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Sunday, December 6, 2009

Open Question: Council tax query now that I'm moving in with my boyfriend.? and more...

 
 



Open Question: Council tax query now that I'm moving in with my boyfriend.? and more...

Open Question: Council tax query now that I'm moving in with my boyfriend.?

I have spent the last 10 years living in so many different places. I've always worked and paid my way when I've been staying with people. I had some problems in my life and went through counselling but I've never been happy staying in the one place for too long. I've now decided that I'm willing to settle down with my on/off boyfriend as I've just been diagnosed with MS. To be honest, we're more like flatmates than boyfriend/girlfriend. I always go back to him when we fall out and he comes back to me. As I'm now disabled, he's offered me a permanent place to stay. I know we'll need to visit the council and such, but will they need a list of all the addresses of the friends I've stayed with over the last 10 years along with the length of time I stayed there? I've mostly stayed in Scotland, but I've also spent time in America and down south. Sometimes just staying a couple of days, sometimes a few weeks... I've not kept a note of everywhere I've ever stayed but will this make it difficult to start paying council tax now? Lalenia, I've reported your answer as it's blatant spam. Stop wasting people's time and get a life!

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Open Question: Do you think this is a good idea?

I have a friend Katie, who I really like more than a friend. Problem is she has a boyfriend. We have been good friends for a long time like almost 1.5 years, and she smiles at me alot. We met in Chem class, she always twirls her hair, giggles at my jokes, and makes me laugh. I found out Friday she is transferring to a different school, so I decided to buy her some going away gifts. I plan to tell her I have feelings for her. I bought her two things. The book has a note on it that says "I hope you enjoy this book. Good luck with your new program at your new school. I will miss you. I want to let you know that I want to be there for you always." I got her a bracelet and the book "Guess How Much I Love You". Is it possible to stay in contact with her as friends? Like long-distance friends? I dont want it to be awkward. I dont have a Facebook, so I will create one. I plan to get her HOME phone number and personal email address. Is it possible to still be friends for someone who lives 90 minutes away? Advice????

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Open Question: my teachers wants me.?

My tutor at college keeps on hinting at a threesome with me and her boyfriend, she's very attractive and the only problem is that her boyfriend also works at the college, im not in any of his lessons but i still see him around campus, do you think this is to wiered a situation or, should i just get stuck in and spitroast her?.

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Open Question: What to do when there is 2 men and 1 confused me.?

I have been out of an abusive relationship of 2 years, for about 3 1/2 months now. And during those months i have gotten close to 2 men. My problem is that one of them i have had feelings for ever since i've known him. Even when i was with my ex boyfriend i still thought about him and when my ex and i broke up, he was the first person i went to. I know that he likes me, him and i have shared many good nights and good conversations. We connect on a personal and physical level, there has always been chemisty between us but neither of us acted upon it until recently. We got together and started to get closer, but only problem is, is that he is leaving for iran in January for a year or so. When i found out i became distant, I don't want to get to serious with him because im not one to partake in a long distance relationship. Another reason is that i KNOW he is a player, but ive seen how he is with other women, and he is completly different around me. I will always have feelings for him, i am being held back by the fact that he is leaving. The second guy i met when my ex and i broke up, he is good looking, funny, shares my hobbies, and has told me that he is definently into me. We have also spent the night together alot and talk constantly, but he has yet to make a move...(sexually, and i hate it). For instnace, when i offerend to have him stay the night, i completly put myself out there and he didnt do anything but cuddle. Granted, he isnt the aggresive type but i want someone who knows what he wants and goes after it. He also has a tendency to act very immature and im the type of person that cannot stand annoying people. He gets very loud and obnoxious, that turns me off. But I do like him, he has a lot of great qualities that i look for. Who do i persue?

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Open Question: Is it wrong to remain friends with your ex?

Okay well you see last year around February i got with my ex but he broke up with me in October.At first yeah it was hard to get over him but I did within a weeks because well he told me he got with someone else not even a week later so i chose not to hold on to the feelings for someone like that. so I actually ended up getting in a relationship with my current boyfriend 2 weeks after the break up. I had a big crush on him when i was with my ex so it worked out :) well now my boyfriend are a year and one month together and extremely happy. But within the time we have been together my ex would still keep in contact with me. We call our relationship "the closest to best friends that exes can be". And my boyfriend is ok with it becuase he knows that my ex usually keeps in contact when hes having a hard time or problems and that nothings going on because he knows i love him more than what i ever felt for my ex. Problem is my friends know i still talk to him when he needs me. And a few weeks ago he told me the reason he won't stop talking to me is because he "cant let go of me yet." I'm ok with that though because at that time he had a girlfriend he was completely crazy in love with her. But she broke up with him just recently and now hes been keeping in contact more than ever cuz he can't get through it alone and just needs someone to talk and confide to yet my friends say i should let him suffer and leave him alone. That he should go through semi the pain what i felt when he dumped me (which wasn't really that much compared to what he's going through) and well my boyfriend is ok with it but my friends got me thinking......is it so wrong to remain friends with an ex when u were almost 1 year with them? Sorry it was so long

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Open Question: Should I buy a Christmas Gift for someone I don't like (long)?

Growing up I never bought(Christmas) gifts for my family. I was unaware of this tradition. My parents would just take us to the store and one of them would pull us out of the toy isle and ask us what we liked for the opposite parent. I think they just let us be kids, they'd buy gifts and say that we bought them. It was no big deal. My parents got a divorce when I was 14. Christmas time rolled around and I didn't get anyone gifts. My mother who I see twice a week got angry at me. I was taken back. I didn't have a job, I didn't have an allowance, so I figured I'd do it the next year. The next year ( now 15) I got Christmas gifts for everyone. I even got my mom's boyfriend something and neither of them used the gifts. The year after that (16). My mother started to give me allowance because the court pretty much ordered her to. Around Christmas time my mom decided to cut that allowance. She said it was too much. She then said, "Here's 50 bucks for the month. " I asked her for more, I needed money to buy her and her husband gifts. She refused. She always told me that my allowance was spending money when I go out with my friends. If I bought them gifts, I'd hardly have anything left over. An average gift runs about 15 bucks. We got into a fight and I ended up not buying her a gift. Instead, I took the 50 bucks and spent the whole thing on my dad. I got him something he's been talking about. He deserved it! He never got on my back about gifts and always bought me stuff for the family, he supports me and i live with him most of the time. Not to mention he gives my mom about 3 thousand bucks every month. My mother was livid and started telling everyone how selfish I was, she also got mad at my Dad because he didn't tell me to buy gifts for the family. My moms husband also jumped on this train calling me disgusting because I didn't get my mom a gift. When he said it, it got me really upset. He seemed to ignore the fact that I get her stuff for Mother's Day and her birthday. Ever since then, my once good relationship with my mom's husband hasn't been the same; however, I've become alittle bit closer to my mom. It's Christmas time again and I'm not sure of what to do....I have no problem with getting my mom something%

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Open Question: What should I do? With my boyfriend?

hi guys and girls... i have a little problem. my boyfriend wants me to have sex with him and i don't know what to do. is sex a nice feeling? painful? should i have sex with him ? we have been together 2 years but he was different before...more caring. now he seems to use me? i dont know feedback would be good! thanks in advance. is he using me to show off to his mates, whom he spends more time with than me nowadays? most imprtant, shall iahve sex with him?

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Open Question: My Ex, My Girl, and Me?

Okay here's the problem. My Ex and me have had a lot of history together, I mean we've have been through hell and back. But we have been over for about a year now but we still saw each other. We would still kiss and do all the other things but weren't going out. She had a boyfriend that she "loved" at the time but she still would cheat on him with me. I would ask her to leave him but she never did. She would saw once its over with them that me and her could give us a try again. Then one day i come back from out of town and i find out that she broke up with that other guy, and now she was hooking up with another guy. I asked her if this was true and she said ya so I told her goodbye. We haven't talked for four weeks. within those four weeks I meet this other girl. Who is smart, funny, sweet, and of course Beautiful! Me and this new girl really hit things off, but I'm always thinking of my ex. So then one day at school my ex passes me in the hallway and says hi, i say hi back and went on my way. No more then five minutes later I get a text saying hello. It's my ex she still remembers my number! I say hello back and we start to talk. I ask her whats new in her life and she tells me. I ask about her new boyfriend and she says he's an ass. i go "I'm sorry anything i can do to help?" she says "No that's why I have Roz." Roz is a lesbian. I ask if shes gay and she says "..." . So come to find out she's bi. This hit me like a ton of bricks. Then she asks whats new with me and I tell her about my new girl and she says that's good and that i should keep her. But ever since then she's been texting me and she knows I still love her. Could it be she's jealous and still wants me, I mean loves me but won't say? Can someone please give me some good advice? I don't know what to do anymore.

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Open Question: Im 17 he is 27, what shall I do?

I'm a 17 year old guy (just turned), and I really really love this guy only problem is he is 27!!! Okay here is the story. Basically I'm bisexual and i've never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, Iv had crushes here n there but never dated anyone. So then I was hanging around with my mates one day and I meet this guy at this event he starts talking to me etc quite an interetsing guy but I wasn't really attracted to him. Later on my when we leave my mate tells me that guy liked me and he gave that guy my number. I was like 'oh no' - but didn't really mind. So later on he rings me and talks about general stuff. Next day we meet at the same event again, we keeping meeting at this event for about a week and random phone calls here n there. Then one day I remeber I was thinking about him all day and was looking forward to meeting him, I realised I was really attracted to him now. We meet again at the event and I realise how much I like him, when we left my friend so to me you couldn't stop smiling when u were with him u change so much when ur around him u really light up. Next time we meet at the cinema with this guy and his mates, then we got alone for a couple of mins (I deliberately weny back with him to his car, then i kissed him - he pushed me away) He said that he really liked me and said anyguy who been soooo lucky to be with me but because of the age gap he can't. Then later on in the week he rings me and asks me if i am upset I said I am and he said meet up so we did and then we talked I felt sooo much better so I tried kisiing him again, he pushed me off again, i was upset then he said okay one kiss so we kissed for quite long, I really enjoyed it (my first kiss). But he said that this was it and he is going to delete me of his phone and we can' talk because it isn't right. He has dleted me but I still have his number, I feel so depressed without him, shall I ring him? dont know what to do? I know this is wrong, but I like him sooooo much. and I am so sexually attracted to him, feel like losing my viriginity to him he turns me on a lot too. Would this be illegal cause even if we did have sex I wouldn't tell noone. WHAT SHALL I DO?

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Open Question: Is it okay to make the first move and propose to my boyfriend... Please read?

My boyfriend and I having a secret relationship because of the traditions of my family and kind of things and we're spending it from distance and barely did normal stuff together and that started to make many troubles between us. So I thought getting married in secret can solve everything and the sex is part of that because I have some issue about it because of my religion. The problem is I feel embarrass to tell him that I mean about marriage and stuff I really don't want to freak him out but i'm thinking seriously about doing the first move and propose. So what do you advice me? Should I tell my boyfriend that and ask him to marry me? Wouldn't that be like a crazy step?!? And if it's okay to do it, how should I do it and what do I suppose to say? Thanks

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Open Question: What do I do??? Im having an emotional breakdown please help me!!!!?

My boyfriend almost died last night My best friend in the whole world just got raped I am causing way to many problems and I don't know what to do anymore. I want to hurt myself to take care of it, but if i do hurt myself I lose my soul mate. I can't lose him. please help me i am at the point where i don't know what to do anymore. Please Help!!!! I have soooo many emotions in me i don't know what to do with them. What should I do????

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Open Question: Does that make him a looser?

I have been with my boyfriend for six months. I am twenty-one and I have two daughters from a previous marriage. He is the sweetest guy I have ever met. He also has a daughter but he dose not have custody. The only problem is he makes minimum wage and sleeps on his dad's couch. That never bothered me until I asked him if he had a plan for his life. It turns out, he is perfectly happy washing dishes at black eyed peas forever. Besides that I think we are perfect together. Self improvement is a very important part of my life. I am one year away from getting a bachelors in mathematics. What's going to happen after I graduate? Do you think it will work out?

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