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Open Question: Does he like me? FULL EASY POINTS *ADDED*? and more... Open Question: Does he like me? FULL EASY POINTS *ADDED*?Hello everyone, I'm a sophmore girl in highschool, and my exboyfriend is a junior in highschool. Last May he & i broke up because i was scared of how serious we were getting; he was my first real boyfriend. But, later this summer I realized what a huge mistake I had made, and how much I still really really liked him. I had grown up a lot, and everything. I decided to contact him during the school year and start off as friends. Problem was, I kept messing up being his friend. I told him how I felt about him a couple of times. Now, worried that I'll screw up again I stopped talking to him in fear I would mess up again and hurt him. I still really do like him, and still look at him sometimes. He stares at me too, and its hard to look away and try and get over him. He still stares at me a lot, so I don't know what that means. It's been about 7 weeks since I've even talked to him at all... What does this all mean? Full Points for best answer to help me. He has a lot of girls that are friends, and he told my bestfriend he would get back with me, but he can't because hes scared of being hurt again. Open Question: Angry with boyfriends family for not helping him more during phase of depression, I want to tell them I'm ang?URGENT!! THIS IS LONG BUT READ IF YOU CAN GIVE ME ADVICE: HOW TO DEAL WITH DEPRESSION AND BOYFRIENDS PARENTS WHO WONT ACKNOWLEDGE IT... My boyfriend and I have dated for the last four year, He is 25 now and I am 24. We bought a house in Massachusetts together and have lived together for about 2 1/2 years now. We have 2 dogs and are planning on getting married. We are extremely healthy and practical young adults and we are doing out best to make it independently in this world without having to fail or move back in with our parents. The stress is heavy but our bills are still getting paid and food is always on our table. After over a year of being efficient in living on our own, The past four months my boyfriend has dropped into a stage of being overwhelmed and depressed. He has begun going to see a therapist because he started to lash out on me personally and have these breakdowns where he got really angry and unreasonable. With winter coming he has gotten to the lowest point I have ever seen him. His attitudes are unpredictable and he says some pretty rotten things to me I never thought he'd say. Very manic, very uneven. His mother is very depressed, his parents have been wanting to divorce for years but his siblings are still teenagers and so they stay together. His family are in no way emotionally efficient. They don't talk about problems, they bottle them all up. He has been going home after work to do odd jobs for his parents every day after work and not coming straight home from work like he used to. He always "stops in" to check on them or to pick something up or drop something off. I understand his need for seeing his family regularly but they don't help him with his serious depression. He has expressed to me he has suicidal thoughts and they pretend everything is just the same. His dad won't even acknowledge he is in therapy. HIS FAMILY DOES NOTHING TO HELP HIM. I have to deal with the manic attitudes, and the depression, and the complaining about the shadows cast over life, while his family gets to not have to face it. I have to bear the brunt of his depression. This has caused a divide divide between his family and I. I feel they aren't trying to help him out of this rough period. They pretend he isn't sad and depressed and everything is okay, they pretend not to hear when he comments about therapy or depression. How do I act around his family. Can I express to his parents how disappointed I am with them at their lack of support for their suffering son, what do I do about being so angry and resentful that I am the only one who has to deal with this depressed man? Where are the boundaries? Since his family tends to clam up when faced with real issues of importance or of heavy emotion how should I approach this. Is writing a letter to them rude And cold or is is appropriate and discrete? I don't want to cause more stree for bf by creating and argument between me and them. I want to make a big note that I lived with his family, in his families inlaw apt. with him for one year so I am close with them... relatively Open Question: what should i do, boyfriend trouble?he asked me if we could have an early night and end the night a little early cuase he was tired and had to clean up before his mom came home.. im not even gone for 5 mins and he calls me asking if he can go out to dinner with his friend and i didnt have a problem im not that kind of girl firend but then all the sudden after they ate he calls me and says there going to play pool. why did he lie to me? he could of just told me the truth instead of making up excuses. what should i do Open Question: Opinions? Do you think I love him? Or not.?Its my ex boyfriend & I KNOW already that I sound like every other damn person on this thing. Read this story though please & tell me what youu think. I know its hella long but whatever. It's really embarrassing because I'm usually not like this about boys. I dated him for a while last year & the whole time, I planned on cheating on him to be honest. I know i'm crazy but its because I just wanted to keep him around still & be single like my girlfriends too. i don't get why. I promise i'm not evil, I just have a lame lame commitment problem. I wanted him to commit but at the same time go out & be single. He always told me he loved me so much all the time & all these things and I never said it back once because i didn't think i did. Then he started giving up on everything and thats when i told him I loved him without thinking & i don't know why i said it because i didn't mean it. Then out of nowhere HE broke up with me before our junior year started & its the first & only time a boy has ever broken up with me but it killed me. I felt so alone without him. He's the only boy i said i love you to. & i was DEVESTATED. I don't know if I really love him or not. I still i think about him, he's totally hot & has an attractive personality, & we have the same group of friends so we always talk still. After we broke up he had sex with a friend of mine. Of course I got rid of her & her reputation was ruined. I was mean to him for a while but I also understand him for it. He totally treats her like a slut & ruined her rep. & they don't talk at all. But he's never been like that to me. He's disrespectful to all of his ex's except for me, & he's so sweet still and has never been mean. We get along way well still but there's a weird feeling like something's missing when we're just talking at a party or something. When he starts to talk to me all the time, I feel like I don't really love him. But whenever I don't see him for a while i miss him like its just SO crazy. Am i in love? Whats your opinion pleassssse i'm dying to know. Open Question: idk why i said it,, it just slipped out! PLEASE help!!?ok so the other day i got pushed into a pole, went to the hospital, and found out i had(or whatever) encephaledema(swelling of the head), well my boyfriend came to see me and everything was going awesome, then he said " i love you" (there was no problem with that we said it before) and i replied " i love you too tyler" (tyler was my ex), and my boyfriend got really pissed off, and ended it right then and there :( so i mean what do you think i should do? should i try to get him back? or should i just let him go? idk i'm really depressed, and confused right now oh and he just texted me " i'm sorry, i hope that you can forgive me?" but idk if i want too because if he is going to get mad at every little slip up, should i go back with him? Open Question: Why do I keep getting involved with the wrong type of guy?i was involved with this guy for a few months, and I'm stressed out I can hardly sleep.I just found out that this guy I was involved with, flew out out of town to see another woman or visit her shall I say, i text messaged him from a different number and we were texting back and forth, and stuff, and hes asking me what am I doing for the day, and eveything, he thinks that I am somebody from a bar he met, but I just think its weird that he would fly out to see someone , he told me about this girl, that she was his close friend, and that she would always call him about her boyfriend problems, so he flew to the east coast to visit yet he was on the phone with me, plus on top of that he treats me bad, he doesnt want to take me out, does not want to talk or have a nice conversation, he basically told me sex is all I will get and all I deserve, and he also told me that if he was nice and stuff to me I would not respect him and he wanted me to come over a few hours, but I never can stay all night, and he was making breakfast and I told him "Oh I'm hungry, I'm on my way" and hes like "Well there maybe none left by the time you get here" but yet on the flip side he prank calls my phone and job phone as well..and I just notice that these are the type of guys I always tend to get involved with, guys who do not want a relationship with me, or date me, or take me out,...I always get used and hurt for some reason.. I feel like I'm not good enough, or unattractive, what gives??I thought I had all this figured out,..I was celibate for four years, and I broke my celibacy for someone who could care less about me. and its been over five years since I ve had a REAL fulfilling relationship.I feel so so bad now..and the thing is that I still have feelings for this guy..what do I do?? Open Question: Why do I keep getting involved with the wrong kind of men?I was involved with this guy for a few months, and I'm stressed out I can hardly sleep.I just found out that this guy I was involved with, flew out out of town to see another woman or visit her shall I say, i text messaged him from a different number and we were texting back and forth, and stuff, and hes asking me what am I doing for the day, and eveything, he thinks that I am somebody from a bar he met, but I just think its weird that he would fly out to see someone , he told me about this girl, that she was his close friend, and that she would always call him about her boyfriend problems, so he flew to the east coast to visit yet he was on the phone with me, plus on top of that he treats me bad, he doesnt want to take me out, does not want to talk or have a nice conversation, he basically told me sex is all I will get and all I deserve, and he also told me that if he was nice and stuff to me I would not respect him and he wanted me to come over a few hours, but I never can stay all night, and he was making breakfast and I told him "Oh I'm hungry, I'm on my way" and hes like "Well there maybe none left by the time you get here" but yet on the flip side he prank calls my phone and job phone as well..and I just notice that these are the type of guys I always tend to get involved with, guys who do not want a relationship with me, or date me, or take me out,...I always get used and hurt for some reason.. I feel like I'm not good enough, or unattractive, what gives??I thought I had all this figured out,..I was celibate for four years, and I broke my celibacy for someone who could care less about me. and its been over five years since I ve had a REAL fulfilling relationship.I feel so so bad now..and the thing is that I still have feelings for this guy..what do I do?? Open Question: Boyfriend problems...?I have been with this guy since we have been 17 and him 18. 2 years now... Everytime I'm around him I feel either super loved or neglected because all he does is play games. Now he wants to move in. I don't even know if I love him, how can I tell? Whenever he's not around I feel the urge to go after someone else and just... he isn't really appealing anymore. How do I know if I love him or not? We can be real sweethearts to each other but most time I can't stand him anymore since he started his gaming habbits, and yes- we talked about them and he isn't willing to change. He said he would multiple times and didn't. It's like it's all sex and talk now. I don't know. I just wanna know if we love each other or not, or at least if I do and how do I find out if 1 of us at least does. Open Question: I need help with a friend in need.?I have this friend, and she's not the most attractive girl you've seen, she's overweight. She keeps telling me and my friend about troubles she has with her life, to do with family problems (moving out of her mums, and the abuse that follows), relationship problems (not being able to get a boyfriend), and just plainly "my life sucks, i want to die". She confessed the liked me and my friend, more than friends, I myself am gay, and the other person isn't interested in her, but she keeps asking us what she should do, and I have tried to give her advice, telling her things like; she will get a boyfriend that likes her for her, and not about her looks, and that there are other ways to deal with things other than being depressed and talking about suicide. She is a very stubborn person and doesn't really listen to me, or my friend. I am worried about her, as I can't tell her the real truth to the questions she asks me, as I may offend her and make her commit. It is very hard to tell her the truth, and I don't want to hurt her feelings anymore, she is a good friend of mine, and I don't think ignoring it will make it any better. Her parents don't show her much love, and her mother abuses her when she gets the chance, she doesn't have many friends and thinks the world hates her. Can anyone give me some suggestions as to what I can do? Thanks. Open Question: How do I win him back?My ex broke up with me about 2 months ago and I still love him. He lost his virginity to me, and I to him. He was my first boyfriend and my first kiss. We broke up because he got punished and we couldnt hang out so we drifted apart. Only problem is, he hates me now. Because I took two pregnancy tests and they came out positive so i took another and it came out negative, so he said i lied about the first two. Now he says he hates me. Yes, I know itd be better to get over him, but I just miss the boy I was with 2 months ago. I love him and ill do anything to get him back. What should I do? Open Question: I'm trying to convince the boyfriend that Bo Jack is a horrible name for a baby boy. Agree or no?this child will be half Korean, and we live in Michigan. I told him its a horrible name, and is just going to cause problems when this boy is in school. Open Question: Relationship Problem?My boyfriend is currently in the army. Last night he had to work 24 hours straight and got home at 4:30am this morning. I tried to call him but his phone is off. I know he sleeps a lot but I saw on his myspace his last log in was today. Please help, IDK what to do. I dont know if he is sleeping or if he is mad at me. It is really hard cause he lives 1900 miles away from me. Am I just being paranoid? Open Question: What can I do to kick my roommate out if she is on the lease?Okay, so my so called "best friend" decided to sign herself to our lease. We moved in two months ago while my husband was in basic training. I told her that she did not need to be part of the actual lease, and that the three of us (me, my husband, and her) could just have a verbal one, so she could move out when he returned home, if she did not choose to pay her part of the bills any longer. She insisted that she was going to do her part to help pay bills, and do her part to keep the apartment clean. ( I agreed to this seeing as we were good friends at the time and we had never had problems before, and also I felt bad because she was not living in a good environment prior.) Well, the first few weeks were okay, she helped pay for food and whatever else we needed. We got the electricity turned on with money (in her name) my husband wired to me and she agreed to pay him back for it when he returned home. Then it started one night and went downhill from there, she asked me if she could borrow my car (she doesn't have one) to meet a guy at some bar. I agreed because she thew a temper tantrum more or less and I did not want to deal with it any longer. She stayed out all night without giving me a call, (seeing as she had my car out all night). A few days later she pulled the same thing and, of course me being the nice person let her take it off again to see the same guy from the bar night. This time I set some guidelines. I asked her to come back with it at a decent time and to not bring him in our apartment. She agreed to this without a problem. She did come home at a decent time, but she brought him inside with her. She totally disrespected my wishes and was a complete jerk despite the fact I let her use my car. Not to mention the fact that they brought in beer and we are both 19 and underage. I found out the next morning as I was talking to her sister that she did not even have her license, just a Florida identification card with her name on it. I was furious. I never thought I would literally have to check her license before she drove my car. This continued more or less for about another month (and needless to say she did not drive my car.) My husband finally returned home and got mad at me for letting her put her name on the lease, but realized there was nothing we could do now. She did tried to be nice at first and get along with the both of us, (she took off for two weeks with some co workers and was hardly there) then as it came time for the bills to be paid, and when she got home he asked her where her share of the money was for the bills. The agreement was that she was to pay for electricity, water, food, cable, internet and the washer and dryer rental. When it is totaled together it is only around 300, which is a steal for her considering our rent is 695. She made some lame excuse about how she did not have her check yet and it would be a little while. After begging and pleading my husband finally received the 200 she owed him for getting the electricity turned on. A few days later she finally coughed up the 57 and 100 for cable and electricity, which was already past due by the way. (by the way she lied about paying the bills so we made her give us to money to pay them) ( The cable is in my husband's name, so we did not want anything against his credit, not that it matters to her since she did not give us the money for it.) So that was the only time we have received any amount of money for any bills. She would always begs us for rides to work, she works about 15 minutes away from our apartment. I told her I did not have the gas money to keep taking her, she has only paid me for gas two,or three times since we have moved into the apartment. I cannot afford to transport her to work when she does not want to pay for gas. ( I am in college full time and my husband is doing good supporting the two of us) So after a while I would tell her no, my husband told her to take the bus, seeing as there is a bus stop outside of our apartment complex and it runs by her work. Every time that suggestion was made she would laugh about it like she was too good to ride it. She eventually started calling co workers and getting them to give her rides, this started happening ever since one day she begged us for a ride after we said no she hid in her room and missed work entirely. That led into a whole different argument that turned into a screaming math because I apparently was acting like I was the one who was too good for anything. I fail to see how this is true seeing as she was starting to live off of my husband and I for free. She got paid then came home the next day, she works at a minimum wage job and told me out of her 400 and something dollar check she only had 70 left to last her two weeks. It was like she knew we were going to cover her for the bills so she was going to let it happen. She was giving out money to people she was staying with and she needed to buy a new phone cause her ex boyfriend took her off Open Question: What should you do if your bf isn't responding to your txts?I'm in the 7th grade and i got my first boyfriend about a month ago. I really like him but the problem is he isn't responding to my text messages. He used to txt me a lot but now he won't respond. idk if he lost his phone or if he's grounded or if he just doesn't like me anymore. I'm kinda shy so I don't really want to ask him about it at school so what should i do! Open Question: Would you be happy if you found out that your girlfriend/wife had never been with anyone before you?nd she's 22 years old and very pretty. Hasn't done anything past making out. I've know her for years before we got together and she really is a virgin but has had plenty of offers. She just didn't want a boyfriend before, she said. She wants to wait until she is pretty sure she is with the right guy. Will this be a problem that she hasn't had any relationships before or dated? What do you think? Open Question: does he like my best friend?my boyfriend, rob and i have been dating for 2 weeks now. he used to flirt with my best friend kristen alot before we started dating. before we started dating we used to talk and he said he never liked her it was just something to do. he apperently loves me and doesnt want any one else but me. but in school he talks to her more than me and on several accounts has called her cute during texting. i really want to trust him but i dont know. Should i? i've brought it up before and he said he's only kidding and he would never ever do that to me. today he asked me how she was doing cuz he knew she was having boyfriend problems.but then when he was texting her today he also said he thinks of her as a sister and told her that he has the pefect girlfriend and how we're in love. but while we were on the phone he said she was cute with a winky face. ugh idk. am i over reacting? More Recent Articles
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