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Open Question: Do you think I could be loved? and more... Open Question: Do you think I could be loved?I know I'm only 15, but I haven't had a boyfriend and I don't think I'll get one anytime soon. It kinda worries me cause the way I'm going, it might be a long time before I'll get one. I'm not a girl who thinks her whole life depends on getting married, but love is still important. I'm fairly tall, auburn long hair, caucasian. I'm not that shy but I have a problem with showing my true self. I'm reserved and quiet, and I can stay quiet for a long long time. I don't like showing my body either, even though it's not bad (hate swimwear!!) . I'm kinda a tomboy and I don't wear skirts and dresses alot, though I can if someone wants me to. I'm pretty talkative around my family though. With other people, it's a real problem. I'm artistic and love to be different, and I'm really understanding. I like to make people happy and see everyone happy. I don't like talking about myself like I am now, and I prefer to hear about others (mainly because I know people like talking about themselves) I have few friends that are mainly school friends, and I don't tend to talk to them excessively either. Though my true self is loving and peaceful, I do have a dark side that loves heavy metal, vehicles, gothic stuff, horror and gore lol. I don't find any movie that scary :) I also love amusment parks and thrills in that area. I'm an artist so I have an unusual mind, but I can adapt to others quickly. So, if you can sum that up, do you think someone could like me? I know it depends on the person, but what are my chances? (I'm bi, but I don't think I'd want to actually date a girl) Open Question: boyfriend problems!! need advise! please help?So i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we had a beautiful baby girl she is 9months now. He never wants me to go out anywhere but when I do it cant be clubs or anything like that he wants me to just spend more time with him then going out with my friends and its not like my friends party all the time. One of my friends has a baby boy so its not like we r doing anything bad. I just don't know what to do i feel like i need to go have a little bit of fun. Not all the time but like 1 time every 3 months or so. I love him so much but I need some me time you know? just tell me what you guys think! thank you so much! Open Question: I'm not sure what to do about my mixed feelings, please help?I've had a boyfriend for ten months, I love him to the bone.. I can't imagine life without him. But he's changed completely since the beginning... This is going to sound horrible: There's a person that I know, to me he's very handsome, and polite. He's a total gentleman. Ever since my boyfriend recently hurt my feelings by lying to me for a while, (and I had to find out on my own) I have been thinking about how things used to be. I don't feel like he cares as much anymore. & When I found out he was lying about this thing, I felt very alone. I felt very unloved, and neglected. At times I feel as though it is my fault ,and he deserves to be with someone else. Anyway, this guy that I know: I don't know. he reminds me of my boyfriend when I first met him. I can't help but to admire him. I try not to talk to him much, though. I would never cheat on anybody. But please, someone help me solve this problem! (And most of the time, I think 'Wow, my boyfriend is amazing. I don't deserve him. He's a good guy who needs to find a girl who'll appreciate him.) Oh, and also one of my best friends likes him (the guy)... Wow. Open Question: How can I make my boyfriend more confident in himself?Me and my best friend (a guy) recently decided to start dating as it was evident that we both had feelings for each other. I love him very much and I'm pretty certain he feels the same way about me. He is really the most amazing guy ever.... I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend (: Anyways, there is ONE problem however. He's not very confident.... He's a little bit shy, kinda nerdy in that adorable Eric Foreman way, and he's incredibly respectful (no, I'm definitely not complaining about any of that lol I love that about him). I respect him too and would never pressure him into doing anything he doesn't want to. But the thing is, I think he really wants to.... he just doesn't have the confidence. We haven't kissed yet, but I know it'll come with time, but I know him very well, and he's one of those people who needs that extra push to take the next step. My best friend (a girl) thinks he's just nervous about trying anything on me because she thinks I intimidate him. I'm not really sure what she meant by that.... Anyways, bottom line, how can I boost his confidence a little, enough to the point where he has the courage to kiss me? or just well, anything? I do compliment him, but should I try to compliment him even more? Maybe more physical things too? I just want to let him know that it's okay, and that I want him to. I just don't want to disrespect him in any way whatsoever. Thanks! (: Open Question: What are the reasons that women cheat?I am a young woman and I've been with my boyfriend (Brandon) for 2.5 years now. I am madly in love with him. The same month that we made it official 2 and a half years ago, I broke it off with another guy (Sean) who I was seeing for about 9 months. I was not in love with this guy. I was physically attracted to him mostly. 6 months after Brandon and I started dating, I invited Sean to a party at my campus and found out that night that he still had feelings for me, and I still had feelings for him too. I didn't give myself time to get over Sean before I made it official with Brandon. We ended up having passionate sex the next day, I gave into the temptation. Right after the encounter, I feel the most guilt I've ever felt in my life. I was crying and shaking and vowed never to do that again. Unfortunately, something is wrong with me because over the summer, I had sex with 2 more guys while I was out of the country, and away from my boyfriend, for 3 months. Neither of these men were physically attractive, they did not have money (I am no gold digger), they did not hold me or kiss me the way Brandon does but I still had sex with them. I didn't even like them! I felt like a robot while I was alone with them. I felt sick during and after the encounter. It felt good once or twice but the guilt, shame, anger and hatred towards myself was always there. I've sat for months now trying to figure out my problem. I've decided not to tell Brandon because it will hurt him too much and I don't want him to leave me. We are as perfect as how a perfect relationship can get. We are still in the honeymoon phase after 2 years! I love spending time with him, we think about each before we make any decisions even though we do not live together, not engaged, or have children. He is amazing and besides my cheating habit, he thinks I am an amazing girlfriend. I don't ever plan to tell him about this. I would like to know how I can fix things about myself, because obviously something is wrong with me, not my boyfriend. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you sugamama, addiction did cross my mind many times. Mdmactor, thank you very much for your theories, I know that I am extremely passive and I cannot say no easily. I was date raped 4 years ago and from that time, it was extremely hard for me to so no to a man. My father has been in my life, so has my mother and they love me unconditionally. I reasoned that I should never tell him is because I alone must suffer the guilt, not him. Kolixiate, your right. With Sean, it was purely physical and stupid of me to continue the nasty cycle. Open Question: MY GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN ACTING DIFFERENT. SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR WAIT AND SEE IFF THINGS CHANGE.?I have been with my girlfriend for 3 months. She seems to be the girl of my dreams. I am 29 and she is 19 which isn't a problem. I love this girl more than anything. Last week we had our first major argument. Her ex boyfriend who she has been broken up with for over a year recently has been trying to contact her again. Her ex is serving in Iraq and was very abusive towards her. He beat her so bad that caused her to have a miscarriage. What made me mad was that she wouldn't just tell him to leave her alone. She just decided to change her number. This past week was the first anniversary of that happening to her and she warned me a few weeks ago that this would be an emotional time for her. Since we have had our arguement she has been more distant and semed to have something else on her mind. She would rarely text me and was being extremely moody. She also has only told me that she loved me once since the argument. I kept asking her about it and she said she no longer has feelings for him. That was my main concern. We had a long telephone discussion last night and I laid it out on the line. I told her it wasn't fair that she make me pay for what he did to her. She told me that she does love me and that she is not intentionally trying to take it out on me. She said that she is punishing herself from being happy. She also said that she doesn't want to lose me because I'm a good guy and treat her better than she has ever been treated. She wants me to be patient with her and said she can't guarantee that she won't push me away but said she would try not to. I told her that I would be as patient as I could and said if it lasted much longer I wouldn't be able to continue the relationship. I love this girl more than anything. How long should I wait? Should I set a timeline? What should I do? Open Question: How can I get my boyfriend to....?Me and my best friend (a guy) recently decided to start dating as it was evident that we both had feelings for each other. I love him very much and I'm pretty certain he feels the same way about me. He is really the most amazing guy ever.... I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend (: Anyways, there is ONE problem however. He's not very confident.... He's a little bit shy, kinda nerdy in that adorable Eric Foreman way, and he's incredibly respectful (no, I'm definitely not complaining about any of that lol I love that about him). I respect him too and would never pressure him into doing anything he doesn't want to. But the thing is, I think he really wants to.... he just doesn't have the confidence. We haven't kissed yet, but I know it'll come with time, but I know him very well, and he's one of those people who needs that extra push to take the next step. My best friend (a girl) thinks he's just nervous about trying anything on me because she thinks I intimidate him. I'm not really sure what she meant by that.... Anyways, bottom line, how can I boost his confidence a little, enough to the point where he has the courage to kiss me? or just well, anything? I just want to let him know that it's okay, and that I want him to. I just don't want to disrespect him in any way whatsoever. Thanks! (: Open Question: I have some guy trouble (girls only plz)? PLEASE HELP ME!!!?Okay well I'm pregnant. I want to tell my boyfriend, but the problem is...it might not be his. One night, I was at a party, and I think a drank a little too much, because next thing I knew I was waking up in some stranger's bed. Okay so I know I make a mistake...and I want to tell my boyfriend that I cheated on him, but it's a little more complicated than that. A couple days before the party, my boyfriend told me about his ex who he dumped because he caught her...having sex with his father (I know...ew). Well he broke up with her immediately after that incident, and apparently the break-up was so bad that the next day, the girl committed suicide! And they've only been going out a couple weeks! So you see my problem here?!? So do you think I should tell him? Why or why not? Thanks a million! Open Question: Can somebody please give me some ideas?Me and my best friend (a guy) recently decided to start dating as it was evident that we both had feelings for each other. I love him very much and I'm pretty certain he feels the same way about me. He is really the most amazing guy ever.... I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend (: Anyways, there is ONE problem however. He's not very confident.... He's a little bit shy, kinda nerdy in that adorable Eric Foreman way, and he's incredibly respectful (no, I'm definitely not complaining about any of that lol I love that about him). I respect him too and would never pressure him into doing anything he doesn't want to. But the thing is, I think he really wants to.... he just doesn't have the confidence. We haven't kissed yet, but I know it'll come with time, but I know him very well, and he's one of those people who needs that extra push to take the next step. My best friend (a girl) thinks he's just nervous about trying anything on me because she thinks I intimidate him. I'm not really sure what she meant by that.... Anyways, bottom line, how can I boost his confidence a little, enough to the point where he has the courage to kiss me? or just well, anything? I just want to let him know that it's okay, and that I want him to. I just don't want to disrespect him in any way whatsoever. Thanks! (: Open Question: How can I give my boyfriend more confidence?Me and my best friend (a guy) recently decided to start dating as it was evident that we both had feelings for each other. I love him very much and I'm pretty certain he feels the same way about me. He is really the most amazing guy ever.... I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend (: Anyways, there is ONE problem however. He's not very confident.... He's a little bit shy, kinda nerdy in that adorable Eric Foreman way, and he's incredibly respectful (no, I'm definitely not complaining about any of that lol I love that about him). I respect him too and would never pressure him into doing anything he doesn't want to. But the thing is, I think he really wants to.... he just doesn't have the confidence. We haven't kissed yet, but I know it'll come with time, but I know him very well, and he's one of those people who needs that extra push to take the next step. My best friend (a girl) thinks he's just nervous about trying anything on me because she thinks I intimidate him. I'm not really sure what she meant by that.... Anyways, bottom line, how can I boost his confidence a little, enough to the point where he has the courage to kiss me? or just well, anything? I just want to let him know that it's okay, and that I want him to. I just don't want to disrespect him in any way whatsoever. Thanks! (: Open Question: Do any of you other adolescents out there have the same problem when it comes to dating as I do?I've only had two boyfriends and i'm 16. I've been single for about 6 or 7 months. I've mad a vow not to date anyone until I really get to know them, but its been hard. Once I got to know them it became boring and there was no chemistry there. I believe in undeniable attraction and there has to be some type of spark for me. I crave excitement and passion which always seems to get me into a lot of trouble. Being in a new relationship/meeting someone new is always fun at first, but it becomes a nightmare for me not long after. It's like once the new wears off I want to get away. I've hurt a lot of guys over this and I don't even mean to. My friends tell me I date like a man. I just really haven't truly liked someone... But are any of you out there having the same problem as I am? I'm trying to control it. Open Question: What do I do if a crazy girl is harassing both me and my boyfriend?My boyfriend and I's mutual good friend recently dated a particular girl. They broke up due to the distance between the two of them, but remain "friends with benefits". This is much to my and our group of friends chagrin as she has caused nothing but trouble and drama. Here is the background: She made sure to cozy up to all the boys in our group of friends (especially my boyfriend), and completely ignored me despite my attempts to at least be friendly. She texted my boyfriend constantly and despite my polite requests for her to tone it down (it seemed to me inappropriate), she persisted and even intensified her behavior. Finally, I told her off and told her to stay as far away from my boyfriend and I as possible. She then proceeded to bash me in any way possible, texting/messaging/calling everyone that we knew and bitching to them and making up all these horrible things about me. She even talked horribly about me in front of my boyfriend and best friends! Eventually it got to the point where she was so insistant that she ended up have a stake out on my boyfriends lawn while we all had a get together. Though she was told not to come as she was not welcome and no one wanted her there she refused to leave, and even had the audacity to come into the house and refuse to leave. Since then, we have not heard from her much at all. My boyfriend and I both deleted her number, blocked her on facebook and myspace, and all of our friends are so sick of her that they've started ignoring her completely. Now, my current problem is that despite all of our efforts she has continued to somehow track us down and send us rude and mean messages. This girl is crazy and I can't get her to go away! What should I do? I don't have enough evidence to go to the police for harassment since I've deleted everything she has ever sent me, what other options do I have? Open Question: im in love with my friend, what should i do?im in love with my friend, we are both 20 years old, we have known each other for about 3 years now. she is the most beautiful womwan i have ever met. she is smart, beautiful, funny, everything i could ever dream of i think about her all the time, whenever i see her i get that feeling in my chest like im out of breath or my heart just skipped a beat, and i love it!!, but the only problem is she has a boyfriend that i believe is totally wrong for her. he does not trust her, he is very controlling and he has already cheated on her once. what should i do?? wait for her to make the right choice and leave him, and wait to tell her how i feel? or do i tell her how i feel right now? all i want is her to be happy. More Recent Articles
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