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Open Question: Did I do something wrong? Please read? and more... Open Question: Did I do something wrong? Please read?My girlfriend and I met 4 years ago. Our lives were wonderful! We were most definitely in love with each other! We have the same goals in life, we both love, trust, and respect each other, and we are the best friend to each other, and our sex life couldn't mesh any more perfectly. We decided to take the next step and moved in together to try directly living with each other every day. In the last few months she's pulled back and I rarely get the "I missed you!" that we used to have. I understand that things change over time, and I am ok with it. It's been rough trying to get the wants and needs of the home together, but we're doing good. Finances aren't the first issue in our discussions. We argue more about styles, colors, and scents than anything, but who doesn't lol. We have talked about long term goals, how to reach those goals, and what we're going to do if and when those goals change. We talked seriously about marriage for a few days, and she asked me to be her husband. We're not traditional, so I said I would make me the happiest man I know to be her husband. We started off as boyfriend and girlfriend, but now she refers to me as her roommate when we're socializing with her friends. When we're socializing with our mutual friends, I'm her fiance. When we're socializing with my friends, I'm her boyfriend. When we're socializing with either of our families; we're engaged. When we're behind closed door, she doesn't want anything to do with me. We do laugh, joke, and talk together; eat dinner together; but everything else has turned to "you do your thing, I'll do mine. Leave me alone." with her. We don't read to one another or cuddle up to watch tv anymore. She's also taken to sleeping in the spare bedroom on the futon every night for the last 2 months. She keeps saying she has some personal issues that no one can help her with and refuses to share the problems with me, and she's beginning to hold grudges against me because of the faults she finds in me. I think they're petty things; like the way I fold towels, the direction I twist a bag of bread to close it, which side of the shelf I put the ketchup in the fridge, or which brand of milk I get. I know those kind of things can set a woman off from time to time, but I'm trying lol; but she keeps bringing them up even if I do it "right". And before you say it, no, she's not pregnant lol. What do I do to get her off this fence she made of waffles? Is she my girlfriend, fiance, roommate, or just a friend? Open Question: is it wrong to leave him?I met my bf when i was 16. i had also ran away from home. i was also into hard drugs like crack. and he did coke. he was 38 when we first met. anyways i fell in love with him a few months later and we moved in together. 3 years in the relationship we helpedd each other get off the drugs. Now we are both drug free. He has always been there for me and always supported me. one problem is he's 22yrs older than me and i'm only 21. the second problem is i've only had 3 boyfriends inn my life, and i cant help but think theirs someone else out there for me, but im tied down. i've never gotten to be free or be me...i've always been locked down. and believe me i'm no cheater and i am faithful to my bf. Another big problem is he is not very attractive, and he's always broke which means im always broke too. i hate this. im in school and he wont let me work, yet he dont make nearly enough money to pay my bills! Now i'm not trying to rag on him. i love him, and i love him very mucch and we are very close, but i dont feel like i'm IN LOVE with him anymore. it seems more like a family typpe love than a bf/gf type love. it's not like we are married, but im still very young and i ahven't been able to have real friends or go hang out with friends since i was 16!!! So my question is is it wrong to leave him? and if its the right thing to do HOWshould i do it? i've never had to break any1's heart before!! Open Question: any advice?? 0_o helllpp =]?ok so i have a little problem.. .. to make a long story short.. i moved to my dads and no one here is really scene... and this is how i dress and acted.. well i had to change the way i dresssed to make my dad feel a little better. well i got a boyfriend he makes somewhat rude and harsh comments on pictures of me and my friends took before i changed.. should i risk losing the relation ship and go back to the way i was... which i miss.. or should i stay acting like i am now?? no rude comments or harsh answers please only honest relpys =] Open Question: What is your personal limit for appropriateness in a family Christmas card?So my boyfriends aunt sent us one of those long Christmas card letters to catch us up on their family, and it included details about the uncles horrible and painful Irritable Bowel Syndrome acting up again- no joke. I couldn't believe someone would include something so gross and inappropriate in a holiday greeting ! What topics are off limits for your holiday greetings? Do you include details about your health problems and bowel movements? Just curious...because I was way thrown off by the Merry Christmas IBS card for sure. Open Question: Would it be wrong?ok so i've known my boyfriend since 3rd grade he's had kidney problems since he was 5 and now his kidneys are failing i still treat him the same because i don't want him to feel i pity him he's been home schooled for the past 3 months i get to see him once every 2 weeks i cant stand not seeing him i went to his house last saturday and he was on facebook talking to some other girl i ignored it until i looked down and saw that they exchanged numbers and i was sitting rite next to him it was very disrespectful. i think he's cheating because he doesn't really want anything to do with me anymore and when we do spend time together he's always on his phone or computer i don't no wat to do would it be wrong if i broke up with him or do i say something to him wat do i do but i dont wanna break up with him he means alot to me but im not gunna be disrespected Open Question: My boyfriends had enough of me and wants to leave what should i do?I was sexually abused for 5 Years from 9-14.. I ran away when i was 14 which caused a lot of problems for me when i came back i was constantly beaten by my parents now im 20 but im a very angry person and its like i can be normal for a little while then i can go in to a monster for like 30 minutes and swear at my bf and then i would go normal and say I love you like nothing happend i have no control over myself i can actually feel myself getting angry physically aswell as mentally i use to self harm a lot and have attempted suicide a million times but ive kind of stopped now.. but the change of my behaviour with my bf is really affecting my life Ive seen a counsellor but it didnt help my feelings are jus dead i cant cry or express my feelings the way i want to.. What is wrong with me? Please help! Thanx in advance!! x Open Question: Trip to South Carolina on a car w/ 93,000 miles!?My family and I are planning a trip to Columbia, SC from Bridgeport, CT and we will be driving with our Chevy Impala '00. (About 1600 miles round trip) The car hasn't had any major problems, we just got new brakes and tires and my boyfriend is a mechanic and will doing a tune up. I don't feel comfortable driving a car with so many miles so far. What do you guys think? Open Question: Should I stay with my boyfriend after he cheated on me?My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while, and he has a major drinking problem. So we are trying to get through it but a couple months ago he cheated on me with my EX best friend they kissed, i haven't and can not trust him anymore. I know it has been a while and everything but i just cant get over it. and then in revenge i cheated on him! i feel like a total slut after i did it and i regret it because that is not any way to deal with anything like that. All i'm asking is what do i do? every time he goes to hang out with his friends i'm so paranoid and i think of the worst this is a really hard situation for me... also after that a couple weeks later he texted a girl and said "you are the hottest girl I have ever seen" AND the trust just went down the hill AGAIN! he is such a nice loving boyfriend i just have problems with trust. what should i do? i would like if you don't respond with "break up with him" that's not what I'm looking for i'm really in love with him and that's not an option for me... i just need some advice. Open Question: GUYS (and GIRLS), is it wrong of me to want to spend more time with my busy boyfriend?My boyfriend is an overachiever - student council president, straight A student, star of the track team, popular, lots of community service, etc etc etc. We're both seniors in high school. I'm not as busy as him, but still very busy. He's a super organised and focused person, whereas I'm the sort who'll put the people I love in front of everything else, no questions asked. I'll spend the whole night on the phone to comfort someone or a whole day before an exam planning a party if I have to - I'll make sacrifices and deal with the other stuff later (and I do). I guess this is why it's hard for me sometimes to deal with my boyfriend being so busy that we barely get to spend quality time together and go out on proper dates. It especially hurts when I find out he's been out with other friends - not that I don't want him to have fun with his friends, but if he can spend time with them, why not me? I feel like I'm being taken for granted because I'm so understanding, but I don't know if I'm just being selfish. I know he loves me and all and when we do meet up or talk on the phone, we both have a super great time. But I hate feeling needy because although I know he cares, it just seems like I care more than him. I hate being the one asking if we can spend time together. When I do, he has no problems declining to spend time on his schoolwork or something, whereas he found it totally surprising that I once declined a date to do work. Is it wrong for me to feel this way? And I want to talk to my boyfriend about it, but how do I go about doing it without being accusatory and seeming too needy? Open Question: Should I just give up? love that only causes pain...?Hi! So here's the story : I'm in love with this guy, lets call him Kevin. I know he has (or had) feelings for me because he asked me out a while ago ( i turned him down, i know, i was stupid ). The problem is, that he also has feelings for another girl, who happens to be his best friend, lets call her Melany. At first, i thought i should give up on him. But the thing is, Melany HAS A BOYFRIEND that she's been with for a year. Sadly, Melany is not exactly the most faithful girlfriend. She is pretty much an attention w**** and seems to want every guys to like her. So she basically plays with Kevin's mind so he still thinks he has a chance with her, and makes a good job of keeping other girls away from him. He really wants a girlfriend so it makes him soooo easy to manipulate. So, what to you guys think i should do? I'm not the most outgoing girl so it's difficult for me to make a move in the first place, let alone when another girl is manipulating the guy. As i said, she is his best friend, he would never think she could do wrong to anyone. Especially since she's really good at pretending to be an angel. (And I admit i can be a stubborn little brat lol but hey at least i'm real) Oh and to make it even more f***** up, we're all in the same group of friends. So I dont want this all to turn into drama....This is only causing me pain and i start to act bitter with Kevin be cause i'm frustrated that he's so naive, and we get into fights :( Should I just give up on him? 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