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Thursday, December 3, 2009

Open Question: do i stay with the guy i love or take the dream job ?

 
 



Open Question: do i stay with the guy i love or take the dream job ?

Open Question: do i stay with the guy i love or take the dream job ?

okay so im 19 and my boyfriend is in a band and tours a lot , i mean he is only home for a couple of weeks ,and then gone for like 3 months at a time , i live with him and hes band mate ( who is my best friend too ) im best friends with all the guys in the band . i use to live in sydney but when they toured here we fell in love and i moved to america , merryland and moved in with them , the problem is i dnt really have any friends here , only the band , i have friends in NYC and i was offered a great job there in designing fashion and stuff like that , ive wanted to do that my whole life and i designed merch of my bf bands and there friends who are bands too and they all say they love it and would love to have me design merch and come on tour with all of them which would be heaps fun but the problem is i wanna do so much more then merch , i wanna make nice fashion cloths for heaps of designer brands and i have that chance to do that in NYC but that means leaving my boyfriends and friends behind , i mean i only get to see him about 20 weeks in the year all together and when there all gone i have no one and i mean NO ONE , im so bored and i dnt have a job here becuase he pays for everything cuz hes rich ( but thats not the point ) i really love him and hate when it goes but i love when i get to see him , hes like every thing to me and we have been dating for 3 years and we are engaged ( kinda , he asked me to marry him but i siad i thought we where too young even though i want to , i just dnt wanna be married this young maybee in a year , so i still wear the ring as like a promise ring to get married , corney i no lol ) anyway , we like love each other so much and we like never fight and we are just so great together , but as i siad hes not there much , i dnt have a job and i have no one , sould i go to new york and have the job i dreamed of so much and would love so much and have some friends up there or be with the one i love and go on tour and just designe merch , i mean i still get to design just not wht i wanted to , i really just dno wht to do and i cant keep putting it off , if i leave i gotta do it soon cuz the job starts soon and because there coming back home for 3 days in two weeks and i cnt leave if he is there cuz i no i wouldnt leave , i just dont know what to do .

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