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Open Question: Do I only like my boyfriend bc of his physical? and more... Open Question: Do I only like my boyfriend bc of his physical?so i'm confused... i dont know if i should break up with him or not... to begin. at first i hated him. because he would ALWAYS pick on me. But we ended up realizing that we just liked each other. He's really CUTE. So, as ridiculous as it sounds, it was like a 1st grade flirt. So now we are dating. But one of my friends asked... "why do you like him? He's such a jerk." This was hard for me to answer... Because although he is cute, i never considered it a reason for me to like him. So I'm really confused. Because I can't say he really cares about me. Because I don't know. When we go out on dates (rarely) we just make out. But when I have problems, he listens. And we constantly text each other, and when we don't we get inpatient... but its usually him joking about wanting to have sex when he's done working. He once asked me if it bothered me, because if it did, he would stop. I don't know... I need hones opinions... should I reconsider? Should I break up with him? Open Question: Need help with net book, unable to access command prompt before welcome screen?Ok, I have a MSI wind netbook, running xp home edition SP3, also the netbook is the korean version. this is the current problem; http://www.compatdb.org/support/topics/139521_windows_xp_will_no_got_to_desktop_from_welcome_screen.html the only problem in the way of me doing the easy fix is this netbook does not have a cd or dvd drive to use the start up disk to fix the problem. also when I try to make boot disks on my boyfriends computer running xp pro the 3 programs he has tried said my korean xp home disk that came with the netbook is not a valid XP disk. so my question: what is the easiest way to access ms-dos or like wise before the welcome screen so I can transfer the required file to the correct place on my HD , so I can stop the welcome screen loop. PS: please include the exact code needed to transfer the file from either cd or usb to the correct place on the HD Open Question: Relationship confusion, please read.?This is a rather complicated question and I'd like any insight you can give to me. Yahoo Answers has been extremely helpful in the past, and I thank you in advance for your wonderful help. If you don't have time-- just skip to the last few paragraphs and it will summarize it relatively nicely. Basically, I'm afraid to get back into a relationship with a man, let's call him Kevin, I care very VERY much about. We first met two years ago at a New Year's party, and began a very serious relationship very quickly, probably too quickly. Completely and utterly, madly in love, yadda yadda. We got along famously and just "got" each other fantastically. He asked me to move into his house at about the four month mark so we could see more of each other, but his business became very busy and we spent less and less time together. I felt very alone and isolated because I had moved in but he seemed to rarely make time for me, and I soon became unsettled. A year later, December, I said I was ready to leave the relationship. So we ended it. And I found someone else, which made Kevin realize how much he missed me. He was destroyed-- became very reclusive, stopped eating, began to look at work differently and took up boxing to vent his frustration. That March, Kevin confronted me and told me that he wanted me back. He'd re-assessed how important I was and after playing the field a bit himself, realized how special what we had was. I was apprehensive to go back, I was happy in my new relationship. It wasn't the same, but I was happy. The new relationship didn't, however, have the consensual love I had with Kevin (new guy didn't like me as much as I liked him). Kevin gave me an ultimatum-- Come back or he wouldn't be waiting for me when I was ready. (I know this sounds melodramatic, and I suppose it was. He was in extreme emotional distress over the situation and needed some possibility of relief.) So, after much conflict, tears, and sleepless nights, I went back to Kevin. But, truly, I wasn't really "over" the new guy, and didn't truly return to Kevin that April. I tried to go through the motions but it was not the same-- I felt like I had been lured to come back before I was truly ready. It was evident to Kevin and it nearly drove him crazy with pain and frustration that I didn't feel as madly in love with him as he did with me. He had thought, when we got back together, things would be perfect-- and they were far from it. Neither of us were happy. We separated a second time this September. We agreed to wait a month before dating anyone, but soon found new people to fill our days with. We didn't see or really speak to each other for about two months. Just a month ago, this November, I needed a drive to the airport and all my family, friends, new boyfriend were out of town. So, I asked Kevin. He said of course. When we saw each other for the first time, both of us lit up like Christmas trees. My eyes swelled with tears when we embraced. I was so happy to see him, and he felt exactly the same. We began talking again, and spoke of the connection we had when we first started dating.. and realized we did not have anything that resembled the connection with our current significant others. My misguided relationship was already on the verge of disintegration and ended, but Kevin's still continues. We see each other maybe once a week, and both of us live for the idea of seeing one another again. If a plan gets canceled, we're both completely dejected. It's not sex or kissing or anything like that, he still has a girlfriend, it's just spending time with one another and holding each other when we embrace. It's quite clear we're still in love-- and everyone who sees us interact is confused as to why we're not together. Honestly, so are we. >>TIME-CRUNCHED PEOPLE JUMP HERE<< He's still in a relationship with another woman where he's happy enough. Content. We, however, think of who we would want to be with if the world were about to end and say each other's names. He says he would drop it in a second if I were ready to begin our relationship again. We both imagine starting a family together and spending the rest of our lives with one another. But, I'm still scared. What has changed to stop this incarnation of the relationship from being riddled with the same problems we've faced before? Is this vision of our love just an illusion? I don't want to hurt him again if this apprehension is not unfounded. To further complicate the situation, I'm leaving in March to teach English in Japan. Kevin and I have two options at this point-- to remain "friends" and keep hope in the faint idea that the fates will bring us together again, OR start up the relationship again try to work on our problems while I'm still here, and plan to get married upon my return. It's not fun, and damn messy. Anyone who read this and is willing to offer their help is a personal hero to me. Thank you so much. Peace. Open Question: Flirting, Keeping a conversation and flattering in Texts/IM?Okay, so there is this girl who had a crush on me about a year ago (she told me), and she is starting to get a crush on a different guy now (She has told me this) (after breaking up w/ a boyfriend) -it's been about a month of a crush on him-. He told her he liked her, and they havent officially dated yet. I have liked her for a while, he hasnt shown signs of a crush up until about 2 weeks ago... so I still have some time to strike. She and I have no problem keeping a conversation going in person. Does anyone have any ideas for conversation/flirting/flattery over IMing and texting? I need to keep her thinking about me, and I need to keep the sexual tension REALLY high, even when we arent in person. (She Any tips would be greatly appreciated!!! Also, she says "I am like a brother to her" so this is a little trickier than past gf's. I was dating them for sex, and I got sick of it-I want an emotional relationship. Oh, and I am turning 17 in a month to give you an age range to deal with) I am also considering transferring to the local public school (I go to a catholic private) because of PTSD at the end of the semester. Open Question: my boyfriend Cody always wares drug rugs(baja hoodies) so i wanted to get him one for chrismas help(:?yeah Christmas is coming up and i want to get him one i live in Colorado and i was thinking that maybe they have them in Boulder my parents go there a lot so wont be a problem and i have up to 50$ to spend do you think it might be good to get one in Boulder or on ebay? he loves the color red too if that helps oh and i dont know what size he is people say hes fat so idk im guessing a L or XL Open Question: Boyfriend who doesn't stand up for me?Does anyone else have this same problem? It's beginning to really affect my relationship. Okay, so I have seen so many men who stick up for their partners within seconds of some argument or whatever. My boyfriend however just sits there and never sticks up for me? Why, is he just some pathetic coward with no balls or does he just want to not get involved? I just feel that if someone is verbally attacking you and having a go at you, that your partner should be loyal and step in or am I asking too much here? I have always defended my partner and would always back him up yet why is it so hard for him to show me the same respect? Open Question: I need answers....Severally Depressed!?Okay I'm 14 years old (just turned 14)...well i really am depressed, So i'm home schooled because i had no friends at regular school, more like no one liked me. I have 2 people that i'm kinda friends with(there's a girl and her boyfriend) i met them from riding! they are really cool but i dont think they like me i think they more feel bad for me so they hang with me. But i hung out with them one time and her older sister took her me & her boyfriend to a party, the girl never did anything niether did the sister but me & her boyfriend were drinking beer and smoking cigerates. It made me feel amazing and like i was having a good time for the first time in an extremly long time (i wasn't drunk or even buzzed, i only had like one beer)......... I never hang out with anyone. I'm ugly, I have bad breath( its not that i dont brush my teeth its kinda a condition i have), zits, i'm just ugly....Well i feel like no one likes me and i dont know what to do. I have met so many boys that i really like but they never have even thought of talking to me. But one i met, i really liked but he didnt like me at all so yeah, well i will say i have an amazing family. my mom is so wonderful...but she doesnt know about any of this issue, i couldn't tell her. My parents have some money so i get alot of what i want but the ony problem is the one thing i want my parents money cant buy. thats to have friends have a life be loved. i probably cry just about every night. I honestly wanna kill myself. I've thought about it a million times! but the only thing that stops me is that i have horses i own & show with the american paint horse association. and that is the only thing that keeps me from killing myself. when i'm riding i dont think of any of this, But no one likes me...I really dont know what to do. but i'm so miserable all the time. More Recent Articles
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