually not like this about boys. I dated him for a while last year & the whole time, I planned on cheating on him to be honest. I know i'm crazy but its because I just wanted to keep him around still & be single like my girlfriends too. i don't get why. I promise i'm not evil, I just have a lame lame commitment problem. I wanted him to commit but at the same time go out & be single. I think more like boys then girls in a way. I didn't do it to be mean, its just really hard for me. He always told me he loved me so much all the time & all these things and I never said it back once because i didn't think i did. Then he started giving up on everything and thats when i told him I loved him without thinking & i don't know why i said it because i didn't mean it. Then out of nowhere HE broke up with me before our junior year started & its the first & only time a boy has ever broken up with me but it killed me. I felt so alone without him. He's the only boy i said i love you to. & i was DEVESTATED. I don't know if I really love him or not. I still i think about him, he's totally hot & has an attractive personality, & we have the same group of friends so we always talk still. After we broke up he had sex with a friend of mine. Of course I got rid of her & her reputation was ruined. I was mean to him for a while but I also understand him for it. He totally treats her like a **** & ruined her rep. & they don't talk at all. But he's never been like that to me. He's disrespectful to all of his ex's except for me, & he's so sweet still and has never been mean. We get along way well still but there's a weird feeling like something's missing when we're just talking at a party or something. When we start talking all the time, I feel like I don't really love him. But whenever I don't see him for a while i miss him & its SO crazy. Am i in love? Whats your opinion pleassssse i'm dying to know. Open Question: should i mention this to him?my boyfriend and i have been together for 3-4 months, and we have a very good relationship. we keep nothing from each other. it feels as though we've been together forever. (i'm 20, he is 22) i had borrowed his cell phone the other day since mine wasn't working, and i was just looking through it. baaad i know, but i'm nosey. anyways, he had conversations with his ex , she was asking him to buy something for her online, for a present for her new boyfriend. she only had so much, but he said it was alright and he would pay for the rest, which was like fifty dollars! he told me that she was paying him back entirely. i know this doesn't seem like a big lie and a big problem or anything. but it is to me, i don't get why he would feel the need to lie. it IS his money after all. i'm just really against liars. if people can just lie so easily, who knows what else is being lied about, you know? anyways, i have kind of lied myself. not telling him that i had read that conversation. so should i bring it up? i'm pretty much being a hypocrite. and plus, in that conversation, he had told her what he bought me for christmas. which totally ruined it for me. so i kind of wish i didn't read it. because it just spoiled things for myself. ugh. Thanks i know he still talks to his ex, he just lied saying that she was entirely paying him back, which she is not. Open Question: Please, help...Why did he say this?Me and my boyfriend have been together since 2007, but he always takes me into surprise.For example last Sunday, I really wanted to make love and I was absolutely sure that he wanted it, too.The problem is that after a few kisses he stopped and told me that he does not want us to make it in a hurry, that he is waiting for a special time, because I am special for him(...unfortunately on Sunday evening we generally think about work, because Monday is coming...).He told me something about some candles, about a cozy atmosphere, soft music...I was impressed...but...what do you think?Does he really love me?I hope he did not get bored. Open Question: Will my boyfriend go along with getting an arranged marriage?his parents are from Pakistan he is born here. We have been together 4 years! we met when we were young he was 16 i was 17. We both still live at home. Not just this year but before often the subject came up about marriage and is there a future he said he wants to marry me and I know he loves me but obviously there is the huge problem of RELIGION. His parents dont know me of course mine know as he was allowed to come into the house when we first started out. Then I guess my parents thought our relationship will die out. It only grew stronger. It kills me that I cannot go to his house like a normal relationship like how my friends go round to their boyfriends house. He can only come to my house when my parents are at work and at night sneeking in. My family are on to me a lot that I have to break up with him there is no future and im wasting my time. They also say they will disown me if I take this further. I am in love with my boyfriend though I cant help it I feel he is the one for me. When we are together its just amazing. Now, he has said his mother told him oh your father got married at 20/21. He told her no hes not getting married now. Sometimes he tells me he will have to go along with the arranged marriage and then marry me aswell. I am 100% sure I wont be anyones mistress!!! Then he says he will marry me and I have to convert etc. But then this is when I lose my parents. Also would his parents be okay with me converting just for the sake of marrying their son? What can I do here? I know the obvious answer leave him that I cannot do. We have tried this, talked about it and broken up a few times before neither of us go through with it. Why did god put us together only to break us apart after? I know I want to be with him. I want him to tell his parents or am I being to hasty? He is 20 I am 21 is this too early to tell his parents??? Do you think he will go along with his parents wishes and leave me? Is there anything anyway I can stop this...make him see I want to marry him help x Open Question: Serious boyfriend problems... am I wasting my time? Please answer!?He is 30 and I am 25. We have been dating about 10 months total, and I kinda have a gut feeling he is losing interest for one reason or another. Normally I'm the one to text him first - or make plans to see each other. I decided I'm not going to text or call him at all this week and let him come to me. I think this will say a lot as to if he is still interested... and if he is not, it will give him an "easy out" so-to-speak. How long do you think I should wait before deciding he is not interested? Today is Monday... so until Friday? Remember, he is probably expecting me to text him like normal - so it may take him some time to realize "Wait... I haven't heard from her for a few days... maybe I should text her and see whats up" What do you all think? Open Question: what should I do about my drug addict brother coming to town?My brother is an alcoholic and a drug addict and he lives in San Fransisco. He is unemployed and has no where to live so my mom bought him a plane ticket to come to Ohio for a few weeks. He is supposed to stay at his girlfriend's parents' house-behind their back. He's going to tell them he's staying with me so he wants to keep his stuff at my place and wants to stay a couple nights a week. I don't trust him to stay at my apartment and I don't know what to do. I don't know how to turn him away. I'm asking if anyone can help me? I don't have money to send him to rehab- I also don't know if I could even get him to go. It's been so easy to ignore his problem because he's been in San Fransisco for about 8 years. But now he's coming to Ohio and now I'm forced to deal with it and make a decision- let him stay or turn him away? I work full time and go to school full time. I don't get home till ten o'clock at night. I don't know what to do. I'm so stressed out! My boyfriend lives there too and he has his things there. He just recently bought a big screen tv and a home theatre system and a wii-things that can be sold for drug money since he has no money to support his habit! I just don't know what to do! Open Question: should i break up with him? need advice from someone who has been married?Im not sure if I should end things with my boyfriend. We fight a lot, at least once a week I am stressed and crying from it. We break up a lot too, and usually get back together the same day. I know he really loves me and cares for me with all of his heart. But this fighting is making me fall out of love with him. I have been unsure of this relationship for almost the entire time we have been together. (it will be 2 years in march) We used to be engaged but I broke it off because I wasn't sure about it. I just dont know what to do, Im not sure if I love him anymore. He makes me feel that I will never find anyone else and I will be alone forever. He is also a christian, and when we fight and break up he says things like, "this is just what the devil wants, is to rip good things apart. It confuses me a lot when he says that. like we should stay together even though i know deep in my heart that i am falling out of love with him. I have so many doubts. when we first got together i really wasnt that into him, i just wanted someone who really cared for me and loved me (he chased me for 6 months). it just seems like during the whole time i had doubts, but im afraid of being alone. a few months ago he moved 3 hours away (spontaniously, he had his mom tell while he was on the road) he had problems with his roomates and I was staying with him and had nowhere to go. now 3 months later he moved back to be with me and is going to the same college as me and we might get an apartment together. i just am scared that its not the right choice...to move in together when we fight all the time, and at the same time i dont even know if i want to be with him. Should i put my feelings aside and go through it or should I break up with him? I just dont want to be alone forever Open Question: I would really like advice from someone who is older, been through a lot more than I have (I'm 24)?Im not sure if I should end things with my boyfriend. We fight a lot, at least once a week I am stressed and crying from it. We break up a lot too, and usually get back together the same day. I know he really loves me and cares for me with all of his heart. But this fighting is making me fall out of love with him. I have been unsure of this relationship for almost the entire time we have been together. (it will be 2 years in march) We used to be engaged but I broke it off because I wasn't sure about it. I just dont know what to do, Im not sure if I love him anymore. He makes me feel that I will never find anyone else and I will be alone forever. He is also a christian, and when we fight and break up he says things like, "this is just what the devil wants, is to rip good things apart. It confuses me a lot when he says that. like we should stay together even though i know deep in my heart that i am falling out of love with him. I have so many doubts. when we first got together i really wasnt that into him, i just wanted someone who really cared for me and loved me (he chased me for 6 months). it just seems like during the whole time i had doubts, but im afraid of being alone. a few months ago he moved 3 hours away (spontaniously, he had his mom tell while he was on the road) he had problems with his roomates and I was staying with him and had nowhere to go. now 3 months later he moved back to be with me and is going to the same college as me and we might get an apartment together. i just am scared that its not the right choice...to move in together when we fight all the time, and at the same time i dont even know if i want to be with him. Should i put my feelings aside and go through it or should I break up with him? I just dont want to be alone forever. 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