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Open Question: Do you know anyone else who has a boyfriend that will never sleep the night? and how can I change this? and more... Open Question: Do you know anyone else who has a boyfriend that will never sleep the night? and how can I change this?We have been together for 18 months and get on brilliantly in every way, we have no problems except for this sleeping with each other thing. I cannot imagine ending this relationship but after so long together it is frustrating to spend so many nights apart by myself. Even when we're intimate we have to get back up and I drive back home alone at night. I know this is his hangup not mine and I try to be patient and understanding and hope in time maybe it will change but I also feel unloved or unwanted occasionally and long to just cuddle up and enjoy some quality time together unrushed and without limitations. I have tried to explain this but he says that when he's asleep he is unaware and that he wants to spend all his waking time with me which is more important...he also says he has always been like this and cannot sleep with anyone else physically around him. He really isn't just using me and we do have a very close relationship and bond together but inside I still feel sad and almost a bit repressed by all this.... he also never expresses verbally that he loves me but says that I am the person he is closest to in all his life....what should I do about all this? Open Question: does he like me, i really need advice, this means alot!?okay:] thankks for reading! 10 pts to best answer! lol:] so theres this boy, whose a year younger than me& he has a gf but i really really like him! he barely hangs out with her at school, but comes and talks to me MULTIPLE times a day! he grabs me frm behind and holds me when i takee something of his in a jokingly way and i do the same but we laugh alot and flirt:] he fixes his hair alot whenn he's around me, he ALWAYS askks for my phone and ipod and i find myself waiting until break at school or the classes i hav with him. i catch him looking at me and sometimes he'll smile and other times he'll quickley look away. we stand really close when we walk together, and he always ends up making me laugh. he always doess something funny when i hang out with him and some friends.before he got a gf he told me that he was going to learn how to kiss when it was just us. when he takes my stuff jokingly he messes with me and almost wants me to really care and smile and mess with him backk. he layss on my arm when we sit down, and he lays down behind me when i sit down on the floor. both of his sisters said that he blushes and smiles when they say my name and that they think he likes me. but i have 3 problems. 1. he has a gf! but he doesnt really talk to her, just a hug aftr school and a goodbye. 2.i dont know if he likes me! 3.i hav a friend with a BOYFRIEND who likes the same guy i like too, wen i askd her if she still liked him yesterrday she said she just thot he was cute. but today she was flirting ALOT.! it almost seemed like she wntd to make me mad,he was laughing while she layed on him and stuff, it just disgusts me. what do i do about her? Open Question: Help! I am almost 20 years old and I NEED to get out of this hell.?I need to move out of my parents house. They are quite overbearing, overcontrolling. For example: They never allowed me to have a job because they didn't want me socializing. I do have a cellphone but it is constantly checked online and they call the numbers I have been talking to to see who they are and see what their relationship with me is. I am not allowed to see my friends, let alone talk. The only time I can do this is when I go to school (which is a branch school because they didn't let me apply anywhere else). I do everything, I clean, help cook, etc. All of that housing chore nonesense. And I don't have a problem with it either. Things have been violent before, physically. They always accuse me of being someone I am not, or doing things I would never do. They never encourage me, just always put me down and tell me I can't do a single thing right. They don't even allow me to wear certain things around them, because they don't like how I dress. This environment isn't healthy. It's constant fighting, name calling, blaming, accusing, etc. There is also alot of mental abuse. I have been trapped within the 4 walls of my bedroom for as long as I can remember. I know people have it off worse than me, but I can't take it another day. I can't sit here and let my dreams and goals fly by. I could die tomorrow and have nothing to show for it. I want to help people, and partake in volunteer work, but the ironic thing is, I don't know how to help myself. I am majoring in Sociology/Psych in hopes to become a counselor. I just know that I'm losing myself to this control. I have a boyfriend, and he said I could stay with him. He's 24 and lives with his parents while his career starts off. I don't want to intrude on his parents. Also, I haven't a job. How would I go about schooling? What if my parents come after me and drag me back home? Because, they will. I think I just need encouragement and advice. I have lost all of my friends, except for my wonderful boyfriend. Any input would be appreciated. Please help! Open Question: tall and want to wear heels around a 5 ft 7 in boyfriend..?im 5 ft 8 with a thin build, my boyfriend is 5 ft 7. the problem is that i would like to be able to wear heels but with that towering over him would occur. he likes that fact that im tall and is persistant on wanting me to wear heels but to me it just seems odd and makes me uncomfortable. although i am not into sex stereotyping, it just seems untraditional. i dont know what im trying to ask, i guess for opinions.. Open Question: Why can I not hold on to a girlfriend?For my what seems to be my entire life, I can't seem to hold on to a girlfriend. I had my first girlfriend when I was 13, and we lasted 4 months. I was shy then and I didn't like to talk much, so I could understand that. I then developed a crush on a girl when I was 16, and she didn't like me the same way. I wasted 6+ months trying to show her how much I cared for her.. to no avail. I then went out with another girl when I was 17, and that lasted from June - October of 2009, and she broke up with me after telling me she had been cheating on me with another person for the last month and she was pregnant with his kid. I like another girl but she has a boyfriend, and (again) she doesn't like me the same way I like her. You can ask anybody I talk to, and they all say that I'm a sweet, loving guy. I listen to girls and become sympathetic towards their problems. I devote all of my time to people and I do nothing but care for them. Yet I'm always treated like crap and cheated on when I did nothing to provoke it. What's wrong with me? Why do I get treated like this when there are people who are complete a**holes and treat people like crap, but can keep a girlfriend?? I don't understand... Open Question: Right thing to do? what do you think?I got together with my boyfriend through my ex-who was also my sex buddy which I am ashmed of. I was very in love with my ex which is why I agreed to have sex with him long after the split. In my eyes we were also friends often going on nights out together with friends with no sex involved. My ex was best friends with my boyfriend and had been for years.However, behind my back it has surfaced, he was telling my boyfriend (before we were going out or had even met properly) to have me round and just f*ck me. Because he was sick of me and wanted to get me off his hands. And to him, he was doing his friend a favour as he hadn't 'been with a girl for 2 years'. My ex took me round and my boyfriend was shocked to find 'I was actually a sweet person' and not at all how my ex had painted me. My ex tormented me as I would do anything to make him happy with no happiness in return-it really messed me up. he'd been around since my mum died when i was 14 and now at the age of 18, I couldn't let him go as I saw him as my distraction. My boyfriend and I began meeting alone (and no there was no sex involved!!) and chatting through the night into the morning. We quickly became inseprable. Meanwhile my ex couldn't STAND the fact his best friend and his 'toy' were closer then he was to either of us.He became bitter and twisted. My boyfriend was so upset from getting to know me knowing what my ex had said, he cut him out of his life. That was just the beginning. soon my ex was calling me more then 5 times a day. He wanted to visit me. He didn't want to hear about my boyfriend. He would keep me ont he phone for one time, 5 hours just talking and talking, which funnily enough made him get to know me and see my true personality so he became obsessed. He said he'd realised I was the one for him. My boyfriend got so sick of my ex he called him and told him to just leave us in peace-the problem was I had chatted with my ex and we had formed some strange friendship-so my boyfriend got me to change my number last night and delete all trace of him-of course I haven't heard from him since,..Was it the right thing to do? To just leave my ex? Because he was even saying to my boyfriend on the phone 'let me speak to her!!' Open Question: friend problems read the whole thing!?okay, so today at break (im in middle school) me and my friend were sitting on the porch and she wanted to walk instead, so then i told her i would get up in a sec and then she is like "get up, ur taking forever!" and then i just told her to hold on because i had to do something and then she just said "get up now or im leaving!" and then i she said "WHAT HAS BEEN UR PROB LEM LATELY"? and i just stood up and said, well i said in a really mean town, i said "why do u always expect me to do what u say!!!!!!" but it was a worse argument if u were there, and then she got all mad at me and ya, last night and today i got her all pretty because i was giong to ask this guy if he would go out with her and she had someone else do it instead of me!and since hes like her first boyfriend she didnt even tell me, i had to hear it from another friend and it really pissed me off!she treats me like im more of an object instead of a person like im the dog and shes my master, and im tired of it, what should i do? Open Question: THIS GIRL HAS MADE ME FALL IN LOVE AND NOW USES ME?why is she playing with my mind because im hurting? im a 32 male and i have had this female friend since i was 17 and over the years we have flirted with each other and i believe we would have had a relationship but when she was single i wasnt ,vice versa,over the last four or so years we have became very close and she has said things like (i only go to certain nights out because you are there ,i love you more than anyone,constantly tels me im handsome and one night i was dancing with her she whispered in my ear that she love me holding her ,now there has been hundreds more like this said and been close situations with us "but always when shes been drinking ,even as close as last week she asked me why i didnt pick her as my girlfriend when we where younger and that she regrets not making the move,problem is that i would ask her when shes sobre but i know she would kick up a stink as shes a totally different person to me sobre and i know she does not flirt like this to anyone else.she has a boyfriend and last night we where at a party and i had a one on one conversation with her although people in the group could hear(whilst she was drinking )and she told me in this conversation that her boyfriend was her soul mate and that she totally loved him (i felt like telling her to get stuffed and in my head i wanted to say ,well what all this crap you have said to me),she always says thing like this a couple of weeks after saying mind hurting things to me (what is she doing because i cant figure her out ,IT SEEMS THAT WHEN SHES UNHAPPY OR HAD AN ARGUEMENT WITH HER BOYFRIEND SHE COMES ONTO ME (WHY) Open Question: THIS GIRL HAS MADE ME FALL IN LOVE WITH HER AND NOW USES ME?why is she playing with my mind because im hurting? im a 32 male and i have had this female friend since i was 17 and over the years we have flirted with each other and i believe we would have had a relationship but when she was single i wasnt ,vice versa,over the last four or so years we have became very close and she has said things like (i only go to certain nights out because you are there ,i love you more than anyone,constantly tels me im handsome and one night i was dancing with her she whispered in my ear that she love me holding her ,now there has been hundreds more like this said and been close situations with us "but always when shes been drinking ,even as close as last week she asked me why i didnt pick her as my girlfriend when we where younger and that she regrets not making the move,problem is that i would ask her when shes sobre but i know she would kick up a stink as shes a totally different person to me sobre and i know she does not flirt like this to anyone else.she has a boyfriend and last night we where at a party and i had a one on one conversation with her although people in the group could hear(whilst she was drinking )and she told me in this conversation that her boyfriend was her soul mate and that she totally loved him (i felt like telling her to get stuffed and in my head i wanted to say ,well what all this crap you have said to me),she always says thing like this a couple of weeks after saying mind hurting things to me (what is she doing because i cant figure her out ,IT SEEMS THAT WHEN SHES UNHAPPY OR HAD AN ARGUEMENT WITH HER BOYFRIEND SHE COMES ONTO ME (WHY) Open Question: Am i being used for money by my boyfriend?Ok soo i am a senior and my boyfriend is a sophomore. we have been dating since the beginning of october and it is now the middle of december. i like him alot and he tells me all the time how he likes me and wants to marry me and how he thinks about our future. BUT im having a hard time believing he really feels this way since he is young and still immature... i dont want to be serious with someone that isnt going to like me in the future and the first time i bought him something it was food from a drive thru, and i offered. it was cheap. keep in mind that he lives 30 minutes away from me so i put alot of my money to gas to get to his house and back... i only work once a week so i only make around $50 and we went to the store to find shoes for him since christmas is coming up and the shoes he wanted were more than $50... i have no problem or question to spend a little over $100 for christmas, but when i tell him we will have to come back because i didnt bring enough money and he tells me im broke.. then thats a little disrepspectful. we went to the movies once and i paid for both our tickets.. and i am fine with him not having money because i understand he is only a sophmore but is it right for him to ask me for things? he will ask for a dollar sometimes or sometimes five dollars and he always tries to convince me to buy him a phone... its not a problem buying him things, but i just cant buy it all at once. i feel like he is more into the money but idont know. ive told him a few times i wouldnt buy him something and he hasnt left me. Open Question: My boyfriend never invites me to parties?Sometimes we don't get a chance to hangout on the weekends, but then I find out that he goes to parties from seeing pictures on Facebook or from other people. There not incriminating pictures, just of him and his drink or whatever. Anyways, once when I knew he'd gone to a party and asked him what he had don that weekend, he said 'nothing'. I confronted him about the party and he said he 'wasn't worth mentioning, so i didn't'. It really bothered me alot because in my mind the only reason people go to parties is to hook up. I don't care if it's just him and his guy friends.. but when other girls are going I don't see why he doesn't want to invite me. He tries explaining that sometimes he needs have his own time and all that.. but to spend it getting drunk at a party isn't what I see as appropriate. And when I tell him that I don't have any fun at a party without him, he thinks it's weird and that I should be able to party by myself no problem. Am I wrong to be mad at him for going to parties without me and not telling me? I think so. I do go to parties when it's just my girlfriends, but when other guys are going, of course i'm going to want my boy there! Open Question: Why don't I seem to attract guys?So, here's the problem. With all my friends starting to get boyfriends, I'm slowly becoming the third wheel. I just don't know what is wrong, I mean, I'm not ugly or anything, I'm not the slimmest girl, I am small, but not the slimmest. I think I'm pretty decent looking. I am shy, but I have a good personality once you do know me. What am I doing wrong? I know I'm only 16 and the guy will come eventually, etc,etc, but it's getting REALLY old being amongst a sea of couples. ha. Open Question: Can I get any compensation legally for having been kicked out while underage, 17 years old?I did behave badly, drinking, partying, and staying out late. The thing is though so did my mother, and she didnt seem to have a problem with my sister doing it. My sister was 19 but living out of the house, but when she came she would buy her alcohol, let her boyfriend "sleep over" and gossip with her. My mom also didnt take real care of me. She did let me eat out the refrigerator but whenever she was mad she would take away my bed, my clothes, all of my things. I slept on the floor, wore the same things to school for days, but she researched the law online and knew it was ok as long as she gave me the bare essentials. Is this right? Then when she was taken to court she told my dad ( who had picked me up after the fact) that she was going to say he kidnapped me! But we had gone to the police to make sure they knew so that she couldnt make up any stories such as this one. Then when she got off without even a warning she rubbed it in his and my face. Feeling guilty, i suppose, she proceeded to tell the neighbors i ran off with a boy. Open Question: ok so i've given him space?Ok full story cut short. Boyfriend is going through a tough time with life and family problems, his parents broke up. He asked me to give him some time apart (not on a break we're still going out) to let him think some things over about his life. I let him and give him some space trying to understand and be patient. I pass him on friday night and he completey ignores me. He said we could still text and he would ring but when i texted him he didnt reply so i guessed maybe he didnt want to text. Another week of us having no contact and i see him on sunday night, he acts like nothing is different. Then when he's about to leave at the end he says i still need some time i'll see you on friday at youth club. Kisses me on the cheek and leaves. He doesnt come on friday night and hasnt been texting at all. What do i do now? I just need some advice if i should do anything or wait on him to be ready. thanks xx Open Question: I am dating a man from Brazil, and am having major difficulty helping him learn english. I need help?I'm rewriting a previous question, I don't think it was detailed enough. My boyfriend has been in America for over 3 years, yet it is nearly impossible for us to communicate. He knows very few words and phrases, and most of the ones he does know are terribly incorrect. I try to correct him when he is wrong, but after I correct it he goes back to using the incorrect words and pronounciations. He has extreme difficulty with the American accent, pronounciation is very difficult for him. I have tried a few different things to try and help him learn: online translators, flash cards, repetition, and trying to learn more of his language (portuguese). He understands spanish, so he primarily watches spanish TV, he works and surrounds himself with people who only speak portuguese. I'm embarrassedd to have him meet my family or friends because he cannot understand or communicate. Every day is like a neverending game of sharades. His most often response to me is cocking his head and saying "huh?" and that is getting more and more frustrating, and lately I even get a little angry because I don't understand why he cannot understand things that I have been saying and explaining to him since we started dating 4 months ago. I know that is the wrong thing to do, because I don't want him to feel bad and embarassed when he attempts english. I feel like I am failing, like I'm not being a good teacher because I have started responding to his broken english isntead of trying to correct it reapeatedly. I have all but given up. Rosetta Stone is hundreds of dollars, and I don't have money to spend on this problem unfortunately, or I would have sent him to classes by now. I honestly feel like he has made little effort to really learn english, but I have explained to him how important it is to learn english if he wants to live here and date American girls. Communication is THE most important part of a relationship, and we have very little, so a relationship cannot thrive without communication. I knew this from the beginning but I honestly thought this would be alot easier. I want to be fair and patient but ... I am losing my patience quicker and quicker. Thank you in advance for and suggestions! Open Question: Should I tell my mother I've had sex, knowing she won't approve?I'm a female teenager, 15 years old. I have overprotective parents, but they aren't too overprotective. Mostly, they're afraid that I'll have sex. Focusing on one parent now, my mother. She has always told me I'm not ready, which I didn't agree with, and still don't, for I had sex twice with my boyfriend, and it was great. I don't understand why it's such a big deal, besides the fact that there's a chance of getting pregnant. She claims it's a big purity thing, and overall a huge commitment. Now the problem is, I'm thinking about telling her, which might make her trust me more and become less overprotective, because I'm telling the truth. On the other hand, she might trust me LESS, for I hadn't obeyed her. What should I do? More Recent Articles
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