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Open Question: Does she still have feelings for me? and more... Open Question: Does she still have feelings for me?To make a long story short, i've known this girl for over a year. By the way we would always hangout and screw around, many people thought we were bf and gf (even though it wasn't official). I decided to give her something for christmas (a drawing of her favorite singer that I drew and a bean bear I bought) because her family can't exactly afford anything this time of year. When giving her these, I was going to formally ask her to be my girlfriend. A week ago she somehow got a boyfriend (who she just met under my nose). She didn't think it was a problem until she asked me what was wrong. I was feeling sad about this and I told her (she always told me I could tell her anything). Yesterday I gave her the gifts and told her what my intention was (but since that couldn't happen, I said I still wanted her to have them cause she is my friend and I care about her). She loved them, but she said she was going to cry (she was getting kind of teary). She did hug me numerous times and went to other people in our lunch period showing them the bear. The rest of the time I was withe her, she seemed in deep thought. After one of my classes, she was still looking sad but talking to a girlfriend of her's. I didn't her much, all I heared was: But aren't you already going out with (insert name here). She is a very sweet, smart, and beautiful girl. I really just want her to be happy and still want to be friends, but does she still have feelings for me? In all this time of tension, she hasn't denied of accepted me. Open Question: Hey, I'm nervous about touching my boyfriend's penis and about handjobs =/?I'd like to start with thanking anyone who actually does read this novel of a question haha. And also anyone who gives a considerate answer. Hi, everyone. I've been with this guy for about eight months, and he's very special to me. Now, I'm only 17. I understand I'm young and I'm actually kind of old fashioned that way, but I think it's a good mentality. Anyway, he's fingered me a couple of times and it's been a very intimate and bonding thing. But, I'm scared to reciprocate. Penises in general have never been too appealing to me. I'm afraid to be awkward in touching his, and the idea kind of it scares me. I can't imagine a situation where it won't be awkward. Part of why is that I can't drive from me the fact that I am young, and I can't shake that feeling of trashiness, as silly a thought as that may be. I came close to putting my hand down his pants, but I just couldn't. All I think about are the countless stories I've heard growing up of people around me doing stupid things and acting unresponsibly. It's also a problem that we can never be really alone. There's always someone in te next room. With the door closed, yeah, but they could easily barge in without any warning. What also worries me is cleanup. I have no idea how much comes out, and what I could do to not get it everywhere. My dad happens to be OCD with cleanliness, and he would probably notice even a little stain. He might even recognize it, because he's a guy. Anyway, there are many many problems and obstacles I'm facing, which just makes it difficult for my inner voice to give me the okay. It's alright for awhile though, because my boyfriend isn't at all pressuring or anything like that. The last thing he wants me to do is touch him only due to pressure or obligation. And that makes sense, but I know he would really like it if I did. I know I can't help but sound like another stupid teenage girl, but it's really a problem I would like some insight on. I'm never doing anything when felt forced, I just would like to know what I could do to lift some of the pressure, and not be so scared of penises and touching his. Thanks for the help. Open Question: I have a boyfriend who loves me a lot, the problem is he doesn't want anyone to know about us? what do i do?me and my bf have been together for almost 2 yrs now, but were not sexually active which is not a problem for me. He tells me he loves me every day but at the same time ignores me in front of other people, example: if someone asks him if he likes me, he say no WAY!. we talk on internet a lot but not so much in school. what do i do? Open Question: How do i control my jealousy?i'm committed and have a really sweet boyfriend. But the problem is i get really jealous when he talks to any other girl. i know i should give him that much freedom but i just can't help it! to control this jealousy of mine, i started talking to many other guys but i never was able to! my friends are a lot prettier than me, and that's the reason i get so lotta jealous! how do i control this? talking to guys doesn't help. :( Open Question: gay ex boyfriend problem, is it time to say goodbye?my ex boyfriend that i broke up with has recently come out as gay and has a boyfriend, i have a very close guy friend that i have no feelings for but whenever i bring him up to my ex or he sees us together he gets mad and it is tearing our friendship apart, im just tired of him either hating me or wanting to be friends, i just dont get it he can have a boyfriend but i cant have a close guy friend, he also only talks to me at school if he wants and if i try to talk to him when he gets mad and the rest of the time he ignores me but outside of school he is extremely nice what should i do? oh and its hard to completely cut him off because im extremely close to his family and best friends with his sister Open Question: i can't stand him doing that to me..help me...?okay.i don't really know what to do.well i'm having a little problem with my boyfriend.one time i spent the evening with him from 3:40 to 6:30.we were hanging around the high school and we were kissing by the gym,and some girls were walking by and he stop kissing and he let me go and i was still holding him,he was looking away from me for a long time.i looked back and i saw those girls then i looked at him,but he didn't look back at me.when i was waiting for him to look back at me,i put my head on his shoulders and he finally looked back at me and he kissed me again.he did the same thing when we were at a basketball game.we were outside kissing and more girls walked by and he was looking at them for awhile and he let go of me and i was waiting for him to look back at me,about five minutes later he looked back at me then he started kissing me again.then awhile later more girls walked by.he was looking at them again and at the same time he let go of me again and i was holding him but i let go of him slowly.when he turned back around he looked at me then i walked away,and he grabbed me,then he said "why you walking off",and i said "because your looking away from me again".he just held me and he kissed me again.those days i felt really sad because he promised me he wasn't going to do that to me again but he did at the game.is he even making a promise to me?i don't know,somebody help me... 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