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Open Question: Dating friends older brother? and more... Open Question: Dating friends older brother?One of my best friends, Jessica, has been hanging out with a mutual friend. She influenced this friend to break up with her boyfriend (things weren't going so great) and is pushing her to go out with jess's older brother. The problem is that her brother has been flirting with me, and i'm not sure what to do. Both these girls can be nasty when they don't get what they want (but great people they're fine). I'm not sure if i should tell my friend. And just to add, her brother has been one of my friends throughout middle school, high school and college. Open Question: Would you leave him or just have a talk with him if this happened to you?So I'm kinda stupid, and this whole situation is kinda my fault. I told my boyfriend that I've always thought it'd be exciting to be spanked by a guy, and he said he'd give me a spanking if I thought it'd be beneficial. Problem is he hit me far harder than I could handle and basically held me down and refused to stop until I had tears in my eyes. I did tell him to quit, but he thought I was playing a game...like the whole being punished and begging for mercy thing. So he continued. He's got a lot of arm strength from lifting weights, so it was easy for him to underestimate his strength I guess, I don't know. All I do know is this was last night, and (sorry to be awkward), my butt's really like tender to the touch...it feels like there's internal bruising or something. It's embarrassing, but it literally hurts SO bad. I told him once he stopped that I was totally serious about telling him to let me go, and he did apologize and said I could kick him in his balls if I wanted. So he is remorseful, but now I'm kinda scared of him. It was terrifying to see the amount of force he was capable of exerting on me. Should I just break up with him? It wasn't his fault, but now I have a fear that one day he'll do it purposefully. Idk if that's an irrational fear or not. :/ Open Question: What is appropriate to take to christmas dinner?ive been invited to dinner at a new boyfriends parents house it will be first time meeting them. what shall i bring as a gift wine? dessert? problem is we may be having it in the bar they own so what do you bring there? suggestions would be great! im sooooooo nervous! thanks. Open Question: Help with this girl ?So there is this girl at skl who stares at me all the time and she's hot but the problem is that she has a boyfriend so why would she stares so much everyday in skl and she also stares at me while im having a conversation with a friend?? i dont get it Open Question: Girl Fights(physical)?Alrighty well I'm just going to put this out there. I'm white. I have a really fiery temper when someone disrespects me or just makes me angry somehow. I've had issues in the past with girls that talk about me behind my back and yada yada. I've never been one to back down to anyone. When I think it's a possibility that I could be getting into a fight with one of the girls, they've always backed out. So I've never actually been in a fist fight with anyone because all of the girls that have problems with me are always white and get scared. I've been with my boyfriend for a 1 and a 1/2 now and girls STILL talk sh*t. Always making up things and telling me about my boyfriend. Or they try to tell him things about me. So many girls are jealous that were together because a lot of people want him so they do everything to try and break us up. But were way too strong. Anyway, theres this hispanic girl that seriously has a huge issue with me just because I'm with him. She'll just stand in my view with a bunch of her friends and stare at me. That just makes me laugh. They want to glare at me when I'm not even looking, go ahead, it doesnt scare me. Well I guess now she wants to eventually fight me or whatever. I've never spoken a word to the girl, she's just jealous that I have what she wants and its not changing. She seems serious about making it happen though. All I'm saying is I am not afraid of her but I know she has more experience in fights. I have such a massive temper when I get pissed and if it ever came down to me and her fighting, I dont want to be unprepared. I've got the strength and I sure as hell have the anger to beat her *ss, but I dont know how. It seems so simple just to punch somebody in the face but since I've never done it I'm worried I wont do it right. Like I'll step into it wrong and lose the power or just miss her face entirely. Any help or advice? I hope this makes sense. And it's not like I want to fight, especially because it's swim season right now and I dont want to get kicked off. But if unexpectedly she came out of no where and gave a swing. I wouldn't back down from it until someone had to pull me off of her. Open Question: I can't take it anymore. I need advice. ?[guys who cheated before please answer?]?I don't want any of you guys to state the obvious. I really need an answer because I am THIS close to being depressed: --- Ohkay, I don't know what that was but whatever, here's my problem. I got cheated on. I asked for advice on here when it happend, and you all said not to take him back. Unless he seems REALLY sorry and is showing it with actions and not just words. Which he did, and with me knowing it will never be the same, I took him back. I started ALL over with him, we dated 8 months and I started over and treated him as if he was a guy I met a minute ago. He noticed that, and he's working hard to bring that trust back to me. He buys me gifts every 16th of the month, even when I ignore him for no obvious reasons, he follows me around and tries to get my attention, and when he gets mad at me and walk away, I shrug my shoulders and walk off to talk to other guys who give me the attention I can get without my boyfriends help. So in short: He IS treating me better. He IS trying to make things better. He DOES love me. He uses Yahoo! Answers too, and in one of the questions he said, "I'm in love with my girlfriend and she can tell because I'd do anything for her." Which he does, if I told him to tie my shoes right now he would, but I don't treat him like that. Never, but if I wanted to he wouldn't care. But here's the problem: whenever I see that girl around, I get upset. I look at her and wonder what she had that I didn't. Yes, he came back, and he treats her like dirt to prove he seems me as the only girl for him and he is sorry, but still. If he didn't care about me before why is he so into me now? I didn't change a bit, except my hairstyle, but I don't know why he loves me. If he cheated that proves he didn't love me before right? Why does he love me right now? For guys who cheated before, what does this mean? P.S.- I didn't take him back right away, I dated someone else before, but he wasn't the one at the time. Open Question: For everyone - Help me with this relationship problem?I want to tell my boyfriend I love him, but i'm afraid of rejection. We've talked to eachother about the strong feelings we have towards eachother, but never "Love". Should I tell him, or should I wait until he says It? My friends always give me the advice on never making the first move. & I hardly ever do. I'm not sure if this is the time I should change my mind. Please help. I don't want to ruin the relationship by saying It too fast. Open Question: what should i do here? God, this is irksome.?just a side comment before i begin: I originally spelled 'should' like 'schould'. ROFLCOPTER. Ok, so here's my problem. Me and my boyfriend just recently got together (tuesday) but we'd been toying around with our relationship before. Like, i told him i liked him, and for a couple of weeks we weren't really anything even though he asked me out for a coca-cola the same day i told him i liked him. Also, last friday he asked me to chill out at his house, and idk if this makes any sense whatsoever, but i felt this vibe that he wanted something to happen. We never get to be alone, because our friends like hounding us. I've asked them to lay off a little if i say something like "AP Homework" or "Michael's Hairspray", but there's other people who i'm not as acquainted with that hound us, as well. Also, i want to like go to his house again, to have some alone time with him, but i hate hate hate asking people stuff like that. And he's a pretty shy guy, and he's asked me out formally a couple times but i was always busy. Now i'm FINALLY freed up all the time, and i really wanna hang out with him this weekend. Mind you, it's winter and snowing tomorrow, so we can't really go for a walk in the park. >.> He went to the movies yesterday, so that's a no. Idk. *sigh* I'm really stuck on what to do. More Recent Articles
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