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Open Question: do u think this relationship could last? and more... Open Question: do u think this relationship could last?me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 months. i love him. period. i never thought that i could have something as good as i have with him. he is good to me he's good for me. i have been hurt before and have my insecurities but he is helping me through them. he is everything to me and he is my first. i want this to work. i want him to be my first and my last. he has been so good to me i really don't think i could ever be with someone else. we have our problems but we are working at it one being my mother she is overprotective me being her only girl and is scared i am going to make the same thing she did.( have a baby and get married at 18)also i secretly think she is still freaking out over the fact that i am black and he is white.( like that matters) she is afraid that we are have sex. and i am too afraid to admit to her that we have. i don't know what to do. I really really want to make it work with him and i know it can i just don't know how. i would really love someones complete honest opinion on my situation. thank u to anyone who can help me( hopefully) i am 18. we have talked about the furure . we are trying to be realistic about it. and we have decided if we are still together after i finish school.( which will be in like 6 to 7 years) then we really would seriously consider marriage. we are working on just being together for now. but i sometimes wonder with my mom and other things. but i love him and i know a lot of people probably dont think it will last but i realy wish it would. he is the best. i would take a lot for me to let him go. Open Question: Does anyone know a legitimate witch curse?My "friend" has totally started getting on my nerves and is even trying to sabotage mine and my boyfriend's relationship! I want to curse her without really, really hurting her but if pain is a side effect then I won't have TOO much of a problem with that. ;) Thanks everyone! Open Question: Do I have a dating problem or a jealousy problem?How do I stop it? I get jealous around other girls :P Yeh I know I know. Expecially when theose other girls are around my boyfriend and he seems to be more into them then me. And texts other girls non stop and when I text my friends he gets on me about it saying I better not be cheating. Which I'm not but he 's always texting and flirting right in front of me :( What should I do. If anything Open Question: Do I have a dating problem or is it a jealousy problem?How do I stop it? I get jealous around other girls :P Yeh I know I know. Expecially when theose other girls are around my boyfriend and he seems to be more into them then me. And texts other girls non stop and when I text my friends he gets on me about it saying I better not be cheating. Which I'm not but he 's always texting and flirting right in front of me :( What should I do. If anything Open Question: Should I be worried about this girl?I am seeing this guy and he has recently flicked off a girl he was having a casual thing with. Thing is she is pyscho and hacked his Facebook account, but thats not what worries me. Its my boyfriends reaction, he seems obsessed by it and always wants to talk about this girl. Should i leave him to sort his problems out? Open Question: Is this obsession HIGHLY abnormal?I really love anime. (Japanese animation. Please do NOT stereotype this as either all ninjas or all porn. if you do, you're WRONG AS HELL.) I am NOT a weeaboo, (if you don't know what that is, just urban dictionary it) and it pisses me off when people call me that said term. I find it racist against whites sometimes. You find any white person with a slight anime obsession, and they have probably been called a weeaboo sometime on the internet by some half-assed dope. Anyway, I feel that I have a sick obsession, with anime, but I'm not sure I want it to stop. What I really want is to find someone as obsessed as me. I ALWAYS think that anime characters of either gender are more attractive that people in real life. If I were to tell this to someone who hasn't watched anime, they'd think that I have serious problems. If I were to tell this to someone who HAS watched anime and who generally likes it, they would think that I'm relatively normal. Someone like the people I have come to know and love online. Certain things happened, and my parents got a bit defensive. Online friends are no longer an option unless I know them irl. But, the thing is, I find most people irl boring and unsatisfying (if you will). I suck in social situations, and I've never really had many real friends. Just starting highschool, I have quite a few friends. It's kinda amazing. I went from some one totally and completely alone to someone with about 20 friends in about 3 years. But I still feel disatisfied. And now, I know you're probably going to think, "Ugh, just another horny teenager." Well, you may be right. Hormones suck. Either way, I've been having an obessive want for a really nice boyfriend. Someone to love me and cuddle me and hug me. I just want to be loved? ;_; I feel so pathetic just typing this, but that's how I feel. But I also feel that my standards for a good boyfriend are too high, and that I'll never get one. (I could just list them, but I won't as I am afraid of being called selfish.) I also feel that I'll never get a boyfriend because I'm slightly overwieght and I personally think that I'm ugly as hell. No, I won't post pic's. You sick pedobears. So my mind is stuck in a debate. I want a bf really badly, but I want a good one, but I may not be ever able to get ONE guy to EVER like me, and so on, and so on. Another thing. I used to be addicted to an online game. Like, drug-addicted. My dad obviously couldn't understand how strong this addiction was, and like any other person, ripped the game away. Now I always feel disatisfied with life. Especially as of late. I've been without that game for about 6 months, and I've missed so many updates and it bothers me almost every day. The worst part is that I was really good at the game and I WAS better than a big majority of the people, and this matters to me. If you've never loved a game like I have, then you won't understand. I've been procrastinating more often. (like now) The thing is, I'm most likely bipolar and I know that issues in the past have probably coused problems for me and now I have emotional problems and yada yada yada. I really don't want to alert my parents or go to a therapist. I bottle my emotions up as much as I can, shove it in a bottle, and sugar coat the bottle with a smiley face. I act uncaring around anybody except my friends, because they make me happy. So school-related people (teachers, friends, etc.) = not an option to talk to. My parents don't seem to care whether I'm high on sugar or just suicidal... so please don't ask... Anyway, I'm usually hyper and spaztic if I even talk about one of my friends, when I'm around them I'm extremely hyper. I think that I'm maybe just lonely? I need someone to identify with me? I can't wait for the next anime con, either way. Lots of people like me, right? Alteast, I hope. Opinoins, similarities, discuss? I really don't need solutions, I just want someone to identify with me... Unless you think you know what I need? Other than my lonliness to be expelled? Please throw in your two cents. My worst fear is that no one will understand me, and society will lock me up like it usually does with people that have unknown abnormalities. And I'm talking about SOCIETY, not DOCTORS. But I doubt that you get what I mean. (I have this thing about how much of society's values are so fucked up these days and how everyone is so selfish and it's EXTEMELY hard to come around good people.) And please don't give me any of that tl;dr (too long, didnt read) shit. When people do that, it makes me crazy, especially when I put in the effort type out something this long. Please answer.... Even if you just skimmed through it. T_T And the qualities for a bf I mentioned before don't have to do with appearance, but I still feel selfish, anyway. Also, I feel like I have problems, but when I take a look at someone else who has even more/worse problems than me, I try to ignore my own problems to avoid being selfish. I hate feeling or being called selfish. It makes me feel so terrible. Open Question: So I have this Boyfriend That Like to Think He Is?In control of everything I do. Why do guys always think they are in control of ever girl they r with. I mean I don't have a problem with it but when it comes to your man not letting u do anything is when it comes a problem.. vvvv things he don't let me do vvvv 1.) he don't let me hang out with guy friends 2.) he don't let me hang with my girl friends either 3.) he don't even like me in here asking questions or answering others questions. 4.) he don't let me just be me He don't let me do sh*t but sit in the house all day an be bored. Why do some men do this for?? Boyfriend says : it is because he is afraid of losing me 2 someone else just because, he watched me do it to my ex boyfriend to be with him. && also I cheated on some of my ex's when I was with them.. But I had a reason 2 cheat on them sorry a$$ losers. He acts like I'm gonna do it to him. I love this boy with all my heart & I don't want anything 2 happen with our relationship but if he don't start trusting me to do things on my own time then this relationship is gonna go into the trash real soon. How do I get him to let it go.. I let this man do what ever he wants to do.. Now I don't really want him talking to his ex girl friends just because there was something that went down a while ago. An I don't want it to happen again. If u understand were I'm coming from. But on the real. How do I get this to change? How can I change the trust he has for me? Isn't trust what you need to have to have a relationship. RIGHT?? help please.. thanks for reading this! 10 points best answer as possible Open Question: Boyfriend problems, help please?I currently have a boyfriend. His name is Zeke. We started dating, unexpectedly, a few weeks ago. We were great friends. Zeke and I .. I don't think we make a good couple anymore. I liked it better when we were just good friends. So my first question is.. Should I break up with him? If I should, how/when? I've never broken up with anyone. And I still want to be friends, like we used to. Second part.. I like someone else. His name is Jacob. I have liked him for.. forever. I can honestly consider him my best guy friend, and I think I'm one of his best girl friends, if not his #1 girl friend. He's given me hints that he's liked me too. We have taken walks alone at parties, held hands, he's flirted, etc. People have told us we would be a good couple. But I'm still not sure if he likes me the way I like him. The problem is, Jacob has a girlfriend. Her name is Emma. He started dating her days after he held hands with me. I was so upset.. I felt like I had been led on. What should I do about this problem? Should I tell Jacob that I like him, and see what he says? Should I just wait until him and Emma break up to make a move? I'm so confused. Thanks soooo much. xoxo More Recent Articles |
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