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Open Question: dealing with loneliness? and more... Open Question: dealing with loneliness?here's the problem. it's kind of strange. i am an optimistic person. but lately ive just been feeling down...for no apparant reason. i am in college. i have friends that i hang out with a lot. i love what i am doing in college. so what's the problem? i mean i've been single for about a year now but ive been fine with it for a while now and just all of a sudden with the holidays and seeing everybody happy with their girlfriends or boyfriends and i dont know i just feel lonely. despite the fact that i have plenty of friends and that i am loving the stuff that i am doing. i mean i love that i am doing music everyday and that its such a big part of my life (vocal and instrumental) and i love that i am getting to act and do theatre. but i just feel lonely. i cant figure it out. i've been fine with being single before. its just lately i can be surrounded by friends and doing the stuff that i love but i still feel like i am alone. even though i have really good friends and really love music and theatre and everything. Open Question: She says she "doesn't know"?There's this girl that i really like. We dated in grade school, until she ended it, even after that she still liked me. Then we got inton a fight and "hated" eachother. Freshmen year came around and she started dating an older guy. Sophomore year we started talking again, and both admitted to liking the other person the whole time. Her boyfriend and her had a really bad relationship and after a couple years, she broke up with him kind of for me, but mostly cause it was a bad relationship. Immediately after, me and her started "Talking" and hanging out. After a while, she ended it with me and dated her ex for a week. That ended and about a month later me and her started talking again. We've been talking on and off for about 5 months now and each time its ended cause she says she still likes me but just "gets confused" and doesnt want to stop liking me alot, but it just happens. She still says she's always liked/loved me and thinks she always will. I gave her room and let her try things with other guys and she says she just didnt like them like she liked me, she also says shes not ready for a relationship. I know every situation is different but what do you think is the problem? is it that fact that me and her jumped into a relationship (not technically dating but "talking") and that she needs or room/time, or that its just never gonna work? or something else Open Question: How do I get out of this relationship?Help!! I'm 43 and my boyfriend is 31. I look really young. Anyway, we've been together for 4 1/2 years. He loves me sooo much and I love him but the problem is: he wants a kid and I don't. I'm divorced with 2. He says sometimes he doesn't care about that, but I know deep down he does. His mom won't even acknowledge me. She wants him to have nothing to do with me because SHE wants grandkids. So, I've never been invited to his parents house. It makes me feel like a dog. I've told him to go find the woman to have his kids and let me go, but he won't, He's obsessed. He won't let me go, but he won't committ. I've told him I need to live together or a ring, and he just says he wants that too but never comes through. He doesn't date other girls at all. Anyway, I know I have to get out, but HOW? We have extreme passion. What a mess!!! Open Question: Why do I feel like im the only one making effort?I was wondering if anyone could tell me why I feel (as the guy) putting more effort into gettin to know new girls, and makeing hang out dates and asking questions, when all I get back is sort of relaxed not interesting answers.Especially in texting, not as much in person but alot in texting . Quick examples = "me-so how are you?" -"her-good and u?" me-"good thanks." her-"lol" me-"so what are you up to" her- "eh not much."......now at this point i dont know what to say because she just hada period and not a question...so - me - "cool...so you think that movie was funny in class? some kids did some didnt" her- "yea it was funny lol" etc.. Anyways. I just am always the one trying to start a convo, and to be honest i suck at talking. I feel like girls my age are looking for more relaxed and non-serious relationships where they play round with their boyfriend and nothin else, but right I am looking for a long term kinda relationship and slowly gettin to know each other and be a gentleman and such, like old style. I feel pathetic useing yahoo answers for help lol but i guess u guys are people to obviously so u should kno... so why do i feel like this and what can i do to fix this problem? Open Question: why doesent my boyfriend act like a boyfriend? ughh it pisses me off?Me and my boyfriend have only been together for a month[ i know its not lonq] but it seems like forever. Before we used to talk on the phone everyday , all day now its like we only talk for 20mins and sometimes not even that. We live like 45mins away from each other and we dont go to the same school so we dont see each other often either. But my problem is that he dosent act like a boyfriend..like when we are on the phone he always starts an arguement with me[a play-play one]..he never says anything sweet to me and make me feel good. he;'s jus the childish type and i hate it...i had this talk wit him and it seemed like everything was alright but then 4 days later i start having the same feeling..what should i do to make him a better boyfriend? Open Question: How do I get my friend back?When I first started college, I had a really close group of girlfriends, but throughout the years, 2 of them fell off the face of the earth when they got married/found a new boyfriend. I tried to stay in contact with them both, but it didn't happen. Eventually we fell apart. My senior year of college I got engaged, and they both suddenly wanted to be my best friends again. I gave them the cold shoulder, not paying much attention to their texts/facebook messages because I was a little offended that it took my engagement for them to want to be friends again. Now, I've relocated with my husband to a place that is very close to one of those girls, and lately, I've been wanting to spend time with her~I miss her friendship. Normally, you would call them up and try to hang out with them, but my problem is that I snubbed her when it came to my wedding and didn't invite her, even though she invited me to hers when we were close. What do I do? I miss her as a friend, but I feel a little bit guilty about not inviting her to my wedding. Open Question: Tips on making new friends please?i am 24 and in a longterm relationship with my boyfriend who i live with but doesnt socialise a lot but he is very athletic and involved in sports and has a few friends there, he doesnt drink but i do socially when i go out with my friend which is very rarely. like every few months! my problem is, i dont belong to a circle of friends, i have no regular group, my friends are each part of a different circle and im very sure i dont belong in them! im not very confident but i am friendly and a nice person and would love to belong to a circle of friends... i know i led with my boyfriend but the point there was with him not drinking he doesnt like pubs so we dont socialise that way together, but it suits us! any tips? i do shift work so dont work the most social hours... also money is tight and i am not a bit athletic!! i just feel stuck in a rut where friends are concerned.. i have a group of friend in work there are 6 of us, and they are now all pregnant apart from me!! haha! sorry to go on and on, its just to help you see where im coming from! my work friend dont socialise together, just on work nights out and the odd lunch outside work Open Question: Problems Sleeping, do i need help?I didn't quite know where to post this, so i guessed. I have recently started to have sleeping problems, mainly a fear of dark and being alone. When i get to 'bedtime' and get myself in bed(i get tucked in by my boyfriend) and all is fine until he leaves and the light is out. I can't relax and let myself sleep, i become; tense, hot and flustered and quite a lot of the time i shake. Now last night it got worse, i know this will sound silly but I've started (thinking) I'm seeing and hearing things whenever i settle. I tried sleeping with a lamp on, having my i Pod on quietly, leaving the TV on so i know what i can hear. So basically my question is does anyone know whether it is something i should ask my doctor, maybe i should try sleeping pills but i want to try avoid that(Pills) Thank you for any help you can give me as this is now started to affect my school and social life especially with my parents. Thank you for your suggestions just to answer a few questions, i have spoken to my boyfriend before and he personally can't hear the things which is why i get a bit freaked out sometimes, I've tried massages and a face sauna before bed and also Horlicks( which for who doesn't know is meant to make you tired) and nothing has worked. Thank you again, i will try and make an appointment with my doctor. Again to answer another question, not i haven't seen any scary films recently and no one has freaked me out, i have a really imaginative mind and sometimes i just can't help but think the worst of things. Open Question: help relationship problems!!!!!!!!?Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months and we like eachother so much One night me and him got into a really bad fight and we went on a break. (slutty, i know) 3 hours later i was so wasted and i had sex with another guy the next day we got back together he found out and were trying to get past it the problem is that his sister knows and she said i was a slut and if she ever saw me again she'd yell at me and his mom and sister both think he shouldnt stay with me even though they dont know the fact that he took me back is because two weeks before he had a thing with another girl anyways, what are some things to help me get past his sister hating me and his mom thinking he shouldnt stay with me? were both 17 and its driving me crazy what can help me feel better about it? should i personally apologize to her for hurting her brother because i know what i did was wrong but i forgave him before but his family doesnt know he doesnt have a clean past? Open Question: Please help, I'm really upset and confused.?What to do after 6 years of being together? Me and my boyfriend have been together for six years. There are some days that things are alright, but mostly things do not feel fine. A couple of years ago, he kinda started to pull away and stopped being romantic and intimate. Now, I find I have been doing the same. Things don't feel the same. Except that now we have a house together (no kids), and my dad has helped with a lot of work into this house. My parents also adore him, but I feel as though we are staying together out of convenience. He claims that he still cares for me and would be devastated if we broke up, but he always wants to "plan" when to get intimate...I just don't find that it is working, but I don't know where to begin. I do worry about my parents feelings, especially since my dad put a lot of time into this house. I tried talking to my parents about it, but they shrug it off as only temporary problems but I know that it isn't. I'm even entertaining the thought of having someone else someday, someone who makes me happy and can't resist me physically...I really just want to be happy, but don't know where to begin...please help! Open Question: I HATE MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1?This is not just another teenage rant about how their boyfriend dumped them or their mom said they can't get new shoes. No. I truely have real issues and problems THAT MATTER. First off, I live in a house where WWIII wages daily. My dad is acctually gone half the time because first off, he has decided to convert to Judaism and also go the "New Age" classes, anmd second, doesn't seem to care about any of us. My parents are not divorced, but probably will be soon. My mom is alwas yelling and screaming at my brother and me about everything. I never want to be home because I am so scared and hurt when I am there. Although I am never physically hurt, I am EMOTIONALLY AND PSYCOLOGICALLY hurt. My brother is a spoiled brat who always gets what he wants because neither of my parents disipline him and as long as he's not getting into trouble they buy him stuff. But guess what I am getting for christmas? Socks and some pencils. My mom said "Okay, what do you want to for schristmas? INEXPENSIVE." I said, "Idk, perhaps some hightops or a hat." she said "How about some socks and colored pencils?" And she walked off. My brother is getting a bike. I am extremely smart (not to brag, but I am) and I am soooooo incredibly bored in school. I do't pay attention, and have pretty much 100% in every class. I am not challenged at all. I have no real friends, either. My only friend dumped me, and now has a new best friend. I don't have anyone to hang out with or go to the movies with or anything. Everytime I speak a sentence, no one has any idea what I am talking about, because I use too high vocab. (I am not here because I want everyone to understand me) So, I have no one to talk to or be close to. Do you know what that's like, being a teen and being so alone? Being a teen who has o one to talkk to? the reasn no one wants to be my friend is because I'm "weird". I don't like shopping or twilight, and other dumb rasons.My free time consists of practicing my viola and studying. MY PARENTS tell me to get a life. I don't have anything to incorporate intoa life. I am not suicidal, I am just depressed. i don't know what to do or who to talk to. So here, fellow users of Yahoo, talk to me. What should I do? Open Question: Does he still love me?I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. He lives in Berlin I live in florida. Well I am supposed to go over there for the 2nd time but I have a so many problems well monetary problems and I honestly don't even know if its worth it anymore. I mean for instance he could have come here in october but he said it was too much money therefore he went to another place. Now christmas obviously he wants to be with hgis family since he wasn't with them last december because he was a exchange student here but i didnt know him back then. Another thing I am applying to a college over there and its not one penny i'm going to spend by leaving and going over there. But he just doesn't try and I don't know what to do I love him so much. I am a christian and I gave him my virginity for those that are christians know that that's a big sacrifice and that it means alot to us. On the other hand he parties and goes out every friday and saturday and I honestly don't see the point. Besides that he wants to travel the world when he graduates from college. I am traveling the world for a person that apparently has no plans to even be with me I mean come on.....I am so confused and it hurts like hell.... He says he loves me but maybe those are just words. What hurts the most is that I love him..... :( More Recent Articles
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