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Open Question: Concerned about wife having dinner and drinks with ex boyfriend? and more...

 
 



Open Question: Concerned about wife having dinner and drinks with ex boyfriend? and more...

Open Question: Concerned about wife having dinner and drinks with ex boyfriend?

I trust my wife, but it really bugs me that she did this. I don't want her to think I DON'T trust her so I'm wondering if I should just let this go or if I should say something. My wife went to Last Vegas this week for business. Yesterday she told me she was getting together for dinner and drinks with an old friend from college named John. I said great, have fun. Then later that night she called me and sounded a little tipsy. She said they met up at Margaritaville, and had dinner. Then went to the heated sidewalk patio at Paris and drank wine, and talked while watching the Bellagio Water show. Then she said that John's wife didn't go because she was upset at John for going out with my wife because she's an ex girlfriend. This was the first I had heard that this guy was anything other than a friend. Should I tell her that I have a problem with her having dinner and drinks with an ex boyfriend? I don't want to come off as jealous, possessive, insecure, or untrusting, but this is kind of eating at me. Am I being unreasonable? I mean, she DID tell me about it, and she certainly could have easily lied without me knowing the better.

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Open Question: What should I do in this situation with this girl?

I'm 16, and at work, there is this girl who CLEARLY likes me. We both bag for cashiers, and may have a minute or two downtime in between orders (while they are paying). I always see her looking my way 1-2 times a minute. Or playing with her hair and looking at me. I do talk to her and she has this cute embaressed/shy smile when I'm around, but the problem is that since they only let 1 person on break at a time, we can never take our breaks together. Also, it's literally like we're chained to the register. Even if there is nobody in our line, and we go 3 lanes down to talk to somebody, we get yelled at or written up. So, I'm already scarce on oppurtunities. She's my age, but I just found out has a 26 year old drug dealer boyfriend. She doesn't like him because he has temper issues, is emotionally abusive and is overcontrolling, and I get the feeling she is scared by him to break up or anything. She's clearly showing interest in me. But, I'm not sure what to do. I've never had a girlfriend, so I'm trying to jump on every inch of oppurtunity, but my parents don't think being with her would be a good idea because they don't want the boyfriend coming after me and people do crazy things on drugs. So asking her out is not an option. But I don't want to lose out on an oppurtunity. What do you think? 

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Open Question: MY CRUSH IS ASKING ME TO HELP HIM OUT WITH HIS CRUSH! help me?

my crush likes a girl who i know, and hes asking help from me to get the girl! im supposed to comfort him! every time i do that, i just feel like shouting, I LIKE U DAMMIT! it really hurts. tell me, what should i do.. :( well he talks to me alot...i am his "problem solver" in this situation! and i know that the girl he has a crush on already has got a boyfriend from another school so what should i do? i am a shy person and i dont know how to respond or tell him how i feel about him..

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Open Question: I have been really sick after a traffic accident. My boyfriend was great and seemed to understand me and?

always helped me deal with my problems. They are not so apparent, people can't see them but they are there. Do I have nay chance of finding someone who wants to go out with me with all my problems. who would want to go out with someone with such problems. I'm 31 and son't have kids yet but do want them

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