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Open Question: Christmas present for boyfriend? and more...

 
 



Open Question: Christmas present for boyfriend? and more...

Open Question: Christmas present for boyfriend?

It's the common problem that we all have been through. Finding a great present for someone else. I'm not the greatest present giver but it's our first Christmas dating so I want to sort of impress my boyfriend. He's 17, really into music (he plays the bass and drums), into running, and has a great sense of humor. I call him tiger or tigre (tee-gray) so I thought it would be cute to buy him a stuffed tiger. I write poetry so I figured I could write him a poem too. I don't have too much money so a sentimental gift that doesn't cost a ton would be perfect.

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Open Question: please answer my question any help is greatly appreciated?

im 5 days late and am taking a test tomarrow and i do have a lot of CM and sometimes i cramp and i have a nervous stomach and maybe thats delaying it but i have another problem... if i am my boyfriend claims he will commit suicide and he keeps saying it will destroy his life and idk what to do. im NEVER late early yes but late no. only symptom i have is a missed period and fatique. plus don't have to worry about birth control he lives in Colorado now and I'm in Wyoming since he is joining the army im 18 i dont believe in abortions so if i am i will carry and raise MY child with or without him. and he/she will be loved and cared for with the absolute best of my ability WITHOUT social services help

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Open Question: i really need some help?

so im a girl 15 and a sophmore in hs my boyfriend is a senior 17 and will be 18 this summer weve been going out for awhile and i think im reafy to have sex with him this problem is im a virgin and i know that hes had sex with Aabout 6 othee girls 3 of which he still keepa in contAct with and one is his best friend from home (we go to boarding school) who was his first everything im afraid that im just anyother girl but i really want tothis and i think he actually cares about me whT do i do?

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Open Question: boy friend problems!?

Last night me and my boyfriend (dominick) got in a big fight! He called me a cunt and said at first he hated me but then he said that he dislikes me.Were still together. Should i brake up with him or stay with him? Please help! Thanks!

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Open Question: so idk what to do and i just wanna know your opinions?

im 5 days late and am taking a test tomarrow and i do have a lot of CM and sometimes i cramp and i have a nervous stomach and maybe thats delaying it but i have another problem... if i am my boyfriend claims he will commit suicide and he keeps saying it will destroy his life and idk what to do. im NEVER late early yes but late no. only symptom i have is a missed period and fatique.

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Open Question: A MUST READ!! could this be the reason why i have major trust issues? someone please help me!?

my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years and we also have a 8 month old daughter together. problem is, i have such a hard time trusting him. note: he has NEVER gave me reason not to trust him so im having a hard time figuring out what the problem is. sometimes i wonder if its because im insecure. i always ask him why he's still with me even though i put him through so much by trying to break up with him every other day and questioning his love for me. im trying so hard to change the way i think about him and to stop thinking negative by asking if he's cheating all the time when there are no signals. i really dont want to lose this man because i love him so much and we plan on getting married one day but i feel like if i dont trust him then he is going to leave me even though he says he's not. i tell him that he shouldn't have to prove his love for me or convince me that he's not cheating all the time. he says that its something that we're going to work on together. and he's definitely not with me because we have a daughter together so thats not the issue. my father was barely in the picture until he disappeared a 4 years ago. he was the type of father to drop in my life whenever he felt like it and break his promises left and right and never spend any time with me or my siblings. he always made me feel like i wasnt important to him and that nothing i ever did was good enough to make him proud to have him as a daughter. i never had that male role model in my life to teach me about men or anything. i was so accustomed to seeing how my father treated my mother even though they got a divorce before i was even born. my mother was the one who taught me about men and saying that they're no good, and will do you wrong and etc. im starting to think that by my father being absent majority of my life is the reason why its so hard for me to trust my boyfriend. could this be possible? tell you the truth, my boyfriend is the ONLY male who has given me some kind of affection but i dont know why its so hard to trust him. someone please help me because i want to keep this man in my life. he's turning 20 in jan and i will be 19 in march. im trying so hard to keep a positive attitude towards everyone. sorry this was long. thanks in advance.

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Open Question: he promised he wouldn't smoke; but broke it?

my boyfriend and i went through alot to be together. when we started going out, he promised me that he wouldn't smoke & i promised him i wouldn't cut (depression problems.) i've been keeping my promise, but last night over the phone, he told me that the last cigarette he smoked was on Tuesday. i got upset and hung up. :/ he hasn't bothered to call me this morning or even IM me. he just changed his status to "i'm sorry. :[" i don't think he's being very sincere about this. i love him (or at least i think so. i'm still too young.) and i can't just break up with him. what would be the right thing to do..?

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Open Question: boyfriend problem kinda need help thank you?

ok for the past week and half like everyother day i ask him whats wrong he says (nothing) i say what are you thinking he says (nothing) we live together for bout 4 months in my parents house hes 21 im 18 he just has this blank stare all the time i told him he isnt the same and that he seems like hes losing interest and feelings i probley say this every other day cause i feel it and see it he doesnt do things he used to he said hes still the same.. so yesterday before he went to work i talked and said are you getting sick of me hes like you keep asking me the same qustions and keep putting it in my mind. im like cause i dont feel like you love me the same he said (maybe were getting sick of eachother) my feelings dropped i was just i shock it hurt he said that we spend everyday together he works with my dad my family loves him we dont really have friends cause we both would rather spend time with eachother then waste time with friends he told my mom he was gonna ask me to merry him on christmas (i dont think thats gonna happen now) why do you think i keep asking him? and why do you think he said maybe? please no rude comments i told him to go to his moms few nights he said he didnt want to but last night i kinda made him.. we known eachother for 2 years hes my best friend and partner been dating for almost 7 months lived together for 4 months he would never cheat & and deff doesnt smoke pot.. (to the answers below) he keeps calling i dont know if i should answer and talk or just wait few days?

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Open Question: Could this be the reason to my major trust issues towards him? Someone please help!?

my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years and we also have a 8 month old daughter together. problem is, i have such a hard time trusting him. note: he has NEVER gave me reason not to trust him so im having a hard time figuring out what the problem is. sometimes i wonder if its because im insecure. i always ask him why he's still with me even though i put him through so much by trying to break up with him every other day and questioning his love for me. im trying so hard to change the way i think about him and to stop thinking negative by asking if he's cheating all the time when there are no signals. i really dont want to lose this man because i love him so much and we plan on getting married one day but i feel like if i dont trust him then he is going to leave me even though he says he's not. i tell him that he shouldn't have to prove his love for me or convince me that he's not cheating all the time. he says that its something that we're going to work on together. and he's definitely not with me because we have a daughter together so thats not the issue. my father was barely in the picture until he disappeared a 4 years ago. he was the type of father to drop in my life whenever he felt like it and break his promises left and right and never spend any time with me or my siblings. he always made me feel like i wasnt important to him and that nothing i ever did was good enough to make him proud to have him as a daughter. i never had that male role model in my life to teach me about men or anything. i was so accustomed to seeing how my father treated my mother even though they got a divorce before i was even born. my mother was the one who taught me about men and saying that they're no good, and will do you wrong and etc. im starting to think that by my father being absent majority of my life is the reason why its so hard for me to trust my boyfriend. could this be possible? tell you the truth, my boyfriend is the ONLY male who has given me some kind of affection but i dont know why its so hard to trust him. someone please help me because i want to keep this man in my life. he's turning 20 in jan and i will be 19 in march. im trying so hard to keep a positive attitude towards everyone. sorry this was long. thanks in advance.

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Open Question: Boyfriend problem..help would be appreciated?

my boyfriend and I broke up on thursday and got into a nasty fight about it on friday. we haven't talked since. I just talked to him this morning and he said he had sex with some girl with a kid but it didn't mean anything cause he was so drunk. what should i do..i still love him but my heart is so broken thank you for any help you guys are great

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Open Question: Can some PLEASE interpret my somewhat sexual dream?

I do not want to date or anything like that. And last night I was thinking about a boy, that was not even in my dream, that I have a big crush on though it's not a healthy crush solely because I couldn't bring myself to actually date him(sounded superficial, but I promise it's for legit reasons. Not because I'm "higher" then him or whatever). I have never had any sort of physical relations before(which, I'm young. I have time, and I don't want a relationship right now.) so explaining this dream is very awkward for me. - Alright, I guess I was dating this guy in one of my classes. When I first met him I instantly began to like him(in real life) though he was a good four years older then me. I got over the crush, because it was pathetic and pointless. In the dream I suppose we were dating. He kept talking about if I was ready for something that started with an 'i'. For some reason I said sure; in the dream I was being rather stupid and going "gaga" over my boyfriend. He brought me to a room-and we somehow got around without my parents knowing. In RL, I seriously fear my parents finding out about any romance in my life.) - that was a bedroom. He jumped into the right side of the bed, and lifted the sheets. He said "come on, we can't do this without a bed." I climbed under the covers and he lifted the sheets again, and I relized he wanted me to give him a handjob(I'm not sure why in the bed.) and I jumped out of the bed and said no. He wasn't being a jerk either; he seemed a little sad because of other reason then him not getting a handjob. I left him in the room. When I left the room the living room outside of it was full with people that in real life I know. They were all watching a very tiny TV, and a good number were on the lounging on the floor because the two couches were full. They had a slight idea what just happened, but didn't know entirely. I moved around one boy, who in real life I sort of know. He is my mom's friend's son; he is around 20. We didn't really talk; he was sort of drunk then hungover when he was over. But when we did talk, he was nice. He smiled at me and moved a bag of marshmellos so I could sit by him on the floor. I did; and the other boy was still in the bedroom feeling a bit hurt. This whole scene was in black and white. Then, I was back in my room(fully color) when the boy that let me sit by him, a friend, and his ex step brother(who is my age) came by. The boy my age fist bumped me and asked if I remember him. I said yeah, then the boy who let me sit by him came from behind him. I said "Oh...I thought you were him." and we all laughed. And then I woke up. At first I didn't remember the dream, then it suddenly came to me. I felt very queasy once I realized what I had just dreamed; I have a big anxiety problem. Can someone please tell me what they think it may mean?

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Open Question: I need help telling my racist mom about my black boyfriend?

Kayy so I'm 16 years old and I know people will just say this is just a teenage thing but I have NEVER loved anyone like this before. He's amazing he's hott,the sweetest person ever and he loves me soooooo much. I love how he's romantic he buys me stuff he plays 4 sports and I play two of those sports as well. He has never missed a Sunday of church since he was eight and hf has really gotten me into religion. He dosent drink smoke have sex or anything.sounds perfect right?! He is. But there's one problem..my mom is racist and he is black. He hates black people too and my mom would love him if she gave him a chance. So how should I tell her I'm really nervous. Is there any mothers that could help people who have done this before or anyone that could help please!?

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Open Question: Problem with my boyfriend.?

I think he's faking his appearance . it started with me playing this game called imvu i met this guy and you know like habbo you have a boyfriend on it. well me and him got deeper and stuff now were like officially dating ; long distance? anyways its been like 3 years [ i asked another question about this but people got it wrong] like he sounds real how he talks hes really a guy i know for sure and hes really 19 how he acts and stuff you can tell by but his story's just fucked up ? he says hes rich he got no cam he got no camera . when i asked him to make a video he said alright il do one but then he lost it. and when i want him to call me it doesn't work and when i call him it doesn't work either [ so is it possible u cant reach someone cause they don't got credits on there phone] anyways i'm like STUCK. in this situation and im like really in love with him certainly and the thing is my friends thought he was fake at the beginning but when they talked to him they changed there mind.

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