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Open Question: Do I Need An Appointment To Get My Hair Cut? and more... Open Question: Do I Need An Appointment To Get My Hair Cut?I haven't had a professional hair cut since I was about 12. But I want a drastic change so I've decided to start going to a salon. The problem is I have a very hard schedule to work around, as I get called in to work a lot, I share a car with my boyfriend, and other things. The salon I'm planning on going to isn't super fancy and it says appointments are only necassary on certain days of the week. But being that I've never been there before, is it bad etiquette to do a walk-in, especially if I want a big haircut and not just a trim? Thanks. Open Question: How do I get over him.?! )':?Ok. So my ex boyfriend and I have been broken up since July 26th. He's constantly on my mind. It used to be where he would still talk to me after we broke up, but now its just completely he ignores me. I usually cry myself to sleep cuz he's constantly on my mind. Now it doesn't help that my BEST FRIEND is dating him. Obviously she doesn't care. I just really want to get over him. I've dated other people since then, but it seems like after about two weeks, i just want out of that relationship, and i just want back with him, He says he still likes me, but I cause "too many problems" and i'm "depressed to much." I just want to know how to either get over him, get him to talk to me again, or even get him back... thanks.. -alyssa. Open Question: Relationship advice!! Codependancy, passive-agressive behavior, help please!?I have been in a relationship for 2 and a half years now. I love him very much, i know he loves me. However, our relationship is not easy. We go through periods where we will argue constantly, but then we also go through periods where we get along for weeks and everything is great. Basically, when it is good, it is great and when it is bad, it is horrible. He is not abusive or anything like that, but i feel like he can be very inssensitive to my feelings sometimes. He says things without thinking about them and they hurt me. I googled codependency and passive aggressive behaviour today, because i was thinking that it was HIM with a problem, and i discovered that it is ME! i am co-dependent is every relationship i have, weither it be friends, family, or romantic, and i have passive-aggressive triats. Right now my boyfriend is trying to quit smoking and occassionally he will still have a cigarette, and i always start a fight with him over it! I feel like o own him and he should do everything that i say, and i have even threatened to cut him off from sex if he keeps smoking. I dont want to be this way, i want to be a loving girlfriend without trying to control him or being co-dependent. I know that co-dependency has to do with drinking/drug problems, my boyfriend does like to drink beer, but he doesnt even get drunk! He will have a few beers at night and i will start telling him to stop drinking after two, just becasue i want to control him! I even get embarassed when he buys beer at the store, because i dont want people to think he is an alcoholic! And truthfully, he isnt even close! if either one of us has a problem with alcohol, its me. I am the one who can never have just one or two drinks to relax, i always get drunk. Please, i know it may sound complicated, but if anyone has any advice for me, i would appriciate it. And no, i do not want to break up with my boyfriend, i love him and we are truly good together. We work well together, we are good with the money we make, we are raising his daughter together and we are a family. I just want to get along with him ALL the time, not most of the time, and i am starting to think that the reasons we are not getting along may be my fault, with the whole co-dependent thing. Any advice is great! Open Question: What can I do to get over my ex-wife?It's been ten months since my ex-wife decided to divorce me. It turns out she was cheating on me at the end of our marriage, which explains why she wanted to leave. But now she has a boyfriend, and she changed her relationship status on Facebook to "in a relationship," which just really bugs me. I can't get over her. I don't know what to do. She doesn't want me, but I would do anything for her. We were married for eight years, and have four kids, and god help me, I don't even care about the cheating. I want to WANT to be able to move on with my life, but I don't know how. I want her back, but at the same time I KNOW that I need to move on. I just don't know how. Can someone out there give me the answer I need to get on with my life? Or perhaps the phone number of a pretty girl who can distract me from my problems? PS - The second one probably won't work, since the only girl I think about it my ex. Yes, I realize I have a problem. Why do you think I'm here asking you guys questions. Okay, I just want to say that I'm actually already in counselling, and it has helped a lot, but it's a long way from being the answer I need. As far as finding another girl, I don't have the first idea about how to do that. I'm not exactly the most charming person. I don't know how I landed my ex-wife in the first place. We dated since high school, I never needed to develop my skills in trying to find a girl. I've always had her. If you think I need to find another girl, then the question become... how do I do that? "She's not your "true love"-find another woman." What if she was? Open Question: 7 WEEKS 6 DAYS PREGNANCY PROBLEM.. COULD I BE HAVING A MISSCARRIAGE?I am 7 weeks 6 days pregnant i dont want to worry my boyfriend though as hes not here with me at the moment. I feel like i have been getting strong contractions within the last 20 mins and keep feeling like i need to push Could i be having a misscarriage? i am really worried and in alot of pain now help!!! thanks everyone just needed the loo really badly i dont know what happend.. thank gd everything is okay with me and baby!!! much love 2 u all x merry christmas xx Open Question: I Need advice. Please?I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I am 21 and he is 22. I have been living on my own for 2 years now and he is still living with his parents. I know that sounds weird but they are Hispanic and he is their first child so in their culture that is actually normal. We plan on moving in together and getting married, having a family all of that but there is Never a time frame when we talk about it. When I first moved out, on my own he said he just needed some time before he would move in with me...and two years later...he says what's the hurry, why am I in such a hurry. So I am wondering if I am crazy or wrong to want the next step or level of commitment from him? My other problem is that I used to go over to his/his parents house all the time to see him, I like being over there and seeing his family but he only comes to my apartment like 2 days of the week to stay over. So I finally stopped going over to his house all the time in hopes it would make him come see me more. No it didn't. So my REAL question is...am I supposed to just be content BEING with him, and apparently waiting endlessly until he just wakes up and decides "OK I'm ready now" or is it wrong of me to tell him that I need the next step from him or I can't do this anymore. I feel like we are stuck in like this stage we were in back in high school or something. I'm just afraid if I do that, tell him this he might end up doing it just in fear of losing me and then end up resenting me. See another thing is, we broke up about 4 months ago for almost 4 months. I broke up with him, and he was the one the whole time telling me how much he would change (we had been having other issues too) and I thought after that 4 month break maybe he would be ready... Jill: I'm not saying I want him to marry me NOW, god did you READ any of that? I want him to MOVE in with me. Any unfortunately I'm NOT a party girl, never have been. I don't Want to party. And I don't make friends easy never have. I don't know HOW to make friends and yes. I realize how dumb that sounds. but...well thats me. Open Question: Should i be worried another boyfriend seeing the ex scenario??Me and the man have been together a little over 6 months. it so happens that i"m his first real relationship. As far as this goes, we've never really gotten into serious arguments or let alone had much to fight over. so you can say things have been going pretty smooth. unfortunately something has been braught to my attention that involves my b/f ex girl... guilty as charged due to a gut feeling i came across some txt msg's of them chit chatting, trying to meet up and hang out but, at the same time stated that he had finally found a girlfriend thats a keeper "moi" so i didnt think anything of it and continued on living happy with no worries... about two weeks ago i hadnt spoken to the boyfriend that thursday night, he was home from work late blah blah blah so i sent him a txt saying goodnight and id speak with him the following day.. but once again i had a gut feeling lik something wasnt right but looked past it and went on with my day.. i seen him that night and we where so happen to go visit a friend. he was showing me how his phone was messed up and while showing me it so happens a txt msg of his ex was the first thing on his screen reading "come in" i didnt say nothing but we both knew that i had read it... but not trying to fuss i played dumb... so as we where on our way to our friends house, he brings it up.. saying "about what you read i went to go see the ex b-cuz shes going away for a month or so, and they were having a little get together with friends and family blah blah blah" so although it may have looked lik it didnt bother me it surely did... i had known about her trip and what not but at the same time felt bothered at the fact he didn't tell me. so when we got home later that night i had to bring it up because truthfully it was on my mind. even though i gave him the benefit of the doubt i still had a feeling of knowing within me.... soooo... i had asked him if he'd get upset if i ever lied to him?? he replayed no.. so i asked him should i be upset if he'd ever lie to me? he replayed maybe.. so then he brought up the topic on the who "ex case" he said that i never asked him what he did that night so thats why he didnt mention it, so i told him i wasnt upset at the fact he went to go see her but that he didnt mention it to me.. and out of no where he said "if you'd think id cheat on you i wouldnt" so that really rang an alarm because i didnt mention ne thing about cheating.. so i left it at that..... but i cant help but think about it.. should i be worried??? should i bring it up again just to ease my mind???? what should i think about it??? i have met her before and she a pretty girl nice body the whole nine... i just need some answers to ease my mind a little. and not make a problem when there isnt one... i do care about him, i do trust him to a certain extent...but at the same time im a women who wonders.. i talked to my girlfriend about it and she had said that its not right that he went to visit her, maybe gave her a phone call and wished her a good time and so on, but to try and go visit her, that that was uncalled for, and unappropriated. although i would never try to stop my boyfriend to interact with women and have his social life, do you think that i deserve to know?? or does my situation sound more then a friendly visit??? Open Question: My period is late, My breasts hurt, I have a few cramps here and there, but no Period.?I am Sexually active with my boyfriend, and don't always use a condom. We have never had a problem, he has always had control over his functions, and nothing has ever come out near, or in my area. I'm stressing out over problems with him, school, and not getting my period. I've also started a new work out at dance, I am slightly sick(head cold) and I've notice my weight has gone down. I'm too nervous to take a test,.. Any Ideas? Open Question: How do I get rid of my ex-boyfriend mother?I still love him and he still loves me but on day he just up and left while I was at work because we've been having problems and most of the problems were because of his family in your relationship he dont know how to tell his mother to mind her own but the only thing that is keeping him away now is her she keep putting crazy ideals in his head and she uses his children to control him we talk about 3 or 4 times a day but the main problem is he does not even see what his mother is doing she dont want him with nobody serious i tried tell him what she is doing calmly and not i dont know aht to i just want my man back and no there is no other female I made sure of this but his mother goes everywhere with him or send is sister and calls to keep taps on him please help me open his eyes More Recent Articles
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