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Monday, December 14, 2009

Open Question: Conversation problems with my boyfriend? and more...

 
 



Open Question: Conversation problems with my boyfriend? and more...

Open Question: Conversation problems with my boyfriend?

Me and my boyfriend find it hard to find something to talk about when we're on our own. We sit in silence a lot and i hate it. I don't know why thought, I guess I get a bit nervous when I'm alone with him. We're both 14 by the way and if your going to say that we're too young for proper love then don't bother answering please, because we're not. We've currently been going out for about 2 months and neither of us intend to break up any time soon. Thanks :) x

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Open Question: How can I convince my boyfriend to get rid of his dog?

We have a 9 mos old yellow lab puppy who is destructive and has a serious biting problem (you can barely pet him because he will snap at your hand). My boyfriend got the dog right before we started dating and I don't think he realized how much work the dog would be. Both of us work long hours and the dog is too destructive to leave alone in our place so he stays in a crate during the day but my boyfriend just keeps making excuses saying the dog will get better in time. We live in a tiny apt and simply do not have the time or space to properly care for him.

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Open Question: Dying Slowly Inside.?

I have been diagnised with depression before, but as I was 14 my mum told the doctors not to put me on medication and When things seemed to get better I stopped going to a phyciatrist and seeing social workers etc. Now I feel **** all the time again, and All I want to do is cry. I feel so lonely my heart physically aches, it sounds so corny but it actually really hurts! There is nobody I can talk to, I recently split from my boyfriend who now thinks Im a stuck up slut, which really hurts because I dont think its true and I was really close to him. I have three close friends, One who doesnt listen to a word I say, one who is too happy for me to be able to talk seriously to her and one who is too self absorbed in her own problems to notice any of mine. I feel so alone and unnoticed, and my options as it seems to me are ; 1) Suicide - It would stop these feelings permenantly but would also hurt my family, which I think would be really selfish of me. 2) Get professional help - It would make my friends notice how Im feeling and hopefully get me through this again. The only problem with the 2nd option is I dont know how to get the help I want . . Last time it was easy. I attempted suicide and when I woke up after having my stomach pumped all the councilling etc. was sorted out for me. I have no idea where to start this time, Id feel too embaressed going to the doctor and talking to him about it, also I dont know if he would take me seriously, as I havnt been in trouble with the police, attempted suicide or self harmed drastically in nearly 7 months. All I really want is the attention to get me through this, I know it sounds bad but its horrible hearing my friend go on and on about how terrible her life is, when she has social workers councillors two loving parents and an adoring boyfriend, While she never asks me how im feeling and it seems like nobody cares. Does anybody know what I can do ? Or how I can ask for professional help without having to go through the embaressment of talking to a doctor or parents who dont really understand ?

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Open Question: A private question (+18)?

Assuming that the law permitted it, and there were no temperature problems, and no influence on the work life or girlfriend/boyfriend life...... You'd live your life completely naked?

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Open Question: Why can't I finish my boyfriend off?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about three months now. Everything, for the most part, is going great--we're even planning on moving in together. We have a pretty healthy sex life, except for one thing: he rarely ejaculates, and, when he does, he has to finish himself off. I think I *almost* got him there via oral the other day, but he stopped me. I don't know if the problem is him, me, neither, or both, and it's really starting to worry me. I've given him hour long blow jobs and nothing. We can have sex for 45+ minutes and he's not even close. I'm sexually inexperienced, so naturally I'm thinking the problem is me. I notice we have much better sex when we're totally alone (as opposed to other people in the house), although I still can't get him to finish. I've talked to him about it and he says it's always been that way. He told me that even while masturbating, it can take him up to 40 minutes to finish. He also said that sex felt better, but masturbating was quicker. I feel totally inadequate and rather ashamed that I can't get him to climax. So...does anyone have any thoughts or ideas?

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Open Question: what do you think about my relationship?

me and my boyfriend meet in an anime club fmy freshmen year. its already been a year and 5 months since we got together. (heres alittle about him) he is VERY smart. skinny has shaggy hair and glasses. i think hes super cute cuz hes nerdy ^//^ he has start As in all his classes so yea hes a nerdy smart kid. he dosnt get girls all over him so thats a good thing.. >< (about me) to some ppl i look asain. (but im not) i like drawing anime. i watch it and im a presidant of an anime club so im kinda of a leader type of person. im very motherly to my lil brother and sister. i love baking and cooking. when i have time to myself i write. i want to become a writer when i grow up. me and my bf have ups and downs like anyother couple does. we have had problems whit guys liking me in the past but hey no biggy right? i just want to see what YOU (as the reader) think. do you think we are a cute couple? oh and he always babies me ^^ i love it so much, i just dont like when he tickles me ._.

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Open Question: What can i do about my MOM!?!?

Alright...The problem is that me and my boyfriend made a day for our year anniversary.We planned to rent a hotel for a day so we can sleep and hang out together like spending the night. Well my boyfriend wanted to ask my mom if it was okay if we spend a night at a hotel together....and i told him not to tell her cuz she was going to say no anyways so it was pointless..but he did it ANYWAYS. and guess what she said? NO! she thinks where gonna have sex, because she caught us having sex once. but really where not gonna have sex. we planned this day for a whole year..and now that is finally comming we cant even do it.. what can i tell my mom so she would let us go? i mean atleast we didnt do it behind her back, we where actually respectful enough to let her kno..but she still said no.. so what can i do? oh and im 16 my bf is 18 lol im about to be 17 on feb lol

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