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Open Question: Depression related to marriage woes.? and more... Open Question: Depression related to marriage woes.?I'm almost 24 years old. My boyfriend is also the same age, we've been dating on and off for ten years, since highschool. We've been living together for awhile now. I've become very depressed lately. I feel like we're never going to get married, which is a huge deal for me. My parents don't have a problem with us living together, but anything else in life (like children) they'd be devastated if we aren't married. Yes I know that what my parent's, family, friends, etc think shouldn't matter and its what I think that matters but it still would cause me a major hassle and it would still bother me. I want to get married, I'm ready to move on to the next phase of life. Should I come straight out and ask him when he's going to be ready or just wait it out? Frankly, I'm really sick of waiting and feel that I've been pretty patient. I could propose to him, but I don't think he'd respond very well to that because I think if we are going to get married he wants to be the one to ask. PLEASE ONLY SERIOUS RESPONSES FROM THOSE WITH EXPERIENCE, I don't want or desire negative answers. Gr8tlife4me - sorry for your marriage problems. But that's exactly why I don't want negative answers. I want answers from positive people who have great marriages. I don't need advice from people who are jaded because things did not work out for them. And furthermore, we were on and off for 10 years because we started dating in high school. We started out as best friends, dated people realized we loved each other, immature fights came up blah bla, so we'd break up, date other people, realized how much we love each other and got back together. We love each other, we're not going to split, and I'm 99.9% certain he wants to get married too. It's the timing issue is off. I'm ready now, but don't know if he's ready now. Open Question: Could i be pregnant help!?i was suppose to get my period mid november, but i missed it , i didnt pay it no mind because, i havent had sex for 4 months and i have irregular periods but november 30 and december 1 me and my boyfriend were having sex, and he came into the condom while he was still inside me.. problem is when i got off , his penis there was a bit of semen that slipped out b4 i got off, when i went to the bathroom it was on the side of my vagina lips.could i pregnant because im so worried 1 because, i alredy missed my period... n 2 because the semen was alredy out.. HELP PLEASE mature answers, please Open Question: Something is wrong with my kitten but I dont have money to take her to the vet.?I have had her for about two months now and ever since I got her she has had diarrhea. I thought at first that it might be just something she had eaten or something about the water at my house but it has continued to get worse and worse. Im afraid she might have feline leukemia. My boyfriend thinks its just worms because the cats he has seen that had it had horrible symptoms like wheezing and coughing and she hasn't done anything like that. Sometimes if she is setting close to my head I can hear little gut noises. Nothing is out of the ordinary except for her constant diarrhea and sometimes she sneezes, but not so much Id think it was abnormal. A friend of mine told me that she had a kitten a few months ago that had bad diarrhea but no other problems and it turned out she had leukemia. Can anyone tell me anything. Everything Ive read online about it is just confusing and scary. Open Question: i love my boyfriend but he has a problem with exposing himself in public, that's why he is in jail right now?he was caught with indecent exposure, has registrated himself as a sex offender and when I was with him, he doesn't seems to have any problem with me. he treats me really good and he is the one i was looking for. what do i do, his family says he needs professional help and I agree. Open Question: HELP! Bad teeth, can't afford braces, &boy problems! Tripple whammy! D: Please?Kay. Well. I have crooked teeth on the bottom, and a tooth on the top that sticks out kinda. My family has 5 kids, and we can't afford much. Braces... are kind of a must for me. Except, I reeaallyy don't want metal braces for personal reasons. I've been looking through Invisalign, and it seems.. reasonable, I suppose. It's just that I'm afraid of pricing, and basic stuff like that. Our family has enough bad credit as it is, and I'm afraid they'll deny us. :( If you could see my teeth you'd understand. I also have a boyfriend. And he's the sweetest thing ever, and I don't want to lose him. He hasn't kissed me... and I'm afraid my teeth are the reason why. :( Please no harsh replies. By the way I'm 14. Open Question: a pretty big guy problem, help pleasee?so this is gonna be long, but i'd really appreciate answers and advice. thank youuuu. anyways, me and my boyfriend just broke up and i'm having a really hard time dealing with it. the story is, i'm a junior. during freshmen year, i dated this guy, nick, for 11 1/2 months. i never hung out with my own friends, just his, and i didn't really have a life outside of him. i basically made him my everything. that summer we had a really bad break-up. i ended up losing most of my friends, and was verbally abused for about two months after the breakup. when school started back up for my sophomore year, he spread a lot of rumors and turned a lot of people against me, and that pretty much scarred me. i never wanted to have a boyfriend for a long time. but i ended up having one, but we hardly hung out and it only lasted a couple months, so it wasn't very important to me. at the end of sophomore year, this guy dan really liked me. i never really liked him as a person because he was always making fun of me and stuff, but he is very persuasive so i started hanging out with him and started liking him. but i didn't wanna date him at all because of my past with nick. so we ended up kissing and doing all the things that a boyfriend and girlfriend would do, we just didn't have the title. the weekend before the last day of school i finally started going out with him, and i made sure that i kept my friends a bigger part of my life than him, and made sure to balance them out. i always put my best friend before him, and he understood. but we always got into fights and my friends didn't like him at all. i was being torn apart between him and my friends. so i broke up with him in august. he was still pretty much in love with me, and would do anything to get me back. we still hung out after that and like before, we still kissed and did everything a couple would do, just without the title. after a few months, in november, me and him were laying on his bed and he told me about how much he loved me and cared about me and how hard he's been trying to win me back, and i really liked him too, i was actually starting to fall in love with him, so i agreed to dating him again. i didn't tell my friends about it though, cause they don't like him. i was always really excited to see him and he made me really happy. a week and a half later, me and him went kinda far. i gave him a hand job and we did things we shouldn't have. the next day was a half day. i was supposed to hang out with my friend, but she changed plans. so dan changed his plans so we could hang out. we went to sonic and went to his house and watched a movie. then he took me home and went to hang out with his friends. thursday was thanksgiving. friday he called me and dumped me. he told me that he wanted to go into the army, and i didn't want him to, and he didn't wanna deal with that. he also said he had a lot of responsibilities with his family and didn't have the time for me anymore. i asked him to come over and talk to me about it, so he did, and he said that his feelings for me were going away and he didn't love me anymore. he said he wanted to be single. and it pretty much crushed me, because i built up all these walls from my past with nick and didn't wanna be hurt again. it felt like once i let them down for him, he just threw it all away. but in our relationship in general, i did a lot wrong. he is a natural flirt, so he always flirts with otheer girls and is touching them and hugging them and stuff, and i got really jealous. i didn't want him hanging out with his exgirlfriend. and i would get mad if he would stop hanging out with me for his friends. he used to always drive me to and from school. since we broke up he hasn't. on monday it was awkward because we didn't talk at all. since monday he hasn't been in school and he hasn't talked to anybody, that i know of. he says he still wants to be friends with me, but i don't understand why he doesn't want me anymore. ever since we did the "sexual things" together, his feelings for me have went away, or at least that's what he says. that is also why he broke up with his exgirlfriend. but he was always crazy about me, he always said that i was the one girl he cared the most about and the girl he loved. my friends say that he just wanted to get into my pants, which is why he dumped me after we did that. but i don't understand at all. he spent a really long time trying to get me back after i broke up with him in august, i don't get why he would just give it all up. it's really hurting me, and i really really hate him for what he's done to me. our mutual friends say he wasn't sad at all when he broke up with me, he just felt bad for me. i keep thinking that he is gonna come back to me, i haven't really accepted the break-up. but does anyone have any advice on how to deal with this? i see a counselor and everything about my problems, because i have really bad anxiety, and this makes it worse. does anyone h Open Question: Ex Problems. I need help.?My ex-boyfriend was one of the greatest ever. We dated then split apart in august. But in september we became really close, and i hate relationships but we were like dating, (i love you) but not labeled as boyfriend and girlfriend, if you know what I mean. Well we talked on myspace usually, but around november 16th his computer broke. The last thing he said was "I want this forever." He called me the next day and told me his computer broke. So around the twentith, I hear he's dating some Hoe, known for doing a lot of stuff. Another thing? Shes 12. Hes 15. Anyways, I keep tryna telll my self I hate him, but I cant. What should I do. Open Question: Would the blackberry curve be a good gift for my boyfriend?Ok my boyfriends 20th birthday is coming up next week and since he is having problems with his phone i thought it would be nice to buy him a new one for is birthday. He is under telus and the only blackberry that i can get with the money i have is the blackberry curve 8330, he did tell me before that he likes the blackberry tour, but at my current financial situation i don't have the extra 100$ to buy the tour. i can also get him the htc snap, which he liked but i think the curve is nicer, plus my mom is "suppose" to get me a blackberry for my birthday the following week so i think it would be nice if we were both to have BlackBerry. Anyways do you think that a blackberry curve in silver would be a good gift for a male 20 year old? Open Question: why cant i get text messages on my metro phone?!?!?ok i have the motorola VE440 from metro pcs. ive had it for like almost 2 months now and like 3 weeks ago i stopped getting text messages. i can send them and ppl will get them but when they text back i dont get it. i called metro literally about 10 times and they tried to refresh my service, send in complaints to fix the problem and all that but it still wont work. 3 representatives told me to call back in 3 days and a week later i called back and it still didnt work. then i went to the metro store and the lady had no idea wat i was talkin about. does anyone know what this might be!? i know on a motorola phone with like at&t there is something in your phone to prevent texs from coming in but im not sure if my phone has this. does anyone know if it does? cuz my boyfriend might have found it and kept me from getting texs. sum1 help! More Recent Articles
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